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I just registered to vote for the first time. My race was marked as white, however I'm mixed. I pass as white, though. If I vote, would this be fraud?
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>>18445505

No.
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>>18445505
any other ?
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>>18445505
yes you will be arrested.

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i have no money, and no way to get or even borrow money online
i havent eaten since monday, it hurts so fucking much
how can i get food somewhere somehow? there's no homeless help places here

please ideas!
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>>18445446
Blow it out your ass
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>>18445446
Ask friends or neighbours to give you some food. Go to a restaurant/starbucks/bar and ask for help.
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>>18445454
nothings coming out cus i havent eaten

>>18445459
neighbors hate me cus im a stupid student

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What do normies talk about? I have no friends and all I ever can think about to say to someone is something political so I say nothing. I've got a lot of sociopathic tendencies and I feel it's hard to relate to people most of the time. How do I get friends and keep conversations with them?
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>>18445277
Are you good at reading people? If so use that to your advantage to see what you can talk about and if it interests them. Or be the observer and get them to talk about what they want and if you can relate to it in any way then continue to converse.
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ppppfffttt relating???? HAHAHAHAAAA
Nice joke anon.
I have enough friends without even trying to relate to them. Best thing is - They know I don't ACTUALLY care, yet I'm one of their most closest and trustworthy friend.

Why?
I have principles to back me up whenever I'm in a moral doubt. I always try to be nice on purpose so I don't fuck it up. (Nice meaning - Not un-ironically a jerk, not telling their secrets and everything I know about them to people, doing favors even if you get nothing for them, etc etc)

For conversations, you'll need to make up for your cultural differences. Watch popular TV shows (no matter how shitty they are.Try to focus on good and popular, if they have any). Also, Video games, books, any kind of a cultural - media - whatever thing you can talk about with them.

I've been there nigga. Not caring, yet lonely. The pinnacle of irony.
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I feel like I'm way too inside of my own head to make genuine connections with anyone

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Is anyone else constantly bothered by the passing of time?
Like, I have 9 or so hours before night. And 50 days before college starts again.
Every hour wasted bugs me.
How do you relax?
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>>18445209

I'm not sure if this is gonna help or hurt, but just consider how good you have it right now. Once you start working, you're going to have 4-5 hours to yourself each weekday that is not wrapped up in commute/getting ready and office time. Shave an hour or longer off of that if you go to the gym. Then you get a paltry weekend to enjoy yourself - but of course there's the chores you neglected over the week to take care of. So really, it's like... one day of rest, then more responsibility, then back to work.

Count your blessings that you can sleep in and fuck off all day right now.
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>>18445209

Mindfulness meditation helps enormously if you do it sincerely and consistently.
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Time is not real, it is just a concept invented by humans to keep up with other humans
In reality you are either existing or you are dead, but when you are dead you are not aware of this fact, so you basically have all the time, you could almost call it infinite, until it stops one day. You know it will stop but you dont know when, and when it happens, it wont matter.

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I went to the eye doctor to get my eye checked out because I saw a flash in my right eye and wanted to see if there was anything wrong with it. So he dilated my right eye with those dilation drop and checks it out, everything seems fine. The next day my right pupil goes back to normal but my left pupil is bigger than normal. Can anyone give me an idea as to what could've happened? I went back to the doctor and he didn't have an answer. I couldn't find anything about it on Google. I'm going to see a doctor soon.

This happened about 2 weeks ago
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>>18445227
Thanks
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u haev eye cansur and u are goimg to die fgt gl

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Here we go fgts
>21yo
>work in a hospital as a nurse (male)
>intensive care unit
>we got nurse students on their practice
>hot young (18-20) grills all over the unit
>I show them some stuff and show off a bit
>notice this one girl is glancing at me sometimes
>we get eye contact pretty often
>this other girl also looks at me sometimes
>does random shit to try to put some distance between me and the first grill, to kinda separate us
>still, whenever I get a bit longer eye contact with first grill she smiles (she has a very beautiful smile)
>I read her name and search her up on Facebook and Instagram, not my kinda of girl judging by her profiles, but irl she seems different

I'm not sure should I pursue her or what. I don't know how to get her alone to ask her out or something. Their practice ends before my job so I can't see her afterwards. I tried adding her on Facebook but she seems not very active. I don't really want for the people to find out yet I have interest in her since one of the workers in the unit already wanted to be with me and I turned her down with some fake ass excuse how I don't wish for a relationship currently, I don't want to hurt her more. And i really have no fucking patience for them teasing me all of the time. Also I'm not sure if the said girl even likes me, maybe she is just polite. Any advice? Do I slip a small paper with a message to her or do I just ask her in front of everyone. She also seems quite shy. I will see her again tomorrow and they are staying in our unit until end of the month.
Pic related.
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bumpitty bump can't bump the trump
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Simple shit: Arrive to work like 30 mins before your shift to talk to her and get some contact info. Simple as that good luck.
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>>18445276
I work from 7am, they practice from 8am. They also move in flocks.

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I have flat feet and lately it's extremely painful when I try to run more than a mile. What are some other exercises I can do to lose weight instead? I don't have access to an actual gym for the summer.
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>>18445052
Bicycle. They have in-place ones at most gyms.
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>>18445211
Never mind that, I'm retarded.
Have you tried getting custom shoes for your feet?
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>>18445052
Swimming
Burpees
Jumping jacks

In reality you probably need to do bodyweight fitness and change your diet by reducing total calories and increasing protein.

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Why does getting women require 'social status' and elaborate tricks like subtly and constantly touching them to build 'rapport'? Does it mean that if I'm not a normie I'm in a losing position?
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>>18445020
Probably something about how women need a man that can provide for her while she's pregnant and for their child after she delivers it. And if you can't do those things, you don't belong in the gene pool.

Meeting that criteria is very close to being totally irrelevant in modern society, but our brains haven't evolved as quickly as we've advanced.
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Some women are normies, some aren't. Guys who are popular and 'normieish' are a turn off to me.
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>>18445025
But I don't want children anyway, and I think many women don't either. Besides being able to make money doesn't equal social status

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How do I most effectively study for an exam?
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>>18444989

Reading! Rest! Reading ! Repeat!
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>read
>try to understand
>solve questions
>rest
>repeat
importance of each step varies depending on major or subject.
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Make a powerpoint summary, memorize every slide.
Only put enough words in the slides to make sure you will know what to write on the exam. Prioritize keywords.
Easier than memorizing shit directly from a textbook because textbooks contain stuff that won't be on the exam, which will distract you from memorizing if you look at even a single word on the paragraph.

Also, take Adderall.

>Be me
>Attend a wedding
>Meet a girl that's really cute
>End up talking a lot, dancing, exchanging numbers, and eventually making out
>Text and snap each other frequently
>She lives on the West Coast

It fucking sucks that I'm here on the East Coast while this girl that seems to like me a lot, who is often sending me nudes is on the opposite of the country. I'm not sure what to think about the situation because I've never really encountered something like this before. It would be pretty cool to go out there to see her but wouldn't that be a bit weird on my part? How do I engage in something like that or would I be wasting my time and money? But on the flip side lately, she has seem to dial down the texting responses aside from the nudes. I'm starting to sense she's becoming tired of me or just uses me for quick validation. I'm not sure if this is true but it would suck because I honestly felt we had a good connection.

What do /adv/?
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>>18444943
You sound like you've hit the nail on the head already and understand the situation. You had a good flirt going and now she's calming down. She may even be with someone who she's not happy with right now and is sending the nudes and shit as validation and encouragement as you've said. I've had this happen with a female friend I've known since high school who's hooked up with me several times, and realizing it was a combination of rebound flirting and validation for both of us, especially between relationships, made it a lot easier for me to put in perspective.
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>>18444943
>>18444958
That is to say if you're still having fun with it, keep in touch, just don't go head over heels for it if you already know it's unlikely to turn into a real relationship.
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>>18444962
I mean I would like to go over there and check out the city and spend time with her. I just don't know how to address that with her without seeming too desperate if that makes any sense. Also I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a relationship going on right now, I think it could very well just be the distance that's killing the vibe.

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I am going to see my old therapist. I haven't seen her consistently since I was in high school. I've seen her every few years maybe once or twice.

I want to see her again since she knows my past and I have been able to open up to her. I feel ashamed though

Since I've last seen her these issues have come up
>multiple suicide attempts
>borderline personality disorder
>smoking weed daily
>many personal relationship issues with those around me

I am not suicidal anymore and I am working on fixing my issues and returning to school. I genuinely want to change and improve my life which is greatly different from when I was in high school.

Is this an inconsiderate work load to show up at her office with?
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>Is this an inconsiderate work load to show up at her office with?

Gee, isn't that what she gets paid to do? She has her work cut out for her, if she's not up to it she can be a bartender or something.
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>>18444883
I guess I just feel guilty and embarrassed about getting worse since I've last seen her.
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>>18444873
>Is this an inconsiderate work load to show up at her office with?
Of course not. That's what she's there for. You going back to see her is the best proof that you really do want to get better, and I guarantee you that that is exactly what she will try to help you with.

Good luck anon, feel better.

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I have no energy or the will to do anything ever. I feel tired always and only am slightly awake when I'm drinking coffee and energy drinks that I'll have throughout the day. I've given up on everything, my apartment is a wreck (I used to be OCD about keeping things organized), and I have classes starting soon that I'm afraid I'll fail because I just can't motivate myself to do any work. I spend all my free time in front of the computer bored out of my mind.

Is this just normal depression or could it be that I've been drinking way too much caffeine and it's put me in a permanent state of nearly asleep? I had more caffeine than usual last night and felt almost normal for once.
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Stop fapping for a few days OP.
I'm not saying join the nofap cult but it helps me out.
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You might be depressed, I mean you are showing all tge signs. Start dping some light exercise and est something like a banana every day, that will help.
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>>18444735
I don't fap more than twice a week maybe. Requires too much effort.

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I have come here to give advice. I stumbled across a life lesson so profound that I believe that everybody who reads this will have significant amazing improvements in some areas of their life if they read this.

I met somebody in their early 20s who had very good habits focused on being smart their whole life. As I got to know this person I saw them attempt to try and improve at many different hobbies. Including ones that this person believed they absolutely sucked at when they started. And ones I had been trying to improve on for years.

Every single time, no matter how different or how hard each thing he did was here is what happened. He was able to always pick up on it very quickly and improve at a speed that seemed inhuman. It was as if he had an enormous talent for everything.

He was noticing things to do that were crucial to know to improve that people might be blind to for years. So this is what everybody here needs in their life. A strategy and lifestyle change to become as smart as you possibly can. I cannot begin to tell you my sense of loss over seeing how easily I could have improved at things I wanted to achieve in my life compared to the huge amount of time I put into things because I did not prioritize this.

The fact is, most people have unhealthy lifestyles that make their brains smaller over time. But if you know what you're doing, you actually can make your brain much larger over time. Having a healthy brain is also crucial because many mental illness issues like anxiety are made much worse by an unhealthy brain.

Right now I am short on resources for doing this. But there is a book by somebody who taught at harvard who owns a brain wellness center on improving the size of your brain. And its called boost your brain. Look for other books and resources that help with this.

If you do this, you'll become talented at almost everything.
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"The secret to life is fighting against your nature. If I only did what I wanted to, then I would spend my entire life chasing women instead of working hard, learning and reading all that I can, and taking care of my family" - Denis Prager
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>I stumbled across a life lesson so profound that I believe that everybody who reads this will have significant amazing improvements in some areas of their life if they read this.
Well that was thoroughly disappointing.
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>>18444738
it really was and i was honestly expecting nothing.

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My girl, I've been with a year for now wants to break up with me, because I didn't tell her, that in the past (like 2 yrs ago) I slept with her friend - not a close friend, a friend of a friend rather. She thinks, that it's an extreme lack of respect. I don't feel like I did wrong, and I honestly didn't even thought about it. For me it's just past, that I forgot about, never cared about. I don't also feel in a position, that I should explain myself of whom I slept with. If she slept with some of our mutual acquaintance, I wouldn't want to know - what for?

What are your thoughts? Maybe I'm getting something wrong.
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You are in the wrong, dumbass.
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Women like to start arguments over little shit. Try to let this die down for a bit, maybe seperate for a couple days or a week. Hopefully when yall get back together this thing will really be dead. However on the other hand she could still be a bitch about it and complain that you were seeing that other chick during your brief time apart.
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>>18444619
She was looking for a reason and this is good as any. If you stay together she'll grudge fuck some guy.

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A friend of mine wants to start smoking weed to relax

Should i try to reason with her (i don't like people doing drugs), or should i not give a fuck and mind my own business ?
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>>18444573
Tell her your opinion, but that's it then leave it. But your right. I was the same way I started smoking weed to relax after work EVERYDAY eventually. I got lazy and it ruined my everyday life. I didn't do the things I wanted to. You start to rely on it like a crutch. She's going down a bad path.
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>>18444603
Your such a numb lol
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>>18444616
A numb? This is what I'm talking about op weed fucks with you.
Also another thing weed fucks with your self control

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