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Hello everyone, my friend wants to kill herself and I really want to help her. Everything I say to her doesn't seem to make a difference to her. She cuts herself and I have a feeling it's going to end bad and I don't want that to happen. Any advice on how I can help her?
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I'm sorry to hear that you (and she) are going through this, but she needs more help than you, or we, can provide. She needs a professional.
This doesn't mean you can't do anything. A kind and supportive friend can work wonders for snapping someone out of individual crashes. You may even find yourself saving her life a few times. But this doesn't fix the underlying problem, and if left untreated, there will be more crashes. She needs professional help, and the best thing you can do in the long term is to gently -always gently- urge her in that direction.
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age?
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>>16611275
Like if this is serious...
you MUST always consider it being a serious business/HER depression must be YOUR personal enemy
you should never left her ending up alone (even if she says that she will be OK), even for a night. Text her, phone-call her.
you can try to find out what bothers her with such tendecies (and you could try to protect her from it)
show her that you ARE really caring about her fate, show her that you are worried about her mood. (and it makes you down too)
talk to her (alot)
try to make her life worth of living again no matter what happens around.
Never thought I'd ask this and I don't expect it to get far, but I need a list of things to take care of before suicide.
I have a car & car insurance I'm paying off. I have a job. What happens when I simply die? Won't it fuck over my family financially? I want to make sure my boyfriend gets all the money in my bank account. How long are checks good for, time-wise? I know they can "expire" if you don't cash them soon enough. Is it possible to send a check to someone without a bank account, but they can simply open a bank account to cash it?
Furthermore, if I shoot myself in a safe area, say, my car, how do I not leave a giant bloody mess? I don't want to ruin my car. It could be resold for money. Ideally I'd like to give it to my bf but we are long distance. And he wouldn't be able to afford paying for it....
And lastly how do I load a pistol? How do I cover up what I'm about to do? How do I gain the courage to finally do it? How can I obtain peace with what I have to do? Yes. I feel I have to kill myself, there's no other way. I don't want to die but I have to
Sorry for asking so many questions
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>>16611258
>I want to make sure my boyfriend gets all the money in my bank account.
How nice of you to leave him some money when you tear his fucking heart you and leave him directionless and wondering what he could have done to keep the person he loved from killing themselves.
Put in some fucking effort and make some sacrifice.
Fuck yourself. Do better. You can do better. You can be better than this.
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>>16611258
Why do you want to kill yourself, OP?
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>>16611258
Unless you're infected with a virus that will destroy humanity you most definitely do not have to kill yourself
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My dad is a verbally abusive emotionally abusive asshole and it feels like I can't do anything about it. I'm going insane. I'm going absoutely insane. I can't take another year of this. Even though I don't see him often everytime I do see him we somehow get into an argument and by argument I mean he picks at everything. He will become snappy and then he will begin to become explosive. He controls me with money and ha s threatened to cut me off multiple times now. I don't know what to do. I want to run away but I don't want to leave my mom or my brothers behind. I'm not scared of him but there's literally no way to stand up to him. He always has to be right. He always has to be in control. He's threatened to kill himself and just wish he would. I wish I could explain the extent of emotional damage this faggot has done but there are no words that could possibly match up to it. How can I cope with this? Even if I pretend to cope with it he somehow starts something out of the blue and expects me not to get upset. It's like he does it on purpose just to get a reaction. I don't know what to do. I really just want to kill myself at this point but I know that won't help anything. I don't want him to win. My mom is too afraid to get a divorce. He has made it so we are financially dependant on him. God someone help. I'm 20 year old grill if this helps.
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He always tells one side of the story. He always keeps to his fucking side of the story do he plays it out like he's the victim working his asshole off but doesn't see the bigger picture. Im so tired of it.
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25 and in similar boat, except he's here all the time and his entire side of the family and my siblings are the same way.
I feel for you and for all of us afflicted with such toxic persons.
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>>16611167
God. Do you have any advice. I mean you're 25.. you've got to had some improve right? Things get better right? I'm so tired of being uprooted when he gets upset with me over minuscule little things.
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Every time I masturbate, I have this intense pain in my colon area that lasts from 1 to 15 minutes. I don't put anything in my rectum, or my vagina when I masturbate, only clitoris stimulation.
What the fuck is happening ? I've been getting this since at least 5 years now.
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>>16611075
Uh, women dont have colons.
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See a doctor. We are not qualified to diagnose here on 4chan, but if I had to guess, I'd suspect an intestinal ulcer of some kind.
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>>16611098
Wat
Yeah they do desu
How do I become more concerned with sex and relationships? I might get an urge here and there but nothing a cold shower or a biweekly fap won't fix.
I finally see my dad after 7 years and he disowned me for being a virgin.
Friends aren't inviting me to much because it's stupid couple only shit they're doing now
Other friends say they see women giving me looks but I never notice and I get never ending shit from them because I don't care enough.
I can't even hold a proper conversation with most people because I easily ignore flirting or sexual jokes
With the way I live my life women are completely useless and more expensive than they're worth. I'm not saying all of them but most are and I'd rather not stress myself sick just for the pussy. Is there some kind of medication I can take to make me want to pursue women more?
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Don't take medication OP. You're not sick you're probably just asexual and there's nothing wrong with that, it may even change over time who knows but honestly don't stress about it. If you're happy and you aren't harming anyone then why is that anyone else's business? Just do you op. It's your life.
Though one bit of advice I'd give would be to not view women as "completely useless" and "just pussy" as you're potentially missing out on genuine and/or fulfilling relationships/friendships/companionship with that mentality. Not all friends have to be the same sex as you and not all relationships with the opposite sex are sexual. People are people and if you aren't interested in having sex with people that's cool too! There's plenty of people out there who feel the same. Good luck bro
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>>16611035
Well anon through a lot of training I've become this way. I prefer to stay friends with women because when it comes to relationship stuff they are useless as fuck and nothing can change my mind on that.
I can't not stress over it. It's annoying. I've tried to ignore the shit for over 9 years but after my dad just tossed me to the side because I'm not a slave to the vagina like him. I'm feeling very broken and I want it to stop.
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>>16611281
People in general are hopeless in relationships OP. It's not a gendered thing trust me, having dated both males and females it's just a people thing. But you either find it worth it or not and neither way is wrong. If you prefer not to be in a relationship that's totally okay, nothing says you have to be and you can live a perfectly happy and fulfilling life without being in one for sure. There's plenty of people to testify that.
Don't let the resentment you have for the relationship between you and your father be geared towards other people. What you father has chosen to do is wrong. I'm not saying don't be upset because of course it hurts but it's your fathers problem and loss if he thinks your relationship is pivotal on something as menial as your intimate life. All I'm saying is maybe this should help you develop a thicker skin in regards what other people think you "should do" yknow?
Just live your life how you want and be open to love or friendship. Hell, just happiness in general OP. Fuck what your dad thinks. He sounds like a dickhead quite frankly and that's his problem to fix, not yours.
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I don't know how i should feel about my girlfriend getting a vibrator. we are going to be doing long distance for about a year and i think it would help to to get a sex toy to fufill her sexual neeeds.
but i also wonder if i wont be good enough when i get back
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>>16610967
Better than her cheating on you to fulfill her desire
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>>16610967
You're pretty much getting cucked.
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>vibrator
>posts pic of a huge dildo
Chill. It's just buzzing on her clitoris. If that, or even a dildo for that matter, can replace sex with you then you are a terrible lover. If not (more likely), the emotional connection, physical closeness with another person with smells, taste etc, sharing in sexual desire and so on far outweigh any physical sensation.
How do you deal with loneliness? Be it temporary or long term
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Friends don't work OP. Not by themselves at least.
Get hobbies and if you still feel like you need a gf then go and get one
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>>16610915
I accept it, to be honest.
At the end of the day you will always be completely and utterly alone, inside your head, bombarded with useless fake depressing shit from outside your head.
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>>16610951
I'm a femanon. I have a boyfriend and I have some friends. Boyfriends don't usually last forever though and I'm growing apart from all my close friends.
Basically three months ago I entered into a polyamorous relationship with my current gf and her husband. I moved in with them about a month ago and everything was going great, and usually does. Well as of lately, he hasn't been seeing anyone, so because of this, her and I have lost a lot of our alone time to connect on a passionate level. Some days I just feel like the roommate. :(
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They're married, and you're the side dick. You're less than a roommate, unless you're paying rent. Accept it and enjoy it for what it is, or go get your own girl.
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>>16610843
you came to the wrong place for advice on a polyamorous relationship
you cuck
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>>16610843
Are you a boy or a girl? What are the rules of the setup?
how do you turn down a girl without being a dick?
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>>16610789
"No, thank you" generally works. If she's more persistent, then you may have no choice but to be a bit dickish.
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Just be honest without being condescending.
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>>16610789
Say no and explain why in a non-hurtful manner (if it's because she's ugly, just say she's not your type).
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How do I get rid of blackheads that isn't some new age hippie bullshit like organic free-trade raw honey mixed with salt crystals from lake himalaya?
Also general skin routines to get a nice complexion.
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>>16610665
Just squeeze them with toilet roll between your fingers
I do it once a fortnight... Feelsgoodman
Although I don't really get them bad
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Dig them out with your finger nails
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>>16610665
http://www.biore.com/en-us/biore-facial-cleansing-products/
Caution: May cause permanent skin damage
I'm gonna ask my sister if she'll have sex with me. I'm kinda nervous about asking her, but she had feeling for me when I was little so there's a chance. What's a smooth way of bringing the subject up?
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hey sis want some fuck
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sis u wanna bukakke over my waifu while i fap furiously
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>>16610627
I'm not a weeaboo
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>been sort-of-dating a girl
>taking things very slowly because she wants to do it like that
>been going out for like 3 weeks or so, only kissed a little
>has clearly said she likes me and shit, although is kinda hard to get anywhere with her and she seems to get scared if we get close
>going home for like 3 weeks for christmas
>we've been chatting almost daily since we started going out
>talkng almost every day since I got home
>have 1-2 very good moments since then
>one day her internet cuts out
>has to rely on mobile internet
>she says she'll message me when she gets internet back
>have had like 1-2 exchanges of three words over her mobile internet
>isn't even checking most of my snaps
>this was like 4 days ago
>the last message was mine, would seem desperate if I sent her another one as well
Is there anything I can do? Did I scare her off? Did she just lose interest?
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>Is there anything I can do? Did I scare her off? Did she just lose interest?
similar stuff happened to me
what I realized is that they lost interest way before I thought about it
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She's busy with family. Be patient.
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>>16610556
I understand that, but we went from talking all day to nothing for 4 days. And (this is embarassing as hell, but...) the last message was me sending a kiss and no response after that.
So I'm a bit worried...
How do I convince my boyfriend he needs a mental health intervention? He spent Christmas with my family and he had a panic attack Christmas morning and called 911 on himself. They did not take him away for anything but three cops showed up and made an incident report with witness statements. They told me he really needs medication and a mental health evaluation but he refused to let them take him to the hospital. He has apologized profusely but my family hates him now and he absolutely refuses to see a mental health professional.
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Has anything like this happened before? Does he have anxiety problems?
Maybe your family is just really awful.
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>>16610511
Panic attacks aren't really a big deal.
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>>16610519
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/anxiety/panic-attacks-and-panic-disorders.htm
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Hey /adv/,
What's the best way for meeting cute girls that may have an interest in me in real life or online?
I'm thinking either something like omegle or certain online pc games
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Being interested in fucjing you is mostly down to your market value.
You need to get in shape, be socially successful in the real world and have a good well paying career.
But you knew all of that.
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real life >>> online
people are online for a reason, and that's that they prefer it over being with others in person
plus, bitches are even more prone to be picky, deceitful, and teasing online.
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>>16610437
hmm I see your point. Do you have any advice for getting female companionship in real life then? like, I know of girls who are good looking and have a chance of liking me, but idk how to start a conversation with them or get to know them
if a girl expects me to spend 100+ dollars on a first date should i tell her to fuck off or is that normal?
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It's not normal. Run for the hills. She is crazy or a complete golddigger.
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>>16610379
This
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lmao..what do you mean she expects 100 dollars to be spent...like what?