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>>18577064

>nothing fancy

>>18577064

also
>thinking /adv/ can estimate how much to build a house for you

first and foremost, just research on your own how much the land its self would cost in your area.

then take this to /DIY/ cuz they'll give you the best estimate, but you're going to want to add an extra 10% at least because shit always goes wrong when you dont know what you're doing.

not a bad investment though. building a house is cheaper than buying one, which is why people build them then sell them for a profit.

>>18577064
Where do you live? I'm in Knoxville, and it's pretty expensive for the region here, but nothing compared to other states. Housing is way cheaper in the surrounding counties, and there are some pretty nice areas to be had for a very fair price.

How about you stop being a little bitch about it. I have to stop for 2 weeks and I'm absolutely digging these hyperdreams im getting. The being unable to sleep part is pretty annoying yes, but if you just look at the back of your eyes for about 10 minutes (the weird patterns and shit) it occupies your mind and youll drift off.

Yesterday night I was in some kind of zombie apocalypse and the day before that I almost realised I was dreaming because I was standing in a place I couldn't be (kinda weird that that triggered it, since youre usually in some weird place).

The only downside is that im a bit cranky and tired for the past 3 days or so.

Wanna teetotal? Teetotal. It's hard, but it's healthy.

Want the easy way? sub in another addiction.

>>18577234
Weed is the sub for another addiction
I replaced cigarrettes with Weed

>>18577209
Good luck. I've been with it for a while so its pretty engrained to my being, so it will be hard to extract it all out.

>>18577046

pretty common. they say men need to be sexually pleased in order to become affectionate, and women need affection in order to become sexually aroused. Its the reason why a common thing even in married couples is for the husband to take her out to dinner, get some flowers, give her a back rub, and then fuck her.

girls like sex but its the kind of thing you don't really think about until you're aroused. imagine if you never got hungry until someone was done cooking something. you'd have no appetite, you wouldn't be thinking 'wow id love pizza tonight' you'd feel no urge until it was in front of you and you can smell it.

thats what a lot of women's sexuality is like.

It means you're not very sexually attractive in her eyes
She might like you in other ways and might not be completely sexually repulsed by you but she's also not very attracted

Maybe she just has a lower sex drive than you? Or she just isn't interested in sex or leans more on the asexual side of things? Only way to find out is by asking her friend. If anything's ever bothering you, you should just tell her. You gotta be honest with each other in these situations.

>>18577027
Not everything we do is for guys...

>>18577027
No... Do you have autism?

>>18577027

Of course not, it's supposed to repel them, and lure in women truck drivers that look like manlier men than your war vet granddad looked back in his hayday.

Because contrary to popular belief, the entire LGBTP+ community is a walking talking stereotype given life.

Please give me answers I am seriously considering suicide I fear I may have caused permanent irreversible damage to my vision.

You useless faggots give endless answers to threads that have been on 4chan since it's creation but won't give me any attention. Thanks.

this is the kind of thing you go to the doctor to ask.

>>18577009
Yes. My life goes better when I'm in "absolute love" mode. I would guess it would be the same for you too.

It isn't healthy to base your life around 1) hurt pride and 2) other people. Eventually you will be confronted by yourself, and you won't like what you see because it was made for someone else. Focus on your own sustainable happiness and peace. Real success in this will bring approval without effort.

1. Don't say humans. Makes you sound like a weeb faggot.

2. No. Obviously it's not healthy.

3. Whatever motivates you motivates you.

4. Be aware of the hatred and don't fuck people over:
There will come a time when you can choose whether to indulge your fucked up head and punish/hurt someone, or to advance yourself and 'win.' This is where Bond villains lose. It's taking the greedy swing in Dark Souls.
Choose winning over your ego. Or you WILL lose, and you will always be a loser.

>>18577035
It definitely does.

>>18577040
Who cares, it conveyed the meaning I wanted to.

I'd never fuck people over or be an asshole because of it. I also don't get your point. Plenty of assholes make it and hurt people all the time? That doesn't seem relevant to success at all, in fact, being a huge asshole might HELP you be successful.

Get them used from amazon or better yet, get them from people who took the class in past semesters at your college. There are usually textbook exchange facebook groups where people are sometimes willing to let go off old books for like 30 bucks. In many upper level courses the professor will sometimes just send you a link to the textbook they're writing. Never buy new unless you absolutely have to.

>>18577003
>Do they check to see if you have it before you can pass the class?

No. You are expected to read them though and better do so if you wanna pass exams etc. LibGen is a good site to pirate them though. Sci Hub as well, though more difficult to use.

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Just download a pdf version.

> Do they check to see if you have it before you can pass the class?
That would be the dumbest thing ever. If you think your university might be that childish move far far away, go some to where on the complete opposite side of the world just to be sure.

>>18576987

eee yeah it sounds like shes still thinking about it but without the rest of the conversation its hard to say.

>>18576987

She's half way there.

She doesn't want to marry you. She just wants to fuck you or have you around in case nothing else comes up. I guarantee she'll dump you once someone else comes along.

If you can get back out there, get back out there.
She's not going to wait for you, so you shouldn't wait for her.

>>18576977
First off, request, can you show your face if you're comfortable ?
I'll assume in the rest of the post that you are indeed ugly but I'm pretty sure you know that 90% of posts like these are just confidence issues.
Second - Body is more important than the face. If you had a deformed body even less people would be down to date.
It would also be difficult to move around. So you should maybe appreciate your body.
Thirdly - dating & love is just one small part of life. I understand it's painful to feel like you're excluded from it. But it's the truth. You can be an amazing person otherwise and most of the time love will follow - focusing on love is just asking for pain.
Just my opinion. godspeed.

>>18576977
>>18576993
Yeah agreed. If you don't feel comfortable here post on r/uglypeople. Worst, you get support for being ugly. Best, you're banned for not being ugly.

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>>18576993
Here's a pic example with some coverage (foundation on). My facial features themselves are rather rough, but the tone and texture of my skin really ruin it.

I also said I'm not interested in dating ever, it's just too much heartache for me.

>>18576974
yes, then I wouldn't have come across this thread

Only the unproductive parts, anything with a comment section which isn't linked to a productive project, and news articles. I like the digital nomad aspect, making money from anywhere, talking directly to friends around the world from anywhere, beating the competition from bed. I'd be bored if I had to live 9 to 5.

F is for foreplay, do it together,
U is for do it yourself (if you can't maybe see help)
N is for not letting him cum till you do
(not maliciously, just make it a rule if you have to)

>>18576927
New to 4chan so I apologise if I terminology goes straight over my head.

As the title suggests, I have been with my bf for over 3 years now and he can't make me cum anymore. Over the last year he had gained a fair deal of weight and I dont find myself feeling attracted to him. Before he put on the weight I wasn't attracted or repulsed by him but I did and still do love him for who he is and how he treats me. Am I a bad person?

>>18576927
I can. Let's talk :D

>>18576857
try being excited for her you mongoloid. A.) there's nothing wrong with abortion
B.) Even if there were something "wrong" with it she's still doing something with her career, what are you doing?
side note to b, nothing in this world is "wrong" as the idea of something being right or wrong is a social construct.

>>18576867
Everything is wrong with abortion. It's literally murder of a helpless child.

>>18576857
>i haven't done research on something i could easily just think about myself
>i need other opinions because i have none

Come on man do you love her or do you only like her if she plays by your rules.

Idk about Canada, but in the US the military is a good way to become a less shit person. I've seen it take many a fuckboy and churn out better-mannered fuckboys.

In the US at least, it's the quietest and proudest form of welfare.

I'll be real though, it's all about what you put in, and it won't be without temptations. If you want that go to rehab. There are drugs. There is fuckery.

What makes you shitty now and what do you want to improve? Maybe that's a better place to start

>>18576856
Imho part of progressing as a person and maturing, which i consider improvement, is growing more independent. In the military you will be told what to do and you do it, you will not be able to make many choices and rely on your emotions to push you forward and be strong willed to go through with it. If you really aim for improvement get a job and dedicate all your freetime and money into it rather than join the military.

>>18576856
: Battle is the Great Redeemer. It is the fiery crucible in which true heroes are forged. The one place where all men truly share the same rank, regardless of what kind of parasitic scum they were going in.

Not a teacher, but I know it's something you REALLY want to do to be happy doing it.

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It is great work.

Dog shit pay but it seems comfy
>summers off
>10 months pay stretched over 12 months
>'respected' career
>steady paychecks
>qt grills if youre a guy

could be worse. Seems like such a default career, but a career nonetheless.

And like first post said, helps if you're one of those who truly desire to teach young children.
Like we've all had one, maybe 2 of those teachers in our lives ever.

>>18576824
She was probably seeing him / talking to him (fucking with him..) months before the breakup happened.

It's hard, but don't grieve. Remember the red flags, the bad moments when you felt sad, alone, disrespected, ignored, lied to. That helps to get better. Give yourself time. Perhaps a year to completely get over that. Let your brain cleanse from all that mess.

>>18576824

Understand she's weak and incapable of being independent, she can't function without clinging to a boy to take care of her and you've set yourself free from that trap.

>>18576824
Its not a competition. She can lead whatever fucked up, dysfunctional life she wants. That's kinda the reason you broke up with her, right? Focus on you and forget about her. Quit seeking out info on her. You can't change the past, but you can control the present to an extent and plan for a better future.