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Put your education first desu.

>>16486123

So she wants you to ignore your real-life responsibilities and priorities to pay her more attention, and she wants you to transform yourself into a more extroverted person than you are, just "because."

I'm not going to freak out and say "dump that bitch!!!!" but neither of these are fair or reasonable requests. Just hold your ground. Either she'll get over it, or she won't.

>>16486296
>she wants you to transform yourself into a more extroverted person than you are, just "because."
I'm glad someone understands it. I've never had more friends than I can count on my hands and I've never been a part of any clubs or anything. I spend my time either playing vidya by myself or occasionally going for a drink with work. I don't know why it matters all of a sudden.

>>16486116
So what are yah selling then?

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good, i definitely need some solid, forthright advice from knowledgeable and experienced people. please be outspoken, but do take into account that changing anything takes time and i can't jump to a different mental state in a matter of minutes, hours or even days.

i have posted this in another thread already, but might as well try here:

how do you deal with the realization that you deeply love a girl whom you have known forever already (literally speaking about a decade)?
how do you deal with looking at older pictures with that new realization?
how do you deal with that decade long emptiness that could have been so full - and if it simply were the knowledge that it might have worked out or not. the "not-knowing"/nescience/ignorance is what's tearing me apart... and going back on our messages, i see so many signs now... how could i have been so blind???
how do i approach her about it? not at all?
i feel like i have to apologize or overwhelm her with my feelings, both which is obviously totally wrong!

it hurts! it fucking hurts so much it's killing me. i feel like have i wasted an endless chain of opportunities and i want to cry my eyes out...

I got 2 turkeys and a duck stuck on the I-5 round south with a cradle of hickory and ya aunt jemina's mixes down the rear. Port side's a coming and we still 8 rounds shorter than we's though.
What's the square side of the barn in moonlight got to be?

>>16486083
No, because 99% of suicidal threads on here is created by men. Depression threads the same. Men nowadays are giant pussies overflowing emotions, ridden with 'anxiety' and 'depression'

Equally emotional, but guys are socialized to lock it in because showing emotion isn't masculine or whatever
Part of the reason guys can put women on pedastools is because they feel like they finally found someone they can express their emotions to without being judged for it, and they see her as special because of this, when literally any other girl will be the same way, but the way guys are socialized is fucked up

>>16486086
You would need to analyze the demographics of 4chan. Since woman in 4chan are only the few girls who post pics of boobs with timestamps, I'd say you'll see, most of the time, suicidal threads created by male OPs.

Thing is, women is, indeed, much more vulnerable to emotions. Me (male, hetero yet attracted to qt traps, been through a lot with women) cry a lot and I've yet to know someone that cries more than I do, but my former GF cried even more.

You would be a very shitty person to take the cat to the shelter simply because you dislike his or her character

Why not give it away to someone new?
Then it's their problem.

>>16486045
i kind of figured. just needed some reassurance that I'm doing the right thing i guess. I'm leaning towards keeping him, out of pity more so than anything. is it fair to my cat though? she literally sleeps on the fridge half of the time because she's afraid of him. but right now she's laying on the floor next to me and he's asleep on the couch. i dunno.

>>16486047
i was thinking of doing that, but how do i know it's a good home? one of my co-workers was possibly interested. i don't want him going somewhere where he's in danger of being abused. i don't like his personality, but it's still a living creature. i don't want it to suffer simply because it's more convenient for me.

>>16486017
Things continued like this for a couple weeks: I would be invited over, we'd all be drinking, and I'd crash on the mattress with A. One morning, she had tried blowing me, but I was nervous about Z or S catching us, so it really wasn't productive. Then, one night, Z made a proposition: I would have sex with A, while he had sex with S. Now, I knew the three of them had been going at it occasionally, especially since A had been showing an inability to keep it in her pants with people we worked with. By this point, A had been hitting on me when we hung out, pulling down my shirt to check out my chest, or speculating on the size of my penis. But I was drunk, and I figured what the hell, if she was up for it then so was I. The night went... alright. It being my first time, I eventually got nervous and started pushing rope.

>>16486019
After a few more weeks, A eventually moved into another apartment. I helped her move her stuff, and met her new roommates, W and his girlfriend K. W and K took a liking to me, and A continued to invite me over to hang out. Almost immediately, W and K picked up on the fact that my feelings for A didn't stop at being "friends." W even asked if I'd be upset if he, A, and K had a threeway. I insisted that it really didn't matter what I felt, I wasn't exactly in a relationship with as, nor was I actively pursuing one. At Christmas, A was hospitalized due to blood clots in her legs, related to a pulmonary embolism she'd had the previous year. I decided to be an good friend and visit when I could, especially since W and K could only make it out once, and her ex-fiancé telling her he was glad she was spending Christmas in the hospital. Once the year turned over, and A had been hospitalized a second time, her dad insisted she come back home. I ended up driving her around to The day before she decided whether or not to leave, she invited me over to hang out. I got to her place, and W and K told me she had gone to S and Z's place. I moved over there, to find that the three of them had been having sex. S was mad because A had dominated the session. They invited me to join, and I figured "what the hell." Now, I'm aware that I was rather inexperienced (and still am, to be honest), but I still took A falling asleep on me rather poorly. By that time, Z and S had already finished up. Z walked in, and seeing that A had fallen asleep, woke her up. She immediately started taking off his pants. They had sex, and then I angrily continued what I was doing when Z was done.

>>16486020
The next week, A left. She left with a jacket I had loaned her. I kept correspondence with her, messaging each other at least once every day. It was during this time that she started saying stuff to me like, "If you were older and circumstances were different, I'd scoop you up in a heartbeat," or, "You're one of the strongest people I know." She told me she wore my jacket all the time, and found it comforting because it was mine. This continued until she started dating a guy she met there. I did my best to deal with it, I knew she wasn't my girlfriend or anything. Still didn't stop me from spending $150 to mail the rest of her stuff up for her.

I remember that time. That was rough for a little while.
When'd you get yours done, anon?

Brandywine Oral Surgery in Exton P.A, done by Peter M. Famiglio, D.M.D. I was fucking scared over nothing. This was not as scary as I imagined. After I got sedated, the whole procedure seemed to be over in 5 seconds, or maybe my interpretation of time was fucked up

>>16486005
It really shouldn't take long at all. I had mine done in Marine corps boot camp by some crusty old navy doctor and I was good in like 1-2 days.

By living your life.
Quit trying to correct injustice. Don't be a massive cunt to others for their beliefs.

Man up, you pussy ass low test beta nigger loving whimpy fuck male.

>>16485997
Here is the thing about SJW: They are racist as fuck. They infantilize minorities and are openly racist to white people.

>>16485985
Move on and start having fun for yourself with new people. When your old friends see how much fun you are having they will crawl back. Then give them the middle finger for fucking you around and carry on with the new people happily.

>>16485985
Maybe you're creepy or awkward, do you have any anxiety or lack confidence maybe?

>>16485993
I pretty much did this the first time, and they haven't come crawling back quite yet. I like the suggestion though
>>16486381
I'm really not though. I used to be, and people had different reactions than this

>>16485972
literally lmao at your life
>this is how easy millenials give up

>>16485974
This.
OP, apply yourself.

>>16485972
>should i kill myself?
If you can't move back to your parents then yes.

2/2

Despite the negative stuff I said about my gf, I still want to be with her because of solid reasons I won't be mentioning here because of irrelevance.

I feel as if every part of me wants to tell the girl how I feel. I genuinely believe that doing so will end the trouble in my mind but there is a problem: what if she really IS interested in me, me opening to her and saying that we can't be together will devastate her which I really don't want to do.

What I'm asking is - should I tell her or not?

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

A few of my long-term relationships started with a girl asking me out. I've also been on tons of other dates the same way, and they didn't fail to work out simply because she made the first move.

Do it faggot.

>>16485895
No.
Casually mention that you think you'd make a good couple. Maybe shy.
Same deal, but remove the shy.

The longer you don't do anything, the more you aren't going anywhere.

JUST DO IT

They're fine.
No really, don't sweat it.

You have all your teeth and they're all aligned & straight. 10/10.

Just use Crest Whitestrips

>>16485833
Hate? Of course not.

>>16485833
not hate, but for some guys small chested girls are unappaling because they look more like a child than like a woman, so they choose to date girls with boobs.

No, but they seem to hate me.
Along with all other women in general.

Just keep rolling.
You're living free. What's to hold you back from whatever you want now?

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Get a job, live broke for a while, start college over.

>>16485828
c'mon man

I pretty much told him that if you don't meet tons of people in college or high school, or any other point in your life where you're around tons of women.... your chances of finding a really good woman are cut by more than half.

If he is unwilling to look outside of online, that is his choice and it's going to be hard to convince him otherwise.

Sorry OP. He is locked in until he comes to you for help on the issue.

Why is he so insistent on looking online? Does he think it's better, or is he just too afraid to meet people?