What would you do if a girl canceled plans with you? Like you two had plans for dinner but a group of friends asked her out and she canceled, said she was going out with friends. She wasn't a bitch about it or anything, she just said she was asked out and was going out with them. Said we'd go out some other time.
Am I missing something here? The respect part isn't what gets me. Is this normal? Like this has never happened to me. I can see very clearly she's stepping on me and it's just blowing my mind. Is this some kind of "new age" mind game? Do girls do this commonly?
I plan to cut all contacts. I just didn't see it coming. I'll explain myself to her if we run into each other and it comes down to it, but I'm uninterested in having a drawn out fight or anything of the sort. I'm not even really upset. I'm just baffled. Is this a thing? What would you do? Also can someone explain anything I might've missed?
What's the context here? Who is she to you?
when did she cancel? one hour before? one day before?
changing plans is fine, but if the person does it at last minute then I see it as disrespectful
Pretty disrespectful in my opinion. I don't know your background with her, but if it was someone I casually knew and was trying to get to know them more, this would kill it for me.
I'm thinking of starting my a mature porn company.
I'd get chads and whore from my uni to fuck on cam, pay them each 200 dollars a scene
I'd have the chad wear certain clothes: cargo shorts, base ball cap, nike, vans, ect. The woman would wear booty shorts, converse, bra.
I'd have them act out fanatisies, like they were both in HS still and the alpha chad was dominating the shy innocent.
I'd sell my product for 80 dollars per cd.
I really need the money, plus it would allow me to fulfill some of my fantasies.
Is this feadible/legal?
amature*
There are probably all sorts of legal issues around this that you're not going to be able to work around, and if these people were willing to do porn, why wouldn't they do actual porn which would pay them more?
as a consumer, why would I pay for porn when there is plenty of them on the internet for free?
you would need something different, like having a friend's mom participating on it or something
/adv/ I loved her, she was my high school crush, i saw her on tinder super liked her then this happened
WHAT DO
>She left me started a life with someone else, and had a kid.
>I just graduated, and landed a good paying job starting next month.
Below is the text conversation, what should I do guys? I can't be her platonic friend after she did that to me but she "isn't ready" or whatever other bills hit excuse...
Pic related 1/3
3/3 this is the last message she sent me, i'm the blue she is red
>>16607554
you both sound like retards holy shit
what is the purpose of my life? how does one gather the courage to not conform to a "regular" life? i work 40 hours a week as a forklift mechanic and im just not happy with my life.. i feel like theres alot more to life
How is the money? How is your social life and where are you academically?
>>16607535
money is okay and increasing continually. social life is decent im a 22 year old skateboarder. with four years of electrical engineering schooling. im superior to the other mechanics (that arent master techs) because of my past experience... but paid alot less because i guess my age. i have no girlfriend but have girls that come and go frequently
>>16607548
So you finished your degree right? Get licenced and start applying to engineering positions as an entry level engineer.
Isn't that what you wanted to do with your degree?
hey /adv/
not a regular poster but i need advice
i had my first girlfriend when i was 13
we broke up 3 months later due to stupid
shit because we were 13 and didnt know much
but i was so devastated by this as it was my
"first love" and ever since ive been weird and shy around girls and need to get back in the
game as im 19 now
last 2/3 years ive went to loads of parties
and a club twice but every time i try to talk or
get with a girl they always come up with some
excuse or i can just see that they are not
interested im not even that bad looking a 7/10 at my best and i try every approach possible but it never works i even seen a girl sitting alone and she looks so bored and you can tell shes here alone and has no one to talk to and
when i approach her and start talking i can tell
after a couple minutes shes not interesting in
talking to me
i dont know what to do anymore
my love life is dead
ive been depressed lately because of this
any advice?
Just a mental block you have that your 13 year old ex left scarred in your head. The fact that you didn't introspect and think about where you fucked up dude. If you did that you could move past it.
You need to sit down, think about wtf happened and then seriously spend time trying to wrap your mind about why girls don't like you. You aren't ugly, you seem cool and you social and so the only thing has to be deep seeded insecurities you haven't come to terms with.
>>16607516
im completely over her, i met her at a restaurant a couple months ago. i said hi and we talked for a bit and it was fine. we caught up and it wasnt awkward or anything. as for why girls dont like me i have not clue at all. i have a feeling i give off a weird vibe that people dont like
What conversations do you invoke? It probably has to do with boredom in how you steer the conversation. Write down how a typical convo starts with a girl you just met.
so my girlfriend left me for one of her male friends, the one I was always worried about her spending time with
a friend of hers says she was cheating but she herself says otherwise. Although she did tell me she doesn't love me anymore, but wants to be my best friend still.
I've never had anyone cheat on me. I can't get the image of my angel sucking another guy off out of my head
how the fuck do I pick myself up this christmas
shes not worth it. save your money and spend your life happy.. why care about someone that doesnt care about you
>>16607443
well cause for the last 2 years she did care about me, I genuinely thought things were going to be longterm
>>16607443
This.and if she wants to be friends tell her to go suck a bbc
It started when he was dishonest and disloyal about something. Before then, I didn't go through his phone or history. Ever since that happened, I'm obsessed with going through everything.
Since it happened, I haven't found out anything else, but I'm still like just waiting to find something.
I want to stop this behavior.
Tldr;
> bf was dishonest and I found out
> now I go through his phone and history constantly
> how do I stop this obsessive behavior?
Dishonest about?
>>16607252
Was he dishonest or did he flat out lie?
>>16607255
I found out he had nudes of his ex still. It didn't bother me, but he was dishonest and said he deleted them. But he went behind my back to get them back. I found out again, and asked him why he wanted them so badly. He kept giving me different answers just to find a reason I'd accept. He told me he thought I wasn't good enough, then that he wasn't good enough, and finally that he wasn't over his ex. The last turned out to be the truth, but he said it was in the moment and that he was over her. But I still don't believe him, considering he has been facebook stalking her on a fake facebook, and I guess that's why I still go through his stuff.
Details in short:
Out of the country for holidays.
Girlfriend told me today one of her friends (a guy) is coming to visit tonight and they're going to have dinner.
Didn't get many details as she was distracted with getting ready for work.
My thoughts:
Experiencing some anxiety. Never expected this to happen as I didn't know of any guy friends or who this one is. We've been together for 8 months and have developed a good level of trust.
I'm curious to find out more, but I don't like to pry and especially because we won't have enough quality time before the meeting.
So what do. I think I read too many NTR manga and am expecting some secret one night stand to take place.
>>16607239
They're going to fuck
>>16607241
Come on, man. I don't want to hear that.
>>16607253
If they're going out to eat then it might be fine
But if he's coming to her place he's going to fill her up with christmas cheer
Today I saw my ex with my best friend.
She came to visit him, and I'm sure that they had sex.
It's someone who I was completely over with, but if I am to be honest with my feelings, it felt bad to see her with someone else, specially my friend.
I guess tht deep inside, I expected her to still have some feelings towards me, but I'm not sure.
>>16607192
She doesn't
>>16607195
I think that she does, but still, I don't wanna rly try.
>>16607209
She's getting railed by your best friend
Unless you're a cuckold then move on
What does it mean if your boyfriend tells you about his first love in a nostalgic way? As in "Oh I love Scarlett Johansson cause she reminds me of my first love". Does it mean he still has feelings for them or does it mean you're getting closer as a couple and sharing things?
>>16607142
It means he wants to fuck the shit out of Scarlett Johansson
Most men do
>>16607143
Yeah but why would he tell me that? Is he opening up to me or trying to put distance between us by acting like we're friends or something?
>>16607148
Its just shooting the breeze
Guys talk about fucking celebrities all the time
I've been working inside a hardware store for a year and one of my workers are quitting. My boss asked me if I knew anything who needs a job. My brother comes to mind, but he has never had a job. He is 26. No experience or anything. He is also known for being very lazy.
Should I recommend my brother or will he make me look bad by being inexperienced? Really mixed up here.
>very lazy
Nope. Don't recommend him.
>>16606888
Nope. That would just make your boss blame you for your brother's failures and expect you to police his actions. You don't need a child's hand to hold on top of having a job as well.
>>16606910
Well, what can I do to help him? I get him applications but he never fills them out or goes out to get apps.
So I had my first drunken one night stand (not sure if that is what it is), except I wasn't drunk and he might have been. I'm not sure. I have no idea what his tolerance is, but he had like twelve beers over the course of like seven or eight hours.
Couple questions: how terribly immoral am I?
Why the hell have I been unable to think of anything else for like four days?
How to get him alone to talk about it without being obvious to his roommates?
On a less panicky note, what are some exercises or stuff you can do to make it easier to ride a guy? I've never really done that before either and didn't realize how annoying it could be to try and shift from a more grinding rhythm to a more stroking kind of thing? But that might have been due to the lack of leverage...
General thoughts? Pic related, it's the look on my face every two seconds when I inevitably think about it.
>seven or eight hours
that's barely more than one beer per hour. I wouldn't even be buzzed.
your text is unclear to me
do you want to fuck him again?
>>16606774
im not a person who drinks usually so I have no baseline
>>16606794
oh gosh I mean I haven't really thought about it lol
Ask someone who believes they know the answer to the most important question(s) anything.
what is the meaning of life? when we die, where do we go?
How can I get over a person?
>>16606771
The meaning of life is to avoid pain and acquire pleasure as much as possible.
When you die you either feel nothing forever or, if you're mentality permits it, you feel happiness forever by living a series of events on repeat forever with your memory being wiped each time it begins to repeat again.
>>16606773
Not one of the most important questions so I don't know.
But I'd guess it's to a) let time pass b) find something else to think about or do
would this be out of place amongst a bunch of normies?
Is that a hoodie? It'll just look like some sort of abstract art to people who don't know what it is
Not at all.
Mildly, yeah.
Alright, I really fucked up?
>My boyfriend sent me a pic of some panties he found in his laundry, asking if I was missing them
>I inferred they are mine, they look just like a pair of mine, red with tiger stripes
>told him to cum in them
>he does, tells me it was hot as hell, he sniffed them n stuff
>be getting dressed this morning and see supposedly missing parties in my drawer
>mfw he masturbated to his sisters panties
Wtf do I do? As a generally open and honest person I want to tell him, but I don't know if it would be better to spare him the shame of knowing he jizzed in his sisters undies???
Tell him and post results
There is no other way
>>16606244
So you're saying you'd want to know?
He doesn't want to know. We men are simple beings and dont care about stuff like this, so spare him the embarrasment