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>>18220056
just keep your dog on a leash dude, how hard is it?
take her to parks.

>>18220056
The way your post is worded, it's rather unclear whether your dog has actually been off her leash or your neighbor and landlord are just making shit up to justify some sort of personal vendetta. If the former, just keep your fucking dog on the leash, idiot. If the latter, start looking for new apartments regardless because this is a sign of further trouble that you'll be experiencing down the road if you stay where you are.

>>18220073
>>18220079
It was never a problem before and all the neighbors and their kids like to pet her and know she's nice but this one crazy bitch moved in and shit her pants over it and even her husband was telling her to calm down because she grabbed my dog by the collar even though she wasn't being hostile at all. Which is weird because if you are afraid of a dog biting you why would you go up to a perfectly docile dog and grab their collar and start screaming? She was the first one to complain in 3 years so it's obvious it's her.

I'm perfectly fine with keeping her on the leash from now on if they are going to make that big of a deal about it since even the landlord was siding with us the first time because the way the woman acted, I'm just fairly sure she is going to complain anyway so I want to know if it's legal without proof and if the landlord wants to take her side now it seems the only thing I could do was ask for proof but if they don't need it I guess I'll have to look for another place.

therapists these days give way too much medication
it's like oh you have problems? take pills, the problems are still there but at least you can pretend its all fine

>>18219911

Ekhart Tolle is great.

Your therapist is trying to take you down a path of seeing the word differently than you vare used to.

It will be confusing, and you will resist it, until you understand.

He has a youtube channel, and maybe watching him answer some questions from people might give context.

This is genuinely a good journey you are going on.

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>what is CBT, what is medication, what is clinical psychology
>what are the thorough researches that have been done in the last twenty years
>goes to therapist and what he provides is fucking new age bullshit

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>>18219865
You live with your parents, don't you.

>>18219890
No. I share a place with roomates in commiefornia.

>>18219865

dude what the fuck are all those random letters suppose to be? are those your taxes? cuz im having trouble breaking them the fuck down.

just do me a favor and tell me how much money you bring home every two fucking weeks after taxes.

Break up with her.
Else she might do it again if things get tough, and this time she'll bury the evidence so deep even sonar won't be enough to find it.

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That was pretty sketchy of her and I don't know why you've gotten back together.

She seems kinda mean.

Also how should I respond to this in a cring yet non gay manmer?

>>18219859
That's the thing though, I don't think her intentions were to flirt with him (maybe on a subconscious level?) but he has a girlfriend now and I don't think she's actually hooked up with him.

You already want her to put you first before her family, and you aren't even dating.
lol

>>18219861
I'm just annoyed because I don't know if she made the plans to wash the dog before or after we made plans.

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Standing her up isn't going to make you look cool unless that's what the cool kids are doing these days.

You aren't even really dating and (just how you worded it in the OP) are thinking only about getting your dick wet. IDK, I could be wrong but this is how I am seeing it. Take your time if you like this girl and don't expect her to want to rush into the bed.

Then again wtf do I know. Honestly I am going to hit I'm not a robot and pick an image on my phone and start dinner.

Why are you friends with someone you don't want to be friends with?

If you're trying to fuck her - stop
If not, tell her to keep that talk to herself

>>18219819
I wonder how I let myself get this deep in a friendship with a girl I am clearly interested in and still haven't told her how I felt.

>>18219655
Just straight up tell him. That's what I would want my friend to do.

>>18219655
Like ripping a bandaid off.

Tell him you gotta meet up with him, talk about some shit, chill out like you guys usually would, beer, blunts, video games, cruising, and tell him straight up what you know, what you saw, and not at all what you assume.

Just tell him. Invite him out to a neutral place where he might not overreact and just talk to him about it. Be there for him at the moment and let him deal with it after. If they break up, make sure he doesn't have to deal with that alone. It's hard.

>>18219634
You don't buy a prostitute.

You can never be sure you wont get an std from any girl. And the tests they run for stds dont even include herpes

>>18219637
>>18219651
How do I lose my virginity then? No normal girl will have me?

>>18219599
>*autistic screeching*

>>18219599
Saved.

>>18219599
Anger is okay, just be careful to not let that anger wash over you.

>>18219573

the only way to find out is to actually call a place that deals insurance and ask them, becaue each city, state, and office size, type of office etc. is going to have completely different answers.

here in los angeles we neededi nsurance in order to GET the office, but after that it expired and we've been uninsured ever since. its an office so... it doesn't really matter.

that being said, getting an office will not somehow magically bring in more money, all it will do is give you an expense and force you to travel in order to work.

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>>18219593
>>18219593

I hear ya, the office is less than 10 minutes away from my house, and in a decent area considering it's only $100 a month.

I guess I'm just contemplating being a little embarrassed if the insurance ends up being sky high and I tell the lady nope. Pretty beta behavior though. I did get one quote as low as $5 a month though.

I know it won't magically bring me more money. I'm thinking of it almost on the same terms as getting a gym membership to get /fit/. If I show up to my 300sq ft room with just a window, chair, and desk there will be almost zero distractions for me.

>(still live at home with parents, have full time day job, minimal expenses already)

>>18219612

hard disagree, if you need to pay more than 100 bucks a month just not to be distracted than you're not really built for animating,.

>>18219513
because for some reason or another you let the relationship dissipate and you've both likely changed severely over time. you're essentially strangers with some shared memories.

>>18219513
It is not weird nor unacceptable unless she is your EX and you already have new gf.

>>18219513

Because life goes on and by doing something like that you're implying that you haven't. Contacting people from your past is basically just saying that you've got nothing worthwhile occupying you now, so you cling to memories of the people you used to know.

stop being a fucking loser

Better yourself so you can find a girl who'd actually want to do those things with you. Also if you have weird fucking fetishes, save those for after you've known someone a while.

>>18219490

how ugly exactly? care to show us? or even just someone you would rate as similar looking

This sounds pretty.. Complex? If I understand correctly there are what like.. 5 people? And you're the only one that had a job that you quit because no one else worked either?

Sounds like you should sell the laptop I don't see any reason why that would be morally wrong given the situation but someone else will need to confirm it's legal in this situation

>>18219491
4 roommates, I'm pretty stressed so not thinking straight. I just learned if I come up with 1,900 of it, I can stay. By Monday. And I didn't quit my job like a retard, I still have a means to make money. They don't.

>>18219498

sell the laptop and let the others be evicted. let that be a lesson to you on shitty roomates and the importance of paying bills first. Don't ever let yourself get so far behind again. If you get roomates that wont pay their share, ask for them to be evicted or move out.

He'll use your money for drugs and videogames and won't read your stupid book.

Anon, kids don't listen to advice, that's why they're kids.

I've thought about something like this as well. I was a jobless shut-in well into my twenties and I could've used someone to mentor me out of that rut earlier.
As a young male you're basically not allowed to complain and are given no sympathy or benefit of a doubt. You're expected to do your job better, with less hand holding, to provide for yourself, to be OK with working any job. Otherwise you're a slacker.

Not saying it's a good idea to just give someone money like that but we could use some programs that help people like this while leaving their dignity intact.

>>18219449
you're one of those guys that has a really negative outlook and discourages people from doing anything because, according to you, the most negative outcome will always happen?

what percentage of kids buy illegal drugs anyway? do you mostly talk out your ass?

also, stupid book? if you processed the description of it, you'd see it would be almost impossible to be stupid. it just contains mature knowledge, something you probably lack as a 4chan faggot. most of you guys are fucking useless and I use you as a sounding board, but I don't want to alienate those of you who are reasonable by saying that...

>>18219451
There are mentorship programs. They really cut into work though. Maybe it's good that way - some are very successful people who don't need to work full hours.

Also I need a date for Saturday pls halp.

Update:
>make thread on /adv/
>no replies

Has my phone signal been selectively jammed?

>>18219360
Try posting an add for the ticket online on craigslist or something. "yo, got free ticket to X, come with me!"

Someone will answer. Put restrictions on who can answer if you want, might get a date that way.