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>>16613910

generally speaking SENT means that the server has your message in hand, and has sent it out.

delivered means that the person has 'accepted' the message, even if automatically. like if you are using KIK, it means that the person has logged on, or that their phone automatically notified them they have a message.

read means they saw that, swiped, and opened to read it in the chat box itself.

not sure what it means if someone people are still not getting it delivered if they been online.

Empty circle: I'ma chargin mah lazor
Checked empty circle: I'ma firin mah lazor
Checked shaded circle: My lazor has hit the target
Friend pic: My target has seen the hit

>>16613916
Sometimes the messages does like a request thing, where they have to accept it first. So even if they login but don't accept the message request it would stay white w/check?

>>16613878
You're wasting her time and she deserves someone better

If you're not feeling it then you have to break it off. This will only make her more attached to you and it will all hurt more in the end.

>>16613878

i notice you didnt say anything of her attractiveness. coupling that wiht the fact that you only really starte ddating her because friends begged you to, you probably do not find her attractive. maybe 'okay' looking.

anway, if you just started uni, arent you like 18? arent you worrying a little too much about marrying this woman?

honestly you havent evefn had sex with her, so why are you talking about how if you dont end it soon you'll marry her. why not just break up with her later? how would you even know if you are so young? i mean you dont even say 'i love you' but you think ur doomed to marry her?

id just break up wtih her now, you dont seem to enjoy the concept of the relationship itself (Which is healthy imo, and i think its good that you can see this and think this out, even if illogically a bit, because it shows you arent determined to be in a relationship just so you can be in a relationship).

you are young, you are away from home for the very first time, you will meet more girls.

The piece of shit is in the profile picture...

>>16613770
K thanks for sharing.

>>16613770
I think theres potential to get in trouble. Personally I'd tread carefully but idk you don't have to take my advice.
You could however, make theFacebook profile and do all what you oh said but get vpns or whatever to make it harder to track whoever made the profile. Although, what I just said about vpns could be total bullshit as I know full all about computers

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Inb4 relationship shit.

>Weight loss is 70% diet, 30% exercise. Control your eating
>Seeing the glass as half full instead of half empty will help you on the road to success
>Saying you'll do something and actually doing it are two completely different things. Justdoit.shia

>>16613578

>Never join the military unless it is for college, and even then, only if you seriously have no other means of income

>Speaking of the military, any woman who was, currently is, or thinking about joining the military is absolute garbage and should be avoided like the plague. You know those stories your grandpa has of how he banged 1 or 2 girls overseas during his 4 year tour? Military women are 10x as bad

>Any woman who sends you nudes isn't gf material. A woman who sends nudes is essentially saying that she can't offer you a relationship based on similar interests or a unique view on life, the Universe, or love. A woman who sends nudes is essentially saying the only thing she can offer you is her naked body. A woman who sends nudes (and sloots in general) are major attention whore and have serious mental issues.

>Stay away from the group of people who spend most of their weekends at bars/clubs/parties. It is a world filled with tedious and mundane drama and just isn't worth it.

>While we can all agree that you should never date a cheater, a more important note is to never befriend 1 either. Cheaters are the most manipulative, selfish pieces of shit on this planet. If a close friends of your cheats on someone, give them 1 more chance. Anything after that is a sign you should walk away. ESPECIALLY if they try to make sure everyone they know doesn't do anything about it.

>While your boss doesn't have to be your best friend, you should be able to respect him. A slimy, piece of shit boss just isn't worth it at the end of the day unless the pay AND benefits are through the roof.

>Travel more.

>Enjoy life in the present

>Cigarettes are harder to quit than pot or alcohol

>If you have a mental disorder in America (depression, anxiety, autism, etc), you are pretty much fucked in terms of finding help. Most people don't know anything about basic psychology, and the American health system is an absolute nightmare to deal with.

>>16613843
CONT...

>Since there is a thread about this on /adv/ right now... Men, any woman who doesn't want to date you because you're a virgin isn't worth the time. Even if it's just "I don't prefer virgins". It's just not worth the headache at the end of the day. I don't want to sound like /r9k/, but women will find any minor detail to give them a reason not to date a guy whether it be his height to number of sexual partners. Plus, not wanting to date someone because of their V card an be a real eye opener as to what that person values.

>Not all women are sloots. Look for women outside of bars/clubs/parties and you'll be amazed at how much the quality goes up

>Online dating works. You have to put forth some effort and be patient.

>While your values, moral, and so on might change, there is a good chance that your personality and behavior are 80% the same as what were when you graduated college.

>Change happens in 1 of 2 way. Either major change that happens suddenly, or little by little, bit by bit over a long period of time. Usually 2-3 years. Keep that in mind before you decide your going to try and change something about yourself

All I got right now.

>>16613570
Also I should mention that I'm not opposed to sex stuff, that's just not my main priority. Also worth noting that I've been texting the woman from Tinder over the past few minutes trying to setup a lunchdate or something and she just texted me "I wish I could be alone with you".

Anything?

I think there are websites for this. Websites like seeking arrangements and what not.
You could also try okcupid for older ladies.
Good luck anon!

>He's a Muslim
>I'm just really confused right now

Clearly.

>>16613544
Why would you want to be with a wife-beater?

>>16613547
>He's a Muslim
>I'm just really confused right now

Yeah I know, it's probably better this way because the thought of bringing up my children as Muslims scared me but it doesn't make it hurt any less.

>>16613542
It sounds to me like your issue is mostly about nervousness and overstimulation. Seeing multiple partners will be the best course to overcome that. Novelty is stimulating. In situations with new 'real' partners there is also additional pressure to perform and create a good first impression. If these have been issues for you in the past, or you believe them likely issues in your future, go for quantity over quality.

If your difficulties are more technical in nature (what to do when where and how), then establishing a working relationship with a good 'personal trainer' is likely more appropriate.

But if you're seriously in this to win it, attack the problem from both sides.

Why do you have to have an escort for practice instead of another girl you could bang for free?

>>16613788
Because if I was able or comfortable getting a normal girl or gf I wouldn't be in this situation to begin with

>>16613511
The fact that she's a woman.

I wouldn't date someone way more stupid, less ambitious or less emotionally stable than me.
That's pretty much it.

>>16613539
By less intelligent, do you mean his mental acuity or his level of education? Let's say the woman has a Master and the guy is a fireman (no college education), is she immedietly out of reach for him?

>>16613466
IN five years you'll regret not doing it sooner.

>>16613467
This. Some embarrassment now is worth avoiding the regret you'll feel in five or ten years from not doing something cool.

>>16613466
Don't move in with your GF

>>16613413
I don't know but this is really interesting, I'd love it if you'd write more.

It was an awegawking moment for you when you took that trippy feel. Becoming more sensitive means becoming more receptive.
But if you've taken too much load, then you need to be able to carry that load. If you've taken up too much than your body can handle, ease out a little.

I think it's good you're no longer pretentious. But you shouldn't end up whining because you've gone the rough honest road.

>>16613413
I think you've answered your own question. LSD can help some people change the way they act and how they treat others. It's not wonder that Steve Jobs said it was one of the most important moments in his life.
It sounds to me like you are considering taking it again because you somehow think that the effects have worn off or something. That is not the case. I mean, if you want to take it again, go for it, but you can't rely on it every time you want to feel better.

Also, if you do take it, be very safe about it. Get a test kit if possible and trip in a comfortable setting with a sitter if possible. Make sure you're only around people that you are very comfortable with.

I thing it's pretentious to add complexity where none is needed.

Every hat should serve a purpose.

>>16613332
I think people use pretentious as a way to call someone obnoxious in a know it all way. If a lot of people call you it they probably find your personality obnoxious.

Sounds like your making a big deal out of nothing which is an extremely obnoxious trait.

>>16613338
good way of putting it. is someone who adds complexity where none is needed automatically doing something pretentious, or can it just be due to them being not that good at saying shit?
>>16613347
when i think of it being obnoxious, I would imagine myself being really defensive about the situation. i think i'm just scared of being a douche even when I don't try to be.

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Shit, wrong pic

>>16613165
Join a club and get to know a girl there. Ask for her number, get lunch sometime. If something Sparks tell Her how you feel asap to avoid destination friend zone.
If for some reason the club idea doesn't work, find a chick with common interests in a class. If you both hate a teacher or like a subject, use that as your key to get to know them better.

>>16613208
Any clubs you'd recommend?

>>16612981
What the fuck is "the stoner lifestyle"? Sounds like a 15 year old who hangs a Bob Marley poster and wears tie dye because they smoked once.

>>16612981
Are you 13?

>Lack of motivation
>Money goes toward weed
>Higher tendamcy to be a slob
>Chance of attracting a bad crowd of friends
>Higher chances of paranoia and/or anxiety

This was the case for me at least, if you're living the "stoner lifestyle" then evaluate your life before you started smoking everyday and how it is now.

Gotta move on bro. She doesn't give a fuck about you.

>he thought losing his virginity to a hooker was a good idea

>>16612961
Stop. You're hung up on her because she was your first. You need to banish these feelings immediately. She doesn't care about you other than for your wallet. He job is to fuck dudes and you're just another customer to her. Please, the the sake of your sanity go find a girl who likes you.

Its one of those things/styles that doesn't work on most people, and those it does work on tend to be attractive without it.

>>16612953
Or the complete opposite, and they're completely unattractive without it

It's stupid as fuck and unless you exclusively hang out with hipsters, everyone else is going think it's dumb. A guy I work with has them and everyone thinks its a joke.

If you don't care, then go for it.