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I have a childhood pen pal who I kept in contact with. She lives in the middle of nowhere in Canada where the internet connection is very poor so chatting with her online is tough. She will move to a city very soon. Should I ask to skype with her (I am a girl too btw)?
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Some of you are so emotionally stunted it scares me.
Holy, fucking shit.
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>>16646639
Like, I don't know, you really need to make a thread to ask if you should call your friend?
What the fuck am I missing here?
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Me and this 10/10 perfect girl, started talking over facebook and we really hit it off. I have a close friend and i told him i was speaking to a nice girl, i never told him her name or details like that. He asked if i could show him signs of her being interested in me. So i screenshotted two examples, but here is where i fucked up. I sent the screen shots to the girl which i then explained he lives ages away and he doesnt know who you are. She was mad which i guess is understandable, a few hours later she went to a friends house and they had sex (she did it because she was mad at me, also me and this girl weren't in a relationship we were just seeing each-other) She told me she fucked a guy and she never knew it was going to happen. Im mad and fucking some other girl is not what i want to do. I really like this girl and im prepared to move on. What the fuck do i do? do i talk to her about it or just drop her?
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>>16646626
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She sounds like a really mature and reasonable picture, I literally don't see any reason why you should just cut contact with her and looking for someone that wouldn't just sleep with the first rando she crosses for a minor disagreement.
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run.
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Ok. Don't do that screenshot text thing, what a weird move. But yeah, cut contact. Either she actually got mad and fucked a dude for "revenge," or she just fucked the guy and used that as an excuse to make herself feel better.
Either way,
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I can no longer live in this society. I have reached a state of mind that makes it impossible to me to obey to its "laws". It goes from simple things to "essential" ones like time. What is a second ? What is a year ? Just human scales to measure time, ultimately irrelevant. When i walk on the street, i dont see our modern world, i see atoms. All these people living their life without a clue how the universe really is. They call me an asshole because they cant understand that laws, morality, dos-and-donts and all their life and thoughts consists of is ultimately irrelevant and nonexistent.
This is just the tip of the iceberg of my thoughts.
What can i do ?
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>>16646583
You could see a psychiatrist and talk to them.
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>>16646641
For seeing the world how it is ? I already did that (unwillingly), but he basically told me that what i said was correct and he doesnt see a mental illness.
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>>16646583
You can talk to me if you want. I'll be here. I'm bored.
Or read Nietzsche.
There are countless things you can do.
The point is to forget about it. Most people understand that everything we humans do is ultimately irrelephant, but we enjoy the illusion that our senses bring.
You ever smoked a joint and listened to Kyuss? Now, I wouldn't change that experience for any greater conscience in the world.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lUDoFb83pPs
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>kissless virgin til 25
>meet woman online
>tell her the truth about sexual history and how being alone for so long fucked with my head big time
>apparently, having an apartment gets you pussy
>fuck
>I feel awkward
>good at reading people, try my best
>she came
>compliments my skill all the time
>makes me uncomfortable, shouldn't I be terrible?
>fwb, won't suck me. Hate that but tolerate it. Don't eat her.
>tells me she loves me after a week, says she dreams about us as twin flames and all this stuff
>tell her I've never said those words before, they're precious to me and I don't wanna lie to her
>stay fuck buddies
>she has no job, hates her home life
>she's crazy, I take good care of her, pay for everything
>get tired of her bullshit, especially with no BJs
>feel like she thought she could pussy whip and that's why she takes advantage of me
>lmao, bitch I went for years without the pussy, I may be a loser but I have my pride
>end it
>goes insane, starts telling me about how guys lie about being virgins to get women
>in what reality does that work??????
Was she just complimenting my bed skills to boost my ego and later fuck with head? Is sex just easier than I thought?
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>>16646575
bro, i was in a similar situation. but i was younger. i met a girl and she was crazy about me, i was a virgin etc and she even said all that twin flame shit. sounds like she was using you for financial reasons. maybe she thought you would get attached to her because you where a virgin. some girls like virgins though because it makes them feel special knowing they are your first time. good post
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>>16646590
That 110k car again. Typical.
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>>16646575
she might have just been really lonely and in a bad place. if she liked how things were going with you, perhaps she invested everything into what you two had.
she needs to get her own life in order before she puts so much into a casual relationship. you did the right thing by ending it. just cut ties now.
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Got a ton of homework to do, due tomorrow.
How do I
A. Stay awake
B. Stay motivated
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>>16646513
find someone else to do it with and be don't with it asap.
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>>16646513
get out of your house and go to your college library maybe.
Also- coffee.
Just don't stop Anon.!!!!!!!!
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>Coffee
>Music
>A partner who also has a tin of homework
>Remember this homework HAS to be done
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I have a best friend with BPD latched onto me like a leech..
She threatens that if I find a partner/live with a male that she'll kill herself (she's a man-hating lesbian who believes she can't love anyone more than me)
I want to move out of home and study in a city 2hrs away though (Chem degree isn't locally available). And I am offered a room with a guy there. She's not gonna tolerate it. She'll harangue over how I'll fall in love with him or he'll rape me or w/e.
How's the best way to break it to her? I don't want to be any part responsible for her death.
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jesus. does she elaborate why she wouldnt tolerate you living with a male?
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Women suck at killing themselves, just like the word rape they use it for malicious behaviour. Just more the fuck away. How is it your fault if she decides to kill herself? I mean you don't even get to fuck her, why should you give up your life for hers?
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>>16646498
Yes.
She doesn't trust them. Got raped as a kid by different guys for a few years at different times, dad left mum as a baby and doesn't visit her/care for her, in highschool one guy friend broke her trust etc.
Pretty common emotional-disorder story. But on top of this, being non-stop obsessive over me to the point she stays with her unhygeinic trailer trash sister just to stay in the same city as me (I ONLY DO THIS FOR YOU ANON) instead of stay home with her mum..
>>16646505
I pray on that statistic every day. She lives pretty miserably even now though
>you don't even get to fuck her
Dunno what you mean by this, sorry. I'm a straight grill
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if you were friends with a couple, like a guy and a girl, and the guy did something unacceptable (e.g cheated on the girl) would you tell her or try not to interfere?
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I wouldn't interfere unless there was some way I could get laid out of the deal. There relationship is definitely some thing that you have no involvement in, and you will lose both of them as friends.
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yeah but wouldnt that cause some guilt?
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>>16646488
You're implying that cheating is unacceptable. It might be for you, but if it doesn't fuck up their relationship, what do you care? They may never find out.
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Is it normal to completely cut contact with guys you were once close to and pretend they don't even exist? I'm pretty inexperienced so I don't know how it is but I'm wondering if this is what people do. I mean don't most people remain friends or even friendly?
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if you've lost the thing that keeps you and your friends in touch then i dont think that friendship will last.
you dont cut all contact with them but you lose consistency and the relationship basically falls out. time to look for new friends OP.
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>>16646412
I meant more like in the romantic context. Is it normal to pretend the person never existed if you were so close once? I guess I'm wondering if I should work through the hurt feelings or whatever else instead of just plugging my ears and walking away. I've done it two times with guys who hurt me with their uncaring nature. Basically they led me on in a relationship, knowing that it was hard for me to let people in, and then wanted to be "friends" when they got tired of it.
I guess I'm wondering if the reason why I keep running into guys like this is because I never deal with the feelings and just block them and it all out. Or if I'm just being too sensitive.
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why would you want to stay friends with people who have an "uncaring nature"?
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Hey /adv/,
Broke up with my bf a couple days ago. We've been in an LDR for a little over a year (living in different countries), the reason for our break-up being the need for both of us to wait until I'm done with uni. We agreed it's too selfish to ask for such a thing, given I'll need 2 and a half more years to grad from med school.
I believe I love that person, that he is the one, and (at this point) I'm convinced I'll be looking to recover what we had once I'm free to move to his country.
I'm turning to you for advice and suggestions how to suppress those thoughts while I focus on preparing for my exams (3 of them incoming in the next 20 days). I realise it'll get easier with time, but I find it difficult to concentrate right now when I need my focus the most.
Feel free to ask any supplementary questions that you believe will help my case.
Thank you in advance!
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LDRs are dumb
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How did he take it?
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>>16646325
Without getting into the judgement issues of LDR's etc, the only advice I can give is find a distraction. Usually, in the form of a throw away boy, but a distraction none the less.
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Is /adv/ reliable at all? 2016-01-05 13:59:07 Post No.16646259
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It seems like /adv/ is infested with trolls, neets, shut-ins, potheads, alcoholics, etc. Should I ask for advice on other websites?
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How about you kill yourself instead? That'd be great.
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You're going to be ok, OP. You're going to make it.
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i agree but there is no surefire way to deal with them. i'm sure your other sources of advice will also have it's flaws. i guess the choice to move out of this thread is still your decision.
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Let's talk sexual dysfunction. I was with a super hot girl yesterday and just as we were about to fuck I couldn't get it up. Thing is, i don't fap too often, i don't watch porn, i lift/exercise and have a bretty good diet. I don't understand what went wrong? help famalam
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Anxiety
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>>16646203
it's not though, i've done this many times before and i'm a confident guy
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>>16646204
Sometimes it hits you witheout warning.
However, you arw not a robot. Being tired or stressed is enough
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18 y/o fatty here. I started a cardio work out routine last night. What's the best way to ensure that I stick with it?
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>>16646182
Do it every day
But my understanding is that lifting weights would be more helpful.
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>>16646187
It's couch to 5k. Part of the program is you take breaks like every other day at first. Also, I'm not trying to build muscle (I've got enough of that because of my job), I'm trying to lose fat
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>>16646182
You've been fat fuck for a while, and the mentality of fat fuckness is going to be tough to break. You have to change your mindset and your entire lifestyle, forever.
Staying fit takes effort, being a fat fuck doesn't. As long as you force yourself to enjoy the effort, you'll make it. Don't look for reasons to be lazy- in any area of your life.
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How do I stop being part of the "ADD-generation"?
I recognize myself too much in this stereotype.
>Meditation
I can't go a minute without getting distracted, frustrated and giving up. In that order...
>Reading
I literally have to read a sentence 3 or 4 times before I get what's actually being said.
Even if I force myself I seriously start to get tired and my eyes get 'droopy'.
Also I'm either playing vidya, browsing 4chin or mindlessly browsing shitty pics on imgur. Whenever I get to something with more than 3 sentences I skip it right away.
>halp mi
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Even though ADD-generation is a thing, that does not mean you may actually have the disorder. Don't let your bias of ADD stand in the way of getting a 'cure'.
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just keep doing it until you get used to it. worked for me. keep reminding yourself why you do it. im kind of a facebook addict. that keeps me away. doing good stuff feels good if you know why you do it even though your body is not cooperative. try harder, and dont try doing many things at once to impress people or because stereotypes like books=smart told you to do it. and you probably shouldnt be here
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>>16646088
Can't help it, get raised with a lot of sugar in your diet and you have to juggle 8 subjects a day which in turn divides your focus.
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>male
>20yrs old
>kinda skinny but not in any shape
I want to start running and exercise, also eat healthier. Problem is, I don't know where to find reliable info about how to do all that properly.
I did try to do situps for 2 months but obviously that's not an allround fitness program.
Everywhere I look on the Internet I see paid gyms or books focusing on specific things.
Do you have tips or a good way, to find out what's the best thing for my body?
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For shame. Just a couple boards down we have one dedicated to fitness. Go check it out. Read the sticky. Lurk. And stop doing sit ups.
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>>16646045
1) go to /fit/
2) ask questions - get told to read the sticky
3) read the sticky
4) ???
5) PROFIT
Why is my hair so fucking unbearably fluffy and how do I tell it to calm the fuck down, 4channels?
You'd think fluffy hair would be a blessing? Nope. Shit's fucking awful. It's crispy and too fluffy, feels like soft straws of hay, frizzy, wavy, and no matter how much gel/spray I apply it's still acting like a little fucking cunt. I've deep conditioned, poured vinegar on it, even mayonnaise, even olive oil, I've tried going weeks without washing it, nothing works.
My hair is indeed bleached but this happened even before it was.
I shaved it off a few months ago for this very reason. ...And I regretted it. But at the same time I just can't stand having a literal lion's mane.
But I wanted to grow my hair out, y'know...
Pic related is from months ago before I shaved but it's basically turning into the same again.
Pls help a faggot out, just look at how faggotrious and autistic I look
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>>16646002
'Nother one for ref
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We're onto you julia gillard
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>>16646009
Op here. 10 point to griffindor.