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Hey /adv/ first time visitor,
But I'm going through a bit of an relationship issue.
I can meet girls and sleep with them. However after sleeping with them, theyou never call or text me back. Conversation in person is... tedious.
Wtf am I doing wrong?
Am I just an ugly person and it's pity sex?
Is my sex game really that weak?
Is it just how things are now?
>Pic related it's me (rightmost)
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You're attractive but not interesting enough for them to consider pursuing you.
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>>18224947
How do I become interesting. .?
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>>18224947
What do you recommend I do to bensure interesting?
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Any agnostic/atheist guys have any experience dating really religious girls?
I've been seeing a catholic girl for who takes it really seriously for a little over 2 months, messaging each other every day but taking things really slow, meeting on weekends. Anyway, she finally started opening up a bit and we made out last weekend, all was going well. Anyway, she's recently said she shouldn't have and it was a spur of the moment thing, linked me to some catholic web page about saving kisses until marriage and everything and wants me to go to church with her. I've told her before that I'd respect her faith but was near certain I'd never change my beliefs. At first I thought she wouldn't be comfortable unless I converted but after pushing the issue she said it was fine as long as I respected her views. I wasn't comfortable with no sex before marriage, which I assumed would be likely with her, but I really like her so I thought I'd stick with it. But no kissing before marriage, beyond light stuff? Is this normal? I really don't know what to do. How can you get to really know somebody without being deeply intimate with them, especially to know them enough for marriage...
Anyone have any experience with this? Is this some marriage trap?
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>>18224829
These are her beliefs. Sure, it's technically possible to plead your case and change her mind about everything she believes, but it's so unlikely it might as well be impossible.
Either you like her and respect her enough to abide by the beliefs she has about what's right in a relationship, or you don't. Don't subject yourself to a relationship you can't be happy in just because you "really like" her. It's so not worth it.
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>>18224829
Solution is to stop being a godless heathen and embrace the Holy and Apostolic Church
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>>18224829
Marriage wasn't when it was invented. But it sure as hell could be now.
That being said she failed to keep her urges in check once. If I was you I would just keep trying to "corrupt" her. What do you have to lose, no intimacy for years...
Keep trying to get her hot and bothered and then make out with her. Eventually she gets comfortable breaking that rule and then you can move on to the next.
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What are the best ways to tell crush that you love her?
Berfaf
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I have this crush since I was 8 now I am 20 and almost a decade have happened. I can't wait longer. Someone please tell me a way to tell her without getting uncomfortable.
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>>18224805
Being uncomfortable and fighting through it is the essence of being manly.
Secondly have you been interacting with her all these years and if so, in what way?
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Sure because just telling someone you're barelly intimate with "I love you" isn't creepy at all and always works
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I have been her good and supporting friend on social media... We talk sometimes in daily life too.
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So I want to write some inmates, but I don't want them to have my address.This would be paper/physical mail for those who are wondering.
>How can I have a valid return address without passing out my address? I've looked into PO boxes but that's kinda expensive for just some casual shits-n-giggles letter writing. I also don't really want to make a trip to the post office to check and see if I have mail.
Anyone got any ideas?
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>>18224787
Do you know these people or...?
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>>18224787
OP is trying to get dat jail bird pussy.
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>>18224798
Nah, just interested in life inside a prison. I see tons of them (both sexes) ask for donations, don't think I'll ever do that. If I wanted jailbird puss I wouldn't worry that much about my address right? Anyhow, it would still be good to know how to send shit via physical mail and receive it without putting up my address.
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Ok 4chan, so i guess that i recently got a girlfirend. We been going out and on the fourth date i asked if she wanted to be my gf and she said yes, honestly ive never had a girlfriend so this is actually a step up for me. (im 20 years old)
we been flirting and and stuff but what i wanted to know was how i should bring up the topic of sex or should i do anything at all. Like should i wait for her to make the first move, or do i casually ask her if shes a virgin? Im a guy and i have a really high sex drive. How should i go about this, i mean if shes my gf shouldnt i be allowed to ask for it?
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Who the fuck asks these things?
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The classic is get her over your place doing an activity with you. Lots of touches while you do said activity and then go for the kiss. Just keep pressing boundaries until she stops you. You don't really have to ask straight out. Just let up a little when she stops you.
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>>18224792
thanks bro i really appreciate your response. Apparently she has no problem making out with me so theres that , except i dont have my own place
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How do you help a friend who has depression? CAN you help someone who has depression?
I can provide more details if they're needed.
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>>18224763
in sort yes
but this is assuming they want the help at all. surprisingly many people are very comfortable being sitting in there self pity. its when those people chose that they want to not live in there own shit anymore that real change can be made.
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>>18224763
the best you can do is be accepting and treat them normal. you can't really make them feel better or "help" them.
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>>18224773
I don't know if he wants help, but even if I asked him, how would I know whether it's really him or just the depression talking? He's not sitting there in his self pity though, he more deals with it by just blocking everything out. I don't know if that's better or worse.
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That's what I've been doing, but the more he opens up to me, the more I feel bad because I can't help. I can't even empathise properly because I've never experienced it myself.
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>Girl I sort of know messages me half a week ago out of the blue
>"Hey anon, are you going to the party Saturday? We should hang out there"
>Proceeds to flirt with me and I conversate back to be polite
>She makes it VERY obvious she wants to bang me there, she talks about sex constantly and keeps calling me attractive and what have you
>We've been talking since then
>She's sort of attractive, but she's crazy as fuck and kind of a slut; says weird shit to me every day about her shitty family life or her previous hookups
>I've been trying to make it obvious I'm not super into her without being rude but she's still pursuing me
>Party is tomorrow, I know she's gonna show up and be clingy and follow me around all night
>We have a few mutual friends so I don't want to piss her off or be a dick about it
>I can't use the "I'm not horny tonight" excuse cause I'm gonna be looking for a hotter, non-crazy chick to hook up with and I can't have her following me around all night if that's gonna happen
How do I get her off my back without pissing her off? She also has a few friends that are hot too and I'd rather be hitting on them.
Or even better, is there a way to subtly ask if she knows if any of her friends finds me attractive? I've met most of them at least briefly at parties before. I don't want to piss her off or seem like a bitch by straight up asking though
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>>18224758
Also we're both 18 and high school seniors, so if this all sounds high schoolish that's because it is
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>>18224767
Tell her "No fat chicks. Now gimme your hot friend's number"
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Ask for a threesome, you don't have much to lose
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I want to quit my job. I'm not exactly in need of money right now, but I won't have any spending money. I'm switching to a 4 year uni that I'm catching the bus to. The bus ride is about 1 and a half hours long. Also, I just failed a class this semester and I really need more time to study.
Also I really want free time. Currently I work part time everyday from 8- 12 and then I take classes until 7:30. It's been really stressful and my class schedule next semester is kind of messed up because I'll have to take morning and night classes. If I stay at my job I'll have to catch the bus to school, then to work in the afternoon, then back to school, then back home.
I'm not really sure if I even should quit. What I need money later on? It's just a shitty retail job though.
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>>18224728
a job is a job, don't quit without another job lined up.
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>>18224728
find a job on campus you can work in between your morning and evening shifts
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Can you ask to cut down your hours?
>What I need money later on?
Do you have savings? And having extra money is never a bad thing.
>It's just a shitty retail job though.
Work experience is valuable, even if it's not related to your degree.
Also, can you move closer to your new uni and find a new job there?
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What country and city should i choose to live the rest of my life and how do i get there?
After making a thread yesterday I put some thought into my current situation and decided that I'll save enough money to try living overseas and start a new life.
I would like to choose a country that ain't to strict with imigration but i also don't plan to be a leech to society and carry my own weight and have my own permanent visa and residence.
I'm currently living in Brazil and the company i work for sometimes allow employees to aply for jobs in other countries, the thing is this happens once in a blue moon and only the most skilled/influencial employees are able to request this kind of thing, it also takes like 5 years or more to even be able to apply for those jobs and I'm only a intern so i need a plan B, i like to have options.
I speak english and brazillian Portuguese fluently and i'm sure i can learn any third language if needed. I don't plan to get rich so i don't need anything fancy.
Here are some information that may or may not be helpfull:
>25 years old, white, male
>Currently trying to finish systems development college course but i may be something i don't plan on making a living.
>I've worked since my teens for multiple companies in a lot of different jobsso i have experience in a lot of stuff.
>I have lived abroad for around a year in japan for study purposes, i only know basic japanese though, just enough to get me by, it was all i had time to learn but i plan on actually fully learn it.
Any suggestion of country/city and how to get a permanent visa counts for me.
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Maybe i should have madr my question a little smaller.
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You're white so if you come to America you'll get the best treatment. And be superior under the Trump reign.
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>>18226149
Isn't Trump a little morr strict with immigration now?
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>Might be smart
>Have decided against ever bringing more human beings into the world
>Consider the implications of denying the world my genetics
>Realize designer babies will become a thing down the road
>Realize there are plenty of other people that will give birth to intelligent children down the road
>Wonder if an intelligent person will even necessarily make the world a better place
>They're more likely to suffer and accomplish what everyone else does in this life than assume political office, etc
>Can't stomach the thought that I will bring someone I love into a god-less world where it's very difficult to be happy
I can't feel a deeper attachment to the human race. No one outside of my family cares if I live or die tomorrow. I know how cruel life really is. The world will continue with or without my genetic input. I'm just one in billions.
Does anyone have an opinion on this?
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>>18224706
I can't even guarantee that the desire to help others will be in their brain.
They may grow to be the Jimmy Savile of 2074
I can only say with certainty that this life is no longer worth subjecting more humans to.
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I can't believe everything is the way it is.
A total waste of existence for 50 years. The majority of a life span.
Why bother?
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>>18224706
>>Might be smart
No you're not. The smartest people I know are the most humble. Not a single one of them considers themself smart.
>>Have decided against ever bringing more human beings into the world
That's fine
>>Consider the implications of denying the world my genetics
No implications at all
>>Realize designer babies will become a thing down the road
Fucking around with human DNA is a highly ethical issue that is more likely to be illegal rather than a future, especially for cosmetic reasons. Also a single intelligence gene will be near impossible to isolate, let alone maanipulate
>>Realize there are plenty of other people that will give birth to intelligent children down the road
Yup.
>>Wonder if an intelligent person will even necessarily make the world a better place
Sure. Happens every day but in silent ways
>>They're more likely to suffer and accomplish what everyone else does in this life than assume political office, etc
>>Can't stomach the thought that I will bring someone I love into a god-less world where it's very difficult to be happy
>I can't feel a deeper attachment to the human race. No one outside of my family cares if I live or die tomorrow.
This is all very dramatic.
>I know how cruel life really is. The world will continue with or without my genetic input. I'm just one in billions.
It isn't cruel. The universe is uncaring but that isn't cruel in and of itself. And "life" is extremely difficult to even define.
Now that you found nihilism for the first time, look into other branches of philosophy. Nihilism is a meme
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What are good ideas for second dates?
I went bouldering with a girl and we had a good time. There wasn't any super deep conversation but we were comfortable around each other.
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Watch Game Center CX?
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>>18224666
I'd be cool with that, but I gotta hide my power level
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>>18224661
Not movies, not dinner, not anything that happened on the first date. I would suggest coffee, but keep it short.
First date = Meet them, immediate "am I attracted to them?" phase, filtering process, you both keep your guards up.
Second date = More serious conversation, reveal a bit more about yourself (but not too much), keep this one short.
Third date = ??? this is the one you really should plan, it should be something long that you know she would enjoy and would allow physical contact, flirting, and lots of conversation. Base this idea on intel gathered from previous dates.
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Pretty late to ask for /adv/ice, but here goes.
I'm 23 and with a 31 year old hot, smart female. Problem is, I'm just starting out in life, have nothing to my name, while the biological clock keeps ticking for her. Still possible to have multiple kids when she's 35+?
She's been married before, divorces when her ex became verbally abusive. She doesn't do drugs, alcohol, etc. All good on that front. Same with me.
Anyone have any similar experiences? Advice to give? I'm all ears.
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>>18224648
You're out of your league m8. There is a fucking reason she can't find a man her age or older to have kids with. Especially if she is smart, hot, and had a good job. Something is up here. Tread with extreme caution. Women are wicked smart, and this one has almost a decade of life experience, plus marriage and a divorce on you. You are punching way above your weight.
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>>18224657
It's definitely crossed my mind.
If something is up. what should I be paying attention to?
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>>18224682
Don't listen to that other guy. Shitty manipulation has no age limit, she's no more or less likely to be hiding something or tricking you than any other woman, and thinking of the relationship in those terms will doom it to failure.
Look, if you're happy together, what's the problem? Are you sure you're not just trying to poke holes in a perfectly good relationship for... reasons?
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How can I stop being an attention whore?
When I was single, I used to go on kik a lot and talk with guys. I liked the validation and I did it a ton.
In the early stages of my relationship I deleted the app and stopped talking to any other non-friend males. 8mos in, I install the app every couple.of months, spend a day attention whoring and then I feel guilty and delete it.
How can I stop being such an attention whore. I get enough attention and love in my relationship and I want to be so loyal. I feel awful everytime I do it and I really would love to stop.
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Post tits and we'll tell you how
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>>18224621
:'(
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>>18224618
Just don't you asshole. Find another way to fill you time, with a hobby.
Girls like you make me sick.
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I ditched my date a few hours ago when I noticed she had an ankle tattoo
Am I a douche?
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>>18224575
Yes. Ditching is probably the shittiest thing you could do on a date. And for such superficial reasons. Unless her tattoo said "I HAVE AIDS" in bright bold letters, it probably wasn't worth ditching her over.
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>>18224575
yeah man my mother has an ankle tattoo from when she was 13 and she is the nicest person you'll ever meet.
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I was dating this girl a few months back, everything was going fine and all then she reviles to me that she doesn't have a penis!? yeah I know like what the fuck.
I dropped her, prolly was massive thot, no dick can you believe it?
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I've lately always bled after doing anal, at first i thought it was hemorrhoid but it has been going for a few months now i haven't noticed blood when taking a poop either so i'm kinda stuck on what i should do!!!
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Maybe go to a fucking doctor, or search online on an actual medical website, instead of this shithole?
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You aren't supposed to stick stuff up there, silly.
It's like that guy a few days ago who asked why he was bleeding after shoving carrots up his ass.
Shit's supposed to go out from there, not in.
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>>18224579
but the doctors are just gonna tell me to not do anal