I finally got a gf and now Im worried she'll leave me because Im shy and dont talk much. This is how I've always been, I simply dont talk unless I have something to say, but I can feel her getting uncomfortable when theres too much silence. We do talk about a lot of stuff, but Im obviously not normie level talkative.
she says she doesn't mind and obviously really likes me, and I like her too, but I can feel this might be a problem later on.
Then improve your social skills
>>16489632
any tips?
how do you think it would work out if you told her that you feel great when you spend time with her, but that you're worried about the fact that you don't talk unless you have something to say? and if you ask her if the silence makes her uncomfortable?
Hello /adv/ please give me some advice
I have a big problem taking a dump. Seriously.
It seems that my shitty diet consisting of pizzas, pasta, chicken and other stuff has came back and started biting me in the ass. Every shit is like a Mount Rushmore passing through my sphincter. I won't get into many details but it hurts and it isn't getting any better.
What I tried so far
Vegetable meal at least 4 times a week
8 glasses of water a day
So far I've been doing this for two weeks and so far as I mentioned it didn't get better.
It still hurts.
So adv am I missing something. My butthole feels really bad and needs help.
>>16489555
WHY ARE YOU EATING SO MUCH FIBER
HOLY SHIT VEGGIES ONLY DIET IS GOING TO MAKE IT SO MUCH FUCKING WORSE JESUS CHRIST
>>16489563
I didn't mean VEGGIES ONLY DIET. I said I eat at least 4 meals a WEEK oc vegetables.
Metamucil. Thank me later. /thread
Also, start making an effort to eat whole grains rather than refined carbs, that makes a big difference too
My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up for about 2 months. Now we got back but there is a little issue:
During the time we were broken up, he started talking to a girl whose blog he followed for a while when we were together.
She really likes him and they would talk on the phone at night until she fell asleep.
When we got back together, my boyfriend said that it's not a big deal. He stopped talking to her (after explaining to her why) after I asked him to, but he tells me she still sends him messages.
He says he wants to talk to her as she is his friend, but he won't since I asked him not to.
I don't know if I am being too jealous here, but the reason I don't want them to talk is:
>As mentioned, the phone calls until she falls asleep. That's not really something "friends" do...
>She calls him the same "baby name" I call him
>The whole reason he even started talking to her is because we were broken up. I'm not sure what else is there to talk about now? He said he can ask her for advice about me since she's a girl, lol... But she is in love with him!
So anyway, am I unreasonable in saying I don't want him to talk to her?
>Pic Related
This can only end in tears
>>16489429
>relationship already broke down and went to shit
>got back together because you werent used to being lonely
good luck lol
stop harping on about the girl. who cares. if he wants to do it he'll do it. he already knows you dont want him to and thats fine, you dont need to worry about it anymore.
she was his rebound sex, now she is orbiting him
hey /adv/,
female anon: pls share your opinion about hairy guys and wether or not they should shave and if so where they should shave
male anon: pls share your experiences with girls concerning your body hair
thanks in advance,
a hairy anon
I prefer hairy over shaved. But i also prefer medium hairy over very hairy. When it comes to pubes i prefer them groomed but not shaved.
Honestly, both hairy and hairless men have their own sort of appeal. I would make the decision based on how much time you're willing to spend shaving (it adds up quick) and what your overall image is. If you've got a very masculine image, shaving will just fuck it up.
Honestly though you should probably just leave the hair. Trim your pubes though, nobody wants to pull hair out of their teeth after a blowjob.
>>16489202
This is what i'd consider very hairy.
how to get good at bantering ?
i wana be able to make quick witty retorts.
i borderline get bullied in my social circle cuz i am not good at it.Although i have my moments i get rekt most of the time.
>>16489022
bump for advice
>>16489022
To be honest, it just flows. It also depends to whom you are doing it. It is like barely crossing a line as in a provocation.
Don't overthink it, I have a friend who tries to imitate me, just to end in a very awkward situation.
i dont get it. why no reply /adv ?
Ex friend requested me on skype after i deleted it a few days ago. Now shes sitting online her account... I check her profile and it says she only has one contact (me).
Do i IM her? Do i wait til she maybe IMs me? What is she doing sitting online with this screenname when she wont even message me? Do you think she wants me to message her?
Ex girlfriend*
Give us context, for fucks sake. We can't read minds yet. Did you end on good terms?
>>16489103
Sorry
Ended on good terms, ended cuz of distance, and she lost feelings, i still had them really. Tried IMing her after the breakup but she was super cold even tho we ended it really well and slept together that night. But shes barely wanted to talk since. 2 year relationship, 2 monthhs since breakup
would it be weird to tell a guy I love him when I genuinely do but I'm also interested in someone else? would I be tricking him even though he knows i have interest in someone else? can i be in love with two people at once?
Sounds like a pretty fast way to lose a friend, OP.
At least, I assume he's your friend.
Shitty thing to do imo
This is a classic "can I have my cake and eat it too."
Yes it's possible to be attracted to two separate people, and to love both of them. HOWEVER, no it is not always possible to HAVE both of them. You may want to consider your priorities. Don't go fuck some other person just because you find them attractive for a moment while you leave the person you're "in love" with behind.
For example. I'm not really attracted to my girlfriend anymore however, I love her personality and she makes me laugh. She makes me happy. So I have a little bit of discipline and only sleep with her.
just control yourself. If you're in a phase of your life where you want to sleep with other people then don't get into a relationship, even if you "love them". Go fuck other people, and maybe you'll get lucky and they will still want you. Life is fickle like that. Don't want to lose that chance, then don't go around fucking other people. That easy.
The title says it all. Share things that life has taught you, wisdom you have gathered or basically what ever which is related to the topic.
>>16488857
>>16488857
People are shit
People are great
Women are terrible
Men too
Both are also really great
The world is both a beautiful place and a living hell
Don't pet strangers
Don't talk to dogs
Eat food
Hydrate and dehydrate
Imbibe
Don't procreate, or do but you probably shouldn't
God and Science are the same thing
>>16488857
No matter what you do, she'll leave you.
>>16488899
pro tip : she can also leave you by dying.
I am 25, married, female. Lately many of my friends have had babies.
Within the past year I've gone from finding them disgusting, to not that bad, to cute, and finally to imagining what a child would be like with my husband and me.
I am craving that now.
We've talked, and decided we need to have certain debts paid and a certain amount of money saved before having a family.
But it is getting ridiculous. A few months ago my period was almost 10 days late. I took a pregnancy test and had to restrain from crying when it was negative.
How do I stop this?
>>16488434
you can't. it is normal biological urge.
considering that you have debts to paid, do not bring a human into poor family conditions and debts just because "you wanted it". Talk with your partner about it first
>>16488434
Do you want children, or don't you?
Take some time to figure that out before you actually have one because once you cross that line you can't exactly go back.
A kid is a huge responsibility that will change literally every aspect of your life. The average kid costs near a quarter million dollars to raise from birth to age 18, and that's not including college funds.
You need to really, really think about this and talk to your husband.
I'm a 25 year old guy and I've never wanted to have kids; most of my reasons are personal and stem from my own childhood experiences, but I also have practical reasons like financial, etc.
This is why you should avoid women. They are fucking crazy.
Where can I obtain a gf that thinks her body is sinful and is ashamed of it?
Burger King
>>16487686
That's also easy on the eyes*
>>16487692
Subway
>this girl starts going to highschool with me
>almost instantly had a crush on her
>grew to be somewhat good friends with her
>she even tells me about how she was diagnosed with bi polar (she told me she didn't tell anyone else)
>we talked to each other all the time
>we even hung out once or twice outside of school
>she moves to another city about a half an hour away and stops going to my school
>haven't seen her after she moved
>we talk online but that's it
>we toss the idea of hanging out but her work schedule stopped us so far
>last time messaging her was 2 weeks ago
>message her on facebook today
>"hey"
>she messages back "hey"
>I reply with "what's up"
>she goes offline
>goes online and offline
>even see her share posts when i go on my news feed
>message still isn't even marked as seen
This was hours ago and I never got a reply. I honest to god really like this girl and I want to be with her. I can't imagine being with anyone else but I doubt she feels the same way. I don't know what to fucking do about this anymore. There are so many feelings I have for her but I would never be able to her about them. It feels like I'm nothing and like she's everything but I could never tell her that. Is this love or is it just obsession. I have no idea what to think. I've never had an actual relationship before so I don't know what to make of any of it
Hmm. What's your age and her age?
>>16487654
we're both 18
Should've made a move while you had a chance. Just be patient and see if you can meet up with her in the future and make a move. She's moved away and it's not like a rejection is that bad, you'll be kicking yourself if you don't at least try.
Which do you guys think is a worse hit to an american college guy's attractiveness in the eyes of girls around campus: being overweight, or being non-white?
Ignoring that weight can be changed, of course.
this is stupid.
>>16487344
Who the fuck cares you little bitch you'll never have the balls to approach a girl no matter how perfect you are
Now ask for some advice
Depends on how fat. Generally both are unattractive, though if you are black you may attract women with daddy issues, and if you are an asian you may attract weeaboos.
What is it called when two people are aware that they've both got romantic feelings for each other but aren't dating?
>>16484868
I don't think there's a term for that.
It's called being aware that they've both got romantic feelings for each other but aren't dating.
Not everything has a label, and not everything needs a label either
>>16484868
highschool
>boyfriend is going away for Christmas with his friends (all boys and all party/take drugs/drink heavily)
>I am going away for Christmas with my family and family friends to a beach house
>Childhood friend Adam will be there with his family, who admitted to liking me last year
>Boyfriend told me to choose him or this trip since Adam will be there
He told me he trusts me but shouldn't go if Adam is there.
I have no interest in Adam but I feel like staying back for Christmas while he is off with his friends is so unfair.
What do?
He is being unfair. Go be with your family, never let anyone get between you and family.
Your bf's insecure, it's his problem to deal with, not yours.
That's super unfair. It's a family event. It's not like you and him are going on a road trip alone. You won't even spend the majority of your time with him.
If he trusts you, why does he really not want you to go? This is hardly romantic with Adam.
imagine if the situation was flipped. how would you feel if you found out some girl that was into your boyfriend was spending time with him right now?
that being said, he is being a controlling douche.
I don't have an answer, just insight, sorry.
So I got this girlfriend that I've been dating for awhile and I love her. Recently she's been kinda distant with her texting. She's been on social media a bunch and not replying to me as quickly. I feel like I'm not a priority anymore, even though she still acts like nothing is between us when she does reply. Whenever I see her online but not replying, it hurts because I feel like I'm being ignored or she's talking to someone else. What can I do? How can I not feel so insecure?
How often do you see each other?
>>16489333
stop being such a needy baby, christ. Don't you have anything better to do?
Focus on other things so you don't think about writing her as much. Get some hobby or sth.