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how badly can this end

>have friend, we're both 24
>his little sister is 18
>she's cute as fuck and plays video games with us and some other friends a lot
>type of girl that normally wouldn't look twice at any of us but know her pretty well due to brother
>he posted pics of his family together on Christmas
>she's in them
>ended up fapping to pics

how badly could it end if I tried pursuing her? her brother is a bit protective as well
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The worst that can happen is you lose your friend. If your friend is like the head of your social circle you might lose your other buddies too. This is only in the case that you pursue her and she feels disgusted/doesn't feel the same towards you and others find out. If she decides to start dating you and isn't a cunt and explains to her brother that she likes you, nothing will go wrong unless her brother takes it too personally.
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>>16610349
>18
>24
I don't think she would be worth potentially losing your friend over.
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Anon, I wish age barriers didn't exist either. I had a 30 year old girlfriend when I was 19. People thought it was creepy. The age gap is too big bro.

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As a guy, how can I enjoy sex more? My partner loves it when I'm doing her and she has intense orgasms, but I just kind of cum and, meh, it's over.
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Stop masturbating
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edge, don't cum right away
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>>16610351
For how long m8

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If someone attacks you are you allowed to stab them or use guns? Like if someone talks to shit or starts beating a douche i don't want to just walk away I want to retaliate but I don't want to ruin my face and get brain damage fighting some brain dead retard. Could I just talk shit back and if they swing just pull out a knife and stab them from the side or something in self defense? Like what the hell do you do if someone attacks you and you're not legally allowed to kill them just sit there and get beat into the ground because they took an open swing first or they just take your weapon and use it against you.
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>>16610157
Equal force and you're allowed to defend yourself if you feel your life or personal safety is at risk.

Shooting or stabbing someone for talking shit will not work, pussy.
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>>16610167
No shit I'm saying if they are randomly a douche to you and you say hey fuck you and they try swinging and actually hit you can you pull a weapon
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>>16610157
Depends on your country, state/province and their laws.

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How do you get over the first guy you were with sexually? My ex had a bit of a belly, he was balding and I faked it a lot cause he was pretty clumsy in bed but I miss him so fucking much.

The obvious answer is to try someone new but I don't feel like I can just spread myself around now that I'm not a virgin. I thought we would last so it was really special to me. Anyone have any experience or advice?
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I think sex doesn't have much to do with your problem. So you can't fix it by spreading your legs to other guys.
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>>16610159
True but it's a part of it cause I'm so attached to him due to his status as the person I lost it to. I want to replicate the feeling I had with him but I just don't know how to move on.
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>>16610136
I'll be your boyfriend!

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Let me explain my situation.. my ex and I spent over a year together, we had everything planned out and one day, he just ended it.. it's been five month's of pure Hell.. not gonna lie.. I went completely crazy on him, because he kicked me out of the house, blocked my number and changed who he was and he said the other day that he hates me now.. he ended it in July, I didn't eat, I didn't sleep, I cried constantly and blew his phone up begging to work it out.. one night In August I decided to go out with a few of his friends and I was raped by his best friend and told my ex about it and my ex started sending threats to his best friend.. and then I started hanging out with a guy In September because he was talking to another girl and he found out about it and freaked.. we then attempted to talk again and he randomly blocked me out of the blue when I told him I wouldn't be friends with that guy anymore.. and I kept attempting contact because I didn't want to give up on him but he kept blocking my number.. so I gave up.. I then got in contact with him in October because he contacted me about a court date him and I had together.. I said I went crazy and I saw him hanging out with a girl in September and beat her up and he saw me hanging out with another guy and kicked the guys truck.. yeah bad situation where we both went crazy.. I regret it badly.. well..we attempted to work it out in October and my anxiety was extremely bad because I was afraid he was going to leave me again. And that pushed him away, so he ended contact and blocked me again.. and in November my friend texted him and told him that he saw me in the therapists office and my ex asked how I was looking and he replied "rough" and my ex then said that he couldn't do it anymore.. and my ex then randomly texted me again to tell me about his grandmother's death and then blocked my number again.. and now just a week ago my ex came over, slept with me and then left.. and the next day sent me a message
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> sent me a msg the next day that he hated me and was desperate for sex and I've never felt more used my entire life. I been friends with him for so long and dated him for over a year.. and I want him back, even after all the horrible things he's done.. should I cut off contact.. how do I get over him.. I'm a mess. This is a picture of him and I.
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>>16609971
It's so weird seeing normie girls on my 4chan
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Alright.

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My job makes me want to cry. Literally. I dread waking up, when I'm there I spend most of my time trying not to kill myself, and when I get home from work I usually just sob.

Is this normal? I know everyone hates their job but this seems excessive. What's the way out of this? I look for better jobs online every day and there isn't anything I'm qualified for that pays as well as the job I have now. The city I live in doesn't have anything I'm interested in.
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>>16609891
Prostitution is pretty rough on the soul, yeah.
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>I'd rather cry every day than take a pay cut.
you should kill yourself.
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>>16609917
I make 14 an hour right now and everything else pays less than 10 an hour. It's not like I'm talking six figures.

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Can diet affect vagina smell? My shitty holiday diet is the only thing that has changed in the past two weeks and it smells like a dying animal.

No itchiness or burning has occured.
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Maybe you're just bathing less?
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>>16609855

Diet CAN affect how your vagina/dick smells.
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>>16609865
I hope this is all it is. I am so embarrassed to even walk around my family. Should I just eat fruits for the next few days?

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Sup guys, I have a real problem. Me and my gf are planning to go on a date tomorrow but I have no clue where to go with her, she wants me to decide everything. Meeting place and all that stuff.

But this is literally gonna be first real date of my life and I just generally have no idea what to do. I'm still just a kissless virgin.
I don't wanna disappoint.
I feel like I'm just gonna embarrass myself and she will never talk to me again.
Where can I possibly go with her?
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What does she like to do? Somewhere like Dave and busters is a safe choice depending where you are.
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>>16609815
Dinner and bowling. Bitches love bowling. They're basic like that.
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Where do you live? I will use the Internet to look up date spots for you.

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going at a friends house tonight, she's like a 2,3/10, but she's alright to be around. I haven't had sex in 3 years and I know she wants me, but I know I'll get scared to make a move and I'll just freeze up.
give me some confidence adv. I need to bust these seasoned nuts.
also pic related, it's me. ready to be roasted
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>she's like a 2,3/10, but she's alright to be around. I haven't had sex in 3 years and I know she wants me
>I need to bust these seasoned nuts

You are not a quality guy, OP
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lmao your friend is a 2/10 and you think you're what?
>that nose
1/10 for you lover boy
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>>16609667
>I haven't had sex in 3 years

if you haven't had sex in 3 years, you're either a 2 yourself, or a complete reject. Either way, best of luck.

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>Have GF
>She was really great when we first started dating
>Time has worn on
>Has no hobbies
>Always sad or depressed
>Hair trigger emotional
>Extremely high maintenance
>Expensive
>Needy
>Demanding
>Nagging
>Rude, mean or demeaning for what seems like no reason whatsoever frequently
>Cuts herself
>Unhappy because I haven't uprooted my whole life to move closer to her
>Sex is boring and, with her, difficult. Especially since she rarely actually wants it, period
>Doesn't do anything except attend school, avoid people so intensely to the point of not leaving her dorm room unless its dark or she has class, watch anime and play one single video game
>And complain about how my life is, me who has a house and a car and a real steady well paying job that pays for the house and the car that I use to see her and bring her home and spend time with her and do shit with her
>With her because besides that I enjoy who she is as a person, her childlike immaturity and the fact that she has been a good companion and offered a lot to my previously pathetic life

I'm really just unhappy with her, ./adv/. I don't even know how to talk about it to her since she'll probably suddenly be so hurt and upset with herself and hate herself she won't want to find solutions and just break up, and really what makes matters so bad is that she has started telling me about this guy she has a thing for at her college, and how he might be better than me but she doesn't know for sure but "what if he is" (Like any person may be), but that she has no plans to break up with me or anything since I'm so "wonderful".

I dont even really feel much love from her anymore, and I think it just brought to light how unhappy I am with how she is with me.

What do I do, /adv/?
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Brother, I've been in the same situation as you twice.

People need time to get their lives together, and it shouldn't be at your expense.

My quality of living was significantly improving after ending it
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>and really what makes matters so bad is that she has started telling me about this guy she has a thing for at her college,

passive cuck
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Plan to break up. Look around and try to find someone better for you.

Also if one of your next gf starts cutting herself and be all depressed, it's a good time to think about breaking up.

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Hi, I'm a young (27) divorced dad, with a daughter of 1,5 years old. Althought the divorce was nasty (she lelft me for one of my old friends). I'm not bitter about life and I'm lately thinking about starting dating again.

I'm not sure how I should present myself on dating sites. People that don't know the background of my divorce think often that your a bad dad for being divorced or that there is something wrong with you.

How should I present my self on dating sites and on dates. Be completely honest or mention that I'm a dad after a couple of dates?
I
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>>16609284
1st- Dont use dating sites
2nd- you have the child so any girl out there will know for sure who fucked up big time, so no worries there
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Full custody?
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Don't lie on your profile, but I don't think you really need to mention it either. It'll probably come up naturally in conversation on a date, you're pretty much there to get to know each other, and talk about your lives.

But if they're just reading that info on a profile, I think it's too easy to make negative assumptions or just say "not worth the trouble, next." Whereas if they actually get to meet you in person, they'll get to see more of your good qualities and make a more balanced judgment.

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Can someone remind me why it's wrong to test your boyfriend with another girl?
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Ohhhh boy.
This will be an interesting thread.

I'm bookmarking it on my phone, and I'll read the lulzfest in the morning.
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As a male, I don't see a whole lot wrong with that, so long as you have factual evidence (hidden camera or some shit) and you're not doing this as leverage or some shit.
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>>16609258
No I don't think anyone will reply properly but I am truly just wondering...

I mean.. I would okay with him testing me. Why is it so bad to just test and see what he does? Why?

I think if someone is solid, they won't cave. Right?

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My boyfriend tells me he has a dopamine deficiency and has an addictive personality because of it.

Will this get passed on to our future kids?
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You can't be born with dopamine deficiency, it's something you gain through life experiences and usually it's affected by getting high or having sex constantly.
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>>16609196
Well he has a porn addiction and used to have a drug addiction.

It is reassuring that it won't be passed on.
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>>16609201
>Well he has a porn addiction and used to have a drug addiction.
Yeah that's where it comes from then. Same thing happened to me and now if I don't fap 5+ times a day or smoke like a gram of weed I get pissed as fuck at the smallest shit.

The best thing you could do for you kid, going off personal experience, is keep him away from porn until 15-17 years old. If you can that is, it's a pretty hard thing to do.

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I am 37 (although I look like I am in my mid 20s). Recently divourced with my husband. From what I get, finding another at this age decent person is virtually hopeless. There is no reason why a decent guy will pick me over a girl in her 20s.
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>>16608897

- pheromones

attraction is 80% chemicals
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your dating pool is other divorcees in their 40's

4chan is delusional thinking girls in their 20's typically go for people twice as old as them
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there's always more.
the ol' regurgitated saying but it's true.
life doesn't end at any age as long as you're still breathing
also if you look like you're in you're mid 20's then your peak years are probably still ahead of ya.

not interested in slightly older guys? or are ya adamant with sticking within your age?

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I could use some serious advice. I Just got a letter from from my dad for the first time 2 days ago, haven't seen him in 12 years. He was a pedophile and molested my 4 older sisters. I haven't done anything yet. I don't know what to do
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>>16608719
Ignore it. There is nothing he can do to change what happened. And I highly doubt that he's really changed.

You can only move forward, op. Just keep looking forward.
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>>16608721
I'm trying but the memories just keep rushing into my head. Over and over, my entire childhood was my mom moving us from relative to relatives houses while going through the divorce and court to get him arrested. And then the vague memories of when and where he did it, I remember it fucking all now and it won't get out of my head.
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>>16608734
Just take some time to collect yourself, anon. Don't do anything rash.

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