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>I’d rather not use my parents’ CC (“blah blah anon, we got a fraud alert on our card again, was that you buying groceries??”)
Oh you poor, starving creature. Whatever will you do in the face of having to talk to your parents or succumb to the elements?

>>18217768
You sound like a disgruntled NEET. How heavily do you rely on your parents?

Basically, it's a matter of pride. I could drop out of my program right now, find a job in a few weeks, and be making more than both of them combined.
But that doesn't align with my long-term goals.

>>18217842
what is your long-term goal?

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got some more incoming

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im trying to avoid the crude stuff for now, i just draw whatever comes to my head

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i was thinking i could just do free drawing requests and critiques while getting ad revenue. how does that sound?

>Trying to save a damsel in distress
Nope. The only thing you're doing is subjecting yourself to more depression.

>>18217607
After changing environment from hostile to calm my depression went away. I had some anxiety and sadness spikes but they didn't last as long as previously (then from 1 to 2 weeks and later only 1 to 2 days). It's just like with heroin addicted Vietnam soliders after they came back to the US.
I just want to help her.

>>18217588
If she's already seeing a professional then all you can do is be nice to them. Jesus it's not rocket surgery.

If you get all preachy and try to fix them it just drives people away. Just be a nice friend to them, that's often a very rare commodity in the modern world.

After months of trying. After trying to find out what happened between us. After looking at myself and the pathetic creature I had allowed myself to become. I finally feel better. I finally have accepted you are gone and safe from the monster I became.
I did love you, no, I still do and in that I have to let go. Completely this time. No ill will from what I caused. This was my doing, and I can only try to learn from this and let you be happy. What ever comes from this. I hope it's better for the both of us.

A rambling now.
Sometimes things aren't as bad as we make them out to be. The clouds not as dark and the mountain slope we walk not as steep. The sun slightly brighter than you remember.
Hope is a strange thing. Like a candle in the wind, so easy to die out.
But that's when you need to cherish the glow of that flame, for the light it provides is the most beautiful thing in that moment. It's what staves off the darkness, that which tempers our courage to go forward. That which will eventually guide us out of the withered forest, seeded with nothing but our doubts and despair.

Hope, is it a factor in our humanity? Or something more intricately bound to the universe? Heck if I know. I doubt any of us will really ever know. We can only hope.

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I'll never look the way I want to and I'm seriously struggling to come to terms with that.
I will always look fat in my eyes because of my build and shape. I will never have those tiny thighs, that rectangle shape, those smaller boobs, the narrow hips, the long legs.
No matter how much weight I lose, how much I work out, I will never be what I really want to be. I can't even get there through plastic surgery.
I don't know how to handle this. I'm not sure what the point of living is if I'll never be attractive.

/adv/ just goes round and round in circles, there's no help to be found anywhere.

just stop

>>18211366
Just let her do it asshole.

>>18211390
Fuck that. It's disgusting.

>>18220852
Probably?

>>18220852
No. Don't rely on being happy being caused by meeting someone and falling in love. First you must learn to be happy and love yourself. I have depression and I think that some people out there who are in relationships rely to heavily and become dependent on receiving love from an exterior person.

Find hobbies that you love to do and build yourself into the person you want to be. You will never be fully happy with yourself (well thats the case with me) but if i can build myself into a better person then i'm on my way.

>>18220858
>statement with an upward inflection
This is why females shouldn't give advice

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>>18220809
Don't do an all-nighter. That's my tip.

>>18220867
This is unironically the only correct answer

>>18220809
take a nap before all nighter
drink coffee
don't do an all nighter

>>18220755
You need to talk, bridge the gap and rebuild a new friendship, from there idk... Well either that or move on completely - and find someone else

>>18220755
You should marry this woman who has given you every proof that she isn't a gold digging cheater that would use someone for her own material benefit.

>>18220755
>Tbh that seemed to be the end game with a lot of her group

That's because it's a literal industry in the Philippines. Women marry well to do foreigners and send money back to their families.

>>18220614
Post pics. If you're that bad we'll let you know. We have no idea what you look like but 42lbs is a lot. What the hell did you do?

>>18220626
Depression + anxiety + not being able to leave my bed because of extreme lethargy and no will to live, no energy to cook so order food to home

>>18220614
Start small, go out bit by bit, meet new people and gain confidence, at the same time try and loose some weight if that is what concerns you - try not to eat between mealtimes, and to exercise - even just sit ups, press-ups and whatnot, or go for a cycle, but do something every day, and slowly but surely things will change. You have to learn to be content with yourself - it's not something I can tell you - that's not being happy, just accept who your are, then build the confidence change that to who you want to be

Tell them how you feel. lol

Justin B. Urself

follow your heart

what's don't kill you makes you strongler

Just ask her out on a date bro

SUCC

>>18220584

See a therapist.

Vary the speed, and tease and play around with your tongue. Like, lick the top, and the sides before actually putting it in your mouth, then only put the tip in.

Really work up to deep throating so when you do, it feels great for them.

Ask a close friend to serve as a practice dummy. They'll give you tips and the do's and don't's of playing the flute, and you'll get to know one another better.

Try it OP.

Avoid teeth at all costs, I repeat avoid teeth at all costs.

Boogie Jay over

>>18220376
urinary tract infection because the guy might have gone from your butt to your vagina or didn't wash properly.

>>18220389
also you don't have to mention the sex part to your parents, they're caused by tons of stuff and are very common among females because of the location of your urethra.

>>18220376

http://www.webmd.com/women/guide/your-guide-urinary-tract-infections

Pee after having sex, even if it's with a condom (maybe especially. I know my girlfriend will get one 100% with condoms if she doesn't. Which is why she switched to an implant)

Pretty sure you can't get antibiotics OTC (unless you're in a 3rd world country with loose as fuck regulations).

Gotta bite the bullet and see a doctor and anyway, 90% chance it's just a UTI, but you may as well find out if it's anything else.

>>18220308
She sounds into you. A lot.

>am i too far in

Every girl isnt the same. Sounds like she has a pretty long term crush.

Just try it. Being rejected is truly honestly no big deal. No matter your fear do it anyway

>>18220316
Not op but in same situation. How do you proceed when you like her and she is talking very casually to you like as if you were really close? I asked her to a movie but idk what to do or how to find ways to be together more.

>>18220308

She wants the D. Go for it bro. Ask if she wants to get coffee with you. Be casual about and don't chimp out if she says no.

>>18220149

let an old gay guy suck my dick

>>18220149
parents?
grandparents?
siblings?
credit cards either personal or from any of the above?

payday loan place as a last resort.
pawn shop as a last resort.

>>18220149
donate plasma for half of it
sell video games for the other half of it

>>18220095
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hJ88PaL8ls0

>>18220109
this
>push yourself to do exercise
>push yourself to go out more
>go to college
>major in STEM
>work hard
>if you fail a couple of times its ok
>fail again
>feel bad
>eventually feel so bad that you become an alcoholic or drug addict
>kill yourself
>PROFIT
??????????

>>18220095
Change your mind set. You sound like a Debby downer. Think positive thoughts over time you will become happy.