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Me and gf got in a drunk argument the other night, she wouldn't stop calling me an asshole, etc, and I ended up basically leaving without saying much (we were both really frustrated/sad/pissed, mind you.) Before I left she even said "I hope we'll talk about this tomorrow but I assume you might not want to talk to me again after tonight" a little before I left.
2 days passed and I calmed down and decided to text her "hi" and no response. Next day I explain that I didn't want to stick around in the cold for someone to yell rude remarks at me and I felt disrespected and left. Still no response. Few hours later I say look we really shouldn't end this over the bad night the other night.
Well, going on the 4th day and nothing. What would you do in my situation? My options (unless you have others) are:
1) Just ignore from here on out. No more texts. Ever.
2) reply with "fuck it. you weren't that special anyway. take care." or a variation of that.
3) reply with "well at least have the decency to reply with something so i know where we stand"
4) reply with "i have a recording of the last few minutes of our conversation before i left, and yeah you were being an absolute piece of shit. would you like to hear it?" (this one might seem psycho)
5) reply with "i take your lack of replies as we're over. alright. don't bother ever talking to me again because i'm just going to block and delete your # and everything. delete my number. good riddance, you drunk mess."
or
6)if you don't reply by tonight i assume it's safe to say i can "move on" by tonight and start mingling again.
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7) Aw babe don't be like that. You wanted to talk about it when things calmed down so let's talk about it. If you are done, have the decency to say so otherwise I'm just deleting and blocking everything by tonight and moving on.
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1, 3, or 7 are your best options. Everything else is desperate or petty and you're going to hate yourself. Or give it a couple of more days then send 3 or 7.
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>>16445676
this is all more or less the same two choices OP. here is the thing: you are giving her wayyyy too much power. each of your responses are designed to ellicit a reaction or ask her permission.
if she can be either mad or infantile enough not to respond to you, why should you care about her enough that you and basically asking her permission to be single.
man up, and either say 'you got 1 hour to respond to me or were done' or simply 'were breaking up.
if you want her back, give her the 1 hour. dont budge on this. if you are tired of her shit, tell her you are done. DONT ASK HER IF YOU GUYS ARE DONE. dont say you are taking her silence as breaking up. say 'fuck this, ur ignoring me, so im dumping you.'
be a man, geez.
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I feel like 2 would get a response though. I know how people work. Pretty much ignoring or letting them know they weren't that special will ring something inside of them.
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Could my ex have gotten pregnant this way? 2015-11-09 20:32:03 Post No.16445671
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I have always used condoms on her, but we both knew at some point our relationship wouldn't last. She has been getting her period every month but has just gotten a blood test that confirmed she's 15 weeks pregnant (I was with her).
She said that she took my used condom (juice in it and all) out of the trash and poured some of it in her pussy. What?? I feel like that's rape.
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>>16445671
(She said it was moments after I left the room and was still warm)
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It's incredibly unlikely that she got pregnant from pouring your baby juice from the condom into her vag.
just like, really unlikely
she was probably cheating on you.
she sounds crazy so get a test done if she has the kid
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Getting pregnant that way is not impossible, but it is very unlikely. I agree that getting a test done would be a good idea.
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I'm so in Love with this 9001/10 girl I recently met that I can't go on with normal life...I can't do anything else than think of her the whole day. I can't even play video games because the process of thinking about her takes 100% of my brain. we already dated and texted alot since then and we are definitly meeting again but I dont know what to do in the meantime. It's like I can't handle anything until I kiss her..it's my only aim. although everything is going nicely I'm still extremely afraid I wont reach this goal. is there any advice for this kind of situation? pls help
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>>16445659
Uh. Lean in and kiss her after your next date?
Shit, OP. That was fucking hard.
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Oh and I'm pretty sure I will never find such a wonderful girl, so this makes me even more afraid of losing her..
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>>16445673
the problem is she seems to be very very careful with body contact. like the complete opposite of a slut if u know what I mean. typical "hard to get" girl. and I'm totally ok with that I want to go slow.. but how do I know when shes ready...
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Is it normal to be completely apathetic towards women? 2015-11-09 20:23:18 Post No.16445645
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Is it normal to be completely apathetic towards women?
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I'm a 0 on the Kinsey scale, but for the life of me I can't get excited about women these days. So many just seem boring and dull, I can't be bothered to try anymore when it comes to dating. It's like I've become completely apathetic towards the idea of being in a romantic relationship with them. How do I get over this and get excited about women again /adv/?
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Well why do you think other people are interested and excited about women?
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To be fair, there are also women who are apathetic towards men as well.
All of you are fucked to die alone.
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>>16445648
All the >tfw no gf threads here and all the threads about how to get [x] girl, observing other guys. Don't get me wrong, I used to chase women before, but now I just don't see the point.
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I'm getting ignored by a girl 2015-11-09 19:52:06 Post No.16445574
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I was at the mall, this girl walks past me. She is so hot. Cute, slender body, nice makeup, etc. She walked by too fast but we made eye contact. Then I see her in front of the Starbucks line (this was in the foodcourt) I stopped her and told her she was too beautiful to go unnoticed. She seemed really cool about it. I made some physical contact by grabbing her waist and she didn't necessarily resist. I asked her if she lived around here she said yeah, I got her to give me her number, and we had small talk and then she said she had to leave to babysit. I tried to text and call her but she's not answering and it has been a week now.
She's really pretty and it's not like I'm ugly. What do?
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>>16445574
>I acossted a girl at the mall, even put my hands on her uninvited
>She seemed really cool about it, but really she's just being nice and doesn't want to make a scene in a public place, because it would be highly embarassing
>Puts up with your unwarranted invasion of her personal space and gives up her phone number just hoping to get you away
>/adv/ why is she ignoring me?
Kill yourself. You're the reason tumblr feminism exists. You're the exact creepy fucking dickhole they rant about.
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She dealt with a werido without causing any ruckus.
She probably gave you a fake number.
Why would a random woman on the street start dating you just because you said she was cute? Really?
It just shows how shallow you are... you don't even know this girl and you somehow expect your relationship to mean something to her.
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>>16445574
>its not like im ugly
prove it, post pics.
that being said, there can be a million reasons she wont respond. I gave my number to the flirtatious waiter today, but that doesn't mean hes going to call me. i get hit on by a dozen or so attractive guys a week, but just being attractive isn't enough anymore. if i gave a chance to everyone one of those guys, id be on 12 dates a week. thats way too much coffee, and i dont drink coffee at all, so you see my dilemma.
point being that she may have thought you were cute and sweet, but didnt feel a spark. maybe she wants to call but she thinks you are too pushy what with grabbing her waist and all.
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I was shopping around online looking for health insurance and to understand what health insurance costs for my future (I'm 21) and I didn't realize I put my information in a system or anything but now a bunch of health insurance companies keep calling me and I keep saying "Sorry, I didn't realize I had subscribed to anything or requested information. I have health insurance already and was just looking around, thank you."
Anything I can do here or should I just keep on answering the calls like this?
I don't know where it's coming from because I never made a log in or anything.
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I know it's not like a big problem but bump.
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That's what happens when you do those online things.
Often times, these sites ask you to put information and then they give you details. They use that information to call you and persuade you.
When they call them, you tell them you already have a good insurance and that you want to please be put on their don't call list.
Alternatively, just look at your damn phone and if you don't recognize the number, just don't pick up. They'll stop calling after awhile.
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>>16445536
I don't know if it will help anything, but make sure your name and number on on the Do Not Call registry. That will help a little.
Otherwise, the place you did sign up at, do you know where it was? Can you contact them to take you off any mailing/subscriber lists? Unfortunately, if they already sold or shared your information with a third party, you're probably screwed. You just have to be persistent and ask to be removed from their call list. I know it doesn't help all the time, but it helps some times.
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Since I can't find work or get any rides to the DMV, I'm being forced to work with my uncle in his landscaping job where he jams all his tools on the back of his truck since he doesn't want a trailer for them. It's extremely shitty and I don't get paid, once in a blue moon he might buy me a hoagie or something. When I ask him what's the point, he flips out and rants about my mother working. The problem is my mother doesn't really give a fuck that I'm out with him and the rationale is that "I need something to do." This has been going on for about two years.
What can I do about this?
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>>16445494
Tell your uncle you're not going to work for free anymore. Bottom line. You need money to be able to afford, at the very least, a bicycle so you can try to better your life with other jobs. (also to put away money to move out cause your family sucks).
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>>16445507
Ask your uncle to drive you to the DMV in his big boy truck or alternatively stop being such a fucking pushover and tell him you need a wage to make something out of your life.
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Get a real job.
Any guys with thinning hair around?
What are you doing to help maintain it?
Are you taking any medications like minoxidil or finasteride?
Have you tried using a volumizing shampoo? Did it help?
Help a balding brother out!
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I won't I'll shave it all off when it gets bad enough.
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>>16445477
cut it short
make the rest of your body look better
dont be a bitch about it
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My hair is thinning and would like suggestions as well
For starters though I switched from Head and Shoulders to a nicer shampoo, although I forget the name right now :\
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So i want to write a small poem to a girl that will be my gf, despite long distance.
how does it sound?
>You and me, it should be
>what we have is special
>i think we can agree
>you're in my head 24/7
>i just want you
>that is my heaven
too cheesy?
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it just depends, man.
Personally I think it's slightly cheesy in a cute as fuck way. ;_ ; be my sempai
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>>16445428
you think so? if thats the case it should be alright.
shes into that stuff
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Honestly, this place is full of insulting keyboard warriors. I can't tell if they're serious or not. So I would like to say that if your life is shit and all you do is insult and troll genuine posts then you deserve your hell.
On a serous note for those who are real.
With lack of honest opportunity. (Opportunity that does not involve taking it in the ass or sucking dick and selling drugs)
With the lack of decency in the workplace.
(Three hour shifts, being fired after whistleblowing or standing up for one's self)
Not to mention the countless problems outside this promise land and the people that willingly commit these atrocities.
Let's say that I'm superman or goku.
Why should I continue inhibiting myself and not destroy the planet?
Most of you are crabs and would rather be distracted than actively involved in reforming society and treating it's maladies.
Tell me, why should we earth as a collective even live? Why should I even try to free you from the chains of ignorance and oppression?
Why shouldn't I simply enslave you all.
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>>16445367
Posts like this is why I legitimately think schizophrenics should be gassed
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>>16445367
Holy shit. Tip your fedora any harder and you'd cause a tsunami on the other side of the world.
Fucking fuck you're a gigantic faggot.
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>>16445396
For you. ;)
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Is it true that women find it unattractive when men are emotionally open with them?
Not like weeping woe-is-me tampon tier shit but like just talking about how they honestly feel about shit
I keep getting very polarized responses on this. Guys tell me it's a turn off, girls tell me it's good and healthy
thanks /adv/
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>>16445336
Listen to guys on this one. Women bullshit to you to no end. Men know how women are. If you aren't a rich young brad pitt, keep it to yourself.
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>>16445336
Huge turn-off.
As soon as you show any signs of weakness in front of a woman, she'll be instantly disgusted and won't really see you as a real man anymore. As soon as that happens she'll start ignoring you, grow cold, distant and find herself a real alpha male.
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>>16445336
People in general don't like weakness
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Ask a 25 year old white middle class American with a 20 year old half Asian girlfriend anything
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>>16445330
Didn't you post this girl last week asking us to rate her and then got mad when we said she was average?
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>>16445330
Half Asian oh no wonder. When you posted her last week I was going to say she looks like my doppelgänger except Latina. Does she know you're posting her? Don't think she'd be happy about it
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>Option A: getting a job that will reward me with more money than I need in a country I will not enjoy
>Option B: getting a job in a country I enjoy and where I am more likely to be happy, but paid 25% less and where the salary growth will be non negligibly inferior than option A
I am stuck. If option B had a good income, I would run for it. But I am tired of low money income after all these years at university. I also feel like finally getting a decent apartment, fulfilling my hobbies like travelling and living a comfortable life with furniture that are not second handed or IKEA's cheapest model. And I will definitely have to forget about it should I go for B.
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How much money are we talking for each? I'd go for option B unless the difference is really, really significant. You can budget carefully and save up money to allow for things like travel (which truthfully isn't that expensive if you know how to look for cheap flights and hotels) and nice furniture unless you're living paycheck to paycheck with B.
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>>16445340
This is a 25% difference.
Option B leaves me enough margin to do little savings but it will require me to carefully drive my budget, where option A would allow fancier standards of living and more extra stuff.
The thing is also that I feels like "being exploited" because the workload of B is slightly heavier than the one of A though the final paycheck is thinner.
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>>16445340
To be less cryptic
A is being an engineer in Germany 2500euro/month
B is also an engineering job but in Tokyo, for 2000 euros/month. We should consider that the price of "healthy" food is astronomic in Tokyo and that the apartment fee will be well more expensive.
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Virgin broadband has blocked me from /b/ and I want to die.
I can't un-ban it by logging in since I don't have the login info as its my parents house. Any tech fags or LITERALLY ANYONE OUT THERE KNOW HOW to get rid of this without logging in or being tracked please put me out of my misery
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>/b/
why don't you ask your parents for the login info
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>>16445107
>involving either
>/b/
>not all of them
kek
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>>16445107
Ask mum and dad for the login details and then tell them you need to unban your super secret internet club from the filter
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Quick details, I'm an 18 year old dude, I guess. I can provide more info if you'd like, just ask.
Pic related, it's me.
It all started on a school lunch time.
It was around 2 PM, I was heading back to school with a recent acquaintance I met at school (we've only been together twice and he's 18 I think).
That's when 3 men said hi to him and approached us. He asked us if we had cigarrettes which I replied "No", since I only had rolling tobacco, stupid of me, I know. But in my country, we call cigarrettes and rolling tobacco in an extremely different way, and he asked for 1 cigarrette.
I said I had rolling tobacco though, he took it from my hand and said thanks (it was a full bag). I told him that I was giving him enough for 1, like he asked.
That's when they stopped walking and gathered around me. And then, they didn't say anything at first, they just pushed their chests against me.
What was I going to do against 3 gang members? Yes, I forgot to say. They're from a local, but big and agressive, gang called "Gangue da Torre", from a place called Torre (duh).
My "acquaintance" got him to give only half back and that ruined my day, but I thought it was the end of it.
Sadly, it wasn't.
Today, the same happened but there were about 7 people and only 2 approached me. They tried to take my money but they gave up on it when I asked them "Are you seriously going to take my bus and lunch money as well?". But they told me this. "Next time, if you don't give us everything you have, including your money, you'll be left bleeding, passed out and naked on the floor."
I've been suicidal throughout my whole life, but I just started getting meaning in my life and straightening it out. I think I'm done. I think this is it for me.
4chan is probably my last chance for advice. If not.. Then, I'm out of this forsaken place.
Police never, ever screws with that gang, just so you know. And even if they try, it might back fire and get me hurt, stabbed or even killed. I don't know anymore.
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>>16445097
Go to their house and gut them, one by one.
Become A hero.
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Now that I looked at your pic, forget it, you're juat some emo pansy.
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Learn a martial art overnight and kick the shit out of one or two of them. You also might want to bring your samurai sword in case of additional attacks. Then go do the same to the police to show what a bunch of pussies they are too.