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What did you find that's bothering you so much?

Follow your gut but be honest and straight about breaking up

>>16615533

what did you see?

honestly guys complain about it, but ghosting is in fact the best answer.

Nobody wants to be told out of the blue that they're unattractive and you won't consider dating them (which is the only thing anyone would ever hear from that). People who complain about that are simply emotionally immature; it's a matter of politeness.

Tell him you're transgender

"sorry you are not my type"

when they try to talk to you again say
"sorry you are not my type'

when they call you a bitch and said they just wana talk say
"sorry, I'm not interested in that'

then ignore.

Anyone...?

>>16615485
Surely Google would be better for such a technical question

>>16615589
Didn't really help, since my explanation sucks.

>>16615367

got pics? clothed is fine, but lets see if its too big or just big enough. even women like nice butts on men.

but if you have fat on ur gut to, yeah id say its time to lose weight. lifting doesnt help much for losing weight. can help maintain your muscle if ur already working out or have muscle worth maintaining.

but generally its about diet. calculate your daily expenditure (human average, 2000 if ur early 20s) then subtract 500 from that, and eat that daily.

my advice? spend your intake filling up on fruits and veggies. you can eat a shit ton of fruits and veggies and stay under 500 calories. than for afternoon, have a big protien meal. protien takes longer to digest, keeps you full longer.

then that evening if you have any left over calories, fruit or veggies before bed. if you absoultely HAVE to eat more, stuff ur face with spinach or asparagus or other basic veggies, as veggies have barely any calories at all.

>>16615367
Embrace it

>>16615401
>got pics?
Sorry, don't feel comfortable doing that. I'll take your diet advice though, seems very useful.

>>16615407
Fuck that.

>>16615356
>Don't worry, I've been with two other girls who couldn't have sex straight away

Nothing would get me drier faster. I would take it as if you see me as a challenge to be conquered. No, I'm also a person, who happens to have an extremely low sex partner count and takes sex seriously.

What issues in her past are we talking about here?

>Have a pretty gem in return

Do you just not have experience talking with normal women?

Let her know that it's okay that she doesn't want to have sex right away. It feels nice to know that I can take my time and not have to rush into it. It also shows that you care enough about her to be willing to wait.

>>16615366
Good advice thanks. That's what I'm hoping to achieve with whatever I say.

>>16615365
so never mention that she is just another girl on my list?

>Do you just not have experience talking with normal women?
Why do you ask that? I can talk with girls normally, if I consider than as just humans to interact with. Once I start thinking sexually/romantically it goes badly really fast. Thats religious upbringing for you.

>issues in her past
abuse and rape i think

Really simple . Join an online dating site (there are plenty of free ones out there), stay on it a couple of months, and any urge you had to date will be killed quickly by the sheer mass of retarded mongoloids that prowl them .

huh

>>16615229
I've been on okcupid, tinder, grindr and some others for well over six months now. It still kills me to know I'm going to die alone.

>>16615163
I'll check it out next time I take a shit or
Have time to read.

>>16615163
Oh wait it's in German

Can you translate it and repost?

>>16615176
>>16615176
I could, but it will not be better than with google Translator (English is not my Native Laguage).

I probably will do a professional Translation at some time, but since it will (most probably) cost me, i'l wait with that until its worth it.

>soul mate

Yeah, no.

>>16615144
Omg tmi why am I so embarrassing

>>16615144
Now that's a shitpost.

>>16615123

theres no right answer here cuz its entirely subjective. while there are little things we could recommend about, the best thing is to actually go out and try some on, get a feel for feel and an eye for design. while a rolex is quite a bit about status, the fact that it is a rolex is enough, invest in one that suits you.

no ones gonna be like 'OH THAT ROLEX ISNT AS IMPRESSIVE AS THIS OTHER ROLEX THAT I KEEP CLOSE TABS ON'

That's called N*gger rich---when you get a large sum of money and waste it on something like jewelry

>>16615131
What if OP is a nigger though?

A couple thousand is going to buy you a shitty used Rolex that you won't be able to afford to get maintenance on and it will eventually stop working properly.

As far as popular ones go I'd say a GMT Master or a Submariner but those go for around $4-5K used.

>source: former Rolex Submariner owner.

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What did you post on /d/ anon?

The jig is up, Anon. Odds are he'll be asking about /adv/ next.

So you decided to post about it somewhere else on 4chan? Are you an idiot?

>>16614964
Are you super quiet or shy? That can creep people out who don't know you or know that you're just shy. I used to have a creepy vibe but it was only because I'd get nervous as shit around pretty women and end up acting awakward. Unless you're a rapist or pedo I doubt you're actually creepy, it's probably just some minor shit your doing that's throws people off. 99% of the people I've met that others have called creepy were just shy or awakward and unintentionally gave off a creepy vibe. They weren't actually creepy once you got to know them. If you had to guess what things do you do that might make someone uncomfortable?

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>>16614978
I am slightly sadistic, that and my blatant emotional numbness are just something I keep inside, I am amoral and I wouldn't call myself a good person, in a more serious relationship I am capable of ruining lives whether intentionally or unintentionally, truly I am a evil cunt. Can people exactly tell of this? Do they know that i am not morally upsound? depressed?

>>16614964

>it must be my behavior

prove it? as in, post pics, lets see. you might have some features throwing people off that you are just used to.

>i dont act nice
>just neutral

are you sure you arent just acting apathetic, which tends to piss people off?

>i feel apathy all the time

sounds like you mighta started with a small thing that snowballed. like you had resting bitch face and people treated you different so now you are jaded?

>I promised myself I would forget cigarettes
I tell people quite often that there's no such thing as "quitting smoking." You don't quit. You just stop for a while. Hopefully it's a very long while. But the notion that this is just going to stop being a part of you is bogus. You will always be ready to become a smoker again. Sometimes the taste and smell will come back to you out of nowhere and you'll be craving it, too. This is the reality of your life going forward.

>some motivation
You'll really, really regret the cigarette after you finish it. The aftertaste will bother you. The stink on your fingertips will disgust you. It's not because of some chemical reason. It's because you'll realize that those aren't the things you were chasing. You wanted the old feeling but it turned to ash in 3 minutes. Now you're just sitting there with a shit-tasting mouth and a stinky hand all night.

Being an ex-smoker means that you have to get good at saying "no." You're going to be doing it for the rest of your life, even though the thing you miss is so easy to get. That kind of discipline takes practice. You have to start somewhere. Start here.

Cravings don't last that long, that's all it is. A voice in your head telling you it ain't that bad if you light up, just remember you don't want to. Keep reminding yourself, because you will regret it, you'll get back into that "smoke em' if you got em' mentality" It's one tonight, then in the morning, than after lunch and so on. You got this.

Dude, I know there's a lot of stigma around it right now, but a lot of my family is having a way easier time with those E-vapes.

My family only gets the juices from in the United states, and shops that are willing to vape their own products. You could also go organic, and get bottles with limited ingredients that you can look up and read what they are. I personally think they are safer that the crap you are smoking in cigarettes, and they are cheaper.

If you decide to go that route, I suggest the more boxy type one than the pen, and start off the nicotine setting at six. It hits different than cigarettes and takes some getting used to.

My fiance got an awesome setup for about $160.

gotta unbrainwash that bitch to love herself

How can sex with condoms be painful?

>>16614790

you have to deconstruct it for her. might be hard cuz some people do not waiver, but it sounds like she does.

sit her down and talk about sex, and explain that there are plenty of things that are considered sinful but are common place, and that even sex after marriage is still supposed to be only for pro creation, no condoms, no bith control, so unless she wants to be a baby factory her choices are abstain or be a 'sinner'.

go down the list of all the supposedly sinful things that are common place not just to society but for her as well. explain how they arent really sins and that while god himself is real, much of what is written in that book is not, being pieced together from an entire library of biblical literature to suit the time it was created.

People keep saying that I'm smart, but I know my limitations, and I'm not anywhere near them.

If I just had enough space for a desk and a chair. That would be life changing for me, but there's just no space.

>>16614757
If your environment is messy, clean it up. Or at least try to keep what part of the room you have clean. If you're still finding it hard to focus and study, leave the environment and go somewhere else. Maybe outside or a library or a cafe. Just get out and go do stuff, since you said your back is hurting from you being on your bed too much. Clean up what you can, do what you can, deal with the cards you're dealt with until you can get a different hand.

>>16614825
The library closes early, and I have a laptop that needs its power source since the battery is dead.

The cards I've been dealt aren't that great. I don't see a solution to a perfect answer, but I posted this just in case someone else might come up with some genius situation. I doubt that'll be the case.