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Have you talked to someone from your "friends" group about this? Did they came up with an excuse?
Are you a guy or a girl?

>>16440002
I didn't get invited to my best friend's 30th birthday party even though everyone else from our group of friends from school did.

Worst part one of the fuckers was smug as fuck about it. I actually considered our entire circle close as brothers at one point.

It hurt as fuck, now I just moved on. Luckily I met 1 other person I feel I can talk to just as well as I could with them. Still quiet the shame to lose a connection like that.

>>16440041
guy and i only aw the pictures like 20 minutes ago so i didn't talk to anyone about it. I don't think i want to

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>>16439971
Mercer

Mercy & Charity are black girl names

percy, parity

Honor

>cuddling > sex
That's the norm for most people.

>>16439945
well that makes me feel a little better at least. thanks.

>>16439941
Maybe true just asexual/have a very low drive.

You could talk to a doctor or a specialized therapist. Or you could try to find another asexual girl.

Also, I don't know where you got
>Girls want a guy that doesn't care about them or anyone, that only cares about sex, that likes to watch porn.

my grandfather had like 3 wives nigga

>>16439916
You're a wizard!

Apart from scaring off chicks, what magical powers do you have

>>16439916
Are you deformed or truly ugly or what?

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What is this meme?

You should get medical help

>>16439828

generally, its a bit of both. he'll convince himself its not sexual but it might spill over.

but if no one else was there, its definitely him interested in you

No no no. Grabbing your neck, ruffling your hair and asking you out on a hike? Come on op. He clearly wants to bang you and is testing to see how far you let him. This isn't normal at all and you should tell this old bastard to knock it off.

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>>16439828
>grabbing my neck

Have you told your fiancé about this?

>>16439755
Too many times.

He thinks I'm being irrational and tells me he just likes to look at nice things and I shouldn't care.

>>16439762
So I'm trying to not care.

>>16439721

i lived in macarthur park and i literally never had a problem there. everyone mostly minds their own business.

i now live in hollywood which is mostly niceb ut anytime someone ghetto comes around, they pick a fight with me. for some reason they think i 'looked' at them and that is apparently the worst offense. even if they ask if you got a cigarette first, they will threaten you after.

ironically the worst situation was a ghetto white guy trying to start a fight, and a big black man came over and saved me. very fun.

anywho, my advice, dont look at anyone. dont look in their general direction. if they dont approach you first, dont approach them.

>>16439733

more stories from my life in the ghetto

>be me
>skinny white boy, five foot six, literally one hundred and ten pounds
>carrying a billion bags of grocceries trying to get home
>only me and really big scary black guy on the bus
>hes way in the back.
>i give one passing glance
>uh oh
>he gets up
>Walks all the way the fuck over to me
>sits down
>"you look like a smart kid" in the most thug voice i have ever heard
>"I-I guess...."
>"any idea how i can download music now that limewires down

i spend the next ten minutse trying to explain bittorrent.

>>16439741

another one

>be me
>walking down with some grocceries
>just tryna get home
>see a big ole gang of 'urban youths'
>they all look at me with this really intense stare as i walk by
>suddenly they all yell at the same time "ZACK!!!!!" really excited
>im confused
>look down at my shirt
>im wearing my black power ranger shirt
>zack was the black power ranger
>i get some pats on the back as i walk by

btw that black power ranger shirt seems to get me a lot of leeway. most black people respond well to it if they are remotely young enough, and even hot black chicks will walk over and talk to me if i wear it. was pretty neat.

funny thing is, i have no quarrels with the black power ranger, but my favorite black ranger was actually the asian one named adam. but i digress.

My friend told me that he uses me, and I'm basically his handy ego stroker and tear sponge, and I agree with her, so I tried to cut contact with him and he basically once begged me not to, and when I finally did, after a 2 months or so started subtly accosting me again and we are again in the same place.

I don't know what's his problem. He compliments me on my inteligence but then ignores me to converse with some chick about soap opera. Asks me out and confirms ten times just to flake on me in last minute.

Why he won't leave me alone? What do I do? Pleas adv, give me some wisdom

>>16439695
Yeah you are.
You have to decide if this is Ok with you, I don't think he's a bad person but he clearly has no romantic interest in you, he just thinks you're funny to fuck around with you.

If it's not ok then tell him. Say you treat me bad and I don't appreciate it please stop messaging me. If he continues just ignore him. I know its tough.

>I'm a fat
Losing weight isn't hard; you just need focus.

>pretty boring hobbies and interests
So do I, and despite that, women still enjoy my company and being with me.

>>16439680
>I would think she was depressed if I didn't know she was on anti depressants.
anti depressants aren't magic.

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>>16439698
I've asked her multiple times if she was feeling depressed and she says no. Plus during the week she seems fine and happy/ smiling often

>>16439680
might be a weird answer, but have you tried talking to her mother?

>>16439637
If she's using the pill correctly, you're using spermicide correctly, and you're practicing withdrawal correctly, I'd say you're pretty damn good.

>If she's using the pill correctly

bro why did you have unprotected sex with her

Tomorrow is also when she is supposed to get her period

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I love pussy...but love freedom more.

>>16439634
advice...anyone?

>silence
Thanks /adv/...now I know what to do.

Learn to love yourself first and the rest takes care of itself.

>>16439597
You have to value yourself. There is no amount of fucking that will give you that. Try meditation of self affirmation

As a guy I was never pursued when I was younger and I'm still not perused right now (20 y/o)

I tend to attract the sluttiest girls you can imagine, they're good looking but they know they are so they can get with anybody they want at any time and so they do.

To start with I was upset and depressed that nobody found me good looking enough to want to pursue me. Then that turned into a stubborn hate and now I just feel like, fuck everybody I don't need anyone. And I think that's a pretty good mindset to have. Because if you can learn to appreciate yourself, and realize you don't need anybody else and shouldn't rely on anybody else in order to be happy then you can find happiness within yourself and the things you like to do.

Not sure if you can relate or that helps.

>>16439582

>is it possible

i mean yes but that doesn't mean they will or wont. you are asking ab it of a confusing question.

the best thing you can do is fake a reference. if its from the old job that helps, but simply have a friend from that old company pretend to be your manager.

>>16439591
Hadn't thought of that. I do have one guy who is also likely to be fired so he might see eye to eye on this lol

Why would you ask for a reference from a company you were fired from? It doesn't make sense. Nothing good can come from that.

>>16439551
Get it revised

>>16439555

Can't, it's a definitive ostomy. Short story, had bladder health issues, bladder was removed, ostomy created and now I live with a bag glued to it.

>>16439551
I'm assuming you two haven't had sex then.

Look, you can tell her. You can. If she runs, then obviously it wouldn't have worked anyway.

However, based off the fact that you two have not had sex at all, or even seen each other naked, I would be hesitant. You have to tell her at some point, but when the timing is opportune. And if she loves you too, then she'll accept it.