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Do you think its morally wrong to get other girls numbers while your dating someone to have just as a second option should they or you break up?
19, Currently dating this one girl and she's great and all but one thing that gets to me is her overprotective parents, we literally cant go anywhere outside of our state and a bunch of other things that she herself has said annoys her. I just want to know if this might be wrong, to make friends and then when things are over between me and her maybe looking at them to date
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To me, yes it is wrong.
If I found out my girlfriend was getting guys' numbers behind my back, I'd dump her immediately.
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Depends. Are you official yet? Because if not, you are a free man and meet and talk to whoever you want. Actually even if you are in a relationship you can still have a back up girl. Women in relationships do this all the time.
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No its not wrong, keeps you attractive because you can only have power if you have options and girls like power
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How to Start a Conversation with a Girl on Dating Site? 2017-08-31 02:08:59 Post No.18673749
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How to Start a Conversation with a Girl on Dating Site?
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I'm on OKCupid and I have no idea what to do. Should I just like girls on there and wait for mutuals? I feel like I should at least message the ones I'm interested in. But I'm not sure what to say to initiate a conversation. Obviously, just saying "hey" or "hello" are too plain and they're likely to ignore it.
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Random funny facts, memes, comment on a picture on her profile, questions (Where were you on that pic?), statements also work like "The adventurous girl!" or something...
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Just say "wassup" or "wassup cutie" if you're feeling it dog
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Thanks, fellas. Any other tips to not fuck up?
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Sexual partner - how to get one 2017-08-31 02:06:23 Post No.18673739
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Sexual partner - how to get one
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i am a 22 yo girl, probably a 7/10. I wanna know how and where to find a men to be my sexual partner to please my sexual needs whenever i ask.
Not just casual sex for once. I wanna a dude to pleases me all the times i ask him.
I do not want to use tinder & similars to find him. I am already worn out of it.
Gimme options, tips, directions
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You're probably uglier than you think
Lower your standards
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People you've already hooked up with are the best option...
It takes guts, but you can make the proposal of becoming his 'friend with benefits', or you can just start calling him whenever you wish for sex and have it - and let the 'benefits' part just squeeze in until noticed.
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This is almost always the case when people can't get boyfriends/girlfriends.
They over rate themselves and underrate the candidates/competition.
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>Be younger me, bad with women and pretty much everything else
> Have a girl who's your friend for more than 10 years, one of those you don't see often but is always there when needed.
> Never really try anything with her until you graduate, since she is always in a serious relationship. And ban, she says 'no, I'm in a relationship'.
> Keep the friendship for more than 10 years, trying rarely to kiss her and watching she bounce from boyfriend to boyfriend.
> Be me 3 month ago, meet her for some tea and she mentions "You are a interesting person for a relationship.", feel good about it, but create no expectations.
> Hear she mentions that she is with her cousin, but not serious.
> Be me a month ago, meet her by chance on the streets and sit for coffee. She says she is with this other guy, in a serious relationship with him.
> Feel anger, sadness, hold it all in and show nothing. Decide to keep some distance.
> Be me last week. She reaches out for another meeting, didn't get to know the reason. Be unwarm to her, she mentions it through message, asks why.
> You answer that she said something and showed it wasn't really like that, the last time you met. Refuse to say exactly what it was, for you believe nothing can be done about it.
> Be me now... Wondering if my actions were good, what I should do.
PS -> I've had depression on younger ages and it comes back for a few days since then. While we messaged each other, I was very depressive.
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sounds like she's got you on a tether desu
try to be upfront about your interest, but don't reveal your full investment.
It's no good just grinding along.
Establish an understanding, and unless you actually want to remain friends (as apposed to just keeping her as a friend because of all the time you've known her and invested in her) draw a line in the sand and move on
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First, thanks for the reply, anon... I'd be even more sad if this post was just ignored haha.
I'm not fully invested on her, I'm talking with other girls and on all those years I wasn't just waiting around for her availability.
I have small trouble finding girls to just kiss or fuck, but that's grown quite useless to me... There were two girls in my life I wanted to actually date, she's is one of them.
The friendship is real, that's one of the reason I actually believed it would work good between us.
She knows of my interest, a long time ago I told her I had a crush on her in school and, well, I did try to kiss her a few times among the years.
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Bumping for extra opinions and advises.
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I am still in love with my ex-girlfriend 2017-08-31 02:00:57 Post No.18673724
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I am still in love with my ex-girlfriend
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So, /adv/, I left my girlfriend not to long ago, and I was hoping you could help me move on. She cheated on me; she was flirting with other guys on Facebook and tried to meet up with them for sex, I left her as soon as I found out, and have no intention of getting back with her. The problem is, I still love her. Even though she was jealous and irrational, she cared about me, and would have done anything for me. We were exceptionally close, she was my best friend, my only friend, the only friend I needed or wanted. We were together for a little over a year, and the cheating totally blindsided me. I don't know how much was a lie, or how much was true. I've sworn off relationships, and have decided I'd be happier alone. How do I get past her, though? I still love her, I miss her everyday. Thanks, /adv/.
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> she cared about me, she would have done anything for me
I know for the most part (besides the cheating) that she could've been a good girlfriend. But a girlfriend who cares about you and would do anything for you is not someone who would cheat on you. See things for how they are, not how they seem.
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>See things for how they are, not how they seem.
Nor should you see them how you want them to be.
Until you can do that, you aren't fit to be with anyone anyway. Doing so is realizing that she did not have your best interest in mind after all, and in turn did not love you the way you wished she would.
Lying to yourself is so amazingly easy and it works so very well.
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Thank you. This is OP. My browser crashed, which is way I may be counted as a different user.
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Boss bending in front of me. 2017-08-31 01:57:20 Post No.18673715
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Boss bending in front of me.
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Okay I have a good relationship with boss, usually it is just me and her working. She is a very professional woman and sort of acts like a teacher to me, but at times she gets mad yada yada.
Thing is that lately I have noticed when we are talking she would call my name then when i turn around she pretends to tie her laces or zip her purse (usually laces) and shows cleavage while talking to me, she knows she is doing it. Before it used to be subtle but today she was bent really far down and i could see most of her tits / bra.
She is married, though her husband is not with her all day so I have no idea what relationship they have. Any idea what she is doing with this behavior?
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>>18673715
She either wants your dick or wants you fired.
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>>18673715
Maybe you are attributing an exaggerated amount of meaning to something purely coincidental.
Have you considered that?
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>>18673725
Girls are more aware than you'd think faggot
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I'm only 20 but everyone I know is suddenly becoming set in their ways and ugly
Is it avoidable? I simply want to continue growing as a person
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>I simply want to continue growing as a person
Then do it. If you make that your goal it'll probably happen. Within reason obv.
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>everyone I know is suddenly becoming set in their ways and ugly
Does everyone you know include you as well?
> simply want to continue growing as a person
What do you is it that you believe is stopping you from that?
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>>18673674
>ugly
What?
Hey /adv/ I'm a high school senior and I'm going to be moving to some other state than ohio(current state). I have the funds to do so so money isn't an issue but what state should I go to? I don't wanna move west mainly because there's nothing there or to any really democratic state because of limits placed on like knives and stuff because I collect a lot of stuff. However, I am Gay so I don't wanna be lynched what state should I go to?
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I don't get it. Why?
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You should pay more attention to the demographics and the economics of where you're moving than the political memery.
as a young person, you should probably move to a more metro area, in which case you'll be looking at what city you want to move to/near, rather than which state
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>be 19 year old female
>join army
>fracture hip at basic training and have to take 30 day medical leave
>bored desu
>post kik on soc thread
>receive message
>guy thinks I'm his friend
>nah not me
>have fun short convo
>turns out he's in army too with the same job and from same state
>embarrassed i might annoy him and try to end convo early
>"are you leaving already? This is interesting"
>happy desu
> sent to army physical therapy and allowed to have phone once a week for 30mins
>message him instead of parents cause they depress me
>allowed to move onto next phase of training. finally have my phone everyday
>message him everyday
>develop feels
>talking for 6 months now
I'm not really sure what to do. He lives in hawaii but is moving to the same state soon. I jokingly said I love you to him and teased him to say it back. He refused but messaged me back awhile later saying I love you. But said he was drunk. When he said it back I realized “oh shit… I think I might actually like this faggot”. We could probably meet in real life when he moves here. But wouldn't be for another couple months. Also he's considerably older than me. 27. We haven't known each other that long. We also only found out each other's full names recently.
What do? Would it be weird for me to ask him what he thinks about our age gap too?
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Cute.
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>fractured hip in basic training
And people ask why women shouldn't be allowed to serve
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I too have nothing helpful to say, but I would like to ask you a few questions.
What do you do in the army? Do you enjoy it? If you had to change jobs what else would you want to do?
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Next step with a blind date? 2017-08-31 12:54:06 Post No.18673561
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Next step with a blind date?
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I won a free dinner for two at a nice restaurant that my company owns. I didn't have a date, and didn't want to bring some girl that likes me who would get the wrong idea.
So I was kind of joking but last night I asked my friend if she knew any attractive single girls that wanted a free dinner at the restaurant with me, expecting she would laugh it off or suggest some girl I'd decline. Instead, this morning, she suggested her cute friend that is an attorney, I said she was attractive, and an hour later, I have this attorney's number.
Now I'm sitting here with the number of a girl I don't know, and I can't even redeem this free dinner until after the 12th of September, so like two weeks from now.
What the fuck should I say? I was thinking of texting her and seeing if she wanted to meet up for happy hour next week so we didn't have to sit through a long dinner together. Does that make sense? Ideas?
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Sure you can always have a predate. It shows initiative. But if you fuck it up. Your going to the dinner alone. Or still go to the dinner and talk about anything and everything. Either way she wants to go on a date with you. Your holding the cards.
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Well, if the pre-date sucks for whatever reason, we go our separate ways and I save the dinner for a later time. I can use it any time after the 12th.
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I would talk to her a bit before actually going for the dinner or going out thing...
But I'm quite a different guy, beauty is not enough for me.
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is there any point in going to therapy when i already know everything they will tell me and why it wont work and how will i quit?
doesnt it make more sense to not go and avoid 7 months of pointless sessions?
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Oh boy you need therapy. You just assumed situation that have not happened yet. If you know what's wrong why don't you fix it? Also therapy is a place to vent and talk about your thought. At your first session you should talk about this post you made.
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>You just assumed situation that have not happened yet
it has happenned to me several times already
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>If you know what's wrong why don't you fix it
its too hard and i dont have the willpower and or stability
i also cant promise not to freak out and throw all the progress away in a couple months
personality is not a flexible thingonce you become an adult
>therapy is a place to vent and talk about your thought
i can do that here and i dont have to lealve my home
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How am I supposed to love someone if I don't know what love is?
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You don't have to know what something is to be able to do it, it's largely instinctual. You can pick up the nuances on the way or by reading.
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Learn
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Do you care about that person to point you would do anything for them?
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Looking for some advice on how not to fuck up a dinner date this weekend.
I'm a 26 year old kissless virgin. Recently started trying to date after years of not giving a fuck. So far just coffee dates, all but one which end with the girl ghosting me or saying we didn't "click".
Most recent woman I've dated enjoyed the first date and accepted an invitation to a dinner date at a medium priced restaurant. How do I not fuck this up so I don't have to start from square 1?
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Don't fucking worry about it, just be yourself
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I only clicked on this thread because I thought it was a picture of Artie Lang, but it isn't so goodbye.
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just be yourself bro
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Becoming a male nurse?
Is becoming a male nurse worth the education required and would you say it's worth doing what is done in the field every day ?
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Cheaper than becoming a doctor.
Only be a nurse if you REALLY want to be a nurse and have a passion for helping people.
I can't stand people in a medical profession that simply look at it as a job.
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>>18673511
I gained interest in it through my biomedical class. I don't look at it JUST for helping people but that's one of the main reasons I'm attracted to it. It would make me feel much better going to work to help others rather than work in some factory as I was previously planning on. The only reason I am questioning doing it is because I want to know I am at least investing the money spent on education towards something that will be worth it. I am also very young which makes me dumb with these decisions.
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>>18673526
Looks like a pretty good fit for you.
Also, nurses are appreciated and sought pretty much all over the world. If traveling and meeting people of different cultures is your thing, being a nurse is a huge plus.
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Gonna be at a wedding where quite a lot of people will be 35+ and probably high in something
I'm 24, what do
Im fucking awkward
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If you have an obligation to go then go.
There is no requirement to go if you were invited.
Shit happens. Make something up. Stomach virus or some shit.
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Its my sister's wedding and I'm a groomsman, I gotta go.
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Get high too