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>be me
>21
>You're average cyborg alpha
>Get pussy on the daily
>want to stop getting pussy
>but I can't stop
How do I stop getting pussy /adv/ ?
I tried staying indoors all day, but it doesn't work. QT internet chicks come over all the time
got anything for me /adv/?
>pic related
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>>18573087
Its simple. Stop vaping and the pussy will stop being attracted to you
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I'm at a loss here /adv/.
>just moved in single apartment for college
>floormate from last year wants to hang out
>"OK cool whatever"
>I plan to meet him at Chick-Fil-a
>Do so
>6/10 Not too bad
>after, he asks me where I live
>Don't wanna give my location to this literally who so I just say an apartment.
>Dude probed for more details but I wouldn't budge
>Walk back home
>Dude must of followed me or some shit b/c he found out where I live anyways
>turns out he's one of those "it's just a prank, bro" retards
>"Pranks" me constantly by dousing me with water, taking my phone for brief intervals, cheap-ass shocks, making racist comments for the specific intent of provoking me, and overall just bring a huge inconvience in my life
>Told him both politely and angrily to stop his "pranking"
>He thinks I'm being high-strung and whiny
>"this is what friends do XD LMAO"
I just want this motherfucker and his friends out of my life already. One of us is going to end up dead if this continues. Do I have to make this legal, or is there some easier solution with people like this?
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>>18573078
Talk to someone at the college. Bullying is taken very seriously nowadays.
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Hey /adv/ isors, I have a deviated septum and so far it has fucked my whole life up. Is getting a surgery to fix it worth enduring the pain? I heard that it can get pretty painful after the surgery, is that right?! Will highly appreciate any feedback :)
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how did you get it? born with it or drugs
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>>18573068
Ive had it too but it's not actually noticeable unless you look from under the nose.
Nose is actually wonky too, but again people seem to not notice it.
I've had surgery on it (cauterisation i think) when i was like 12 in order to prevent breaking passage blocking or something. Hurt like a motherfucker.
But I reckon if it's causing you so much anguish, the physical pain of the procedure may be worth it. The pain is after all temporary.
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>>18573068
If it's just the pain you're worried about then just get it done
If it makes you happy in the end, why not do it?
What's the best way to make your weekend feel like it was long and fulfilling? Too many weeks I feel like it flew by, and I come into work feeling like I left 15 minutes ago, and I'm exhausted.
This is going to be especially complicated because football season starts in a few weeks and my Sundays are either full of being at the games, or watching the games on tv.
Ideas? How do you get the most relaxed?
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>>18573065
Fill the weekend with event. If you spend all day every day glued to your computer (or anything else), the hours and days will blend into each other If you do something interesting to make Friday night or Saturday afternoon or any other block stand out, its experience and memories will take up more of your sense of the weekend
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Why do people just ghost out on people they were dating or talking to?
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Because they are not into them anymore and don't want to make an awkward mess
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>>18573059
Cowardice, selfishness, a need to abuse people's emotions
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>>18573110
This.
It might be hard for them to interact with that person because they make it awkward or feel uncomfortable. They think they're doing a good thing, but it's literal torture to the person they're ghosting's emotions.
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Can I obtain viagra over the counter in large quantities, and is it safe for 16 y/o males and females to take
(if not, at what age is it safe to take)
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>>18573029
lmao underage b& can't get his dick hard.
saged.
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>>18573043
N-no, /adv/ why would you think I'm under 16???
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Am I acceptable
Im a neet with no ambitions, i been depressed for as long as I can remember and quite frankly I dont even want to try anymore. I just drink and play games and thats my life.
I used to be more active and have a job, a social life, or well, attempt it, but it never worked out. After many psychological sessions many of my problems cant be changed. Im autistic and not very attractive. My best bet was getting to a social workplace and I tried that, but most of those people were retarded and not fun at all to work with. And theres always the bullying or taken advantage of by the authority figures, which im not ok with, and has caused me many problems at previous workplaces.
Besides I dont care much about money as long as I can feed myself, and I know Im never landing a cute gf either so that isnt very motivational either to me.
My relatives are much more optimistic and i cant really relate to them, so i stopped visiting them much less, id mainly just be a bad influence to them anyway. Im also a bit ashamed of what i am.
I just want to know if this is sort of understandable.
My chances were basically 0 from the start of my life anyway, rather than chasing a magical dragon i give up and take a rest.
Im not looking for motivational advice or the like, or hearing that "ur not ugly, ur smart" nonsense, i just want to know if people could understand a person in my position and my choice to be a neet.
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>>18573013
Where does your money come from? Who provides your home and food? Is there any prospect of those sources drying up? Alternatively, is it possible you might someday begin to feel guilty about being a leech?
Hunger and guilt can both be strong motivators to change.
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How do you guys deal with guilt
I feel guilty about this all the time and I don't know what to do
I dated this girl for a while and many times when we would hang out she'd tell me she wasn't in the mood but later on in the date I'd try to finger her or something and she'd move my hand away but after a few tries we'd do stuff
I didn't know I was hurting her
Wish I could take it back
She cut cause of me and left me without warning cause of it
Apparently I made her feel used and stuff like that
I feel horrible about it and I just don't know what to do
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>>18573008
Also she never talked to me about this until she dumped me
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Intense anxiety and depression during college move.
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I'm a 21 year old boy who has completed community college with an associate's degree and is now going upstate to a good uni that is known for being a great Computer Science school. Because of good grades, opportunities and a Autism/Asperger's diagnosis, I have been able to enjoy free tuition. So good, I almost get paid to go to school. Me and a friend that goes to the uni is gonna start living together at a cheap but pretty shabby apartment (had to spray for roaches). I just moved most of my stuff yesterday and while I was moving I felt like I was gonna die and I felt like wanting to die. It felt surreal moving everything out of a room that I have lived in for years. Tuesday I will get internet so that's when I will move completely over there. I had a mental breakdown by the end of the day. I sobbed all by myself for almost 3 hours. My dad and his wife are now extremely worried about me and slightly frustrated that something I have been excited for for months has now turned me into a bumbling emotional wreak. I have an unrealistic fear that I will forget to pay rent or will have a run in with the manager. I'm anxious to get a new bank account and other things like that. Am I normal? How can I get back to being excited by the new experiences I now have in front of me and how can I stop feeling like shit?
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I've learned that drugs like Kratom have made my move more bearable. It's funny how our feelings are so unreliable and unpredictable. Are we just bags of flesh with brain chemicals that make us into ravenous animals?
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>>18573200
Confess and commit suicide. You'll go to heaven and you'll stop feeling like shit there. Also (above), a lot of people have problem dealing with emotions, that does NOT make us less human. Needing sometimes chemichal help is no shame.
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I was the same way, it'll go away once you get used to it, then it will feel like home. This is just a part of growing up
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What can you say about Wing Chun?
I want to train it, so tell me - is it good?
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>>18572961
Depends on what you want.
If you just want to have fun doing it while getting exercise, then any martial art is fine.
If you want to actually learn to fight?
-BJJ
-Wrestling
-Muay thai
-Boxing
Traditional martial arts are utter trash when it comes to actually fighting.
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>>18572961
For self defense?
From a Navy SEAL:
1. Guns, guns, guns
2. Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu [my comment: Gracie Jiu-Jitsu is oriented toward combat while BJJ is more of a sport]
3. Western boxing
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGpDVCkhtD4
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I don't know how good /adv/ is with career advice, but here goes.
So after graduating comp sci with good grades, I decided to go into design. I worked 2 years (now) for a mobile app company as a designer and I'm now switching to do some web design at another company. I like doing what I do, I don't mind doing coding.
But at this point in life I can't help but feel like I made a terrible mistake - when I look at jobs for developers even a junior position gets paid almost twice the amount I get. It just kills me that a friend who graduated the same degree but failed 2 years is going to get one of these and get paid much more than me right off the bat.
I feel like all these efforts I made had been for nothing and I'm stuck getting paid nothing doing something I enjoy. I've been out of the loop with programming for 2 years. How can I get back on track and get a developer job?
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>>18572949
I'd recommend being bold and emailing a careers account for a company you would want to work for, that is the best way to gauge what they want.
Is your living situation tough? Is that why you nerd more money? Getting extra coin to piss it away on fast food, a new car, hentai porn isn't a good excuse to change job ESPECIALLY something you like.
Paysvales weren't included so I'm going to say LARP
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>>18573254
Thanks for the reply, anon. I guess in a way I'm still figuring out where to go in my career. The reason I chose to go into design was because I wanted more creative freedom in what I do. But now after two years, I realised that maybe I haven't been realising my full potential as someone who can solve problems, something my degree taught me how to do. I feel like my field is undervalued compared to the more technical developers, which is why I want to transition.
My living situation is fairly average, I live frugally but even then I only manage to save a tiny bit each month. I know I'll be needing more money down the road in the future, I would like to own a house eventually. I'm 24, I live in the UK and make 20k currently. Maybe I'm being jealous and greedy, but when I see other people my age doing what I should have chosen to do and get paid well it just makes me depressed.
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Software developer here, been in the industry for 8 years. I think you're fine. You did fuck up by going into design, since many web development jobs also encompass design, but you've only blown two years. If you for sure want to go into web side shit, learn Javascript really well. Learn jQuery, react, node, vue, etc. Ruby+rails might also be useful for you.
You can definitely still get a junior position just fine. Your design experience will be an asset, but you'll now have the burden of proving you can actually code and like to do it since you chose to go away from it.
If you have trouble getting directly into a development position, go into QA first, preferably QA automation.
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all my relationships have formed organically over time, through friends of friends, coursemates etc...
now, as i face my final months of freedom with 9-5 career looming over me, what's the best advice for becoming more proactive at finding romance such that i can escape from my crippling anxiety, depression, and fear of dying alone?
many thanks
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>>18572948
Hobbies.
Find shit that you like doing that involves groups of people.
You gain interaction, plus you'll have a common interest as a baseline.
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>>18572948
Exactly the same way you did it before. Meet new people at work, or among neighbors, or through hobbies or volunteer work. Meet their friends through them, Some will be female.
You've already learned the one big lesson most 4channers haven't - that the best romances grow out of friendships, not random pickups.
The larger your circle of acquaintances, the larger your sub-set of friends and your sub-sub set of friends-who-are-girls.
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Who else /failednormie/ here?
>too weird and out of frequency to be properly in withy normie friends
>not autistic and "le nerdy" enough to hang out with my nerdy friends
>too smart for my coworkers
>too profane and worldly for my sisters church buddies
>not wild enough for my loser stoner party acquaintances
>too poor to go on cool vacations all the time
>too rich and old to hangout and drink cheap booze in the park with the losers
>too old and already self-made to go to another college and become a social butterfly
>not enough time to start some hobbies other than what I already do.
>just enough free time to overthink shit
I'm literally nobody's man. I literally subconsciously learned to just do shit my own, even at work. All I do all day long is "me" stuff.
Do I ever break out of it? I don't even want friends, but I know at this rate I'll never find a wife. I want a family, man.
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I've been feeling the same. A person who is out of place and feeling like an old soul. Feeling this way can cause depressive behavior. I'm not sure if it ever goes way unless you pretend to be someone else. Try being more adaptive and less critical. From my experience I'm out of place and I've became super nihilistic.
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>>18572938
Wew lawd this
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I've been selling a Battlenet account and then later reclaim it.
Today I decided to go through the process again to reclaim my account.
I used to reclaim it just fine before:
I went to reclaim it today, the Blizzard employee asked for an ID picture then for another with my face on it and one more with the ID Picture alone again.
10 Minutes later he goes:
We are permanently closing down your account because you have been re-selling and reclaiming this account.
I say: Sell?
He goes: Next time don't sell your account or give information away.
The people I sold the account to don't live in the same country as me not even near me.
I am paranoid now, thinking I will get a letter from Blizzard saying they are going to sue me because I have been selling accounts and then later down the line reclaim them.
I know it is a bad thing to do but how fucked am I?
Thanks for help Anons.
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Change your ID, move countries.
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>>18572923
I would never violate an agreement again, because sooner or later you might actually get sued.
Regarding Blizzard, I would not discuss this issue with them further, because they could use an admission as ammo against you. Ideally you would stop using their products altogether to avoid any more interaction.
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>>18572923
They noticed the obvious pattern. They're not morons, if they notice that you change the password, log in from the other side of the planet, and then reclaim the account a little bit after. They can't sue you for much, but you should wise up if you're going to try shit like that.
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Feel like I have no choice but to go back...
I left my ex a year ago and I invested my time and money towards him. I currently have no job and no education other than HS, living with parents. I'm already 24 and I want to have children before my eggs go bad. On the other hand my ex has turned his life around, has a place and a salary job, became the manager. He wants me to go live with him, work wih him and start a family. At this point in my life should I just go back with him since it's too late or should I try to work on myself even though I'll just be getting older and older with no kids.
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>>18572916
Never be with someone out of fear of getting old or not being able to have kids etc. Be with someone who makes you happy and the rest will come naturally.
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>>18572924
But biologically i only have 5 years left
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>>18572916
If you're 24 you should still have several years to find a man and have kids. My mom had me in her mid-30s although you might not have that much time. If you're not sure about him, I would follow the advice from >>18572924 and look at what you and your potential partner would bring to the relationship. You mentioned
>try to work on myself
I would do that in the sense of getting stuff to bring to the relationship, as you would work on experience and skills to bring to a job interview.