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I'm so jaded. I hate every single person in this world. I can't stand anyone's happiness. When i see someone happy i feel depressed, when i see someone destroyed i feel satisfied. I have no good feelings for anyone. I just want to see everyone in ruins. Even my family disgusts me ( well, most of them are shit and don't care about me). I hate certain relatives because they help other people out, it makes me sick. I try to ruin people's lives as much as i can. I insult anonymously people i know. In my uni, the teachers would send the stuff to study to class email and someone deleted it sometimes so then i started doing it too and it felt so good especially because they all wondered in class who was doing it. All people are evil, why should i be good? I don't want to die for the simple reason that other people will continue living on. My greatest joy would be for the world to end and everyone would die. If i could sacrifice my life to some deity and he/she would kill all humanity, i'd gladly accept.
I am depressed everyday, nothing impresses me or makes me happy anymore, everyone makes me sick, everyone has second intentions. No one is pure, what particularly sickens me is some people in power who bring destruction upon others and get away with it. It's the normal civilians like us that get fucked if we do something bad.
Anyone feels like this? I can't cope with other people's success. How can someone genuinely root for another person's happiness?
People are such fucking trash.
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>>15570598
Holy shit you're a giant raging faggot.
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>>15570598
Burn your inner scum-like self into ashes and then die.
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>>15570598
Go see a therapist. Join a chruch just not a Muslim one becuase they will definitely use you as the bomb carry guy.

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there were little poos, like dingle berries size leaved on the bedsheets...


are they from her?
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help
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HELP
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HELP PLAEASE

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How have you improved yourself this week/month/year? Lifting isn't life, a well-balanced human being is productive, has hobbies, pushes him/herself to succeed, is charismatic, and strives to live the best life they can. Share your successes, failures, methods, and everything in between.

The sticky is divided like so:
>Recommended Readings.
>Some tips to get your life back on track.
>Study and Career.
>To-do list habit.rpg (If you’re TOTALLY Lost. Start with this one)
>Focus and meditation
>Finance

Basic Recommendations:
>Have a productivity Framework that is flexible. A mindset that gets you going.
>Use a calendar, like google calendar. Hours and shit for things YOU WILL DO.
>Learn to focus.
>Meditate.
>Do routines for things you should do periodically/daily, this should cover daily things or weekly chores such as laundry, cleaning, shopping.
>Identify and Eliminate conflicts within yourself.
>Focus on identifying the time wasters in your life and eliminate them.
>Focus on the essentials. If you try to do everything at once you’ll burnout. Little by little.

Resources:
arcitea.com/
>This is a good ‘sticky’ for self-development
http://www.bakadesuyo.com/blog/
>This one is a good blog for resources of this kind. I’ve seen annons give good feedback.

>Framework
http://youtu.be/b-a1jXgAsQI
http://youtu.be/3Ao7rZ8-HWo
http://youtu.be/iG9CE55wbtY
>Motivation
http://youtu.be/ZtMm0swu5i8
http://youtu.be/WxOFvpplvAM
http://youtu.be/ix4xSzkqwhk

>If you think there is material that should be added (Or taken off). Please say so.
>There is no central authority for the /SIG/, everyone could copy, modify and upload the info here in a latter post.
>To future curators of the /SIG/. Stray away from PUA, and avoid Fedora stuff please.
>If you try monetizing with this, I’ll cut you.
>I’m looking to expand the ‘how to focus’ Area. If you believe you can help out/have tips. Please share.
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Material reading can be tricky. There will be trash here and there as we're not /lit/.

But we have to trust others.
Image related has a detailed list that an Annon provided on a thread a while back. If you got time to kill, click on the image, and read the descriptions

As time goes, the /SIG/ has had a couple of books recommended. I’ve done my best to try to get talks of the authors of such books so you can get a ‘piece’ before you commit.

Google a bit about the book, if you think you can get something out of it, watch the talk.
In my opinion, try getting the books “for free”.
If you read it and get something out of it, consider paying for the book.

>Michael Mauboussin, "The Success Equation”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JLfqBsX5Lc
>Quiet: The power of Introverts
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c0KYU2j0TM4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85s9wJlzkrk
>The Brain That Changes Itself - Norman Doidge
https://vimeo.com/14551296
>Antifragile - Nassim Taleb
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4MhC5tcEv0
>One Small Step Can Change Your Life: The Kaizen Way - Robert Maurer
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWUDV6xJRPc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CMQb5FJrop8
>Mentally Tough - James E. Loehr & Peter J. McLaughlin
>Practicing the Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle

> http://pastebin.com/x7BbYimv
Reading material needs to be added/edited

The Way of The Seal
The Code of the Warrior - Rick Fields
The Story of Civilization - Will Durant
The Story of Philosophy - WIll Durant
Starship Troopers - Robert Heinlein 1959 (actually has a lot of really powerful character building stuff in there)
Bravo Two Zero - Andy McNab
Immediate Action - ^
Seven Troop - ^

Also, Project Gutenberg has Thousands of free books.
You could do lot worse than browsing their top 100
http://www.gutenberg.org/browse/scores/top
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>Freedom is having control of your life

You should at least have 3 hobbies/activities.
-One that will pay the bills, gets food on your table
-One that will keep you in shape. (lower you faggot)
-One that you're passionate about and might be able to develop into a career.
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If you're into lifting, taking the tips to better yourself should be simple; as you already have built some self-discipline.

Make peace with yourself and the way things are right now.
Stop thinking the world owes you, how destiny ‘fucked you over’, how those guys have it easier.
Accept things as they are, realize that life is cruel and your circumstances are the ones you were given. You can’t do shit about the starting point, but you can move forward.

Don’t focus in what was given to you, focus in what you’ll achieve.

Eliminate the things you dislike about yourself, about your life. Is as simple as, do you enjoy your job? No? Take steps to change the feeling.
How are you gonna make that? You either make your job more enjoyable, or you change jobs. Simple.
You want a girl? how do you plan to achieve that? Are you too socially inept? Work on that.
Are you piss poor and can’t afford a decent living? Work on that too.

No matter who you are, where you are in your life, or how fucked up you think you are.
You can improve your life. Take control. Move forward.
Dreams keeps us alive, fighting for them makes us feel alive.
About 5-7 years ago, I was a fucking train-wreck.
Right now, I'm doing fairly well.

Get some discipline, set some goals and a way to achieve them.
Cultivate yourself, learn stuff, get your shit together.

And realize, understand. None is coming to save you.
You got to make your way through.
You NEED to take CONTROL.
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If you're still in School. For fuck sake pay attention.

MORE than half of actually doing good in school is attending, the other half is paying attention in class. So then do it.
Or stop it altogether.
If you’re in college and you’re not feeling it, take a semester to think things through.
If you’re in high school, don’t think YOU NEED to enter college to be successful. There are other ways…
Google just started hiring people who never went to college.
WATCH this talk:
http://youtu.be/iG9CE55wbtY

Some learning resources, focusing in code since I’m an ‘IT’ guy:
>duolingo.com
First and foremost. Free language learning tool with a really robust app. THIS IS A MUST. Learning a new language will help you out no matter who you are.
>codeacademy.com
Teaches you the basics, from the ground up.
>codeschool.com/
Similar to codeacademy.
>youtube.com/user/thenewboston
Personal favorite. This guy step by step, learns a shit-ton of programing languages. Give this a check and start watching something you’re interested in.
>codeeval.com
This one I really like, once you get your shit going, it puts you ‘objectives’ to solve through code, last batch are really complex.
>coursera.org
It’s a really nice online-course platform. There are really good things here as well.
>openprocessing.org / processing.org / codepen.io
These sites display some really cool stuff, where you can also check the source code and modify it to see what happens.

As for career options.
Choose anything you want, If you want to go into Philosophy or Social studies, That's fucking great. As long as you’re passionate about it, you’ll find a way.
You can always become a teacher or a writer.

BUT BE FUCKING AWARE THAT YOU WILL HAVE A HARD TIME MAKING MONEY. Don't get a loan to study shit that will be expensive to repay.

Other than that, don't enter into something soulless just because 'I'll get money'.
You only got one fucking life, don’t waste it doing something you hate.

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>have girlfriend
>has broken trust to her but is picking back the pieces for her
>one day talking to a friend asking about my sex life with her
>answered truthfully, tells girlfriend about the story
>becomes whiny and cries and tells me that she's just a "trophy" girl
>i told her that she is not but still believes that she is one

i dunno what to do /adv/, i'm doing very hard to regain her trust for about 3 months now, but she still thinks that she's ugly and says that we will eventually break up. what do? help
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Thread needs more info. It's a big fucking difference whether you said how often you have sex on average, or whether you ever tried handcuffing or something, or that you described the way she acts when she cums or something about her intimate stuff she is horribly embarrassed about.
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>answered truthfully

Never, EVER tell the truth. What the hell were you thinking?
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>>15529530
>>has broken trust to her

what the hell did you do exactly?

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>>15516073
Girls:
How much does a physical disability make you shy away from a guy. If he is confident and able to handle himself does that make it less of a problem. Specifically missing and arm.
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>>15516099
That is one circumstance where I think it would definitely have to go from friends to relationship if we had chemistry and attraction.
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>>15516099
A fair bit. I have no idea how to act around someone missing body parts since I have little to no experience with it so I'd probably behave autisticly.

An arm wouldn't bother me as much missing legs, though.

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So I lost my first kiss on sunday to a girl I don't know that long. There was no love involved. I feel really really bad now. What do I do?
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It's not such a big deal jcismemust look forward to the nice girls you'll meet in the future! You'll have many better kisses so who cares what your first was like :D?
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There is nothing significant about a first kiss.

There is nothing you're "losing"
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>>15506127
>>15506089
Well I care more about a kiss than about having sex tbh, so I consider it a big loss.

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Alright, just like the title says, my boyfriend would rather play WOW than have sex.

We live together and are expecting our first baby and everything is great between us. I just fucking hate bed time. I enjoy cuddling with him and falling asleep with him but he sits at his computer and plays wow until 1, sometimes 2 in the morning. I get that everyone has hobbies but his hobbie is sitting at the computer from when he gets home to when he goes to bed playing wow. I tried to initiate the sex tonight but he would rather play wow and drink. It's getting to the point where I don't feel like he's attracted to me. I told him the other day that I was going to order a vibrator and he got his feelings hurt and I didn't end up ordering it.

I've brought it up and he just throws a hissy fit and then continues to do it. How do I put my foot down?

Pic related, how I feel.
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>>15501288
tell him to meet you at the Goldshire Inn
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>>15501288
He takes you for granted. You should consider breaking up or cheating, if you're fine with cheating.

Seriously, you shouldn't keep staying in a relationship where you are so much neglected. It's not your responsibility to "put your foot down" on this issue. If he is in a relationship with you it should go without saying that he should be attracted to you and desire sexual activities.
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>>15501288
order a vibrator and satisfy your needs. you can do that or log into his account sell everything and delete everything on his toons, then delete his toons, then change password on acct. I mean, he will get everything back eventually but it will be a pain on the ass and you can watch him go crazy a little and enjoy the show (:

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I want to make a life changing decision but I don't have the willpower to do it. The deadline to make this change is in two weeks and I afraid I won't get my shit together and end up living an unhappy life. Where can I find someone that will help me?
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>>15499103
Do it, faggot.
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>>15499116

The problem is it's not just a pull the trigger choice. I want to study in a different country but the whole process of moving, applying, being alone, leaving my GF and not being certain of my fate is confusing and scary.
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>>15499121
Dump your gf. That's a start.

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>>15463994
I am 39 and agree with most of what he says. He states some things as absolutes that I don't think are, but he may also just be trying to exaggerate a bit for effect.
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>>15463994
Oh thank you all knowing Op for bestowing upon us these pearls of wisdom which are your opinion only and full of shit.
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That thing about "honor" is bullshit.

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There's this guy that i dated. Things didn't end well. I taught him everything about women, what to tell them to make them fall for him. Some months later he has a new girlfriend. He is also really ugly and i never thought he would get someone but he did. I feel used and that he only didn't get a girlfriend even sooner because he couldn't. I have full frontal nudes of him and he has none of me. I want to leak his nudes to her, to his family, to everyone that knows him. I could also leak it somewhere and eventually he would bump on them. I'm asking if there are law penalties for doing this. We aren't american. Please no hate, i feel used by that asshole. So much for his love that he imediatelly finds someone else.
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Jealous of happiness eh?
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>>15454777
Do it. Make him pay for what he did. Send it to his girlfriend too.
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Since you're the only one who has these pictures and provided he trusted them to you in private, yes you will be in fucking trouble if you send them

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I matched on tinder with this girl I've met and talked to a few times before, and she's pretty cute and funny. I'm not really sure what do do now though.

Like I have her number in my phone and she came to one of my fraternity's parties last week and we talked for a little while. Should I just wait to see if she'll message me or should I send some flirty message?
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>>15419744
bump
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Ask her to the next one.
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>>15419744

since you're in a fraternity just drug and rape her like they did to you when you joined

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Help me write a Valentine's Day card for my waifu
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Dear nigress,
You so fine, you so fine you blow my mind.
Your bum chin and nigger white teeth
Make me want to jizz buckets in my sheath
So happy v day bb gurl
You know you are my world
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>>15386321
10/10
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>>15386309

Roses are red,
violets are blue,
everything you said,
I want to leave you.

violets are blue,
roses are red,
feminist man hater,
you're fucked in the head,

Roses are red,
violets are blue,
I want to have sex,
Just not with you,

Flowers are wonderful,
and bodies are beautiful,
but when it comes to you,
personalities are awful

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Didn't see one
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I want to love and be loved.
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>>15379753
Me too.
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I'm know as a whore but I'm an 18 year old virgin guy, And no one believes me.

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What do people talk about?

I'm a 20 year old kissless virgin. I've been talking with a girl on snapchat and skype for a couple of days. I've only gotten this far because she thinks I'm cute and by showing her my dick. She is getting pissed off because I'm not talking to her constantly but its just because I have no idea what to say. Normally I dont talk to anyone ever so I am complexly clueless.
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>>15373866
How did you meet her?
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>>15373884
omegle.
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>>15373866
Is talking to her something that you WANT to do? Aside from "oh hey there's some attractive girl who wants to talk to me".

Is there any chance of actually meeting her and having a real relationship with her, or is this just some bored girl looking for some online guy to entertain her until she can find something better to do?

I talk about whatever the fuck I want to talk about. I talk about stuff that I think is interesting, or I ask other people what they're up to and about what they think about things.

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Are hijabi girls pretty much out of bounds? There's a petite girl that wears a hijab in my class and we take the same bus home. I want to talk to her but there's pretty much a 99% chance she'll reject me due to religious reasons, right?
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What ethnicity dude?
Islam is not a race.
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>>15359844
What does this have to do about race? My race?
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>>15359851
Her ethnicity. I'm middle eastern, don't be intimidated by her headdress.

Islam is different in each country. Where she from?

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