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My husband loves superman. He's 35 years old and doesn't own anything superman related that I can reference from. For his birthday I would like to get him a stack of the old superman comics. I know nothing about comics or superheros at all.

I want to get him enough comics to read for a bit, so not unreasonably priced (cheap enough to buy a decent amount)

I want them to be old enough to be the superman he remembers.

And I would prefer of they were common enough that I could get a compleate run... say book 1,2,3, etc that he could continue if he wanted.

Any suggestions? I'm not sure if this is where I should be posting this.
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Edit: I don't think the value of the comics is important to him. It's more a nostalgia thing. He's never owned anything like this since he was a kid.
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I would just go to a Barnes and Noble and buy one of those complete volumes of comics. Just pick the oldest one you can find
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Kingdom Come is my favorite Superman comic. Artwork by legendary Alex Ross, it's a fantastic story that highlights the unique challenges of being the world's ultimate authority. You can thumb through it in a day, but really any comic won't keep you occupied for too long.

Your local comic shop should have some good suggestions.

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I went to Croatia for vacations alongside the church I usually go to, no, god is giving me enough advice for me, this is for someone I care about, this person... He has acted weird since the beginning

I've asked my group leader if has some problems, he said that he has something psychological but he hasn't specified what and said that he's making progress

Now there are a few problems I have with him, he's very talkative, he poses random questions very often and specially to me, which it ain't good for me since I am not a fan of social interactions, during the car ride I've told him that if he wanted something he should've tap my shoulder (I had my headphones, pic releated since I was listening to Kavinsky), but every time I knew he wanted something without him tapping my shoulder, I would remove my headphones but he would still tap my shoulder... Even when I looked him in the eyes... How do I deal with him without letting him down?
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>>18535498
What sort of questions?
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>>18535513

>Anon, do you know any complicated math formula?

>*Asks me how I feel in english, despite we all speak german and he asked me 4 times already*
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>>18535534
lol aw

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Is it possible to go through some kind of treatment that removes a bad memory? I've been remembering something for a while that is screwing with my head for a while. Any tips or suggestions are appreciated.
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>>18535457
Hypnotized.
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>>18535457

not really. you can try going to therapy to deal with it, but they say you never really get over your issues, its a life long process of finding the healthiest way to handle the emotions, not to forget them.

why what are you trying to forget?
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Look into EMDR therapy. It won't literally make you forget the memory but it takes a lot of the emotional load off. It's used in PTSD.

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I am a 22 year old guy and i am trying to quit masturbating. But it is so hard for me because i have masturbated lots of nights before i fall asleep and now my mind doesnt shut up unless i masturbate. I try to not masturbate around 2 3 AM i give up. What can i do?
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>>18535388
Stop being a child and start being a man
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Work out as hell to get tired before going to sleep, instead of relying on your dick.
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>>18535388
transform that energy

meditate or do some push ups when you feel the urge to masturbate

don't look at porn and don't edge

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I got dates from online dating but every time before going to the date I felt uneasy. Like I am desperate so I can't get a date in real life and have to use it like a loser.
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I dunno, at least you get fucking dates
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>>18535368
I know right. I just can't get it out of myself. I think of what people think when they found out I met my SO on online dating.
I'm so pathetic I know
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I have a similar view too op I have too much pride I think something would happen if I went out to parties but I don't want to fuck or date a roastie

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I owe 2,800 to my credit card company.

I have no job, money, or assets.

What should I do?
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Find a job.
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>>18535359
OP why would you use your credit card when you know you do not have a job, money and asset!? 1st find a job or plead to your parents.
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>>18535359
Pay your minimum until you get some

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Does GPA matter?
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>>18535293
No. Why would it?

inb4 a bunch of triggered losers who get their self-esteem from being nerds try to debate this simple answer
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>>18535293
I hear in America it goes up to 4 only and anything else is basically a fail?

I was graded out of 100 and a few points on that definitely counts as the robots will bin your CV below a certain cut off.
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>>18535295
Same in America. I know cs degrees that had shit GPAs and now they clean keyboards and reset routers for 25k a year because a human never even sees their resume.

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I was using my girlfriend's iPhone to browse some stuff on the internet and I found that she has a bookmark for a website that has cheating and affair fantasy sex stories. This was the only sexual related bookmark she had, everything else was related to her work and school.

Should I be worried? She seems like she is very loyal and told me past experiences of how old boyfriends cheated on her and that she hated it. She takes really good care of me and always supports me with everything that I do.

I love her very much but I'm a little worried now. I haven't asked her about it yet and I don't know if I should.
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>>18535166
Why were you browsing her bookmarks...?
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>>18535166

Fantasies can be just fantasy. People are into all kinds of fucked up shit, but don't intend to actually do it. If she was actually cheating or planned on cheating, she probably wouldn't need to fantasize about it.
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OP do you realize that she might look those things up because she has a sexual fascination with it after her trauma? It is not uncommon at all for victims (of cheating but also abuse, rape etc) to sort of internalize what happened to them and feel drawn to the narrative sexually because it evokes such strong feelings in them (even if they are in a big part negative).

The very fact that she has it bookmarked and not hidden away somewhere tells me that if she really likes the idea of cheating on you, she's dumb as a rock. But I have a hunch that she fantasizes about being cheated on.

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Why can I not shake the feeling that reincarnation is real? There's just this weird gut feeling I have that the void calls us back after we die, just as a different being completely. Why are we born at all? WHY
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Fear of death.
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>>18535163

Religious instinct exists to help people handle existential dread. How you do it is entirely up to you and no one can give you ready answers.
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Because you don't like the idea nothing happens when you die. It's human... And stupid.

One day my dad was throwing things breaks things calling my mother obscenities for 3 straight hours. Then the landlord came over and then my dad said something along the lines ofif my mother just does what he tells her to do then everything would have been fine. She leaves then he proceeded to continue telling her to leave the house. So we leave and my aunt says we can stay with her as long as we need until we get back on our feet. Then a month later my mom moves back into the house with my dad and leaves me at my aunts house.
This whole situation has happened repeatedly my whole life. We leave because he is breaking things and yelling at us to leave then he says he's sorry and we are back home with him. When we left my mom said we would live in peace without him and that she was willing to move to Texas to start over.
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>>18535139
Really idk why I posted that but, I feel betrayed that she would go back to him after all that happened.
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>>18535146
I really want to disown both my parents and never see them again but then my mom would be alone with my dad.
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>>18535149
The small talk they have with each other makes me really angry because they talk like nothing ever happened.

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hi /adv/
I really didn't think it would come to this. I need your advice on which way to go.
Let me start from the beginning. I'm a little over 30 and have a fiance. We've been together for about 9 years. She's a bit younger than me. I proposed to her last spring. She's very caring and quite beautiful. We had an on and off relationship before, living in different cities, breaking up, she had somebody and so did I. But we've always cared for each other. I think she would make the perfect mother. She's a good person, very fragile and emotional yet very decisive. I, on the other hand, consider myself to be a shitty person. I often get drunk, had a drug problem, cheated on her a lot - that's why she left me but I begged her to to come back (it took a year and she moved back in, some months later I proposed thinking I've finally grown up and I'm ready for a family with her).
3 years ago I started a new job. Things were going fine, I even met a girl I had a brief relationship with when my long-term gf left me. There was also another girl I didn't really pay much attention to. She was quite cute and fun. Very happy and quirky. I'm more of a quiet type. She kept to herself and I had my problems too. But suddenly we became very close to each other. Talking constatnly and having fun at work. Our conversations were really random and it seemed to us like only we understand each other. She was engaged. I was about to get engaged, we didn't think our conversations were any kind of romatnic or sexual. A year ago she said she's quitting her job to live with her fiance in another city. On the last day of her job we had a party and after everybody left the two of us found ourselves kissing for hours. I came back home really confused and angry at myself. I was supposed to end my bullshit and commit to my fiance so I texed the girl that we should live our own lives and stop going deeper into a potential affair.
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>>18535103
Months passed and we were still talking online everyday avoiding the most important topic, just sharing our everyday problems and cracking jokes. So came winter and she decided to visit our old workplace. The moment we met I got all sweaty and my head started spinning. We went out with a group of workmates but found ourselves hoding hands at the bar one time. After that we started calling each other on the phone. My fiance was completely unaware of her existence. Days after we met the girl from work left her fiancee. I was shocked but tried to comfort her. I asked my friend for advice and he told me to go on a date with her. We met a few times (she came to my city after work, I lied that I had met with friends, etc.) We had the best time ever, kissed and really developed a relationship. I was determined to tell the truth to my fiancee and one day told that I wasn't sure about our future. There was somebody else and I didn't know how to handle it. She got very mad and urged me to make a decision, but I didn't want to leave her.
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>>18535113
We have a flat toghether, we were planning our marriage, I was really desperate to win her back just a year ago, I felt I couldn't leave her for a random girl from work. We had great history together, all our friends are common, I was afraid to lose all that.
I denied any feelings for the other girl and promised to cut contact with her. This would, however, repeat. The girl from work would drop by to my city every couple of weeks and we'd see each other. On our final "date" a few monhts back we even said we love each other, but the next day my my fiancee found out that we'd met and was seriously pissed. Again I promised to cut ties with the girl from work, and this time she got really angry at me for breaking the ties with her.
In the next months I did all I could to live a normal life and avoid thinking about the other girl. But everyday I wake up I see her and I find myself consantly thinking about her. My fiance got sick in the meantime and demands hospital treatment. She urges me to have kids with her. Sometimes I feel like going crazy.
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>>18535115
I did all I could to ignore the girl from work but last week she would again visit our old workplace (we still have no contact). Knowing she'd come (she sent an email to everybody from work) I left early. Now it's been a few days since and I don't know what to do. I can't think straight. I am obsessed with this girl, but somehow I know she's trouble. I don't want to hurt my fiance, but I've been acting weird again and I think she knows what's been going on in my head. I don't want her to suffer because of me and I know I've promised her a lot.
Today I found myself writing a long email to the girl from work about how we should start talking to each other again and again pretend to be friends. I guess I miss her. /adv/ what's your opinion on the situation? what would you do? Should I send her that email?

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Ok, so some fags and I started an IPride joke.
It goes like this:
>Update iPhone to IOS 11
>Put IPhone in toaster
>It turns colorful
Reality:
>It fucks up your phone and may make it explode
My question is: How do you do this without getting sued or how do you do this legally?
I thought putting a disclaimer would work.
Would a disclaimer work?
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in case some idiot blows up his house or even dies
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>>18534937
What do?

How do I start seeing myself more as a sexual person?
Ya'll know people like pic related who just ooze that vibe. You just know Prince fucks well

The other day this problem manifested itself
>cute girl comes to my place
>we drink, we make out, we get naked
>she literally sucks my dick
>start being in disbelief
>is this really happening?
I'm way too self-conscious about everything which plays a big part in this as well.
I know it's probably natural for alot of people with normie upbringing to see themselves as sexual but I just don't and it's bringing me out of the moment
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pls respond
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Take pleasure in your body. Take sexy photos of yourself.

Take pride in what you wear. Dress nicely and groom yourself well.

Sexuality and confidence go hand in hand. You have to be proud of who you are. If you aren't, ask yourself what you need to change, and do it.

It's a cliche, but workout and getting in shape will do wonders for you
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>>18535009
yeah but there are guys who aren't even in shape and they just got that thing. I want that

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I am reasonably attractive and I don't think I'm too awful to be around, but I've always been extremely picky with guys. A lot of guys ask me out, but rarely someone I'd consider dating.

>inb4 Chad
It's not an issue with looks.

I decided to start hitting on the guys I like myself because it seems pretty unproductive to wait for them to do something, but I don't know how to do it in an "acceptable" way.
How forward should I be? Is flirting enough? Should I explicitly ask someone out? How do I make the first move without emasculating them?
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Try Bumble. That's where girls make the first move.
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>>18534856
I meant more in real life.
I am not a huge fan of dating apps and such.
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>>18534842
If a guy is emasculated by you asking them out then they're probably too uptight for you to have really liked later on anyways

Just be direct and make it clear you enjoy spending time with him

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I'm thirty years old. I got left behind by a twenty four year old ex of sorts who was my “friend”. That was nearly seven months ago and I still have nightmares about it from time to time. She was very much a partier and a party is where she threw it all away.

I admit I cried when I confronted her about it, she blamed it on me, compared me to the other guy and said he was doing more for her. I didn't know love was based on simply doing stuff all the time? And if it is, how could she forget all the big things I did for her? Anyway, I don't have anyone to talk to. My friends don't seem to care anymore and I feel like a burden to them. I tried setting up a therapist but it's expensive in my area, so I often go to church and just chill there by myself. I feel horrible, I tried to make things work but she just asked me what I was willing to do for her.

I asked her to give me one day you take her out, cook her favourite meal and give her all my time. But she said it wasn't enough and the other guy was taking her out to fancy restaurants all the time and buying her flowers. I...I just stopped because all her “I love you’s’ seemed to be based on what I did and not me. Anyway, I'm so lost guys. Usually I hit the gym in such cases, but her new bf goes to the same gym that I do and...I honestly scared? I'm terrified of seeing her or him and struggle to sleep/eat a lot. I just don't know why she was so mean and tore me down instead of just letting me go. It's like I never mattered to her at all. I feel stupid, used, dejected and worse off all? I hate myself for giving her a chance when all she ever did was party and drink till wee hours of the morning. And that's the worst part, for how angry I am at her, I'm angrier at myself.
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>>18534765
I was in your same boat my friend. I just got so fucken high and the shock went away. I was able to eat and sleep because of it
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>>18534781
But seven months? Is this normal? We were friends for two years before dating for 4 months. I think about the situation from time to time, but the nightmares are the biggest problem. I can't control them and they mess me up bad.
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>>18534799
Get high ass fuck

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