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I have a hard time meeting women.

I think this is because I am a really boring person. I am 27 and I don't travel or go do things that others find exciting. You know what's exciting to me?

Laying in bed all day and nasturbating when not at work.

I am fucked. How the fuck do people do all this "fun" shit and not feel apathetic about it? Some friends ask me to go to Cancun and I told them to fuck off. No way would I ever go to Mexico.

In my mind. The USA is probably the only place on the world you need to live in or go to. Everywhere else is either terrorist infested or a third world shithole. Help

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Look, it's another post about a girl! No shit.

I've been talking to this girl over the phone (It's an online thing.) for 2 weeks. I've finally got her to agree to a walk in the park.

Now she wants to take her fucking grandpa along. Jesus Christ, her grandpa? I'm not ready to meet her family on the first date.

What should I do? Ghost her? Or just say I'm not ready to meet her family on the first fucking date?

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>Date Ex on and off for 3 years
>treated me poorly before we broke up for good 6 months ago
>everyone I care about hates him
> He calls me out of the blue last night because his friend saw me at a party where there were deaths later
> He's at my place and we end up talking
> realize I'm still madly in love with him after all this time of no contact.
> he apologized and said he was never good enough and he acted out of insecurity and has actively been fixing that.

Everyone I love hates him and my family will probably disown me if I get back together with him. But I think he is and always will be the one. What do?

>tl;dr ex who everyone hates came back and I realize I'm still in love with him. What do

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I caught the feels for a super average girl. there is nothing special about her.

Everything i do, from watching a movie to moving city im forced by myself to fantasize how much better it would be if she was there.

I saw that a guy added her on facebook, i had a full on panic attack over it. I feel physically sick, like a bottomless pit in my stomach when i think about someone else being with her.

How do i go about overcoming this feeling for her? its having some serous negative impacts on my life.

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>Like girl
>Great, funny, find her attractive
>Whenever we get close to each other she starts generating heat like a fucking stove
>What the fuck is this
>Like her skin is damn near boiling hot
>She starts generating this suffocating "smell", not exactly a smell because it's not something that has a smell, but it just grabs me by the throat and induces some weird nausea
>Have to suck it up and pretend I'm allright cause that'd probably do a number on her if I tried to explain it to her and I don't wanna be rude

What the fuck is that, what the hell is going on ? Whenever she clings to me and we're getting hot and bothered there's just this nauseating heat aura around her, I have no idea how to handle it. Hasn't happened with any other girl I've been with.

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Just tell me it's gonna be okay and I'll be happy.
I'm basically a pussy, I'm a victim with a victim mentality !
When I was young I was privileged in kind of ghetto environment.
I was shit at sports and bullied by girls. I'm still SHIT at sports, I have no strength, its a huge complex. I dropped out of high school went to PW they gave me medicine but this medicine makes me weak and sleepy.
Now I can't even be on time on appointments.

I'm 27 year old living in Japan without employment and my visa will end.soon. only good thing is i have about 20000$ in the bank. I feel unable to work and unable to succeed in society. I always give a VERY GOOD FIRST impression to everybody until they know me then they are disappointed by me. All my best friends betrayed me cause im too weak and lets not talk about the girls, it always goes downhill after the first 3 months. My ex dumped me 2 days ago for no reason, but.id bet its because im depressed and have no job. I dont even have a driving.licence and im so depressed the only thing i can do is complain.
some people hate me and i hate myself. My last company dumped me cause they say im not reliable and THEYRE RIGHT. I am too ashamed to show my only good piece of work cause I feel like its my friends work and not mine, and this friend betrayed me, then because of this i betrayed him too. I feel so much guilt from this even tho I know he deserved it. I feel so much emotions and cannot get them in order. Posting here helps. Thanks

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Me last year

>follow very specific daily routine
>follow a rigid diet
>exercise three times a week
>allot time to reading and other activities
>work hard to get promoted at my job
>good social life

Now

>haven't spent time with friends in months
>haven't showered in 2 weeks
>eat junk food occasionally
>kill time just idling
>don't enjoy anything
>no motivation or interest in doing anything at all

My life has been sucked out of me. What happened?

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The guy I am dating is too much into me.

I really like him, but he's so crazy about me and the difference between what I feel and what he says he feels is making me feel really uncomfortable.
He's very clingy, very invested, extremely intense.

How can I make him slow down a bit?

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My ex wrote a post about how she felt like I constantly criticized her. I'm thinking of sending her this privately:

You're right. I did. I'm sure I always had some justification at the time, it was just an impulse of mine to constantly seek some sort of authority or validation. Maybe it's because I felt like I was failing in so many other parts of my life, or I was projecting the expectations I thought others had for me onto you. Doesn't make any of what I said or did right.

And the funny thing is, I felt the same way. I started to feel guilty about liking things which you didn't. I'd listen to a Death Grips song or something and think, "April doesn't like this. This isn't the person April wants me to be." That's what I became obsessed with: the person I *thought* you wanted me to be, and my own failure to live up to this completely imaginary standard.

When you told me you were thinking of going full-on vegan, I was confused, because I didn't think that was who you were (I started an argument about bees for some stupid reason). It took me a long time to realize that just as I had created an imaginary image of myself, I had created an imaginary image of you. I didn't want to see a real person in a real world, I just wanted to tell myself a story about a shy nerd who fell in love with a punk rock girl.

And I'm not saying all this to beg you to give me another chance--it's over, I understand that--but I want you to know that even now, more than a year afterward, you still inspire me. I admire your compassion: your ability to read a person or a room with almost telekinetic ease. I admire your resolve: how quickly you made a plan to overcome any obstacle in your path, how adversity seemed to make you even more steely and determined. And I admire how easily you seemed to find comfort in quiet moments, the simple pleasures which I so often missed.

You're a good person, April. If nothing else, you gave this sad sap a chance, and an ideal to strive for. Thank you.

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Anyone else kind of disturbed how women can go thru guys like car tyres and just turn it all off light a lightswitch at the end, just this instant coldness, but any girl that a man has truly cared a damn for will leave an indelible mark on him, however big or small? All my buds describe this dynamic and so can i. Whats going on here.

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I have recently developed a very extreme lust for currency. I have gone into deep depressions about time and money telling myself phrases about how short life is and if I don't earn a billion by tomorrow I will die. I have even refused to shave my sideburns in order to look like a Jew so I earn more money. Day and night, ideas constantly fly into my head on how to earn a million dollars in one hour. Is this normal? Should I make one of those ____ hate him ads?

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So i found this TV just laying around in a warehouse so i took it( it's very heavy), here's the thing trough, it doesn't have a boot button, so i looked up online and i need some stupid fucking box that's like £700 called BeoSystem 3™.
I don't have £700 so what should i do with it?
The TV is BeoVision 4-50 black.

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Hi /adv/.

I was pretty close with someone for the last year. However over time, as I got to know her better, I slowly realized she wasn't a great person. These annoyances have build up to the point where I wish no longer to remain friends with her, after she was a giant bigot last week.

Since we were quite close I dont want to be a dick and just ghost her. How do I bring her the news? Should I just talk to her in private, mention why I don't want to be in contact anymore? Has anyone been in a smiliar situation before?

>our friend groups have 0 overlap

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I don't want emotions anymore. How do I get rid of them? I find that listening to Shook Ones Part II helps sometimes, is there any other media that I can use to help me detach from my weakness and vulnerability?

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Well /adv/ I took your advice and called her. Asked her out, she said she had another call incoming and now my calls go to voicemail. Give me a hail Mary message to send, and I'll be done with her.
Thanks guys ill cry now.