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>>16491117
sue them for transphobia

>>16491119
Then more sexist against woman serving in the military cuz thats a rule or something

>>16491117
You must be swift as the coursing river.

>>16491087
It's pretty hard, almost a catch 22.

Get a P.O. box and live in a car.

Extremely difficultly. Sleeping will be the most difficult aspect unless you're lucky enough to get a night job. Sleeping during the day is actually pretty easy if you're clever. The other shit like laundry is pretty straightforward too.

If you're homeless you're likely also bank accountless. This means you'll be aware of local check cashing shops. Ask the people who work there if they know of places which rent out mailboxes. It's basically like an informal PO Box system. You use the place's address (it's usually like a dry cleaner or something) and they have little cubbies to hold the stuff that comes for you. Reasonable rates, all things considered. It gives you a legit looking street address to put down on your applications. This is the sort of thing which people who frequent check cashing shops tend to use, so they'll know. Welcome to the seedy life.

>>16491104
how would i stash my clothes and belongings

Two words: other people. And no, not drill sergeants. Buddies. Partners. Individuals to whom I have a responsibility. We're by and large a social species and it shows in our personal enterprises.

>>16491089
I don't really have other people around. My family lives out of my city and I have few friends here and there who I hangout with when we have time but they're just as lazy and shit as I am.

How do you build a productive network like that? Where do I even start?

>>16491082
You're in luck my friend, follow these steps.

1.) Remind yourself of what exactly it is you want to accomplish

2.) Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shquazmK8BE

3.) Write down a list of things you can do right now to accomplish that thing in step 1.

4.) Do it

As far as the day to day process, you have to fall in love with the grind. Realize that every loser you know is that way because they don't believe in the day-to-day grind. It's what separates the average from the masters.

>>16491044
Could be performance anxiety, maybe you haven't spent enough time around her to be comfortable.

>>16491049
I'm very comfortable with her. I've been dating her for 2 months.

>>16491049
I was able to fuck a fat ugly girl, but I can't even fuck my beautiful girlfriend? It makes no sense and it drives me crazy when this shit happens.

Be charismatic.
Be skilled.

Femon here physical traits I like are glasses, eyes , beards and muscles prefferbly bear mode.

Most imporant though is if they are funny and tell good puns and if they have lots of empathy. Also if they go on reddit I want nothing to do with them whinning and anger issues are my biggest turn offs in a guy.

>>16491009
All right, thanks.
>>16491010
If only all girls were like you.

My experience is as long as you're honest & open with them, they'll be able to help.

Also be ready for things to take a turn you might not expect. Sometimes the problem isn't what you first thought it was.

Also it may take multiple visits for results.

avoid going to private ones out of recommendations

try someone who works for a hospital or similar where they have co-workers and are somewhat responsible / held accountable

try to make sessions conversations rather than monologues

>>16490997
There may not be anything wrong with you, other than the fact you're lazy. Before making the appointment, ask if they'll tell you what you want to hear.

Seriously... don't go expecting them to give you all the answers.

>>16490990
Just go to the local college campus and find the Rasta piece of shit, all you literally need to do.

>>16490990
grow you own, op

>>16490998

Yeah, I've tried that too. I guess I look too intimidating or something. The thing is is that even though I don't look it I'm a very nice person. I'll keep trying though!

>>16491018

I would, even have two decent quality seeds that my old dealer gave me but I wouldn't know the first thing about it desu. I'd need fans and lamps and space, plus I'd have to keep it a secret from the landlord and all.

People tell me weed flows like water in Asheville, but all I've encountered is people that think I'm a NARC. Funny because weed is decriminalized here.

Presuming you're 18, give or take.
If this is the case, holy shit quit worrying. Nothing's happened yet. Quit worrying over nothing.

Be sociable and make good friends before looking for a relationship. You still have time to learn.

meet people try to have comfortable conversations, as years go by you will find people through the first people you hang around with and you'll already be at the point of choosing who you hang out with and who you don't without realising

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i've got the exact same problem. I'm thinking she's not interested. Quite disappointed.

>>16490952
This has to be bait.

>>16490975
Mate should I just go on and ask her out? If she's interested she'll say yeah, if she's not she'll make an excuse and no more time has to be wasted. I'm trying to find a way to do it but can't think of anyway

>>16490927
She has had a normal dating life though

When you say you've been "seeing" the girl, have you been dating, or at least spending one-on-one time? Or is she a friend, or coworker, what's the situation here?

If you haven't been on a date yet, ask her out on a date. If you've already been dating, at the end of one of those dates, ask her if she'd like to come home with you.

>>16490938
>When you say you've been "seeing" the girl, have you been dating, or at least spending one-on-one time? Or is she a friend, or coworker, what's the situation here?

She invited me over to watch some shows on netflix, which we did (i don't know if she expected me to make a move)

We've been to the gym together, where on the way back to dropping her off she offered to treat to ice cream, so we too a detour and sat there and talked.

We most recently met up with a friend of mine and his girlfriend at a restaurant and we have plans to meet for dinner before i fly home for thanksgiving

This is pretty obvious, but no government organization would ever do anything like that. It was probably a scam to fish emails and account information.

>>16490906
i hope you didn't pay with a credit/debit card

Scam city. Maybe those PoS systems are printing too much information from credit/debit transactions on the receipt and he knows it.

All too often when payment methods are used to verify account access, they ask for the last 4 digits...which are the ones most often printed on receipts. They X out the others and openly print the most dangerous ones.

>>16490852
She sounds too old for you. Find someone your own age.

Just report and move on.

>>16490852
Sick freak

It is very likely that he is into you. You never know for sure.

The best way to determine is if he does this with anyone else. If this is regular behavior, it's friendly. if you;'re the only one, into you.

the only reason a guy ever gives a woman attention is to get into her pants.

come on now.

>>16490839
I dot know if he does it to other people

Almost same feels as I have except that ive never had a gf.

>>16490722
sounds like you're depressed. Try finding the cause or changing something in your life.

>>16490752
Yeah I was thinking that too... but not sure how to go about it to my partner. Like i still joke and laugh and that...

how many "no"s have you received since you started looking for a girlfriend?

>>16490742

Can you read?

Well a girlfriend requires time. If you are not in your point of life to have one there is nothing wrong with that. I am a femon and are engaged to a guy who had his first gf me when he was 26 I saw nothing odd about it. I have even met 30 year olds who got their first gf. Everyone is different do not feel bad for being different. I have a little brother who is 20 and has no gf ever I told him not to worry because it is better to wait and take the right risk on someone than to risk and waste yourself on someone you are not really sure about.

Take a deep breath everything will be okay Anon. Keep up the good work and try to worry less things will fall into place just make sure you know what it is that is imporant. The best relationship is one where you are bestfriends with your partner.