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>>16439538

depends how it happened. probably.

>>16439541


Unprovoked, serious assault

>>16439538
Did you deserve it?
Was it your fault?

If it's only been two weeks wait longer. At least a few months. Most of the girls that say this aren't actually waiting until mariage, just until the meet a guy they really like. Give it time, if you can't give it that then do her a favor and break it off.

>>16439537

wait it out and see what happens, but just know that this story doesn't end well.

even if she puts out it will likely mean that shes expecting some sort of big commitment, even if its unspoken, and that will surface in other ways. a girl who still says ' i dont want to have sex til marriage' is going to have her next relationship end in quite a meltdown. its okay if that hapepns but just know its gonna suck

>>16439537
> 2 weeks

chill the fuck out bro. slow movement. if you guys turn each other on enough/sext/talk about sex with each other and what it would feel like, I'd say 3 months she will definitely hand herself over.

>>16439492

its something he should probably know if hes going to have to deal with it like really blatant obvious trauma that you face all the time, or if it happened while you two were in a relationship, but if it was something from before you got together and its just a passing bummer in your brain from time to time, id say its up to you. there is no reason he would need to know and i think its healthy for people to have things they keep just for themself. just try to keep something positive to yourself to for every darker secret you have.

>>16439503
Yeah, that makes sense. I think it's probably better that he doesn't know I just get really upset over it sometimes still but it should be alright for him to not know. Thanks anon

>>16439492
only if you liked it (spoiler: you did)

I have had long hair for about 15 years now, and can't grow a full beard.

It gets hot in the summer, it's a pain in the ass to wash/condition/dry/comb, I have to sleep with it in a ponytail or I choke myself to death with it

but bitches love that shit

>>16439442

some people dont mind it because they like the way they look. others are used to discomfort. you'll see some people sleep on nothing but a pile of clothes and will never complain once about how they want a bed cuz its just the way they are.

but then you have women who shave, wax, pluck and burn every part of their body to look the way they do.

You basically get used to it and stop minding.

Also, you're beard isn't super scratchy if you regularly shampoo and condition it like, just like your hair.

I will say that eating your mustache is like one of the most fucking obnoxious and disconcerting feelings in the world though

>>16439413
why do you fap if you arent horny?

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>somebody trademarked nofap

>>16439415
still feels good

guess out of boredom too

I really don't know the answer to that question, maybe it's nature

>>16439294

>if i leave on a bad note

how could you though unless you threw a fit? you can try to ask for more consistent hours, but it does sound like they wont give that to you, so your only hope really is finding another job. but simply leaving your old job is not a 'bad note'.

considering the strange hours, it shouldnt be hard to find another job cuz you arent permanently blocked off during regular interview hours. so ask around and dont leave your job yet. if they try to schedule you during work just say
"sorry that time doesn't work cuz i do have work at that time. if i do get this job i would of course quit my old one, but in the meantime, could you possible move my appointment to Tuesday? (or thursday if ur a fagguete, whatever). the worse they can say is 'no' but it wont tarnish your reputation with them or anywhere else.

>>16439294

you just need to improve your social scheduling

you've got a good job and can get dates - you can call talk to her on the phone when you can't spend a few hours with her yes ? and if she is interested 1 week is nothing

get a clue pal changing jobs may or may not make your scheduling easier - your next job may be random overtime at 60/70hr weeks vs your current planned hourly changes

you must not be typing the whole story here because I really don't see what the problem is

>>16439337

people often have trouble maintaining lives with inconsistent scheduling, especially when everyone else is consistent. you are always that guy who is up at 3 am while all your friends are asleep. you're that guy who can't go to a friends bithday cuz you are working friday night or saturday morning, and who sits home alone cuz everyones at work monday afternoon when you get time off.

i live in the city and everyone has weird schedules, but im the only one with consistent hours.

That's where I am right now.
My goal here isn't even getting a girlfriend right away, I just don't want to die alone and I think it's time to act now, and for that it would be good to just get some experience in social interaction etc., but I can hardly get myself to talk to anybody, because I don't know jackshit about talking to people who aren't "on my level" and even less how to talk to a girl that I don't know for 10 years+ and have nothing to talk about.
So yeah, that's where you guys come into play.
I'm absolutely willing to put work into this, but I just have literally no idea where to start. Never used any social media other than Skype or whatsapp and I've got like 5 contacts each. I'm not completely autistic but also not the funniest guy everybody ever heard (at least not until I'm familiar with people). When I'm in a conversation I have little to no problem, although I lack the knowledge of typical "normalfag" things like TV or celebs or night life.
Living with my single mom.
Some of you can maybe throw me some advice on what to do generally and specifically.
Hope that's enough information for anything and I'm really sorry if this is shitting up the board.

>>16439250

when you die, you wont really know the difference between dying alone or dying loved.

never has someones last words been 'whew thank god im not single'. jokes aside, im not joking. i mean its totally cool that you're entering the dating scene but so you can 'not die alone' is impossible on a physical and philisophical level.

when you're in the throws of death whatever is eating at you will eat at you.

Find a hobby. Hell, find several. Make yourself interesting, and find people that are interested in the same things as you. You'll eventually find good friends. Just remember, you're not doing this to actually meet people, you're doing it to improve yourself

women pal, that's how women brain works, if it was you who cheated, they will never forgive you, but they expect to be forgiven, it's like their things and feelings are more important than ours

Well, what has happened to your life by the time since they cheated on you? Do you now have a high paying job and they are stuck in their ordinary life or something?
Sometimes women also want to ease their mind. They know they made a mistake and want to make that up by contacting you again.

>>16439181

Philanderers should be lined up and shot

Is it illegal drugs?

>For now, I've taken the Australian approach
Are you in Australia? If so, you probably know what you're doing.

The US approach would be to punt them out on their asses with maximum prejudice, before Obama's partyvan shows up and puts the house on the auction block.

>>16439147
Watch the movie Candy and realize they'll just kill themselves eventually saving you a hassle.

God damn it Australia you take your independent films too far.

>>16439129
HAHAHA

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>>16439129
Decide who you want to date yourself.

If you really have to ask us who to date, you clearly don't know what the fuck you're doing.

I came to this board to ask a serious question and this was the first thread I saw.
This is CANCER

>>16439090
Go to the doctor, dude. If those are the two things your symptoms point to, go to the fucking doctor.

it depends on what's happened in your past to make you think that. is it possible for someone your age who binge drinks every day or overdoses on acetaminophen more than once? yes, entirely so. there are a lot of things that cause liver damage, so give us a little background. WHY do you think you have severe liver damage? what symptoms do you have?

>>16439090
>beyond repair, without noticing any symptoms
Unlikely. Having some liver damage is entirely possible. The point is, liver regenerates pretty well, so the damage is usually reversible. If there's recurring damage, though...
And you can accumulate plenty of damage before any noticeable symptoms pop up.

>I am suicidal and want to die,

ok, cya

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>>16439072
Make crystals

>>16439072

Ten floors sounds high enough. Just do it, you coward.

/fa is not entirely bad. You should find some of those essential clothing for men pics. Also look around what other males around you are wearing

>>16439053
>Should I just go for more neutral colors like black, brown, etc?
The basis of your outfit should be neutral colors. Like instead of jeans with a blue shirt, wear some neutral pants. Greys and browns of varying tones would be nice. When you wear too much of a bright color, you'll end up looking like a clown. That's why blue jeans with a light blue hoodie doesn't go down well.

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>>16439053
Why not a sweater instead of a hoodie? Sweaters are grown man-tier, match with blue jeans if the color isn't too vivid, and make you look like you give more of a shit about how you look.

Mix that with groomed hair and you look like a fucking adult.

Hey buddy,
I have been there at one point in my life. I was feeling so miserable, that I started smoking and drinking. I've had thrown up so much, hoping that I would just suffocate from it.
One day I just couldn't take it anymore. I don't know why and for what reason, I just felt like this was enough.
So I started being more social, getting /fit/ and just try to feel something again. Slowly, but steady. One of the few things that kept me going was knowing that I could do so much better. Knowing that I don't want to waste even more time with useless shit on my not infinite life.
I don't know what advice I can give you, but it's good that you realised you want to change.
I wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart.
Btw, fast food starts to taste like shit, if you get used to healthy food.

>>16439155
Thanks for the reply! I appreciate the encouragement.

Also, yeah, I managed to cut the soft drinks out once for about a month and it was way too sweet and sickly when I tried it again. Same for smoking, tasted horrible.

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>>16439242
See? You've already managed to do that. So you do have enough motivation in you to take it a step further. Go for it buddy.

>>16438936
Because you're crazy.
Not good enough?
See a psychologist.

>>16438936

>im not a lesbian
>i just have thoughts and fantsies about kissing a girl i like

its like trap lovers but for women. seriously just kiss her and get it over with.

narrowmindedness aside, it is possible you just crave to be close with other women.

I had a roommat who would constantly try to get closer to me, he thought he might be bisexual and had really confusing feelings. he'd get drunk and be really hard, but as soon as we tried having sex, he went super soft. but hed still kiss me and wanna hold me close.

truth is humans are more contact oriented than we like to believe, but we live in a society where touching isnt super encouraged, and kissing only on special occassions between friends.

in the wild youd get an urge to kiss someone cuz you liked them. you'd kiss a girl or a boy, just general affection, the way you might kiss your dogs forehead just for being close to you. so realistically we should want to kiss and squeeze each other, but as we grow up this is something we do less cuz were 'adults'.

and some kids dont even get to experience it for whatever reason, so you likely just want to be closer with females and this one you see as an equal and you want to kiss and hold her but not date and bang her.

>>16438984
I do wanted to be good friends with her. I feel confused because of my thoughts about her because she is like me. But does that mean that I'm so lonely or narcissistic that I'm in love with myself?