Dating Advice?

>>18219286
>finding places to meet women that aren't OKCupid or Tinder
Well anon, I"ll let you in on a secret here... OKCupid and Tinder aren't actually places. They're apps. If you want places to meet women, they should be geographic locations found inside 3 dimensional space.

>I'm 18, and there's not exactly alot of things to do for people who are under 21 here
Hobbies. I've met about half of my girlfriends at places where I was doing something related to a hobby, like gyms, tournaments, specialized stores, etc. The advantage of meeting women there is that you always have something to talk about, and odds are you have some shit in common.

>girl with a big ass
>how to handle it
Big asses make no difference unless you're coming in from behind.

>>18219291
Sarcasm aside, the hobbies bit I've tried for a month with no success but I'll keep going at it, and the big ass is only relevant because she did in fact request I went at her from behind, not that I have an issue with it, I just want to make sure that whoever I'm wish is satisfied.

>>18219305
>tried for a month
You got years bro. Calm the fuck down man, now that you're out of highschool things get to be a bit more of a long game, unless you're just looking for hookups, in which case Tinder is the best way to go.

>>18219308
I tried hookups, that's where most of my body count has come from, but things romantically have hit a snag with the last two girls that I've went after, we still talk but not as much.

>>18219322
You don't gotta be with a girl for your entire adult life man. You should spend a couple years alone at some point. Gives you a different perspective on things.

>>18219335
I'm supposing the need to be with someone is just coming from the fact that I used to be an autist in high school and am just now coming out of it, you're right and I know you're right, just not used to all this coming so fast, becoming an adult is odd.

>>18219341
Hey, I'm in the same way man, just coming on 22 and still settling into this whole "adulthood" thing. My advice would be to spend a few years getting your own life in order (body, mind, finances),*then* enter the dating game as an adult. I can assure you that a guy in his early 20's who has his shit together can get dates super easy. Being able to say

>My job is X making [good amount of money], and my hobbies are y, z, 1, 2, 3, and 4.

Looks pretty fucking good when most people in their twenties are like

>My job is X making [shit money] which I use to pay off all my student debt, and my hobbies are Netflix and Youtube.

>>18219286
Sorry pal but times have changed. Going to clubs and bars are no longer places to meet people. You must stick with technology.

>Well anon, I"ll let you in on a secret here... OKCupid and Tinder aren't actually places. They're apps. If you want places to meet women, they should be geographic locations found inside 3 dimensional space.

Cuck stuck in the past.

>>18219433
>Going to clubs and bars are no longer places to meet people.
But... You objectively can do that. I don't get your point. You CAN go to clubs and bars and meet people. It's a thing that's done.

>>18219433
>>18219439
OP here

Woah, no need to argue bois, I think a healthy combo of both will probably improve what outlook, but will have to find things that are 18 alloowed


>>18219350
Yeah, I'm leaning that way right now, I'm in a good spot, I'm saving up for school, I'm looking to develop my hobbies more as a person so I'm gonna start looking around for things to do and I admit, I'm a skinny guy, like more on the lanky side but definitely not bad looking.