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>>18445015
If you are female and not absolutely hideous, you will be able to find a Comp. Sci. job easily, even with the projected decrease in programming jobs in the next 5 years. Without a doubt, some thirsty betas will hire you, and treat you like an important part of the team even if you are not.

Having a good GPA helps, too; so you may as well go for the CS degree.

>>18445036
Does this mean I'm going to have to endure sexual harrasement on the daily?

>>18445041
yes
what did u expect from field that 90% are beta and omegas

>>18444826
>So femanons, what would you say if the man of your dreams asked you to become a femcuck?
That he can solemnly fuck off.

>>18444826
Considering the way that /r9k/ goes on about short genetics, it will be very interesting to see the replies to this post.

>>18444826
I don't want to be pregnant ever, but if I had a gun to my head, I'd pick carrying another woman's fertilized egg because my mental health genes are atrocious and I could never inflict that on someone else like my parent's did to me.

If you don't watch porn, you wouldn't know what to say. Then you might slip up and call him a fag or something lol.

>>18444551
May I ask what exactly does he say? I have no clue how to talk dirty as a guy anyway. Just asking out of curiosity though.

>>18444557
I do watch porn but it's mostly hentai and the phrases used don't really apply to our sex...

>>18444558
I wouldn't recommend starting off by calling her a bitch or anything, start off with telling her what you want to do to her. Like I want to put my dick inside you. Your pussy feels amazing. Ride my clock. Cum all over me...

>>18444509
They desire it just as much as men - it is merely their biological imperative to want sex.
There is a larger supply of guys than girls, and a much larger supply of guys than attractive girls; and this leaves the men who aren't currently getting any to browse 4chan alone.

>>18444509
Women want sex.
They just don't want to get 459 dick pics and horny texts in broken english.

>>18444559
>>18444567
Still women play hard to get while guys even chads jump at every opportunity and go through hoops to get any.
I havent heard a popular guy complain about do much female attention but even she-whales act like divas

>>18444452
It's not gonna happen m8

You need to be superior to her future husband in every single way possible.

>>18444452
I only fuck women in relationships and have for 7 years but they come to me and they don't want to leave their relationship and I don't want that either, dozens of them. If this girl isn't already dropping hints or flat out let you know she's open you are wasting your time.

Nothing's wrong with masturbating.

Everything in moderation.

>>18444448
get your heart broken.

>>18444448
Try to limit your exposure to sexual media (easier in some ways, difficult in others). Dwell on the negative aspects of the whole thing: some lonely guy struggling to cum in his sad room looking at moving pictures; it's pathetic. Dwell on the unattractiveness of the body: pieces of hair, fat, blood, phlegm, bile, muscle, spit, excrement, all wrapped up, and you find it attractive? Imagine that same body, old and shriveled, diseased, reeking, dead and rotten - this is the fate of all bodies.

>>18444413
Well, according to the Dunning-Krüger principle, dumbs shits tend to overestimate their own abilities, whereas capable people consistently underestimate and doubt themselves.

Also, IQ tests do give a good indication of skills that are frequently tied to intelligence, such as abstract thinking, discerning patterns, etc.. The problem is that- as with anything - you can "get better" at solving IQ tests by practicing, but obviously that doesn't mean you're actually getting more intelligent.

>>18444420
Pretty much this. If you didn't have the knowledge to doubt yourself, you wouldn't. What does that tell you?

Confidence is about being proudly stupid and why women swear it's such an important quality; what would they do if they actually had to think, all the time? >Fuuuck.

>>18444420
>capable people consistently underestimate and doubt themselves.
Yeah, but I can explain it with my low self-esteem.
>"get better" at solving IQ
That's way I try to solve them as rare as possible. Last time I did it was 5 years ago (actually today, but before that was 5 years ago).
But, there is also another problem. What test is considered to be reliable? I made a test with just 30 questions and I doubt that the results are truthful.
>>18444428
But if everybody would tell a dumb person that he is dumb, his self confidence will disappear, I believe.

did you lie or not

>>18444359
well if you got the doctors papers then you can screw him over or even sue him

>>18444359
it wasnt your fault tho he screamed for no legit reason

>>18444255
How did you think she'd react to the "I like other women" talk?

When I was in a relationship, I thought about no other women than my gf, not once. It lasted for 8 years before I was cheated on....

>>18444264
she reacted better than my Ex, it took her some working through, but she is accepting it and is approaching it problemsolving now, e.g. I should tell her, if my need to have something with another woman goes up, so we can find a solution that is working for both of us. Like going to a prostitute or whatever. She wants the security, that I don't do anything behind her back and don't leave her for another girl, because in her words, she doesn trust other women with trying to win me over, if I give them a chance.

Sex is one thing, a relationship is something else, at least in my book a relationship revolves more around bringing up children together.

Take a year to just take a bunch of different classes and see what you like. Unless you're in the US and it's going to cost you a shitload.

Also I should note that I'm Australian going to an Australian university so I can't do any of that 'undeclared' major crap as much as I'd like to.

>>18444119
Jeez thanks for the quick reply, but I have to go into uni with a certain degree program and a major.

>how do I get her back

You don't. Stop being such a whiny bitch and move on with your life. Cut off all contact with her and get back into the dating game.

>>18444109
I'm sorry bro. Nothing lasts forever

>>18444116
This op read this over and really take it in.

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>>18444070
I guess the old thread is no longer bumping so

Guys:

How long on average does it take you to cum? Lost my virginity to my gf who I've been dating for almost a year now and it can take me anywhere from 20 minutes to an hour of penetration to cum. My gf loves it, though sometimes her orgasms get really intense and put her out of commission and I wind up left unsatisfied. This is the literal opposite of how I expected it to be and I'm not sure if bae just has an under stimulating vag or if my dick is just armored.

Girls if you married your current partner would you take his last name?

Guy here

>>18444072
While in her vagina? I can't say for sure but it's not enough for my liking
5 minutes max maybe?
More than once, I came as soon as I entered her then tried to keep going

>>18444082
My GF already said she would take my name (we're not even engaged yet)

Liking yourself is a big part of being confident. And to like yourself, you have to be a good version of yourself

Confidence is a meme invented by women. It roughly means "everything an attractive guy wants to do and does". If the guy is ugly it's instead being needy, childish or inconsiderate.

>>18444066
There is absolutely some truth to this.

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>>18443948
Don't get caught bro. Leave your morals in the trash, they're only there to stop you from doing what you want. Listen to your gut. Most of the known morals stopping you here are instilled in you by society, make your own and your life will be better.

Don't get the prostitute pregnant unless you're rolling in cash though!

>>18443956
>tfw i have morals that do nothing but stop me from enjoying things
>tfw i can't get rid of them even if i wanted to...

feels bad man...

>>18443948
but honestly op unless your girl is the type that could ever do this to you it's not worth it at all.

>>18443948
>I have a gf of many years
Everything else you write doesn't mean a fucking thing. Its nearly impossible to find a trustworthy partner so only an idiot would jeopardize that for one nut lasting 30 minutes and you have to pay for that nut

>>18443876
you can send me an email I guess. Make a dummy account, post it here, I will mail it with my dummy account, you respond with pic, I give you honest opinion. No privacy lost

>>18443876
In theory, yes. You could make an honest comparison of yourself against women who are known to be attractive/desirable to men.

In practice however, not many people are able to judge their own looks objectively, and you'd also need to filter out the whole photoshop/excessive make up thing where the celebrities are concerned.

Easier would be to just post a picture, is what I'm saying.

>without posting a pic here?

Nope, in fact you can't even share a pic in dm's with some one here because that is seen as even more creepy.

the only other way is to describe your personality and what you might look like and for people to crush on the "idea" of what you might be like.