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Hey /adv/, so I have two issues I'd like to address here
1. is dating related, more specifically related to finding places to meet women that aren't OKCupid or Tinder or etc.
I'm not bad at talking to women, I can keep a conversation going and close the deal, the issue is that where I live, I've only lived for a short amount of time, I came here graduated high school and now I'm out and I have legitmately no friends and I want to fix that, but the thing is....I'm 18, and there's not exactly alot of things to do for people who are under 21 here, so I was figuring if anyone had any general tips but if anyone wants a specific area, I live at UCF in Florida.
2. is more of the sexual nature, in which that, I've been told by most of the women I've slept with (7 out of 8), that I'm a bit bigger than most other men my race (I'm hispanic), the problem is that when I met a girl with a big ass, it was like I had no clue what I was doing, and it bothered me alot because I base a little of my ego on my sexual prowess and whilst she still came, it wasn't my best effort, so I wanted to ask for tips on how to handle it.
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>>18219286
>finding places to meet women that aren't OKCupid or Tinder
Well anon, I"ll let you in on a secret here... OKCupid and Tinder aren't actually places. They're apps. If you want places to meet women, they should be geographic locations found inside 3 dimensional space.
>I'm 18, and there's not exactly alot of things to do for people who are under 21 here
Hobbies. I've met about half of my girlfriends at places where I was doing something related to a hobby, like gyms, tournaments, specialized stores, etc. The advantage of meeting women there is that you always have something to talk about, and odds are you have some shit in common.
>girl with a big ass
>how to handle it
Big asses make no difference unless you're coming in from behind.
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>>18219291
Sarcasm aside, the hobbies bit I've tried for a month with no success but I'll keep going at it, and the big ass is only relevant because she did in fact request I went at her from behind, not that I have an issue with it, I just want to make sure that whoever I'm wish is satisfied.
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>>18219305
>tried for a month
You got years bro. Calm the fuck down man, now that you're out of highschool things get to be a bit more of a long game, unless you're just looking for hookups, in which case Tinder is the best way to go.
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>been best friends for almost a year
>some drama occurs, claim they hate me now
>say they won't ever speak to me again
>since we are forced to sometimes share common space, they often make aggressive remarks towards me, making it clear they hate me
>Get pretty fucked up about it emotionally, but eventually get over it
>forced to work on a project together
>suddenly from aggressive mood I'd usually expect from them I get a more friendly one
>they laugh at stuff I say (not mockingly), even when it's not funny
>they keep looking at me, sometimes trying to make eye contact, etc.
What gives?
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>>18219272
People don't hold grudges forever.
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>>18219283
This be true. But don't dip your toe in that pond again; there are plenty of people around who will make better friends.
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I do that shit when I'm over it. Just casually start being nice to them again. I guess my hate leaves me and I'm normal again lol.
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Rising junior in college here. What career options are available to me if I'm not very smart but dislike repetitive work?
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>>18219217
Junior in what though? I highly recommend checking out law enforcement or EMT positions and seeing if either interest you.
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>>18219217
What do you enjoy, OP?
What are you good at?
How much would you be willing to comprimise that enjoyment?
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>>18219224
I'm currently studying international affairs as an undergrad.
>>18219251
I do have an interest in certain fields, like marine biology, but I either have no real experience in it or I just plain suck at it, even if I put effort into studying. I don't have a lot of real-world experience either, so it's a little difficult to gauge if I would like a certain career or not, you know what I mean? I particularly enjoyed a course on social enterprise I had this semester, but I honestly can't see working in SE as a long term career option for me. From what I'm currently studying, I like learning about things related to East Asia, currently trying to learn Korean.
Can't honestly say I'm "good" at anything, but I'm not terrible at writing papers. As mentioned, I'm not very smart, I'm a solid B/B+student even if I put time and effort into studying.
I'm willing to compromise I suppose. I know for sure that I wouldn't survive doing "boring" work for the rest of my life.
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Did I miss something?
It's been about 5 years since I've last used a dating site, but it seems they're all rather empty now when it comes to women between 21 and 30 years old.
I tried tinder for a while, but holy shit is that impossible for someone average looking.
Is there anything else to try?
I'm 30 and have no idea how where to meet people irl anymore.
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>>18219199
Hobbies
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>>18219199
>but holy shit is that impossible for someone average looking
Not really, you just have to know what you're doing. Look up a few guides online, it'll help.
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>>18219199
You're kinda fucked, I'm not joking. Similar position to you, except 27. All the average-to-ugly girls have cashed in their chips, it's literally only 7+/10 single girls in my area in that age group.
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Does anyone have any good methods or advice on how to deal with morning anxiety/anxiety in general?
Lately it's been taking over in the mornings and I feel like I can't accomplish anything, I'll smoke weed to get rid of the anxiety but I'll always end up being a lazy piece of shit when high. Thank yous
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Maybe bong rips of cig tobacco
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>>18219180
Splash your face with cold water within 5 mins of waking
Also take a multivitamin if your nutrition isnt up to par (like most peoples)
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>>18219180
>always end up being a lazy piece of shit when high
This is a meme, weed doesn't actually make you lethargic any more than sugar makes you hyperactive. Weed only wastes your days if you're already a useless asshole.
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What do you consider as cheating?
I just want to know if I am being fair if I were to accuse my partner of cheating.
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What did he do ?
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>>18219150
Emotional cheating: consistently flirting with someone else, being romantic with someone else.
Sexual cheating: sexting, exchanging nudes, kissing, grabbing, any form of sex.
I don't consider it cheating if there was no one-on-one contact.
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>>18219150
>kissing
>oral sex
>sexual intercourse
>heavy flirting (emotional cheating like this anon>>18219156 said
>holding hands
Care to give us a bit more context? What did your partener did? What did you do?
>bought a new truck/van thing
>the back seats are missing
>I have 8 feet of trunk space
what's something cool I can do with in in the back?
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>>18219068
Speakers man, massive speakers
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hot tub
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>>18219068
install kitchen
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Haven't talked to my father in awhile
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So the past 2-3 years my father replaced my brother,mother and myself with a new family he found at work and in this time he's lied and cheated us out of time and love by spending it with others who only yes him as a resource,I cant hangout with him anymore and pretend everything is fine with him gone so the month of the new year I decided to limit all contact with him as possible.I still get text but I don't answer,he calls yet I don't pick up mainly because I can't trust he's his words anymore and with the actions he took with no explanation ,I don't agree. It takes two to tango, he made his bed when he pulled all his shit you'd except from parent in their 30's, I shouldn't feel an ounce of guilt.
Am I wrong for cutting him off? I'll probably see him again its a small world but should I?
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>>18218921
Needs more detail.
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>>18219946
Detail? He spent new
Years with his bitch and kids over us,we who have love him to death. He even picked the bitch's kids up from school as if he's a step father(none of them are his), the bitch is a divorce white trash hoodrat who is only looking for a suger daddy (the age gap is 20years between them)
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>>18220307
Spent too much time at work,didn't see us much,stopped doing father role things at the house like fixing stuff,stopped teaching us stuff at the house,he just stopped existing as a dad and more of a guy who just sat down after work and watched TV,sleep , and eat just to wake up and do it all over again(his a cable contractor job sucks but it pays). Also going out at night at the same time to get gas and take the long way(where the hitch lives).
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When and how to get out there after a breakup 2017-04-13 09:31:50 Post No.18218808
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When and how to get out there after a breakup
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It's been 7 months after my last breakup from a 7 year long relationship. It hasn't been easy but I've been coping with a few hobbies and passtimes.
Now I'm wondering if I'm okay to get out there and date again. I pretty much haven't done this in almost a decade. I also don't like just dating around but rather make friends and see where it leads to. That's pretty much how I've gotten together with all of my boyfriends.
It just feels like people in general aren't really looking for anything serious but rather just have sex. I'm 24 years old and I work full time. Everyone in my office is twice my age. There's not really any clubs or places I can get into here. I wish I could meet people my age near me for a change. I guess I just don't know where to start. What to do.
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>>18218808
Don't you have some male friends?
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OP, in a similar boat here.
25, 5 months, its time.
Just tee up to hang out with people and go from there. I know it may seem hard at first.
Either that or tinder etc
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>>18218859
I did but we kinda drifted apart. They don't live in my country anymore.
>>18218984
I don't know to meet people. Like I have no idea how to seem friendly or interesting enough. I go to the gym but no one ever talks to me there.
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Help, im using a bc shot that lasts up to 3 months. I got my second shot abt a month ago and my vagina is as dry as the sahara desert when i get intimate with my bf and my libido has also suffered. Even if he goes down on me and i orgasm, STILL DRY. sex hurts unless we use ALOT of lube and try going in a few times. Im considering to not take a 3rd shot and not try hormonal bc anymore. I tried the IUD before and it didnt go in so the doc suggested this shot. Should i try the IUD again but this time at a gyno? The doctor said he could use echo to easily place it. The only problem with a gyno is that placing the IUD is not covered by my insurance and it could cost around 400euros, And if the IUD doesnt go in i still have to pay. My bf wants to help pay for it but i would feel so awfull if it didn't go in and we'd have just thrown our money away. What do
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>>18218589
Condoms. Or pull out.
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>>18218589
Have you considered a subdermal implant?
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>>18218678
Never heard of that gonna google it
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>when are you going to find that special lady, anon?
>you got a gf yet, anon?
How do I communicate that I chose solitary life and looking a partner does not interest me without sounding like a total autist that rationalizes his inability to find someone.
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There is no way
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Tell them your'e broke and can't afford to be in a relationship
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>>18218547
>"lol anon, relationships are about love not money. Just find a girl that likes you for your personality"
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I ate undercooked wild meat and a few weeks later I felt something in my rectal area / colon periodically. I spoke with my doctor who directed me to a couple other doctors but they didn't find the smoking gun. Meanwhile, 4 months have passed and I have nothing to show for my effort, except I can't sleep unless I eat garlic, because something tickles my insides at night otherwise. I'm running out of ideas, and need help. Long story incoming in next post...
tl;dr : I ate undercooked wild meat, and I've 99% got a parasite, but tests showed nothing, so far. What do?
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>>18218333
You fucking idiot,that's like rule 1 of living inthe wild, sterilize food aa did water. Yet your simple ass could not do that. Okay fucck goof, tell the doctor you ate raw wild meat camping. If he asks it was during a Native American ritual of koyotete, it was for religious purposes (Idk make a excuse) tell them everything that shit is serious
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>>18218355
He told his dr that I'm sure
You should ask some actual Indians or some hicks
They'll probably give you some cayenne lemon fetus remedy to get it out
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Garlic has strong antifungal properties, not sure if it bothers animals too.
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I haven't had a crush on a guy since I was a teenager, I'm 25 now
Is there something wrong with me?
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Are you a woman? Shut-in?
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>>18218321
Yes I'm a woman, no I'm not a shut-in I have a social life
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>>18218308
Assuming you're female, it means you have yet to find a male better then you. Females mate up and across intelligence scales. This works for most women except the ones who are higher then the upper mean of males. I'm better then every being that has ever excist, so the odds are not zero you will find a man attractive
So here is the story: I used to be a guy who has a pretty easy game with woman, i fucked over a hundred of them so far, im 23 if that matters, but since my last relationship which was about a year ago i have really big fears on talking with woman, even though i never had a problem like this. But its like i cant even approach a woman even if she shows intresse by smiling. It doesnt even feel like fear, its like a giant border wall i cant jump over that holds me back every fckn time. I dont have a problem talking with female friends, its just i cant approach unknown woman anymore. Also i somehow had a girl over last week, and we fucked. But the moment when it happened felt so bad cause she gave like no résistance, i didnt even had to work for getting laid she just did everything i told her to do. That moment i felt so much hate for the woman, she was worthless in my eyes and i even got fantasies about humiliating her or just chocke her till she dies. Ofc i didnt do it and just told her to leave.
What the fuck happened to me, any tips how to fix that?
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>>18218241
>chooses cheap meaningless hookups, never developing a long lasting meaningful relationship
>wah I hate women they're all sluts and so easy and stupid!!!
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>>18218241
Get professional help. Your description honestly sounds like the beginning of a serial killer.
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It's because you're realising that women are actually people (inb4 hurr durr no they're not). Too bad your past behaviour has probably irreparably turned you against them.
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Chronic pain, losing hope. 2017-04-13 05:21:51 Post No.18218233
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Chronic pain, losing hope.
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>21 years old and got chronic pain from rheumatism ravaging my body
>impaired, limping and horrible posture because it hurts so much
>people call me a zombie and make fun of me
>lost all motivation to live
>try to tell a friend about how I feel useless and shameful
>"stop whining, there are people who have it worse and they are happy too."
I have days where I simply sit in my room and cry, the pain is impairing me and I don't know what to do, doctors only prescribe me painkillers that either don't help or make me even more useless.
The days where I cry are coming more frequent to the extend where I sob whenever I am alone.
I have no idea how to get out of this, I feel like such a pussy, there are people with no arms and legs that are happy, my pain seems like a joke compared to that yet I sit here and moan.
I am considering to get psychological help, but I am afraid the doc will simply calle me a crybaby, well I feel like one.
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>>18218233
Anon advice is not for real problems, get medical help anon, like tomorrow
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>>18218233
Have you tried pot? Marijuana can work wonders for chronic pain, particularly if you live in an actual medical state and you can find legitimate strains for pain management. If you can find a way to moderate your pain without the nuisance of prescription pills, being happy would be much easier.
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>>18218252
I am from germany, the healthcare gives me all kind of horrible meds that fuck me up or don't help but no pot.