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I'm a guy and I'm having trouble with sex/masturbating.
For the past few months I just haven't been able to cum/reach an orgasm unless I'm almost breaking girl friend's pelvis with my own hips or almost giving my dick friction burns. Why can't I feel pleasure from sex and masturbation without having to be overly intense about it all?
I've tried all kinds of different lubes, sex toys, even my girl friend hasn't managed to get me off on her own. She feels so helpless and disheartened, thinking I don't like her or think she's disgusting because I can't get off without going to pure extremes. But it just isn't true, she's gorgeous and I love her. It's just like my body took a weird turn and I want to go back.
Anyone else ever have a problem like this?
Any solutions?
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when you jack off do you deathgrip?
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Yes.
Try jerking off to gay porn. Don't be surprised.
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>>18443249
stop looking at porn and jacking off so much. A lot of guys have this problem its called death grip. Your GF will resent you and want to leave you if this goes on any longer, so give up the porn. I am speaking from experience.
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How do I get my gf to be less self-conscious about her boobs? She's fine otherwise but never lets me touch them or really even see them (she usually wears one of my t-shirts while we have sex).
We've been dating for two years and I've seen her naked before and they're completely normal tits with nothing wrong with them. The relationship is just great otherwise.
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>>18443244
have u talked about it with her? like in a serious tone, it may be a psychological trauma
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>>18443244
Honestly, what size are they? Large enough for her to feel they're too big for her size or small enough for her to think "all men love gigantic boobs"?
The all men love large breasts was the issue with my girl friend when we started dating because hers are really small.
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>>18443260
"I just don't like it" is the most answer I can get before she gets mad.
We never fight or have like shouting matches about anything but I think if I pushed the subject, it would turn into one.
>>18443262
They're completely proportional to her. Bit on the larger size but not monstrous. Her bras are mostly 75D, european sizes.
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How do you get women to actually like you ? 2017-06-22 02:28:35 Post No.18443137
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How do you get women to actually like you ?
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It just looks tricky to me.
What are you even suppose to say to her, if you don't know her ?
Should you use/come up with pick up lines ?
Should you learn from PUA's ?
Should you smile, say "hi" and ask her how her day was, even though she'll mostly say "good " ?
Would it be a good idea to ask her for her number, if you're sure you'll never meet her again ?
Lastly, if you manage to have a good conversation with her (during your 1st encounter with her) should you ask her to go on a date with you ?
For example:
>Talking to you today was fun, let's grab a coffee this Friday .
>There's this cool new movie airing this Saturday, lets watch it and grab a snack afterwards.
>Do you want to get a coffee, go to the movies or the beach, this weekend ?
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>>18443137
This is going to be a horrible response but in all honesty it really does depend on the person. Everyone is different and responds in different ways.
If you're going to use words to pave your way then you need to know just how good you are at talking to people. If you're really awkward then you may come across as weird or even creepy, that's why people always say to have confidence. Not just in what you say but how you present yourself. This doesn't just apply to women, it applies to men too.
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Women are complex creatures anon. They tend to respond better when you don't seem interested in them
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Just say hi, anon. Ask about something. And don't get overconfident, if she's not interested she's not interested.
NEVER use pickup lines or anything to do with pickup artists.
Yes, be polite.
Yes, but only if she likes you too.
Don't ask after the first encounter, just do it when it feels natural.
Those greentext lines are all decent.
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How do people just know how to get sex/intimacy? 2017-06-19 04:32:40 Post No.18434740
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How do people just know how to get sex/intimacy?
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I genuinely do not understand how some guys just radiate sexuality and attract women. I don't get how people just know when to touch someone, or be sexual, or how to make a sexual move.
I've been told I'm pretty attractive and athletic despite self confidence issues, but I've only had sex once after this girl basically begged me for it. If I'm attractive shouldn't girls around me be seeking me out in obvious ways? I don't mean that in an entitled way. New people tell me I'm quiet and I've definitely passed up some perfect opportunities to get laid out of shyness.
I'm afraid of misreading girls just being nice or just checking me out as signs of romantic/sexual attraction because I've had that happen a lot in the past so I don't know when/how to act on it.
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>>18434740
You're afraid of rejection. It's a natural part of life and it sucks but you get over it and feel good that you at least tried.
The difference between you and "Chad" is that Chad actually takes risk and tries despite the consequences. If a girl doesn't like you she will of course let you know and then you move on to the next.
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Aaw I love that picture of ranma.
Anyways, I think having a small glass of alcohol can help reduce insecure thoughts.
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You should turn to alcholism and just screw the first girl that gives you attention. Like make it a drunk mission. Seriously start drunk driving to her, your efforts will be rewarded.
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Alright, so I'm your regular depressed teen. I've tried getting help and nothing is working. I've gone to a therapist and tried to pick my life up. However, no one will hire me for whatever reason, girls are usually disgusted from me just trying to talk to them and I don't really have a goal in life, even though I've looked desperately. Help?
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perhaps you should put your trust in Jesus Christ, He can change you for the better
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>>18448807
Thanks but Jesus doesn't seem inclined to help.
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>>18448808
pray for Jesus to enter your life and clean house. I asked and a completely changed life. I follow Christ now.
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>don't have facebook, so people think I'm weird
>if I create an account I'll have like ten friends, no pictures, no content and "joined in 2017" so I'll look like a huge loser
What should I do?
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>>18448635
I don't have Facebook either. I feel totally morally opposed to its ideological bubble creating algorithms. Its pretty much a terrorist organisation imho.
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You are fucked either way but you can be a smart ass and tell them that from statistics the average age of a facebook user has risen to 40 years and that this platform has praticly become myspace.
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>>18448645
It's shit but everyone has it and if you don't you're creepy or have no friends or whatever
>>18448647
Fuck. Yeah I know no young people actually use facebook anymore but it's still something everyone has.
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How can I take advantage of men online for money without becoming a cam whore? Would people pay to have a fake Facebook gf or a Skype friend?
What was the easiest money you've ever made online?
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Play vidya while recording yourself live on twitch and even post it on youtube. Loads of betacucks will reward you with gibs.
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>>18448549
Too bad I'm shit with games.
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>>18448554
They don't care.
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Should I forget she, and how? 2017-06-23 01:28:41 Post No.18448497
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Should I forget she, and how?
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7 years ago, when I entered middle school, I've seen that girl, and fell in love for she, as I was young I was not really thinking about having a relation, but It was very very rare that I see her in school, idk where she was staying at.
For the finals exam of the end of the middle school, she was in a classroom face to me, so we were staring at each other. I didn't waited that she ends her test to talk to she, so when I've ended my test, I left. After that I didn't saw her again for 2 years.
Then the year before the last year of high school (1 year ago), she sat in the place next to me in the bus while there was other places in the bus, but I haven't did anything and I'm sure she wanted that I talk to she.
Then for the last year of high school (so this year), I was still looking for she, but I've always only seen her in the bus (only 1 day/week).So for the lasts weeks before finals exams, I forced myself to talk to she when I would have the opportunity to do it, but it was too late I never saw her again. Same during the finals exams week, I never saw she. Now it's over.
We've never talked with that girl. I only knew her first name. I've stalked she and found where she lives, the fact is she lives near to a middle city (which where I live is seen as a big city) in a "lost" area, so I can't go there and say "oh hi you live here? i love you since we were 11" it would be scary and awkward .
Btw she doesn't have facebook (neither do I). I'm pretty sure we were made to be together, as if we were the same in a certain way, but now it's too late and I can't to forget she. I feel completely destroyed because I only dream to be with she for the eternity, and I feel very regretful because she might think that I wasn't interested. She was the best girl that I could ever have. I had 7 fucking years to talk to she, and I didn't do anything because I'm a coward.
I need help what should I do?
(sorry for bad english)
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First of all, practice your English. It was hell to read.
Second of all, if you didn't talk to her until now... And you have no way of contacting it... The obvious thing is to drop it.
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>>18448497
>liked someone for 7 years
>never spoke to them
>convinced that you are in love with her and were made to be together despite knowing absolutely nothing about her
>someone you know nothing about and haven't spoken to
Get a grip OP, what you have isn't even oneitis, it's just pathetic.
Forget her and talk to other women, you don't have a chance with her and you have reinforced your pathetic behaviour to the extent that you will never manage to engage with her socially.
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>>18448639
I'm really sorry for my bad english.
She will always be in my head as the first beautiful girl who potentially loved me, I can't to move on I'm stuck with these thoughts.
>>18448660
I know that I'm pathetic.
I don't know she, but I know her behaviour, that's why I have the best feelings for that girl.
And when I've stalked she on the internet, I've only found that she was on youtube/google+, so I know that she's feeling alone (by considering the song she's listening and her "description" on google+)
I can't to found a woman like I'm looking for.
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My wife is now pro white 2017-06-23 01:24:40 Post No.18448491
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Now every 10th word out of her mouth is something to the effect of
"More White babies"
She's already pregnant but it's like it's not enough for her
We already planned on having more kids before she was redpilled but it's like it flipped a switch in her head and now she is pretty much all consumed with having kids and raising kids
She says she's never been happier in her entire life and never will go back to work after she takes maternity leave which is fine for me but I'm just wondering if this is normal/temporary because it's actually really nice.
If I keep putting babies in her will she stay like this?
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That's just a pregnancy hormones spike. Wait until she's dead tired taking care full time of one baby only.
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Please God let us have one genuine adv thread with real workable advice.
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Wait till the baby arrives.
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Should I be suspicious of this? I have never encountered anything like it.
FYI: Polish lingerie model with prominent Instagram presence
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>>18448242
whole fucking day of taking care of a bitch for one fucking drink
sounds like a shitty deal
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>>18448242
Maybe ask her for proof?
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>>18448272
She seems legit.
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Female perspectives on open relationships 2017-06-23 11:15:11 Post No.18448228
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Female perspectives on open relationships
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Is an open relationship an ideal situation for the vast majority of women?
They get a boyfriend who buys them gifts and provides emotional support ( and occasionally sex) whilst getting to fuck plenty of hot guys.
Can /adv/ give me any reason why a girl would feel uncomfortable or wouldn't want to be in an open relationship, apart from religious reasons?
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>>18448228
>They get a boyfriend who buys them gifts and provides emotional support ( and occasionally sex) whilst getting to fuck plenty of hot guys.
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>>18448228
I don't find it appealing at all. But I'm naive enough to believe in true love.
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somewhat looked down upon by society, but this is changing these days.
the one thing that matters most to girls is what everyone else thinks of them
Are you getting cucked mate?
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I fucked a prostitute while extremely drunk. How do I move on from this? Am I now a disgusting creep and bad person?
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>>18448149
yupp, welcome to the club
Upside is that you are now ready to rid yourself of even more of the morals society has installed in your mind, and live more free to do what you want
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>>18448149
Have You been checked for any disease?
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>>18448167
She made me wear a condom and was very particular about that but I will do.
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How to make your chick blow your dick 2017-06-23 10:31:00 Post No.18448136
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How to make your chick blow your dick
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She don't wanna blow any trick to make that happen
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>>18448136
tell her a story of what happened to the last girl who didn't want to blow you.
Either that or imply that you will find someone else who will
or tell her it tastes like strawberries
or if she's into fitness and diet, exaggurate on how much protein there is in your sperm
one of these HAS to work
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>>18448136
>how do I trick a woman into blowing
Unless she's actually autistic no way short of begging my guy
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Find a girlfriend that actually cares about you.
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Have I become a psychopath? 2017-06-23 10:27:17 Post No.18448130
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Have I become a psychopath?
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constantly bullied over my(Afghan)refugee status and black skin color (in Pakistan), sexually abused by my own aunt (my=age 10) and attempted being raped (age 11) by my own teacher (never told anybody).Since then i don’t feel any empathy but can fake it. When I went to the funeral of my aunt (age 12) to Kabul, I felt no sadness. As life went on i became more cold, only those people who i would think can benefit me in short or long term could be my friend. but when the benefit is received, i don't really care about them. i don’t feel any sort of empathy but can fake it. I enjoy emotionally raping people these days. hahahaha.. i love it.. everyone around me is so stupid.
"pic not related"
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>>18448130
Don't worry, I think that's normal for people with black skin
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>>18448138
Black according asian standards. Not black like a nigger
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How old are you?
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I tend to self sabotage my relationships with guys. I get some sort of power when I know that they have feelings for me and then I abuse them using that knowledge. At the same time, I want a boyfriend and a normal relationship. What's wrong with me :/
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You're an idiot and a bad person. If you are aware of it, you should be able to know not to do it.
Fucking work on your personality and don't be a cunt.
This kind of people just piss me off.
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Visit a shrink, and stop getting into relationships until you got figured out how to stop doing it.
You will never have a normal healthy relationship if you sabotage your SO
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>>18448093
its how female psyche is today.
> be me
> meet qt brunette with a pretty smile, love her eyes and nose
> she is very shy, has severe health problems (back, feet, knees etc.)
> start flirting with her, hold her hand, give her hugs and talk a lot
> we start hooking up in secret
> tells me she never thought I'd even be interested in talking to her
> thinks she's ugly and will never have a loving bf
> I love helping her with everything
> carry her when she can't walk (am pretty fit)
> fall in love with her crazy hard
> feel like my main objective in life is making sure she's well
> she realizes this
> thinks I suck because I like her so much (because she thinks she sucks)
> cheat on me with my best friend to make me dump her
> I forgive her because I've never felt this way for a girl before
> she dumps me and starts treating me like shit
ran into her a year later, she's lonely and miserable of course, this cycle will just repeat for her