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I need to know what this is a picture of
my fiance was at his sisters every other day this past few weeks
and I wasn't welcome
he needed alone time he says
so I stayed home.
but this morning taking pics of myself I found this
and I can't tell what it is but I can tell you what I see


Give me your outlooks on whats in the photo please

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yes i am autistic.

I was watching world strictest parents yesterday, the strict parents theme were, respect your parents no matter, they live in ghana. In ghana they seem like an very strict and very religious(christians) country. The goals for all the kids are to be a lawyer, doctor, etc etc all those high education jobs. They're theme is to respect your parents whether they are right or wrong. I assume the country is pretty consistent in the way they raise their kids i guess, the kids get the same medicine the parents give them at home, at school too. What are you guys opinion about this?

Would it be better to teach children how to efficiently reach a goal than force one on them like a lawyer.

My family memebers(christians) are having a convo about "respect your elders no matter what", i don't think that rule should be applied in america, a free country. Seems america is going about raising kids wrong in a free country. The family construct is fucked everyday, tons of single mothers and high divorce rates. Likely in ghana if you impregnant her you marry her and in that country its no such thing as divorce. What do you guys think.

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Relationships n00b here (or should I say virgin instead?)

> male, 30yo and never touched a woman's body

I don't consider myself a beautiful guy, but I can easily find less attractive men. I am a smart guy, I work in IT and am actually successful in that matter, still living in my mom's house, drive my own car, pay my own bills, go to the gym regularly, I can cook my own meals... People generally say I'm a pretty cool guy. They enjoy hanging out with me, we laugh together, we learn new things together, I'm always there when a friend asks for help.

Problem is, never EVER had a girl/woman interested in knowing me. It seems like they all like my presence around them but whenever I start feeling a bit more interested they immediately hit the brakes. And that has happen too many times. It feels just like hitting a wall every single time. It gets to a point where I can no longer fight back...

What is wrong with me? I would like some female opinions inb4 no girls on the internet...

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Hello friends.

Tough times have hit and I would like to help out my family with at least a minimal financial gain.

Due to limited free time from college and shit, as well as an affinity to computers and basic programming knowledge, I'd like to find a "job" online to earn some extra cash to help the day-to-day struggle.

I am NOT naive or stupid: I am not looking for those magical "I earn 5000$ a month!" jobs that bots advertise.

I am also NOT naive or stupid to think that there is some magical "done in 20 minutes" job either.

Instead, fuck 5000$, half of that or even half of that half...

I'm looking for a way to make, I dunno... 30$ a month?

Maybe even that is too much, I dunno. To be completely honest even 10$ would help a lot, it's that tight. Dollars converted nicely to the currency in my country.

Again, I'm willing to work, for real, whatever that would mean in this context. Nothing cheap or lazy or illegal is required...

I hope that there is some job like this - though I get skeptical when I see people posting on /b/ asking for 10$ steam games... But maybe those people are just cheap and/or lazy?

(Oh and yeah, I tried finding some jobs like this where I live via local sites, no luck. Obvs can't work a full-time job either...)

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Is it possible to completely turn a bad life around in a couple of weeks by taking huge steps, chances, doing the opposite of what you'd usually do, and so on?
I want to try.
Any general advice on how to do it?
Have you done something similar ever?
I turn 27 in a couple weeks.

-I have a huge amount of student debt, and no degree, no concrete plans to go back, but I wish I could.

-I've never had a girl friend, but want one

-I have diagnosed social anxiety/anxiety/major depressive disorder, and I hate it

-I live with my parents, and I wish I didn't

-I have no cool job, and that makes me sad.

I want the opposite of all these asap.

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Op pic related.

I recently had a getaway and flew 2500 miles to see an intimidate pen pal I've been communicating with. Previously she visited me twice by flying to my hometown

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Do it

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>go out with friends yesterday, 2 of them are friends of a friend
>one of them is my definition of a 10/10, personality and all, everything I like mixed into a single girl
>showed some interest by touching me randomly, but whenever I tried to talk to her I couldn't say anything decent, and ended up looking like a generic dude instead of the soulmate I knew I was
>accidentally said some bullshit that she didn't like - too stupid to fix it
>she doesn't seem interested anymore, never looks at me
>she's always surrounded by her friends and I can't build my own opportunities as her presence intimidated the fuck out of me
>spend the whole night suffering over my stupidity, tried to get with other girls, got rejected
>she kissed my cheek when I left the party, which confused me a lot
>added her on facebook, looks like she didn't accepted

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK

I evolved so much in the past years. Got fit, got a personality, lost my virginity, and I'm still incapable of talking to someone who's basically a clone of me. I don't even know what to learn with yesterday's experience.

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I'm a girl who's going to start using steam again, my current name is shit and I need a new one. Ideas?

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>be me 19 year old unifag
>meet girl on anime forum
>we have similar tastes, great conversations
>slowly reveal my anxiety probelms and shit (nobody knew about it besides me and my psychologist, didn't know how to bring it up to the senpai and I wanted to talk about it)
>understanding and kind
>this goes on for a few months
>fall in love
>she's been pretty private about her age, I confront her
>she's 13
>fuck
>I decided that I'll still continue talking to her and I'll keep everything 100% platonic, there wasn't anything between us but friendship
>this goes on for a year
>still kind of like her but I know it isn't right, it'll pass
>I stop talking to her as often
>talk to her maybe once every week or so to catch up
>another year later, present time
>she's 15, im 22
>we still talk and she's still cool
>not into her anymore

Would it be weird to ask if she wanted to meet up or at least say hi at the upcoming anime convention? I've got no romantic interest with her, I just want to see the person I've been talking to the whole time irl and get to know her as a person, not just as a profile on a forum or as a Skype contact. Although there are literally no romantic intentions or anything it does still feel a little weird with the age difference but its not like I'm doing anything wrong right?

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Best way to commit suicide in a car?

I want to drive to my favourite place, park up, reflect, listen to music and lose consciousness.

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Why aren't you practicing Pick Up /adv/?

Seriously though, explain this to me:
https://youtu.be/tlWrFgIR6CU

I can't believe what I'm seeing.

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What to do when people you WILL have to live with for a long time (that includes your nearest colleagues at work and nearest living relatives) did something horrible to you?

(in case you wondering what it is, its gangstalking perpetrated probably by freemasons in their routine revenges agains unsuspecting targets)
'Technically' something unforgivable, but its just unbearable the stress to live in a bad mood around these people every single day. So you have to kind of brainwash yourself to forget the unforgettable

anyone passing through this?

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A week ago in the night of halloween some friends put up a bon fire in a hill and since they are my friends i was invited, I wasnt expecting to drink since I got drunk the day before and i was kind of tired. Since I was tired i just put on a comfy hoodie and didnt go in the mindset of meeting girls.

Once I was there though everyone was drinking so I got myself some cups and some friends shared with me. I had a little weed but because it was so little I made an union with a stranger (we both put what little weed we had so we could have a decent joint) and went apart from the group so we could roll and smoke more calmly.

Of course we shared with some other friends and now we are sitting in a circle laughing. I noticed that a blonde girl appeared but since I wasnt in the mindset of looking for women (im 21 virgin but not kissless) I didnt pay any special attention to her. We continued talking and laughing and she ends being really cool and sitting next to me and rubbing my leg (which i know see is a obvios sign) and making comments about sex in a casual way.
This goes olympically above my head and I just continue to talk to her and just trying to make myself to have the best time I could. After a few comments and being touchy for a while she says nevermind and closes ups her legs (she was sitting indian so our legs were always touching) and starts speaking to some other people. I didnt do nothing and continue cracking jokes with my other friends in the circle but eventually we start talking again and then we just talk about life for the rest of the night.

At some point we stopped talking and I went to my friends and she to hers, when I tried to go talk to her again she said they were leaving and I told her that i forgot her name because i did and i also got a fact about her that she told me about earlir wrong (this is all in the goodbye). we didnt exchange numbers or anything, i only know her name.