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Hi.
I'd like to turn my life around in exactly one day.
Thoughts:
-wakeup early
-buy all new clothes, clean entire place, throw out everything I don't want/use
-make a new resume and apply to actual careers that are better than my minwage part time shit
-or apply to a bunch of colleges and universities
-reconnect with a bunch of people i like that i let fade out of my life
-tell some girls i know i like them maybe set up a date
-grocery shop and get everything needed for a new diet
-set an exercise routine
What are your thoughts? Have you ever done something like this?
am i low level manic right now?
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Nah not in one day. More like a week. And set your goals properly.
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Don't take on too much or you will be prone to fail and feel bad about it. Take one goal at a time
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>>16617520
if i do it too slow the fear and comfort will creep in and i might not do anything ? : S
anxiety is a bitch to get over even to help yourself
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i had a weird dream, could anyone here help me find the meaning to it?
Short explanation first: this dream includes a friend of mine. this friend was my best friend until i revealed that i had a crush on her, and showed it in my actions, and then she blocked me out and "dropped" me for a bit. she's still my friend, but the old feelings of a crush aren't really there anymore.
the dream started off with my mom, my sister, my friend, and i at my sibling's dad's house for a party. it was seemingly in the evening. i don't remember too much of the party, but that my friend and i were hanging out, and we were happy. then it went to everyone being in my mom's car, we were driving through a neighborhood, trying to find my friend's house. it wasn't my friend's neighborhood, nor did we pull up to her house, but we pulled up to a house that was apparently her family's. i walked up to the door with her, and then i gave her a long hug. the hug felt real, and i was smiling. then we both let go and i saw that she was crying. her face was all red, she was sobbing. i grabbed her shoulders and tried to ask her what was wrong, and she didn't answer so i hugged her again. my mom and sister were still in the car and honked the horn for me to go, but i screamed back something about my friend being upset. she pulled away from the hug and ran into her house. i pulled out my phone and immediately tried to message her to ask what was wrong. i started running to my mom's car and that's when the dream ended.
all during the scenes where we were at my sibling's dad's house, it seemed as if there was a yellow filter over everything i saw. all during the part where i was with my friend, hugging her, etc. it looked as though there was a white filter, though other colors were still prominent.
thanks
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There are a lot of things that seem to point out that you feel very lonely. And i guess it's pretty obviois that you still have feelings for your friend.
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>>16617470
First of all, I take the C.G. Jung approach to dreams, if that says you anything.
I have no idea why you have that dreams or what they mean, because i´m not you. This dreams are a generated by your subconsciousness and only have a message to you.
So I can only ask questions and maybe help you to understand your dreams, I can´t offer any clear message.
When driving around to find your friends house, did you feel like you were in the wrong neighborhood or was that a clear observation (the feeling of being in the wrong place and actually being in the wrong place are quite different in dreams)?
What do you think made her run away in your dream?
The white filter you mention in the end, was it still there when she ran away?
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>>16617470
Dreams don't have meaning themselves. The associated emotions and images cause us to project meaning onto the dream. So if you feel lonely you'll have a lonely dream. Obviously you haven't settled things with your friend so that's where this is coming from. Don't try and go any deeper than this.
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Sup /adv/ I'm a bit confused about my emotional state.
I'm not really an emotional person, and it's been a pretty steady decline in expression throughout my teenage years and now into my 20s. It's at the point where I have to fake emotion to keep people engaged in conversation and what have you, but it's becoming increasingly rare where I actually feel that emotion.
I can however, trigger emotion using a set of mental gymnastics. It usually requires some visualization (visual and auditory) for me to feel those emotions. I don't think the frequency of emotions, or the range at which they're felt, is particularly different. In general my emotional state is muted. Not to the point of perfect apathy, but muted, quite equally.
I've had points in my life where I've felt less and been more apathetic but it's been a shorter period, and times where I've felt a limited number of emotions (such as anger), but this is new to me.
What's the diagnosis /adv/?
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Can you give an example of a situation where you feel like you lack emotions?
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>>16617469
Err, I guess? I skipped Christmas dinner this year with my family to sleep instead; I should probably have felt bad or something, but just nothing really. I play a lot of sports and I'm completely indifferent to winning and losing, as long as the game challenges me. I'm not really fussed about the status of my university work as long as it passes.. I dunno what else to put here. I'm trying to think of things I should probably care about enough to feel something for.
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>>16617456
I'm kinda like you, i just don't give a fuck, i'm indifferent to almost everything and everyone, but i'm still able to have a healthy social life and do normal stuff(bar, parties, family reunions), the thing is, you don't need to change yourself, just adapt to situations when is needed, i've never complained about lacking emotions cause at the end of the day, i'm happy with my life.
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Have big feet for grill, what do.
Wear size 10 US and I see people always joke around.
Old crush of mine even made a post on FB about it and it kinda hurt me.
My question is, how much do guys care about feet.
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marry a foot fetishist, that's what I'm doing
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>>16617427
Not that much, I just it was that occasion as it was the thing to laugh of your feet and shit, which sound really sad and immature, but yeah no real problem and he was just a faggot anon.
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>>16617427
Are you serious?
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virgin
>guy
>has sex for first time
>she does some weird voodoo hand movements with my dick
>told her it actually kind of hurts
>calls me a pussy
>she does it again
jesus fucking christ
>HELLO?
How do I cope with this? and keep it enjoyable for her and me?
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Kick her fookin' teeths in, mate.
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she raped you OP put her ass in jail
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Slap her
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My bf is kind of small. He really tries to do his best but he just can't get into spots that really gets me off. I'm very tight, so grith is not really a problem and he cums fine, but length is.
Any tips to solve this like good positions to try?
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You know the answer
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>>16617359
>>16617364
^
>get an elblack
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Missionary with your legs over his shoulders and him raising your butt. Really deep penetration.
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Fear of driving him away 2015-12-29 15:34:42 Post No.16617298
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Guys, i have an amazing bf. He's perfect in every way. We know each other since 2 years and as it turned out, we have been crushing on each other since we first met. We have a few friends in common, that's how we met. Since about 7 weeks we have started doing stuff on our own after he finally had the courage to make the first step. I was too cowardly.
We don't have a lot of free time, but we make an effort to see each other as often as possible. Last week we made our relationship official. As you can see, everything is just like a fairytale so far.
Yesterday, we spent the whole night cuddling, talking and fucking. It was absolutely wonderful. He told me "i love you". But we also talked about some risky topics concerning my past. Specifically that i had an abortion a few years ago. Now i am freaking the fuck out that this might change his view of me. My gutt knows that he stands above such things, but my mind is going crazy. I don't even know what kinf of advice i wish from you, i guess i just needed to vent. But if anybody has an idea how to calm me down again, i would be so happy. I love this guy so very much, i don't want to fuck this up! But i felt it was important to tell him, cause it's something that belongs to me, if i like it or not.
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>>16617298
dont think about ur past cause hes your future
its awesome that u said that to him asap, cause if he discovered it year later for example it wouldve caused much bigger probs and pain than now
if he really loves you he should be ok with that, JUST TELL HIM EVERYTHING and dont lie about nothing. make him love you for what u are
oh and dont get pregnant too fast
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>>16617480
Thank you for the heads up anon. That was the reason i told him. I want to know him, flaws and all. And i think he deserves to have a complete understanding of who i am. I just tend to beat myselfe up over past mistakes and bad decisions. well, time will tell.
Oh, i won't. I got an iud because of my paranoia...
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>>16617511
but really, if you feel like you love him tell him about every guy youve kissed, every guy you liked and so on. And if he sees that youre honest and knows everything about you he might do the same. It was my biggest mistake with my first gf (the one im with now). I wasnt honest, and lies started to pop out now and then. One day i just told her everything, she saw that its really everything, she cried a lot, but now she knows knows me and im glad. I wish i did it in the first days tho. :(
wow! iud is a big plus for u. :D Im trying to get my gf to get one, finally cumming for real inside her.
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I get in angry as fuck when a girl I like keep talking to other men and even smile at them. I'm fully aware that she is a free person and she can do anything she wants and we are not lovers but I can't stop feeling like shit and angry. What should I do /adv/? I even stop talking to girl I liked after seeing them interact with other men on friendly basis. I hate it.
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>>16617179
We do not have this problem in Saudi Arabia inshallah
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Girls hate it when guys they like talk to girls.
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>>16617224
>Girls hate it when guys they like talk to girls.
But I don't talk to other girls when I like a specific girl.
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I wanted to know: would you let your girlfriend go for outings with only boys?
She told me she doesn't like hanging out with girls, she finds them boring.
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>>16617173
she finds them boring because they cant take turns slamming her asshole
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Sure, I trust her. She's always been a bit of the 'awkward' type so she's had a hard time clicking with a lot of girls since, towards other girls, they tend to be judgmental cunts.
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she's going to be clicking with the dicking
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My current girlfriend doesn't take cock very well. I've fucked 14 other girls, and this is literally the first girl I have ever run into this problem with.
Basically we have sex, and then she literally needs a day off because she is too sore. Like she can't have sex with me two days in a row, or even two times in the same day. I told her she needs to figure this out. Go see her Gyno and get it fixed.
Dudes, she got Fucking upset! Really? Are you Fucking kidding me right now!? She's not good enough at blowjobs to hold me over during her rest day when she doesn't have sex, and I'm not fucking masterbating when I am in a sexual relationship. That's just Fucking stupid. Honestly she's 22, and I pointed out that this shouldn't be an issue at that young of an age. Like I tried to help her look at it logically and shit, and she got more and more upset!
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You sound like a complete douche.
Telling her to go to a doctor because she's unfuckable, fucking her sore all the time, refusing to take care of yourself, and saying she's shit at bjs all point to you being an immature selfish little shit.
If you gave half a fuck about her you'd have tried things like maybe working her up from small dildos or asked her if she's had any weird symptoms lately instead of just telling her to get her cunt checked because it's not good enough for you.
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>>16617154
Some chicks are like that. You are a douche
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>be girl
>bf is clumsy as fuck in bed
>everytime he sticks it in he's like a gorilla with a pool cue
>no foreplay
>I'm drier than a desert because he has no sensitivity
>what a douche
>apparently it's my problem
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A close friend confessed to me. Conversations have been small talk since then, its been a bit awkward. He knows I wouldn't have been interested, he just wanted to tell me and get it off his chest. Is there anything I can do to stop it from being so awkward? Should I bring this up with my boyfriend or just keep it a secret? I usually tell him everything.
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Last year I confessed to a girl I had been into for a very long time. The purpose was not so that she would be with me (although it would have been a nice bonus), but it was so that I could be honest with her and ultimately move on.
OP, it might be inevitable that you and your friend become distant, that's just how feelings work. Especially if you're in a relationship with someone else.
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Whatever you do, never text "Hey" to him at midnight nearly a year after he has confessed and then never follow up on it
I guarantee that I'll mess him up even more.
>why are girls so mean ;-;
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>>16617140
Just say you're not ready for a relationship and you can still remain friends.
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I'm a very shy girl who met a guy who went after me really intensely. I was standoffish for a very long time since I don't really trust people much, I'm too sensitive and I was trying to protect myself but slowly I guess you could say he melted me.
I was really scared and I told him many times to just tell me if he just wants to have fun and isn't serious because then I could protect my heart. I was really attracted to him and didn't have any other prospects at the time so I said I would be casual with him if that is what he wants. But be kept showering me with love and pulled me in further.
Now the relationship is over and he basically broke up/moved on very swiftly and unemotionally. I realize he was never really serious and it's my own fault for believing him. However, I think the experience will help me be less naive in the future.
Sorry for the long introduction but I just wanted to give a bit of background information. Basically I am heartbroken and I feel wronged. I tried to be very understanding and end it on good terms but my anger has just grown. I want to tell him what I think about his uncaring nature one last time before forgetting about it but I don't know if I should. I mean do people like that care that they have hurt another person deeply? I can't even imagine treating someone you shared so much with with such coldness. It's probably better not to say anything right? But I feel like I need to get it out. What do you guys think?
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>>16617102
iktf
But it might not be the best idea for you to talk to him again, best thing to do is to move on and not give him the thought he doesn't deserve. If you really feel like you need to get it off your chest remember that it's unlikely he will apologise, he's more likely to shrug it off or ignore you or argue
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I'm in a really similar situation right now. I suggest just trying to move on. If he hurt you without giving a fuck he won't care no matter what you say to him. Some people are just manipulative assholes without feelings. I wish you better luck next time
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>>16617112
Yeah I don't really expect a real reaction from him but it's hard for me to understand people like that. I wonder if he would feel a shred of regret and think twice when coming across someone like me again.
I mean he isn't completely heartless I guess. He could have just shut me out completely but I did manage to have a long conversation about it with him on the phone. He didn't say much but he was still there and listening. It's just that it's very easy for him to just cut me out of his life and mind.
I hope things work out better for all of us in the future.
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Why do some people choose not to have kids? 2015-12-29 10:04:13 Post No.16617063
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Why do some people choose not to have kids?
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>You are making your dating pool smaller - most people want kids
>You only live once and you are missing out a lot if you don't have kids
>You don't get to pass on your genes and assets into future generations
>Who will look after you when you are old?
>Who will pay respect to you after your death?
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;_;
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>>16617063
Because kids are useless money pits that require constant attention and prevent you from taking proper vacations and degenerate sex marathons
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whats the advice needed here
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Im 20 and I hate bitter drinks, always try drinking beer/cider with friends and I end up wretching. Can someone reccomend a really sweet alchoholic beverage? I dont mind looking like a femme.
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Also I realise its normal to dislike bitter things as a kid but has anyones tastebuds for bitter drinks changed 20+?
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>>16617020
You can get sweeter ciders. I don't know if Rekorderlig is available where you live, but it's pretty sweet and no guy I know has been called a fag for drinking it either. Otherwise, you could drink vodka in cola or whatever
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>>16617023
I usually go for Kopparberg, but even that I dont really enjoy drinking because I can still taste some of the alchohol. Can you really not taste the vodka in a vodka and coke? Or would I just have to drown it in coke.
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>20 years old
>diagnosed autistic
>can't relate to most people as they have completely different interests
>work at home, rarely go outside
>no friends for years
How do I make friends?
>inb4 go outside
Where do I go? And even if I went there, what do I do?
Also, not working at home is not an option.
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Join a protestant church. Become a part of their young adults group.
My experiences have been nothing but positive.
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Play minecraft, it's full of autists.
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>>16616952
I used to play it when I was younger. Now I grew out of it.