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wanna ask you guys for your thoughts on a 16yr old girl dating a 21yr old guy (sexual relationship).Is it weird?
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It's not going to last
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>>16619157
Its a little....childish
Don't you think?
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>>16619159
it's kinda anoying cuz that is the case with my best female friend and im really conflicted
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it seems the older I get the more I start to feel like a teenage brat.
I'm turning 22 soon and can literally feel myself recessing back into a 15-year-old narcissistic dramaqueen, pulling stupid shit and staying up all night listening to shitty music and snapping at mom just because I'm stressed.
I don't think I even was this fucking bad when I WAS a teenager.
What do I do and does it ever stop?
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my sister is like 30 and she still acts like a angry teenager sometimes
so based on that, no, it does not stop
but each individual is different, so w/e
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>>16619036
So it's not going to go away?
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>>16619023
I'm also interested in this, in my case I keep feeling less and less like a responsible adult and more like an angsty teenager with existential crises every two days that can't focus on anything and just want to become a kid again. It's like I'm growing backwards and I feel more disconnected from the world with every passing day.
How do I motivate myself to act and feel like the adult I'm supposed to be?
Do you regret your first time ?
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I do not have a first time
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>>16618999
Checked
And first time in love or first time at sex?
Regardless, mine were with the same person. We were in a 4 year relationship between 13-17 and had sex at 14. Pretty young and I still tell everyone else I lost it at 15, but that's because of judgement rather than shame / regret.
And I can still honestly say that I haven't loved anyone else as much as her since. Perhaps that's because life was more care free back then and it was my first brain buzz... Who knows
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>>16618999
Well I regret that I ruined it.
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Hey /adv/, I'd really appreciate any responses on this one.
I'm a 22 y.o. man who broke up with a short-lived girlfriend a few days ago. Basically, we dove into a relationship over the course of this month. "I love you", talking about moving in together, etc. However, I started to realize that I am really in no position to be a good boyfriend right now-- I spend all of my time working, and during my downtime, I really have no desire to do maintenance on a relationship. The whole thing was making me anxious. Plus, deep down, I knew that we really weren't that great of a match.
The breakup was quick-- she got in my car, I told her that I can't be her boyfriend any more, she got out of my car, she went inside her house.
However, that day, she sent me a number of texts ranging from "I knew love was a lie" to "I understand and I hope that we can be friends... bye for now". The next day, "my love doesn't wash away so easy". Finally, yesterday, "I deserve an explanation", and today, "If you refuse to speak to me now while I'm suffering, don't expect your words to mean anything to me in the future".
OK, sorry for wall of text, but seriously, I haven't responded once to my ex-girlfriend's numerous texts and she keeps texting me.
I feel like it will be easier for her to get through this if I don't respond to her at all.
Any responses appreciated.
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>>16618948
No contact rule is for ppl who've been dumped, and trying to forget the pain. It doesn't apply to you, since youre the one who dumped her. Give her an explanation. And if she isnt satisfied, then ignore her for being obnoxious.
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>>16619552
>No contact rule is for ppl who've been dumped, and trying to forget the pain.
Not OP but I find this interesting, can you elaborate?
If I fuck a girl and than she ask me not to contact her, is that her trying to "forget the pain" or did it mean I did something wrong?
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>>16619589
No contact rule, isn't something you tell someone.
In your example, this person is literally telling you to fuck off. The name of the rule isn't taken literally.
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I need some help on fucking someone over as much as he has fucked my life. My best friend and roommate came to me in May and asked if his brother could move in because his family was fucking nuts. I agreed because she is my best friend and I trusted her. Her brother had been living with us for about two weeks before shit started going sour. He complained that my cooking contained too many veggies and that I needed to change this because he won't eat it. My stance was to suck it the fuck up because he is an adult and can cook for himself. I'm cooking for my boyfriend, myself and my two best friends ( I live in a 4 bedroom house). We found out I had gotten pregnant in June because my birth control just stopped working with my body for some reason after 3 years. We are excited and everything is going smoothly for about 2 months. He is still complaining refuses to do house work. In the past two months he refused to go outside to smoke a cigarette because it's cold... We live in Phoenix it's barely cold outside. So now, MY house smells like cigarettes and I keep threatening to kick him the fuck out because it's unacceptable. Beginning of December now. He says he is going on a visit to see his kids in Cali because he misses them. We are all ok with this but we wanted rent ($300) to be left behind because that needs to be paid. I leave to go to my OB appointment and come home to find my house trashed. Completely fucking ruined and so much stuff stolen. He broke our central air out of pure pettiness. He stole our tvs, kitchen appliances and a bunch of other stuff. All in all he cost us around $1500 in damages and he skipped out on rent. We are all very pissed and im unloading this now because we finally got the AC guy in here to tell us why our heat or ac working. Turns out he broke shit inside it becauae he was upset with us... We have no idea what we did. My best friend is heartbroken because she thinks all this is her fault. Can someone help.
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>>16618943
get evidence of everything, pictures of all the damage etc. Make a police report. There might not be much you can do as far as rent goes, because this story makes me doubt his name was ever on the lease, but you may be able to charge him for damages if you can get enough proof that it was him.
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He's not on a lease because I own my home. I just have bills... We all do
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>>16618958
This.
All you can do is document evidence, to the best of your ability, and keep receipts of service (like from the repairmen, as well as a written statement of what he repaired and the damage done). Then take him to court.
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What do you do about a small dick?
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>>16618878
Use it inside of a female.
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How small?
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>>16618893
Look at your pinky finger. Then think smaller.
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I went on a second date with a girl, everything seemed to go great but she didn't text me after. Does this mean i fucked up?
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>>16618836
Text her once saying it was good seeing her again or something along those lines. Another text a few days after, you have the date and time.
You'll have a much better idea.
a)she's not at all interested
b)she is interested
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>>16618842
Well I kinda joked about doing something again today and she didnt take me up on that, that's why I am cautious. But I think she still wants me because we are doing a dance thing in a week or so.
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Don't date, it's not worth it
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I Think I'm Starting To Experience Gender Dysphoria
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So I'm a bisexual male in his late teens and lately, whenever I see a picture of a cute trap or just a cute girl, I don't think "Aw gee, they're cute. I want to cuddle with them" I think "Aw gee, they're cute. I wish I could look like that". It's even gotten to a point where for the past few months, I've been working out and dieting so that I can get a more feminine body. It only really occurred to me recently that this could be some form of gender dysphoria. Could that really be the case and if so, is it just a phase that will pass with time or is it something else?
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>>16618831
post your boy butt so I can fap
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>>16618852
You don't want to see it. It's kinda gross. I'm working on it but it's still gross
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>>16618831
Maybe you just like the androgynous look. That's a really popular look in Japan (for males), Anon.
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Hi /adv/, I don't normally visit this board but I'm in need of some advice.
TL;DR version, I'm pretty sure my gf is considering getting back with her ex. Just saw a photo of him round at her parents for a fucking "family dinner" while she ignores me and I'm sat at home on my own like an idiot
I want to kick off at her and tell her to go fuck herself, but I realise this isn't the adult way to go about things.
How do I express my rage, dissappointment and feelings of betrayal without turning into an accusing dick?
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>>16618788
Tell her she's a useless meatsack and find someone else
Its a declaration not an accusation
also watch this; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Z1pPyarKhA
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>>16618788
In my experience asking her outright will lead to her aggressively denying the whole thing and trying to make you feel ashamed for accusing her. if she's lying to you and going around your back there is no way she is ever going to own up to it.
It might be easier to just get it over with and show her the photo and ask. If you can't trust her then you can't really stay together, even if it's her fault that she can't be trusted.
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>>16618788
Kick her out. There are no rules in love and war.
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So I have a well paying job, but I get laid off every winter for 4 months. It really blows and i am bored off my ass. What should I do? what skills should i master to make even more money?
I dont know anyone who can hook me up with a cash job. but I cant stand sitting alone in my apt.
???
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Get a job during the off-period.
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>>16618719
In other words, why does it have to be a cash job you get hooked up with?
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This guy my wife works with apparently has a cuck fetish and writes stories about it. He emailed one to my wife that I found and I am kind of losing it trying to decide what I'm going to do.
After finding the rtf of the story I started looking through her emails and she has been exchanging fantasies with this guy about partner swapping. My wife says that the guy's wife is hot and she wants to see me fucking her.
Going crazy over here. Pls respond, /adv/.
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Get into a threesome with the both of them or get out now.
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>>16618671
I guess I should have said that I'm not into guys, swapping or sharing.
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>>16618682
sounds like the decision has been made by your wife what will go down with or without your consent. Keep a close eye on her OP but more important you need to have your exit strategy worked out because you'll need it. Move quick you don't have much time
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Is it wrong for my girlfriend to post pictures and videos of herself masterbaiting online? I confronted her two months ago about it after I found out, she said that she was sorry and she wouldn't do it again. She explained that it was a stress relief and it was a fetish of hers. Today I checked to make sure if she was telling me the truth, and I found out that she's at it again. I ended the relationship on the grounds of that I couldn't trust her anymore. Am I in the wrong?
Her profile is BEMrawr. She uses reddit to tell everyone that a shows about to start, and then uses snapchat to post pictures. She seems to be moved on to kik and chatterbait, and who knows what else.
Not sure what I'm supposed to do now...
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>>16618481
Post the pictures and video then we'll tell you if she went too far.
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>>16618483
Well most of her pictures are on snapchat, so they're deleted. But the few that I saw was where she was completely naked in the shower and she posted whether to shave, or not. I know there's some third party sites that save snapchat pictures but I'm just not going that far to show you, but I include her username if you wanted to check.
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>>16618483
She also had it set up so that she could receive donations from strangers. Shed also gotten sex toys in the mail as donations as well
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This is a screenshot of my Speccy. As you can see, my laptop has integrated graphics. I'm poor as fuck, so I'd like to know how to gain more frames for my vidyas.
>inb4 poor but can afford $500 laptop
>was Christmas gift
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HD5500 is perfectly capable for mobile graphics. If you want better than that, you want a desktop.
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Other than lowering your settings in game? Nothing.
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Start with one of these and buy a graphics card of your choice.
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My girlfriend has this best friend guy who is in love with her. Hes a virgin who never had a girflriend, and he tried to get with her but she told him she just wants to be friends.
He texts her a LOT and i glimpsed at some of the texts and they are full of hearts and smileys.
I asked her about him and she says she sees him as one of her girlfriends, but she texts him more than me which makes me feel uncomfortable.
Should i be worried that shes gonna cheat on me with him?
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>>16618444
>should i be worried that my girlfriend is going to sleep with a virgin beta who she sees as another girl.
unless shes a lesbian, no. if he gives off the creeper vibe, be worried he might rape her at some point cuz chances are he is going to make a move. not necessarilly a rape move, but every guy in his position thinks they are Jim from 'the office' or any other geeky guy from any other movie or TV show.
they all think that they are in love iwth a girl who secretly loves them back but isnt dating them only because of their specific bf at that particular time. so they all eventually make a move expecting it ot be true loves kiss that opens their eyes.
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>>16618460
I dont think he believes her bf is the obstacle since he tried to get with her while she was still single
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>>16618444
>Should i be worried that shes gonna cheat on me with him?
I don't think you need to worry about her willingly having sex with him. If anything, the unwilling scenario is more likely, but that's an entirely different reason to be afraid.
Just make sure she knows he's trying to play the Nice Guy on her. Believe it or not, she might not have noticed: one of the big reasons women are so afraid of Nice Guys is their ability to slip through the usual anti-creeper defenses. Once she can no longer deny what he's doing, she'll handle the rest herself.
>curious to look at girlfriend's phone
I want to trust her, but I don't want to be cheated on and I feel like this is a quick and easy way to find out.
But, is then the problem me? Should I just trust her? She seems a little promiscuous but maybe I'm just being paranoid.
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>>16618403
if you dont trust her enough to date her, dont date her. its as simple as that.
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Loyalty is an important part of being faithful, but it is only half of the equation. The other half is trust. You shouldn't be in a relationship with someone you can't have faith in. It sounds like there's a serious trust problem in this relationship; you need to either build that trust (WITHOUT breaking hers) or end the relationship. Going through her phone would be a serious breach of her trust.
So I guess my question is this: what reason do you have to think she might be cheating? Why do you say that she "seems a little promiscuous"? I can't tell whether or not you're just being paranoid unless I understand your reasoning.
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>>16618478
When she's on her phone, I've noticed at the corner of my eye there are many guy's names, but she's never talked to me about any guys.
She still likes going to clubs whether it's with me or girlfriends.