What's going on

>>18219272
People don't hold grudges forever.

>>18219283

This be true. But don't dip your toe in that pond again; there are plenty of people around who will make better friends.

I do that shit when I'm over it. Just casually start being nice to them again. I guess my hate leaves me and I'm normal again lol.

Any chance of reingagement?

Or is it just casual niceness?

Not saying I'd reingage.

>>18219272
they want your dick and that's how children show it.
or you said something in your sleep and they heard it and didn't like it.

who the fuck knows man? women brains don't function normally.

>>18219299
How the fuck did you know it's a woman

>>18219283
Fpbp

>>18219272
Women are mentally children. Her tantrum was pretty much over

>>18219301
>op described a child
>women are children
2 and 2 m8

>>18219301
not the guy you replied to but it's kinda obvious
>drama
>claim they hate me now
>say they won't ever speak to me again

Women like being dramatic more than men, i think. Don't get me wrong, it's a generality, but you will be less likely to hear a guy tell you that he "hates you" and "will never speak to you again"

Anyway, I guess if you're okay to go past that period of "hate", you just have to let her be friendly again and act like nothing happened

>>18219326
This might be true. I am a man and Ive never had a grudge longer than a week before we both get tired of it and make up. Women have backstabbing dramabattles for years.

>>18219319
>>18219324
>>18219326

Yeah, but the weird thing is that it happened overnight

One day she was still being all snarky and shit and after I've given her no reaction to that kind of behaviour she started acting differently as if she saw she wasn't really right about me being terrible or whatever

>>18219344
as if she realized she wasn't right*

>>18219344
>>18219347
Because she was trying to get a reaction out of you, and since you didn't give in to her drama, she just gave up

>>18219353
But for what purpose?
I mean, I really don't understand women.
If she said she's done with me "forever", why even bother?
I've no idea what her intentions are.

>>18219358
Because people (not only women) sometimes say things they don't mean.

>>18219379
Yeah, but this particular person is very stubborn. Been hating for like 6 months straight. And then suddenly stopped.
Idk idk.
It's weird.
Just wondering wether that means she wants to reingage or something else.

bumping one last time

Any advice on what to do?

>>18219701
You seem confused, and you should ask your friend what's going on.

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>>been best friends for almost a year
>>some drama occurs, claim they hate me now
>hate, hate, hate
>they keep looking at me, sometimes trying to make eye contact, etc.
You're so fucking stupid.

>>18219720
Elaborate, smart anon

>>18219272
Sounds like they are nice to you so you do all the work for your project. (what is it about?)
Or maybe they are just nuts

>>18219755
No, it's not that. She's actually one of the few people that actually do a lot of work there, including me and a few others.
So it's definitely not that.

>>18219757
Good then, it's a shitty situation to be in.
Like other anons said, they might want to fuck you, which is a weird change of heart after they nagged at you so much.
Keep exploring what is this all about? Talk with them or even ask them why they are nice all of a sudden (though I bet they will just dodge the question or will pretend to don't know what you are talking about

>>18219764
Yeah, I'm afraid that being direct would just kinda ruin it because I don't think she gets why she's actuing that way herself.
She's complicated, I guess.

>>18219770
That's women for you
You said they earlier, they all acted the same? Also if you agree to talk about it, why was there a conflict/drama between you?

>>18219777
I used "they" instead of "her" because I didn't think sex mattered.

The issue was complicated. Don't know if anyone wants to listen. Or have a bit of time to listen.
I wouldn't mind telling the story.

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>>18219786
Oh ok, it's true that it doesnt matter that much, it's still a strange behaviour and it happen with men to.
I'd care to hear your story if you want

>>18219794
I'll try to summarize it for you.

Be patient ^-^

>>18219794
You still here? Almost done writing.

>>18219830
do it phaggot i want to read

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>>18219830
maybe

>be me a little over a year ago, Christmas
>say hi on fb to this girl from an ethics class
>I noticed she always stayed up late, a night owl, just like me
>so I figured what's the harm
>didn't have any romantic intentions, was already eyeing some other girl
>we clicked literally instantly
>started talking to each other every day
>she supported me in my emotional problems
>I supported her in hers

>she never had any luck with boys
>always fell for guys that never gave a single fuck about her, literally
>I know because I talked to them, she always claimed they had a connection, they claim there never was such a connection and that she was always boring them
>anyways, the point is, now I see she's a bit delusional, as if she's looking for self destruction
>she is a very troubled girl

>we get closer and closer during the following months
>after some time, I realized I loved her
>I was never infatued with her, I simply loved her
>told her after some time
>she said she never had a relationship as close with someone as she had with me and that she doesn't want to lose me
>also told me she didn't feel like that towards me, but that she also didn't know if that will change, in a week, a month or a year

>she did love me, she truly did, but then the problems began
>every time there was a party, she'd always act rude towards me, as if she doesn't wants to show to herself and others she actually cares about me
>and since that was the time I just started trying alcohol, I'd get drunk as fuck and just treat her how she treated me

>couple of times I tried to break ties with her because I didn't want to stay in that shithole of a friendzone
>every time I did try that she'd start crying her soul out, almost begging me to stay
>the reason I did stay was because I truly did treasure her primarily as a friend that understands me completely
>I valued that more than anything else

>once she told me that she'd probably be in love with me if I didn't tell her I liked her that way, just comes to prove how fucked mentally she is

>important side note:
>before I met her I was a wreck
>I didn't like myself
>I saw no point in anything
>but when I met her, she taught me to love myself
>she allowed me to complete myself as a person
>that is the main reason why I'll always be forever grateful towards her and why she'll always have a special place in my heart

>the parties continued, she was acting worse and worse, and so did I
>usually I wouldn't act that way, but I did, because I was drunk
>last party we attended together was 7 months ago, that's when shit went down
>her friend, that I still keep in touch with, tells me that that night she was acting the worst
>told me all of her friends avoided her, because she was being so cringe
>anyways, that night I kinda asked this one guy she was in love with, that she supposedly had a connection with, what happened
>told me he gave 0 fucks, and that he just got annoyed by her
>amongst that, I did just the usual drunk stuff
>and apparently she hated seeing me drunk because reasons, idk
>so basically that night she got into her head that I was this terrible, disgusting person that is acting terrible towards her friends and herself and all that
>most of her reasons were made up
>probably because there was this another guy involved that was also in love with her who constantly shit talked me, but that's another story
>told her I'd stop drinking
>said she didn't care
>I did stop drinking, haven't had a drink since
>not just because of her, mostly because of myself

>>18219869
>she actually made me believe I was a terrible person
>forced me into my worst period I ever had
>did some serious soul searching
>in the end it turned out that all those problems were mostly her problems
>realized that by talking to some of her friends

>tried to reingage once after 3 months
>still mad as fuck, still claims I'm terrible
>fast forward 4 months, now
>current situation

Don't feel anything romantic towards her anymore.
How could I? After betraying my trust like that.
If she ever wanted help from me, I wouldn't even hesitate to help her.
She did so much for me, and I'd like to repay her.

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>>18219866
>>18219869
>>18219874
It's nice that she helped you get through a rough period but she kind of acted like a cunt, and then begged you to forgive her, I can't stand people like that, but I'm not you so it's not important.
If you don't have romatic feelings towards her, that's normal after all, I bet it wouldnt lead you anywhere if you happened to hook up with her.

My advice is, keep things formal between the two of you, help her if she needs your support, but don't put yourself into a romantic relationship with her

>>18219889
Most of the problems, if not all, were caused by her mental problems.
That's why I'm so forgiving.
Well, I would be forgiving if she actually realized that herself.

I know people usually feel worry for other people because of selfish reasons, because they like them or whatever.

But lately I've been really worried about her. I've never felt that kind of pure worry in my life before.

I mean, I came out fine out of all that, but she didn't.
I also miss her a lot if that means anything.

>>18219874
well fuck it anon that bitch be crazy. just move on

>>18219902
I did move on.
But still kinda feel responsible for her and still miss her some.

Thank you guys a lot on your advice.
Means a lot.
Guess all I have to do is wait and see.

>>18219387
She playin you bro, getting Jamal dick on the side and trying to manipulate you

>>18220048
For what purpose lol