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is it normal that my friend often casually mentions his dick when we talk? im a girl btw
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>>16539088
Eh, it really depends on the person.

It doesn't necessarily mean anything though.
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>>16539088
He wants to pipe you
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Depends how close you are, good male friends will casually talk about our dicks with each other sometimes. It could just be that he see's you as being on that level of friendship.

What kind of stuff is it he says?

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At what point is it okay to use the exact phrase "go out on a date?"

I've been talking to this girl over facebook for a little while. Met her very briefly. Should I ask her out?
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Yes.

Be prepared for rejection tho.
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>>16538904
when you have enough information about her that seems youre both compatible with each other
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You can ask her whenever you want but it's better to do it in person.

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My boyfriend is sort of the original bad boy gone good. I met him in my mid twenties and he was almost 30 and had never had a girlfriend or opened up to anyone. He was barely working and living at home.

Now we have a child together and he is locked into a great career with a 5 year contract, good pay, benefits and hours and he takes care of the family. He is there whenever I need him, even at his worse he never once ignored a phone call or text from me.

The issue, for a short period he was very abusive and he financially, emotionally, verbally and physically abused me. And his mom enabled it.

He wants to marry one day and always wants our relationship to be on a very intimate level. My family feels like he is a good man now and believe he really loves me and our kid.

He still has a bit of a temper but he has not been physically or financially abusive for years and he is usually incredibly supportive emotionally. He does, however, fall into patterns of verbal abuse when he is in a bad mood and the things he says hurt.

We live in a rural area and are having problems finding a couples therapist.

Any thoughts on what to do?
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When was that short period of him being very abusive?
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>>16538924
It was 3 years ago.
We moved out of state and got into a lot of trouble. He went to jail for stealing my keys and strangling me in front of a crowd at a gas station. About five cop cars were huddled up the street and a woman ran and got them and they took photos and took him to jail but I didn't press charges. Our neighbors called the cops on him twice in the next 3 months after that but he fled every time.
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>>16538902
wtf does "financially abusive" mean?

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Can someone give me advice to figure out if a female friend is attracted to you? thanks
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>>16538846
>female friend
It won't work, she isn't into you, friend.
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>>16538855
>>16538846
And maybe I should elaborate a little more.

I'm not trying to be mean or fuck with you OP but from what I've gathered throughout the years if you're crushing on someone you already have a platonic relationship with it just won't work.

Unless of course she's totally dropping hints that she's into you. But just assuming it could work out with no mutual chemistry won't work out. Sorry bud.
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Same boat OP would like some advice too

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Is there really any genuine danger or downside to cutting yourself to regulate mood swings?
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Its indulging your mental illness by replacing existential pain with physical pain, and is a sign of weakness.

Are you currently getting treatment for your bi-polar disorder?
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>>16538837
>Is there really any genuine danger or downside to cutting yourself to regulate mood swings?
yes
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>>16538845
I've been tested for everything and I didn't have anything that'd require treatment.

My bf surprisedly booked us a long weekend in Paris. We've always wanted to go, but just never been able to afford it (we both work full time and still only scrape by). I was absolutely thrilled when he told me, really ecstatic.

The problem is I've noticed i'll probably be on the rag at that time, and I think this will ruin the trip. Not so much my mood, but the fact we can't have sex in such a romantic city. It's been a little over a week since he told me, so he won't be able to get much of a refund.

Should I tell him the truth, or make some other excuse why we can't go? I feel terrible.
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why can't you have sex while you're having a period?
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>>16538780
Most guys would rather have sex with a girl on her period, than not at all. And menstruation is a very hormonal time for a woman which increases the intensity of your orgasms. Just lay out a towel.

If you're absolutely opposed to sex during your period, and he's already paid for the most romantic trip you've ever been on, you need to be sucking his sick like your relationship depended on it. Because it probably does. Why do you think he's doing this?
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>>16538780
Wear. Condom.
Have him jump in shower right after.
Also please bring whatver YOU need plus two days extra incase. You never know how foreign cultures do it they might not have a product you like or it might be behind a counter or in a weird aisle. Bring enough to last beyond what you need and a condom for each night plus 3 extra. All good girl.
Also practice your head game or anal.

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What are the best/ most beneficial jobs in the military, (specifically the navy)
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That's not a valid question.
Fuck off.
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it depends on where your interests lie, tell me a bit more about yourself and I might be able to give you a better answer.

Just off the bat though I'm going to tell you to avoid Bosun's Mate and Air Bosun's Mate like the plague. Master at arms and damage controlman are pretty awful as well.

I'd also recommend against going into the navy to be a seal, if you go that route and wash out of the course (which nearly everyone does) they just stick you wherever they have openings which means you'll end up chipping paint on a ship every single day for the next 4 years.

I was a quartermaster btw, which means I dealt with navigation and driving ships.
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>>16538644
Well I don't have much going for me educational wise in high school. I would also like to go in the navy for 4 years and whatever I do in the navy I want to Passover to my civilian life job. I'm in decent shape and would mind doing something physical everyday. Honestly I have an open mind to all options.

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Cheated on my girlfriend. Feel like shit because she's awesome, attractive and deserves so much better than me.

She's never going to find out unless I tell her but I feel like that would just cause her needless pain.

Can I ever come back from this? I want to carry this to the grave and just be the best I can be for her after this. If she dumped me at any point I'd probably just cop it because that's what should have happened by now.
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what drove you to cheat on her?
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>Can I ever come back from this?
No, you can't.
Either you can handle the guilt and therefore twice the piece of shit that you were before, or you tell her and she either dumps you or forgives you, and then you have to live with the guilt of staying in a relationship where it's out in the open that you cheated.
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The guilt will eventually break you down. Even if she doesn't find out, you're going to end up sabotaging your relationship. There's no recovering from this.

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Not doing well in school, can't remember the shit i'm learning in school, sometimes i do sometimes i don't and keep getting mostly C's, does reading books improve my brain more better so i can get A's and B's?
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What is your study method? Visual learner?

We need more details to help. Most likely the way you're studying is inefficient in helping you learn. All people memorize in different ways.
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>>16538634
I don't really study, i just try to remember what the teachers tell me :l but what about books?
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>>16538728
In high school, I liked to read a nice easy bit of fiction during class. Then, I mapped what I heard the teacher say onto the plot as I stored it in long term memory

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I went into a book store the other day and asked for any books from hitler. I was just curious and they didn't really have any, but then I made an idiot out of myself when the guy said that one section was for military perspective and the other was cultural perspective, to which I said "No I don't understand, theyre both cultural perspective" and then eventually everyone looked at me like I was some neo-nazi. Then he asked me what i was looking for in particular and I said something that was a little more grey and didn't favor either side, to which the guy just kind of walked away as he was putting more books away.

Now I'm afraid every time I walk into that store they'll think I'm some nazi or that they want me on some watch list or something. Am I just being paranoid? I was just curious as to read a book that was grey as to both sides.
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>>16538525
Are you a Neo-Nazi? You can be honest, you're anonymous
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>>16538525
Look on Amazon, who goes to book stores anymore?

Anyways I don't know why you'd want books on Hitler unless you're some fag from /pol/, those people had every right to treat you like a freak. I would have.
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>>16538526
no holy shit, did it come off that way?

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Bank charged me for a BS fee of going over my deposit limit was literally 200$ below it. How do I confront them about this? Don't want these damn joos taking all my money....
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How do I confront them about this?
are you this fucking stupid?

how about calling them up and telling them? did that ever occur to you? my money is on you being a woman, this thread reeks of feminine retardation.
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Call the bank customer service. If they made a mistake they'll fix it straightaway
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>>16538510
Yeah I spoke the Muhammad and he have all this wonderful information... >>16538517
Yeah no help there.

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How do you know if you're asexual or just got really high standards?
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>>16538450
"Asexuality" is a made up condition.
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And the same goes for friends. I don't know if I'm antisocial, or just have too high standards for people to spend time with.

>I want to hang out with somebody
>no not that one
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>>16538450
Do you prefer physical intimacy, or intellectual/emotional intimacy?

If you want to experience sex sometime, you're not "asexual". You want to pick the right person to experience it with.

If you don't want to experience sex/grossed out by it/afraid of it/not that important to you, you're "asexual".

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how do i into cougars? i wouldnt even know where to begin
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>>16538429
Bump
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someone must have some experience
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Be attractive, broaden your horizon (as in know things that old people would know) they are a generation, or more ahead of you, they would like people who know things.

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I've been on tinder for a little while, met 2 qts, friendzoned by the one younger than me, and the one older than me by a year whom I just met 2 weeks ago is moving away at the end of this month, she was amazing. Beautiful, smart, stylish, and sweet, and a total blast to be around, but I'll never see her again. Now back on tinder and I'm swiping on everyone in sight only to match with fatties, and the only good looking girls are bots all of a sudden. Will I ever find a girl I want to get to know again?
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seems like it's not that hard, seeing as you've already met two.
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>>16538394
this
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>>16538532
He means a cute girl who likes him and he likes in return, and will be his long term gf

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any advice on how to get revenge on someone without killing anyone
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Blackmail ??
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Before I condone any revenge plotting what has this person done?
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Shit inside their toilet

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