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Help me decide which is better, Which one has a higher salary, Which is easier to study, Which one has easy math?
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Computer Engineering has more syllables.
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>>16541505
So network engineering is easier?
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>>16541471

do history or liberal arts. sounds more your style

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Me and my bf are together three years now. We get along great, but we always have problems because we are fundamentally different in one aspect - He's a quiet type, and I'm outgoing and physical. Its an ongoing frustration.
The thing where this hurts most is with dancing. I just love dancing. I love watching couples dancing, and now that I finally found the man I want to be with, I want to dance with him, share that euphoria with him. But he won't. He says he feels awkward, and that's that.

Its not a small thing for me. When we go out and listen to music we both like, I see all those couples dancing and having a blast, and I can't fucking join. I have to stay sitting like a granny. It makes me feel like a wallflower, and it makes me look at my bf like he was plain and uninteresting.
Dancing is not only fun, it is also ver attractive. It basically means a man is confident, physically fit, social, curageous, happy... In my mind, men who dance are top-tier, and I think most women would agree. Seeing my bf incapable of it makes me very disappointed.

I do try to inspire him now and then, like I try and not sit down but stand in a bar, so I can move a little. He sometimes bobs his head to the beat - but when I go up to him start dacing a bit more "with him" he freezes up and does not even try.

> tl;dr: long-term bf just won't dance, this sucks.

How do you see this? If you are male, do you dance, and if no, why not? I'm sure you see the fun of dancing too, I think ist mostly shyness. What would help you overcome this shyness?
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>>16541464
>It basically means a man is confident, physically fit, social, curageous, happy
It could have a myriad of other reasons. Bad experiences in the past, thinking it's below him and he's making a clown of himself, bad sense of rythm, or he is simply afraid that he's bad at it because he lacks experience.
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I don't dance ever. Even when I went to school dances or concerts, it just feels awkward and looks weird. I don't know anyone who dances regularly but my friends dance when they're fucked up. Makes me feel really bored because I'm just fucked up, standing up, watching them dance. I just can't do it.
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>>16541475
I don't look at people who dance in a clumsy way and think nasty things. That's a dick move, like making fun of a fat person in the gym. I am happy that people enjoy the music so much they want to move, that's all.

Maybe he thinks people are judging him. But dancing is not a contest, its for fun only, who cares what others think?

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What is the most valuable skill a person can have for their entire life?
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I think communication is the most important skill in life.
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>>16541411
At the very most basic level, survival skills like hunting, fire making, and crafting shelter are essential to life.

However, in civilized society, possessing a strong work ethic is what gives you what you need to survive: money
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>>16541411
The top two:

1. Inhaling
2. Exhaling

I'm 5'2' and male, trying to find out how fucked I am.

Femanons only, please post your height and whether my height would be a deal breaker for you

Anyone, please post if you have female friends and you know their attitude to male height in dating.
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>>16541400
Saw a short guy with a gf that is 10 cm taller yesterday. Not completely fucked I must say, just that maybe you have it harder than me.

t. 5'7
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>>16541400

Youre just going to be dating short chicks.

If youre ok with that, sweet.
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>>16541413

But I know not all short chicks would accept a manlet anyway right?

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Long story short, I cheated on my current girlfriend for about a year with a girl I met overseas while traveling. Rather than firmly say "no" after the fling I kept on entertaining the idea of being with the other girl, she was smart, witty, pretty etc. I completely fell for her and I found myself in a situation where I loved two girls at the same time.

Now, neither knew about each other, so I've been procrastinating and putting off telling one or the other so I can be monogamous again, but last week, my current girlfriend found out about "overseas girl" and left me. She also found overseas girl's contact details and told her about herself, and advised her to leave me to, which she did.

I find myself for the first time in a few years being without anyone. Coming home to an empty home, feeling miserable, unable to sleep, unproductive at work, having to take more and more prescription painkillers and other drugs to get through the day.

I guess what I really want from /adv/ is just a girl to talk to, who won't hate me instantly and is understanding. I realize I must seem like a scumbag but I miss that intimacy and understanding-ness of a woman so much.
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If you decide to cheat when you play, you should be willing to accept possibly losing and/or not being included in future games.
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You know you're just as bad as those girls that jump from guy to guy like they'll die if they're not in a relationship, right? You know that you didn't deserve intimacy from either girl because you couldn't choose one, right?

I don't mind talking, but you need to understand that you are the bad guy here, and you fucked up big time, and you shouldn't be rewarded with intimacy from some random chick after losing to two you had.
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>>16541389
You should have owned up and dumped the first girl to begin with. After all, if you truly loved the first, why did you fall for the second?

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Imagine I ask a girl out, and she rejects me. Would the girl who rejected me then go and tell all of her friends that she rejected me? I'm just afraid that if I ask this girl out and she rejects me, she'll go and spread it around the school.

Thanks bros.
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>>16541359
Yea she will so what you ask some one else out move the fuck on.
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We literally have a fucking 24/7 thread for these kinds of shitty questions and yet you feel the need to make your own thread?

You need to be 18 to post on this website, come back when you're out of high school.
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Everything the other guy said.

Dont give a fuck, next her and ask the next hottest one.

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So my girlfriend agreed to try anal but i can tell she really doesnt want to. Should i take the chance to try it now or tell her nevermind because i know she doesnt want to try it? Advice please
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If she agreed to it, go with it. Go slowly, use LOTS of lube. Afterwards, if it doesn't turn out well, you can consider not doing it ever again.
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>>16541344
Depends on how much pressure you put on her to do this. If you said hey babe lets try anal and she immediately said ok for you but not so sure then go head. If you've been on her to do it demanding or pleading and she finally gave a tepid sure, then leave her alone.

You guys need to get it through your thick skull that simply because it's a hole and it is attached to whom you call YOUR gf you get to put your dick in it.
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>>16541344
NEWS FLASH: The whole point of recreational (i.e., non-procreative) sex is to be enjoyable for BOTH parties. It is NOT something you beg/cajole/argue/force someone into.

Clearly she doesn't want it. So don't do it. Period.

(You've opened the door on the subject. If she ever changes her mind and WANTS to try it, she'll bring it up.)

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what does this tattoo mean?
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>>16541343
It means that, your penis is very big.
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Illuminati confirmed.
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>>16541377
does it give you special illuminati powers?

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>dropped out of college a year ago
>couldn't handle social anxiety
>have been lying to my parents about it
>pretending to go to classes, etc.
>all while still living with them
>they're about to find out about it
>any minute now
>just sit here frozen in panic

What should I do?
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>>16541292
Stop pretending you have all these problems, move out of your parents house, and apply for college.

Be an adult.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_TESdKUzjU
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>>16541292
holy fuck, you did this a year ago and now the effects have come back to bite you?

why didn't you talk to them about this? i was supposed to graduate earlier this year but completely fucked up but i told my mom about it and she confided in me. i vowed to continue until i graduate.

what is your plan and what are you going to do?

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I think I'm in love with two people and I don't know what the fuck to do, it's tearing me apart. I would never cheat on my current boyfriend but my ex returned and I realised I still have feelings for him too. They're both the complete opposite of each other but I love them both. I don't know what to do
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Which one makes you a better person? Which can you see building a future with?
Ex is an ex for a reason usually.
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>>16541245
I'm basically in the same situation, except with my current oneitis and my ex. I most likely will pursue my ex even though he's very into me, because I dumped him for a reason. I'd rather just move on. I hope this helps a little bit.
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>>16541265
most likely will not pursue my ex*

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Hi, I found a note in my notebook from my girlfriend, and I had no idea she wrote it and am having trouble making out the words. Could anyone possibly help me? This is what I have so far with the words in the <brackets> being the ones I am having trouble deciphering.


I can feel you even whenever youre not around I hear your every word but wheres the fucking sound? Youre similar to the way I feel in my existence in feeling nothing <knows nothing> its just everything you could possibly feel <in> our jolt of emotions.
Youre like water & fire all at once.
I want you so bad, but you’re the only thing <that> entirely afraid of
Oh…you want to know what of ?
Oh of the past <unknown> it is the unmistakable ghost of my fucking past ill say it again because I am a damaged <woman> and that’s all I have to offer at this point
Hate me or love me…I am scared to death of the latter.
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You should try holding the note the right way up
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>>16541223
here you go
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>>16541240
Your girlfriend is a whore. Sorry

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Girl I know broke up with her bf and I want to know How soon is to soon to act on catching a girl on the rebound? I know she probably wants to get over initial shock but if I wait too long someone else might swoop in.
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Just dive in straight away bro, while you have the chance
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just go for it all she can say is no right?. And to the their are plenty of fish out their.
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>>16541177
>>16541180
>>16541185
men are awful. women see this shit, you know that right? when i got out of my last serious relationship, i suddenly had like a dozen guys hitting me up that had strangely dropped off when i met my boyfriend. weird coincidence, huh? i wonder what they wanted....

so, as a woman who has been in the position you're about to put another woman in, i say you should wait a little while. don't dive right in. i was so happy to be out of my relationship, i was nowhere near interested in starting to see someone else RIGHT AWAY. i didn't start "seeing" anyone else for like two or more months afterwards - and had no intention of being serious with them. plus my ex was making my life a fucking nightmare right after we broke up. dating was the last thing on my mind. if you go in too soon, you'll blow it. if you have a chance at all, you'll still have a chance if more than one guy is interested in her. if you don't, then sorry to say you weren't gonna score anyway.

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Hey /adv/, I've had a porn addiction for quite some time and it's destroying me. I hate myself and objectify everyone. I've been to therapists and treatment camps but they haven't worked. I can go about three days or so before the craving gets unbearable and I have to watch more porn. Can you guys help me end this problem? How do you stop the craving?
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Not an advice, just my experience:
I used to watch porn at least 4 hours daily, checking titles, collecting them and masturbating 3+ times.
Then I tried getting out and meeting people. And I realised I could stop porn all at once if I kept myself busy.
Now I fap once or twice per week, I think I'm not addicted anymore.

Good luck with your addiction, try to find something to keep yourself busy.
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Thanks I will try that for a while and see how it works out
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>>16541197
Anything works actually, video games, reading, but obviously if you force yourself to be outside, it'll be more difficult for you to just wank one quick behind that tree.

Do you have some meetups events going on near your location? You could join them

OK, so. Female here. I have a boyfriend, we're very much in love, but I'm jealous and insecure. I hate when he compliments a girl we see on TV or the internet. I hate watching him like other girls pictures on social media. I hate when he goes on facebook and scrolls through maaaaad pictures of one girl for a few minutes. I know I'm hot, but when he does that shit I can't help but think "am I not good enough? does he like her body better? would he rather fuck her than me? is he more attracted to other girls as opposed to me?" For me, I don't look at other guys and find them more attractive OR want to have sex with them. The only guy that ever catches my eye is him. Sure, I can appreciate a man's beauty but I don't sit there and stare at them or compliment them in front of him. I don't feel the need to at all. Am I crazy? Do I need to tone it down? Someone please give me the BRUTAL HONEST TRUTH. Thanks. (Also that picture is of me.)
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You just posted this with a different girl in the picture?
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>>16541131
Maybe he is the one thats insecure and jealous so maybe thats the thing he does to deny it
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You're not crazy, of course its his fault.
You shouldn't feel bad, he's the one that should feel bad for making you feel bad.
Then again this is a female opinion, I would like to hear the non-virgin males' opinions as well. (if they exist on /adv/ that is)

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The girl I sent this to in the bottom photo deleted all of her vines and youtube videos and blocked me on facebook. I sent it through our college email. We were somewhat friends. Thats me in all the pics.

Those are 200 dollar sunglasses
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I apologized to her and she accepted it, but she practically runs away from me when she sees me.
I could use some advice if there is a way I could be friends with her again.
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You frighten her because you are a creepy stalker. She wants nothing to do with you. Don't contact her any more unless you want yor reputation ruined.
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Well to be honest I havent contacted her at all. I know not to talk to her. My friend just told me to post this on 4chan as original content. It was supposed to be funny. I had fake named a star after her around valentines day and she liked that. So I really just thought it was funny.

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