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Yes you can. There are women into pegging, some quite fetishize it. And even more would be willing to stick a finger back there now and again.

This is sort of off topic and I'm not criticizing you but I'm always terrified to try to do butt stuff on my guy because I'm worried he would prefer it to vaginal sex or want to do it every time and I just wouldn't want to do it most of the time. How important is butt stuff to you? Do you prefer it to vaginal and would you want or need it most of the time or is this more a treat beyond normal?

>>16444392
Naw man this way when you bust a bit in your girlfriends post she can strap it on and keep fucking you until you busy all over the be sheets again. It'll be great.

>>16444404
that is an interesting question, it's actually something I've wondered myself
I was worried if I had a gf who was into pegging that I might not b able to have normal sex with her

for me it's not really a fetish, it's more a physical preference if that makes sense
I like it just because it feels good

personally I find receiving anal sex de-sensitises me, I can go for hours for the few days after I cum anally; this is much to the pleasure of any woman I have sex with withing that window
so I would still have predominantly normal vaginal sex with a woman, but that's just me I suppose

>>16444406
I cant take anal sex after I've ejaculated, it has to be anal first

because you're a runt and pecking orders exist within every group of animals and it isn't the job of others to elevate or save you; save yourself

People used to believe a lot more in handling shit yourself. The current alarmist climate is really quite an aberration and even as recently as 15-20 years ago when I was a kid there was an attitude that was a lot more like "figure your shit out and fit in, your mommy isn't going to around forever". Which honestly probably wasn't all bad at all.

It was actually probably extremely normal that you experienced bullying and isolation. I did, everyone I'm very close to enough to talk about this shit with had some similar experience as well.

The thing that makes it so sucky for you is that while bullying may be kind of a normal phase if still shitty and inexcusable, usually people have someone to go to.

I think that's likely attributed to that you may have not had a large variety of people to turn to. I went to a small private school age 5-13 and experienced near total isolation there. It was very competitive and clique-y. Then at age 14 I went to a very large high school and it was a revelation that there were every type of group and that this variety also made it so that no one was brutally competitive any more, everyone was friendly except the black girls.

Or if that doesn't sound like it may be the case, the other thing that may have been is you may have unknowingly created your own sphere of isolation. People don't like victims. Watch every bit of media ever, the kid getting picked on NEVER heartwarmingly makes his first friend while crying or tattling about it. Universally nearly underdogs gain comradery and empathy when they're going on with their lives taking it on the chin.

I know that sounds unpleasant and I don't like it but reality is reality.

Just how it is.

For whatever reason I was never bullied as a kid except maybe once or twice. I was a geek, small, and kind of different. From what I hear, I can only guess, I was just too disciplined and serious to fuck with or something (grew up years of martial arts and the credo's stuck with me). I had a lot of sympathy for people who were. So when I did see people around me get bullied, I did try to help. And people usually backed off if I intervened.

But I remember there was this one kid that, as much as I wanted to help him... he was just such a massively clueless idiot and and a total asshole sometimes that I just said, fuck it. Every time I did try to help, he'd pretty quickly do something to that would make me face palm, and make me regret trying.

I'm kind of ashamed to admit that I maybe peer pressure dissuaded me from trying harder, but at the same time, he didn't make it easy, and did a lot of things that make me think he just wasn't a good person. There is only so far that a persons goodwill can stretch.

I ran in to him a few years after high school. He fully transitioned from a kind of blunt, clueless, and assholish nerd, in to one of the biggest dude-bro douchebag's I've ever come across.

TL;DR: Maybe you didn't make it easy on anyone.

>>16444306
sucks to live in a country where you can get discriminated against for minor drug use

I'm in outback Australia and I know a few firefighters

they say 50% of there call-outs are small grass fires, 20% are false alarms/hoaxes, 10%house fires %20 for work not relating to fires

>>16444306
1. Pot doesn't stay in your system that long.
2. Firefighting isn't your normie job. You go through a process. I.E. physical training, tests, etc.
3. You sound like a total fucking dipshit.

>>16444306
Are you fucking retarded? Of course you'll get the job, they aren't cops. I see alcoholic firefighters everyday I'm sure there's some that blaze regularly

Hes gay just leave it

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Replace boyfriend with new boyfriend.

You'll thank me later.

>>16444296
>unplug his router (no porn)
>hide his vidya controllers (no gaemz)
>hide his phone (no m8's or sluts)
>hide his keys (no fucking off somewhere)
>wear revealing, provocative clothing
>do your hair
>paint your face
>proceed about your day while showing off your body as much as possible

Eventually he will get bored, notice you whoring it up, and pounce on you

My boyfriend asked me out, I said yes, now we've been together just over two years. Your situation literally requires no advice other than "ask her out"

but how did he ask you out? did he do it like some romantic movie moment, or was it just like "hey want to go out with me one day out of nowhere?>>16444294

i just dont understand how relationships form

how and when should i lead up to that moment?

>>16444301
He texted me "hey, do you want to grab dinner and a movie with me". Stop overthinking this

>>16444273
looks like allergic reaction. Walked in the forest / bushes or something?

Could be bed bugs

>>16444274
Nope. Only time I went out last week was to go to uni. Not in contact with anything new. Feels like a nettle rash though.

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When people put all their desires onto one other person, then of course asking them out becomes pure anxiety...

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As an old sumbich I can assure you that this gal has no idea you like her. Tell her and take the rejection if it is going to happen. After all, right now it is if you have been rejected.

I was in the same situation. I asked if she had a bf .told me no. ask girl out got a msg on fb from friend what I think and they are going out for a month.

Last week we had a class together and his bf was absent. She told me to have a good weekend. I replied well f y too

>>16444168
The 1 2 3 are newer than 4 5 6 I'd say it's up to you, if you want to go in order it would make more sense where you can understand every detail of 4 5 6 if you were to watch them backwards you would see the movies in the order of original star wars fan did

>>16444168
in order of release

People who are fans will tell you to watch 4, 5, and 6. because those are the good films, and then watch 1, 2, 3--because if you start with 1, you might never watch 2.

People who tell you to watch 1, 2, and 3 first... it kind of makes sense in terms of chronology... but it also tends to be young kids who have their Nostalgia glasses on and don't realize that if you weren't a kid, those weren't particularly engaging on their own merit (especially Episode 1...).

>>16444149
Anything you think is a result of a drug prescribed to you by a doctor you should talk about with said doctor. Side effects for things are always shit, that's why doctors don't just hand out drugs like Halloween candy.

fix your depression by fixing the cause and not just masking it with that medication. Start taking cold showers everyday, exercise at least an hour a day, start eating better, spend at least 30 minutes outside in the sun everyday. Start doing some volunteer work. All of these things will help with your depression naturally and also have possessive health and mental benefits.

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Is falling a central part of your life?

>>16444099
ugh thats acceptable

Just do it!>>16444099

Unless your a beta....

Either way is legal, which makes it acceptable in my book. I guess it depends on who you ask. I say don't ask and just do what you want.

>>16444088
do you mind being fat forever?

>>16444091
I don't mind

>>16444100
Start loving food, then, man.

If fast food isn't doing it for you, check out some sole food and creole food. Still eat your veggies or something and get some vitamins in you.

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>>16444089
funny? i don't like to think so for the fact that i was making a little bit of money off of it lol, but yeah to random people i suppose.

I can help, I need your kik and number?

>>16444067
Drop all contact with him. Never look back.

>>16444067
Bitch, you already know the answer.

>>16444067
>What is the best course of action here?

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>>16444027
Are you really fat?

no :v 134 pounds I just dont know how to talk to a guy

>>16444057
height? pic?

He wasnt a one night stand - we were meant to get in a relationship.**

>>16443989
>I need to have regular sex
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>>16443989
>I tried to talk to him, but he ignores me. What can I do? I cant afford the surgery to get this fixed...
Nothing is wrong with you, OP. But I think you made a mistake by giving in to a guy that insisted upon sex. Guys will say they understand just to get what they want, without ever really understanding what you've been through and what doing this too soon can do to you. Find someone that isn't in such a hurry and will be more than happy to walk through this with you.