As a women, i am scared to go to college/uni because of the conspiracy theory that it is just a way to distract females from bringing up children and having a traditional family unit. As well as drowning them in debt...am I being paranoid?
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>>18573162
Hahahahahahaha
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Don't. You're clearly too stupid for it.
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>>18573177
I have a 90% average
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Well I've never been this disappointed,
/adv/ I need your opinions on what I should do to get this girl back. So a week ago her and I decided we wanted to have sex in her apartment while her mom was away. Everything was going well and she was enjoying it, but midway through the condom broke and she wasn't on birth control. We panicked and I ran to the store to buy the morning after pill. Two hours later I showed up in the parking lot and gave her the pill since her mom was back from work. I expected her to open it in my car, however she ended up taking it into the apartment and her mom found the box.
A few days later she texted me that she got her phone taken away. So I waited a few more days and she told me the pill worked and that her mom is made her go to therapy on Wednesday because she thought I had manipulated her. She tried and explain that this wasn't the case but her mom wasn't listening. So I told her I know that this whole thing happened between us but I hoped that we could still talk like we had before. She then told me that if it meant I wanted to have sex then it wasn't gonna happen. She told me before that she wanted to be in a relationship at some point and that she thinks we should consider it later but when we text it's kind of obvious that she's more reluctant to talk than usual.
Should I wait it out and text her or should I let her text me first? I really want to be more than friends since we used to get along so well but I don't know how to ease her suspicion if she thinks all I want is sex or how I should go about talking to her again.
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>>18573143
And you two used to talk a lot more before it happened right?
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>>18573183
Yeah it's kinda sad, we used to be best friends practically. We really enjoyed talking.
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god why are women such a huge pain
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My girlfriend and I have been broken up for a week now, she broke up with me. We agreed to stay friends for the time being, and during the whole week including the day of the breakup, we were still texting, calling, etc. A day after we broke up we were talking and I asked if she was still certain of her decision to leave me, to which she said right now she was, but sounds like that will change in the future. In addition, throughout our texting and calling she has been kind of giving me hope that we might get back together, because she would call me hon or babe without saying it was a typo or anything. So my question is how do I get her back?
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OP here, I will add that we have made plans to go out
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>>18573127
you don't.
cut off all contact, you are only making matters worse desu.
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Sounds like she wanted to play the field some more before deciding.
So it depends how much you love her after she decided she wanted to fuck other people for a bit. I would say no but it's your life.
What I would recommend is using this situation to do the same. Go out and meet people, have sex, see if this girl is worth the situation she put you in.
Can we get a breakout of where most posters are from and all?
>gender
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Do you think any of these things affect the way you give or take advice?
For me:
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I do think I'm more prone to giving advice here than taking it but my life in Vegas is pretty intense compared to someone who might need advice in small town America.
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>Do you think any of these things affect the way you give or take advice?
Absolutely, I'm still young and naive and live in a privileged first world country. I try to give unbiased and objective advice despite my limited perspective and life experience.
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>>18573096
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Probably a bit, but I wouldn't say that it effects me that much
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I've posted a lot of threads here in the past 2 months. The anons have always been right and told me the right thing to do.
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I'm obsessed with being right.
I constantly start shit with friends and family just to be right about things. I'll destroy someone I care about just so they know I'm right and they're wrong. This is something I've done for many years now and only just realizing it. What can I do about this?
Is it simply a matter of reflection and observation, to catch myself doing it and step back and remind myself I'm hurting people?
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>>18573086
Honestly? Kill yourself.
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>>18573086
It's a matter of you having having a deep need to be self validating that goes so deep that you are willing to risk relations for it. Find out why you need to be right all the time, do just try to cut the symptoms away.
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>>18573086
You have to decide if it's more important to you to be right, or to keep people in your life.
Let's say you start an argument. You win. Congratulations! Your prize? Resentment. Loneliness. If being right is worth that price, then you don't need to change your behaviors.
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Nearly 28, friendless, socially retarded, somewhere in England etc
Since my questions have may have been too broad for a site like 4chan. I'll narrow it down to something specific.
I need a decent career. Not a job where I'm currently spending stacking shelves and taking shit from managers who are increasing their bonuses by slashing our £8 an hour overtime.
I've been talking to a few people and they say with my (5 year old) 2.2 maths degree, that I only really have two options; accountancy or "something" to do with computers like tech support.
It's nearly August so I have less than a month to put what little money I have into a course that pushes me forward into one of these careers.
So what's a good path, accountacy or "something" in IT? Is there a viable third option that doesn't cost a lot of money or time? Time mostly cos I can almost feel life escaping from me hour by hour.
If I land something I'll drop a few steam vouchers.
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Accounting definitely will require you to study more, whereas if you already know something about computers, it shouldn't be too hard to land yourself an IT job.
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Programming costs nothing to learn and makes good money
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>>18572205
>Accounting definitely will require you to study more
Can't be harder than regular maths right?
Studying will probably get my brain working again, working in this shithole I pretty sure has destroyed some brain cells.
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>Programming costs nothing to learn and makes good money
But it seems broad, like what do I focus on?
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> be me
> attractive female
> can't stop thinking about ex-boyfriend
> he loathes me and wishes I'd drop dead
More specifically I can't stop thinking about his dick. I (sometimes) miss him, his voice, and company. What I miss most is his dick, the guy hates me. Would he hate me even more if I contacted the faggot to send me cock pics? I'm an attractive girl who can get any guy but I want him, am I being the female version of a KEK? Should I just let him go?
I know he roams on here from time to time. You know who this is if you read this. I miss you and I'm sorry. Contact me or give me the okay to contact you.
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fuck off whore. just kidding its chill even though youre a crazy bitch. text me
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>>18571861
You sound pretty pathetic, honestly.
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>>18571865
I don't care about sounding pathetic, he's done far worse. I miss the fucker and still love him. I'd offer him the world and more in a heartbeat. He's the only dickhead that's ever put me in my place.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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>>18571468
I really wish you would stop making this shit.
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>be me
>fugged a girl I met on tinder twice, once in November, and multiple times over a weekend in March
>ask her about having a LDR since she lives like 250 miles away
>she shuts me down
>ask her if we can still be friends
>it's fine
>she's in my town now
>we went out today, it was fun, kissed each other on the cheek when she left
Wat do? I do like her and want to fugg her again, but since we agreed on friendship I'm not sure wat do. I tought about aiming for a kiss and apologizing if she evades it. She's like the first person I fucked casually and desu I'm not sure how to keep a friendship if that's the case or whatever the hell is the etiquette for situations like these
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>>18571468
Girls
I've been fucking the same girl for 3 years, haven't been able to get her to cum. She always says it was really good after we fuck. My dick is long enough to hit her cervix but I feel like it's kinda thin. She doesn't masturbate and doesn't give me much feed back other then "I don't know. I'm not sure" she loves getting her tits sucked and it make her really fucking wet, i do it as long as i can before she gets too impatient. she doesnt like getting eaten out for long, ill be down there for 2 mins and shell said "put your dick in. Please put it in already." She really enjoys it but get frustrated and just wants to be fucked. Im the first guy she ever fucked and she's the second girl for me. What are some tips that could help me help her cum?
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Hey guys. I really need your help. I don't look super handsome but also not bad, probably 6/10 But I'm always and I mean it, always a nice guy. That's exactly the issue. I've written with a lot of girls and met a few but they always choose another one because they say I'm too nice. Fuck that. I don't want to be replaced anymore because I give respect and say nice things. Help me guys, give me advices to be a player and f*ck them girls. I have had enough of being the nice one, cause nowadays girls don't respect gentlemen anymore. Could you guys please give advices as pics or books Or videos that can help me change myself quickly.
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women with class (if you have the money and personality to get with them) still respect tradition and men who behave like gentlemen. they will get bored with someone who kisses their ass, though. flattery is a suspicious and immature way of getting close to someone.
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you're confusing being a gentleman with being a pushover m8
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How can I deal with depression, anxiety and low self-esteem? 2017-07-29 08:59:43 Post No.18568652
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How can I deal with depression, anxiety and low self-esteem?
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My mental health issues have interfered significantly in my life and I've held myself back in so many areas. I'm stuck in a vicious cycle and don't know how to break out of it.
Sometimes I can't stop thinking about negative thoughts and scenarios I have in my mind. Other times I start crying even if I'm having a great day. I feel like my friends could help me, but I'm too scared to confront them about this. I have a hard time expressing myself to people because it feels unnatural for me.(Maybe because I'm scared of losing part of my identity)
I want this nightmare to end.
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I go through periods of severe depression. It's bad enough that it feels like despair. The best way to describe it is fresh heartbreak.
I make it through by remembering constantly that there are people who care about me, and if I went away it would be devastating for them. Accepting that I'm like this has helped a lot too.
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I feel the same way, but I feel like they wouldn't care one way or another. They would probably just brush it off and pay attention to their phones. I like talking to them, but for some odd reason they don't trust me or even care what I have to say.I don't know what is going to happen to me if I keep behaving like this.
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>>18568652
It's OK, really is, OP. To have mental problems is fine. You are fine as you are. Don't listen to all these retards around you who tell you that you are a pussy or a loser. This is you, the way you are. If your mental problems are causing you issues in work/school, you could benefit from change in your life, until you hit the spot where you are in a safe, good environment that fits you. Just don't allow yourself to suffer for too long if you feel bad about your circumstance. Cut the toxic people in your life who make fun of you, because in fact, they are the pretentious asshats requiring you to wear a mask at all times, while you are genuine in your feelings and emotions. Always keep your innermost thoughts to yourself unless you trust the person, but never pretend you are somebody you are not.
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Need advice on where to post about pranking people into my religion xd
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I am really attached to my partner and he is literally the only friend that lives in my area that i have, my other friends live at least a few towns away, and I need to stop being so needy but im not sure how to stop
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Visibly depressed
Anyone so depressed they can't hide it? I can only laugh when i'm around like 2 friends. I feel so jaded and worn out, it's just hard to get by.
All i hear from depressed people are things like "i hate having to put on a happy face when i'm depressed", or "i may smile but i'm not happy.
I can't genuinely smile and put on any kind of show. I simply don't have the energy for it. I feel slow as fuck too.
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Posting from office currently but it's a separate corner office all for myself, so there is little socializing involved except some short conversations with in-house clients.
I feel incredibly lonely and depressed atm too. Low energy as well. I didn't use to be like this, but current life circumstances (had to come back to my small hometown and such) have left me without friends and lonely.
Wish I could meet you OP, shared loneliness could be easier to tolerate than one kept for oneself.
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Have been depressed for so long that i already accepted being miserable is ok. Don't have interest on having any friends or plans for my future and im ok with that but im not happy. It seem i just give up or reached some kind of a nihilistic way of live.
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>>18574838
Oh human beings! What a resilient creatures aren't we?
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we have problems with the landlord but keep it neutral. A friend came over that didn't like him, and they want to fight. What can he do to US, because of that ?
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>>18574773
can't help you if you don't tell us the nature of the problem between those two individuals you are describing
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>>18574798
This, there's a fine line between "unlikeable" and "illegal," generally divided by who's liable to take punitive action.
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Ok Let's say I invited a friend over and it turns out my landlord and him have past disagreements and they got into a scuffle that I wasn't aware of until after . Can the landlord tell us to fuck off just because I told them to come over
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So what do people mean when they say "accept who you are"? Do they mean flaws and all? I mean I get that you should try to improve yourself and all, but I truely do not understand this whole "you are who you are" concept.
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>>18574768
So long as you are striving to improve yourself and/or the world around you, that is a part of your identity. It falls under "who you are."
You are you, anon. If there's things you need to address, then address them. But you do need to accept that you are you, with all the promise and potential that you have. Do your best, and you won't feel shame. Try your hardest, and you won't regret failure. You are you. Nobody else is you, and nobody else will ever be you. Own that.
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>>18574768
>Do they mean flaws and all
yes
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>>18574768
ehhh. its more of a bigger picture idea. a lot of people get fixated on the idea that their flaws make them unloveable and arent working to fix them.
i have a friend who does some programming, and he loves MLP, and hes a total cringe lord. he has the life he particularly wnats, but becasue he sees these as flaws he hates him self. he doesn't want to change though cuz he likes those.
so for him accepting him self would just lead to him enjoying what he has.