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My parents got divorced when I was about 8. Since then, my father got a new wife and got a new home and kids. My mother though, which I spent the last nine years with before heading off to college, never got around to a new relationship. Those nine years, I have always celebrated New Year's Eve with her. I'd spend the evening with her until about 0:30, and then I would go to friends and she would go to bed.
However, I went to college in a different region of the Netherlands, and it is about four hours away by train. I already have made plans with friends, but they all live where I go to college. Meaning I either can't spend time with my friends or I can't spent time with my mother.
She's a single parent, and does not really have any friends. I just can't cope with the thought that she will be alone with NYE if I don't spend the evening with her. But if I would do that I won't be able to spend time with my friends which I really want to.
I hate to tell her that I am going to spend NYE with friends this year as it sounds like I love my friends more than her. How do I deel with this? I think I won't be able to enjoy the party guilt-free for leaving my mother alone on NYE.
Am I overreacting?
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>>16619973
No, man. Spend time with your mother, it is a privilege to have such a kind mom. My mom is not nice to me, or the rest of my true family, (my dads side). She is consistently rude to me and never truly means what she says.
Cherish the fact that you have a very kind, gracious mother that you like spending time with and make sure that you spend every moment you can spare with her.
This is easily the best advice I've ever given.
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>>16619973
spend it with your mom. you see your friends most of the time anyway, and there will be dozens of parties to go to throughout the year. your mom just wants the holidays.
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>>16619973
Let her begin her life by giving her some space.
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Is there anybody out there? 2015-12-30 03:52:45 Post No.16619830
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Is there anybody out there?
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Does romance still exist? I just turned 19 today and I can't get this out of my head. I never had a girlfriend nor have kissed any girl, not even in the cheeks (except mother and grandmother ofc). I'm pretty average body except I'm 6'3. When i was in school teachers would always call me mastemind and ambitious with lifegoals. Im very introverted.
That being said, the thing is I just want to live a romance with a girl. I feel I'd be the happiest if that were to happen. Cuddle, look each other in the eyes for hours in bed and so on. I'm not talking about the "romantic dinner" romance but the pure one. Do girls who like this still exist? If yes where can I find them and how to spot them from a crowd? I have been thinking about just asking girls in publix something like "Hi I know this is out of the blue but do you want to live a dream love with me?". I'm really tired of being alone. I want to have a partner to love. Please please help me. Thanks
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>how to spot them from a crowd?
You don't.
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Just because you feel like a child would make your life better doesn't mean you should just have one.
You have to be prepared to become a father.
In this case, it's the same. Love as a couple can't be complete unless you're both individuals who share their life. You need to have your own interests as a person. Have something to share.
Love can't be lived to the fullest unless you're living your life to your fullest. And when you do that, you don't have time to be thinking of how good it would be to have a girlfriend or a partner, they simply come to your life.
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>>16619830
Honestly, at your age, I was the same - you need to detach from that a bit. It's not impossible, but seeking out romantic love from just *anyone* is gonna lead to a bad time.
It happens a little bit more organically than that. I guess my advice is to stop daydreaming so much about it, but easier said than done, I know.
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Been diagnosed with depression for over a year things have not gotten better no pills helped even had suicidal episodes. I cant feel interest or happy doing anything. Will weed help?
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>>16619787
No weed is terrible for depression and only enables it more. Get a new doctor if current one isn't helping. Diet is important too.
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>>16619787
It doesn't help, makes it worse and usually adds anxiety. Been there, done that.
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>>16619787
Don't listen to these faggots. Blaze that shit up.im up here at my dad's house and everyone fucking hates me,I can't wait to go back home and smoke dat weed up with my brother.
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I have a problem with not lasting long while having sex with a woman. I'm 22 years male and I need advice on how to last longer in bed.
Its embarrassing to only last about 2-3 minutes every time I have sex with a woman.
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So no answer?
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Do you regularly masturbate? It should build your stamina.
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>>16619947
Yes I do but even with that, I cum too quickly.
Am I doing something wrong? Should I change my technique?
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Does anyone know a good place online to buy a cool cup? I guess this is different from all the teens asking for relationship help here
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>>16619729
>shipping fragile glassware
Just go to target or walmart.
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>>16619742
This is what you don't do.
Go find the nearest salvation army or better yet a vintage/antique store. All the most interesting looking cups and bottles can be found in these places, for dirt cheap.
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>>16619752
>buying something you eat or drink with used
Do you buy used underwear too?
>inb4 well you eat at restaurants
I don't.
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I'm thinking about just dumping my gf altogether 2015-12-30 03:26:34 Post No.16619723
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I'm thinking about just dumping my gf altogether
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I'll try to bullet point this
> known for 1 year, dating 6 months
> emotionally unstable, she's vibrant and happy and then doom and gloom within the hour
> constantly tells me I'm emotionally unavailable, that I don't do anything for her, she's the only one trying
> asserts that I should know how to treat her, that I'm selfish just for being who I am
> threatens to disappear and never talk to me again, a lot
> also she's 24 and a virgin
We actually had a split on December 18th where she dumped a bunch of Facebook messages on me, saying she can't do this, this is too much, etc. She blocked me on everything, then on the 24th she messaged me, all angry that I didn't come chasing her.
We talked some after that and we're hashing out plans to hang out tomorrow. I'm having mad second thoughts though, even just now she's telling me
> every other guy knows how to treat women, what's wrong with you
> you don't appreciate me, you half love me
> I went on a date and the guy actually made me feel appreciated, why can't you?
> I deserve better
> I give so much
> instead of talking to me you're always getting mad
And she actually said
> I expect twice as much from you if I'm giving you another chance
She has lots of shit going on, she was a victim of sexual assault almost two years ago and it's really got her messed up, and her parents are getting divorced at the moment. She's got me convinced that I am a selfish dick and that I should be "doing better," but whenever I try to adjust my behavior it doesn't seem to matter to her.
I'm probably just going to drop this one completely, but any advice? What can I change about myself?
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She... went on a date? The fuck are you even contemplating here, anon?
Dump and run. I'm not a cuckmemer, just she sounds like an emotional well that isn't ever going to fill up.
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>>16619723
Are you willing to stop being yourself and become her bitch?.
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Time to get out my man
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After putting pressure on my boyfriend about why we don't have that much sex (once or twice a month) He opened up and told me that he thinks I am attractive, beautiful etc but he is not sexually attracted to me. He himself can't explain why, he knows that I get hit on and "any guy would be lucky to have" me but he just isn't sexually aroused by me.
He said he loves me with all his heart and would never cheat on me in a million years, he doesn't want to break up but that is the reason why he watches porn a lot and avoids sex with me.
Where do I go with this information? I love him too but I want to have sex in a loving relationship.
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>>16619720
bondage him
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>>16619724
He's not into it.
Previously, I tried everything I could to get more sexual with him. Nothing works.
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>>16619720
Cuckold him.
Either it will make him happy, or serve him right.
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How do you deal with this shit: 2015-12-30 03:16:21 Post No.16619684
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How do you deal with this shit:
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>be me
>fall in love with my friend
>get rejected
>friend begs to stay friends so we do
>year and half later still in love with him
>tried to cut contact multiple times in the meantime, never succeeded
>now friend gets depressed, has some kind of breakdown
>I get antsy, feel like I need to drift away
>too scared to do so in case friend needs my support
I just don't know
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kill yourself you fucking idiot
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>>16619719
Really can't, also no need to get your knickers in twist
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>>16619684
Go find yourself a new bf/gf?
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I have two friends that I met at the same time and am just as close to the two of them as the other. They happen to be dating but the female friend in the relationship recently told me that she feels sexually deprived and that her relationship cannot fulfill her needs. She explained to me that she is sexually attracted to me but I am not sure what to do because the boyfriend is just as close a friend to me. The girl has already tried to fool around with me and I am completely attracted to her but I feel like it's wrong? I don't know whether to pursue the strong feelings we have because if she truly loved her current boyfriend she wouldnt feel this way about me, or if I should deny those feelings and continue the friendship as it is? She thinks her relationship is going downhill as it is and I'm honestly clueless.
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Dude dont do that to your guy mate, theres a whole other bunch of women out there just fap and re-assess the situation. My honest advice is to distance yourself from that snake..
..or you could play the game 'just the tip' and see if it still feels wrong
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bro fuck this bitch. tell her to ditch her boyfriend if he doesnt fuck her good. dont fuck her
there's like so many bitches everywhere you dont need to be ruining relationships with your bros just cause you wanna get your dick wet
i fucked a few of my guys' girlfriends cause my dick is like BAM and they're working with wet noodles. but at that point i told them that hey dog your girl is feeling me you need to do something. and they were like fuck it you can have her
we're still cool but nowhere near as cool cause now they think im just gunna fuck their girls
but look dude there's girls everywhere. and if your guy isnt as cool as mine. cause my dude found a new girl in like a week and he was just fine. but if your buddy loves her and shit like that dont be throwing salt into wounds nam sayin
keep it real
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here's the thing though, would it be so wrong if I waited for them to breakup and then went for it? I've never been in the situation to be involved with someone that a friend has had a serious relationship with. I know she isn't happy in the relationship and they argue all of the time and don't really have a sexual relationship anymore so I'm just not sure.
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Advice/Insight on attracting Men my age 2015-12-30 02:32:01 Post No.16619466
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Hey /adv/, would anyone be willing to provide some insight to my situation?
I'm 27 year old, female. I find that men within my age group are not attracted me, however very young men (like teenagers, college students) and older men (40 year olds, baby boomers, etc.) are attracted to me and often do make advances. I've had a few circumstances where I've been interested in a guy, only to find out his divorced father thinks I'm hot, or his (married) father is encouraging the son to bed and/or date me.
Can anyone provide a reason as to why this may be happening? Is it perhaps that I intimidate guys? I'm smart, I'm attending an Ivy League for my Masters, and I also look/dress young for my age. I have been told that I'm also very mentally, emotionally mature. Pic unrelated
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26 m here, looking for college grills
young dudes can like a chick with experience
Old dudes wanna live old times.
sorry I can't help you but those are the averages, looks like you're looking for the specifics, in which case, what do ppl your age do? I think it's work so it fukt
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>>16619466
>I'm smart, I'm attending an Ivy League for my Masters, and I also look/dress young for my age. I have been told that I'm also very mentally, emotionally mature.
It has nothin' to do with that.
Old guys are in that "Don't give a fuck if I'm a creepy old perv" stage of their lives and younger guys are in that "Shit, gotta get laid so people don't think I'm a loser virgin" stage in their lives.
You're hot, but 27 year old men are like "Yeah, she's hot, but I gotta get this presentation done for work tonight and shit".
Also, you're still in education - you're pretty much gonna be surrounded by young people and their dads. Guys your own age are mostly working and avoiding the leftist indoctrination camps that are the educational system. I mean, shit, why the fuck would I get into a lifetime of debt just to have mandatory "If she say's no, don't stick your penis inside her" patronising sexist classes.
Fuck that shit. All the men your age are at work. Ironically, only those too stupid to see what the education system has become will still remain inside it.
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That age bracket is right in the middle of the bell curve of self doubt and being uneasy... i think the young ones show they openly want you cause they still have a sex drive which outweighs every other thought n reasoning and all they want is you physically and the older rogue lions;
A) see a young hot woman
b) have the hindsight to see how driven and successful you are already and hence push their boys to be with you..
You gotta accept that a guy in this age bracket may feel intimidated and overshadowed by a young successful girl like you.. but then again your probably gonna weed out the inferiority complexed guys and only be approached by men who are alot more mature and self confident
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i got a drug test on the 4th of january. so in like a week.
i smoked pot like three times a week for 2 weeks now. how do i get this shit out of my system? how do i pass this drug test?
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yo
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how to get weed out of system plz halp
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>>16619428
What's the drug test for? Depending on what it's for you have different options.
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Slept with prostitute with condom, freaking the fuck out 2015-12-30 02:10:06 Post No.16619383
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Slept with prostitute with condom, freaking the fuck out
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Hi /adv/.
Long story short. Felt really lonely, found a prostitute list, called her. Then went to her apartment, fucked her 2 times and got 2 blowjobs with condoms.
It was 3 days ago. I've been freaking out last 2 days, as I might've caught something. It was my first time with a prostitute.
To be exact, I get a little uncomfortable sensation and it burns in urethra, I think. No lesions, no discharge, no nothing. Just kind off uncomfortable. Can this be because of stress? After all, I put on the condom.
Jesus christ, never again. I feel like I've had a dirt bath
I've read on all the STD's and it seems I may have gonorrhea, but HOW? It doesn't spread through condoms.
Can someone help me out on this, please? I'm having trouble sleeping, as some diseases may still be on incubatory period.
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wew lad
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>>16619383
>1999+16
>sleeping with prostitutes
>what is pickup art
Jesus fucking Christ OP.
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>>16619392
I know. This is a good fucking lesson for me to not think with my dick any time in the future.
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Is it normal to have incestuous dreams about your own mother?
I probably get these dreams every other week and in the dream I'm really into it. But once I wake up I feel gross because I have literally no attraction to my own mom.
Anybody can relate?
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Not sure. I had a wet dream about my mom once when I was 13. God, I felt disgusted.
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>>16619373
I totally understand the feeling of disgust. When I was in middle school I'd get the dreams about my mom a lot more often than now. It was horrifying and I had nobody to talk to about it.
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>>16619305
What has your relationship been like with your mother?
Hi /adv/, did I overreact here?
Story Time
There's a girl that I'm friends with who I'm into. [The beginning of every other thread, amirite?]
She wants to "hang out with me sometime". We mutually decided on restaurant and B-movie after, about a week ago. Today, about two hours ago, she texts me, "Hey anon, can [I'll call him Trevor] come along with us to the movie". Her and Trevor used to be together but not together (so friends with benefits is my best guess). I said no, then she suggested that we skip the restaurant and the two of us just go to the movie. I'm assuming so she could have time to spend with him.
>inb4 assuming makes me an ass
At this point, I'm pissed off and hastily said "I'm busy tomorrow". We talked a little more, she asked if I was mad and I said that I "was mad and that I wanted to spend time with her, and not be a third wheel". She gave me this sob story about how he's "having a hard time right now and it's his only day off" or something. I told her to give me some space for a while.
Also, any advice on how I can handle things related in the future would be great.
>implying I'll get another chance
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>>16619266
>dating a girl that has had a fuck buddy
great way to get your feet wet into cuckolding
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you dodged her bullshit good job.
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>>16619266
Fuck that ho, nigga.
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In relation to the male thread, what body types do the men of /adv/ like the most?
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3 for me.
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>>16619188
Everything but 0 and 7.
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