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Any medical advice, /adv? Could it be skin cancer?
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it probably is a infection so see a doctor.
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>>16649559

How long ago did you first notice it?
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>>16649579
It first started forming about a year ago slowly into what it is now in pic related

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>Classes started this week
>Already met 2 girls who I got digits from and they both want to date me
>Girl 1, 22 years old, 5'1'', white, not much of a body, but cute as fuck. Seems really hot/cold about what she wants, changes her mind a lot, probably really immature
>Girl 2, 21 years old, 6'2'' (yes she is 6 foot 1 inches with flats), black (like mocha black, not dark as night black), despite being tall as fuck, has a pretty great body. Nice tiddies, GREAT ass, goat tier legs. Not slendyman looking at all, decently filled out.

Girl 2, the giant black girl seems much more into me. I already made out with her after class. Never kissed a black girl before, was pretty nice, dem lips. She also plays vidya and has a decent pc setup for gaming. Meanwhile, girl 1 just seems sketch as fuck. Much more of an attention whore vibe, not into vidya just kind of "artsy".

Thing is, if it wasn't already obvious because I browse 4chan, I'm a pretty average white male. I'm 21, 5'9'', float between 165-170. I imagine it looks REALLY strange to see me standing next to a 6'2'' black grill. On top of that, I would literally never hear the end of it from family/friends if I started dating her. I already get shit for being 5'9''.

Which do I go with?
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So basically

>Girl who's good for almost nothing
>God tier girl who plays vidya

I think you know which one, who cares about the setback, those are really minor.
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>>16649476
i don't even want to answer because of how stupid this question is, but i do want to say that attention whores are immature and immaturity should be avoided like the plague. just as the immaturity of dbag friends and family, or questioning whether to start a relationship with a great person because of what other people will think
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>>16649476
honestly, with how immature you seem to be, you'd be better off with the white chick.

You're already being completely ridiculous about the tall one. Like jesus who gives a fuck if you look weird?!

>meet girl in college
>we're both virgins
>we hit it off and instantly connect
>go on a couple of dates
>misunderstanding happens
>she cuts contact and dates some dick
>he only wants to pump and dump her
>she gets pumped and dumped
>repeats with a couple of other guys
>comes back to me trying to rekindle to fire
I had a really hard time getting over this girl. And part of me still loves her. But Im fairly angry at the situation and cant let myself give into my past emotions.
/adv/ can you describe whats going through her mind. It would help me decide how to act if I understand what she was thinking.
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>>16649385
talk to her about this shit if you are actually considering having a relationship with her. i dont understand why youd put yourself in a shitty position of mistrust before you even have an actual relationship. talk to her about ut and gage whether or not you feel comfortable with her
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>>16649408
Talk to her about what?
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you should pump and dump her, man.

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What's up? What's potentially troubling you...
Just drop a line here and see what happens..
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I want to make a troll post, but I'm afraid nobody will reply.

Is a troll still a troll if nobody responds to him?
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My neck hurts
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I'm making the steps to contact a therapist.

He's taking forever to respond.

I really hope I have enough strength to stay alive tomorrow.

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Long story short, I kinda orbited around an older girl for a year and wanted to be more than friends. She rejected me, saying I was a good friend but doesn't feel the same way and is sorry if she mislead me.

Haven't talked to her in 3 months, I have been increasingly active on facebook and changed my profile picture. She writes me on facebook "Happy new Year! You look absolutely handsome in your profile picture". I didn't "read" the message but I saw the preview.

Is that a good sign or does she only wants attention? Should I try to reconnect with her? How should I answer?
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Reconnect with her and don't do anything stupid.
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Im pretty sure she was just paying you a compliment. 3 months is nothing, if it had been a year or more then maybe it meant she changed her mind. I don't think you need to say anything, but if you want to, I'd reply with "Thanks! Hope your New Years was awesome!" That way the ball is in her court to reply back if she's interested. If not, I'd take that to mean it really was just a compliment.
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>>16649328
Don't say anything to her. She's just testing you. You fail the test if you message her saying something beta like "hey wanna have coffee some time?"

What I would do if I was you (which I am not, clearly) but I would wait until she posted a new pic and leave a comment similar to the one she left on your pic. Now I don't know the girl so I wouldn't know what exactly to say to her but you understand.....hopefully.

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Hi, I'm opening an LLC within the next couple weeks in illinois and am having trouble deciding if the name I want to take is a smart choice. Here's the scenario, a guy already in my state owns a company called JasonTheSmokeman. After hyping up the name I want with all my supporters, JacobTheSmokeman now I'm worried that he could possibly press some kind of charges towards me. What can I do trademark/patent-wise to keep myself out of trouble?

TLDR;
>new company next week w/ name "JacobTheSmokeMan"
>there already is a company called Jason the Smokeman
>Could I get in any trouble?
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>new company next week w/ name "JacobTheSmokeMan"
>there already is a company called Jason the Smokeman
>Could I get in any trouble?

Yes, yes you can. Those two are entirely too close and, if the other party brings it to court, you will undoubtedly lose.

The first thing to do is contact the other party. Ask them if it's okay to use your name. Very good chance of them saying yes, especially if you're not located very near them. If they say no, you need to cut your losses and find another name.
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>>16649314
Is it already taken by another company? If not you're in the clear. Only time he could press charges is if you were obviously copying him. Same layout, designs, etc

But if you're scared just think of something else.
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Not much OP, might as well try to change name all together. Yes, that also means any dumb bullshit, so no:
>Jacksonthesmokeman
>Jacobthesmokeboy
There are laws based on "likeness" of brand and company, so just choose something different.
>"But I already made it official."
It's ok OP, just change it when the government asks you to.

How do I become a more empathetic and peaceful person?
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>>16649310
don't,
be who you are,
if people don't like you for that then why should you be friends with them anyway
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Think of your life.

Visit /adv/.

Realize you'll never have it as bad as the worst /adv/ posters.

You are now peaceful and empathetic.
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Read fiction. It'll help you see things from different perspectives.

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How can I meet women\ get a girlfriend?

I'm 19 and utterly clueless but I can feel it's time and this needs to happen, please give me advice from level 0, i have no experience or knowledge
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>>16649253
take local classes, visit the library or museum or something and initiate a conversation. try doing social shit you enjoy or online dating, potentially craigslist even. sorry thats all i got, and i've got shit to do irl now
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>>16649253
Watch Simple Pickup on Youtube.
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Okcupid works, just take your time and send a well written first message. Women's inboxes are flooded with bullshit everyday. If your message shines like a rusty coin in a pile of shit, even that is going to catch their attention.

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>1/2
Why is being friends with women so hard for men?

Every time it's on the table, men always have the weirdest, strongest, most bombastic reactions to it I have ever seen. It never makes any sense. But they always treat the same way you'd treat the news of your hometown being destroyed by a tsunami.

There was a guy I knew, who I really cared about, and really adored. I didn't want to be his girlfriend though. But he still meant so much to me. And I valued him above all. Being friends with him was a dream of mine; and something to strive for.

I tried to tell him that, though. I tried to reiterate that I just want to be friends. That I wanted to hold onto our friendship as dearly possible. But he always took it like I was rejecting to him. Falsely believing that I'm breaking his heart, or that I didn't care about him.

I kept trying to argue otherwise -- that I sincerely wanted to be just friends. And yet, he always took it the wrong way, and eventually walked out of my life; never to return again. In addition, he took me off social networking, and stopped returning my calls and text messages.
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>>16649238
>2/2
That was one of the most devastating things I've ever went through. To lose someone you cared a lot about, who you valued so much. To have one of your best friends, your most cherished friend, not want anything to do with you ever again. I never missed someone this much before.

There was a brief moment of hope, however. When I saw him again with his girlfriend. I was so excited, thinking that since he's preoccupied with another girl, maybe he'd want to be friends this time. Obviously, this was not the case. He kept treating me coldly, like I wasn't there. I tried to get him talking, reminding him of how much I loved our friendship, that being friends with him is, again, a dream of mind. And that he was a friend I valued more than anyone else. But he just got offended, angry with me, and told me to never talk to him again. And that was the last I ever saw him.

I don't understand why being just friends is so hard for him. I don't get why it's not an option. I really want him as a friend, just not a boyfriend. But apparently this is not a possibility for him. I just don't understand. :(
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>>16649239
>He wants your vagina on his face.

>To him it sucks a lot that he can't have your vagina on his face.

>If he stays friends with you he will have to hear about other guys that get to have your vagina on their faces
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>>16649238

You guys were interested in different things; he wanted a relationship, you wanted a friendship.

He probably feels burned enough by continual rejection that the idea of being friends, or even dating, doesn't feel possible anymore.

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Hey guys, mid November, at around lunchtime at school, I get a text from my mom. My dad was taken by the police for something. We didn't know anything at the time, nobody in the family knew about it either.

(Some info, we're a lretty big family in the town we live in, and we have connections)

6 hours later, our lawyer calls us.

My dad has been arrested. (I also can't tell this because it would be super duper easy to pinpoint me with it, but I'll narrow it down to not being a violent crime) There is also a video of this crime being commited. However, I have not seen the video yet, as I don't want to. It'll make me worse, I know it.

Ever since then, even with the lawyer saying he's confident in this case, and the extreme support from our town, I'm scared out of my mind. Not only is my dad middle eastern (Lebanese) , but he's also a scary looking guy. I really don't know if my dad will make it out of this, and if he doesn't, I'm even more scared of the harm that could come to him in jail. (Being hurt, killed, ect)

How do I

A) calm the fuck down
B) help out my old man
C) stop being a faggot
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>>16649222
Is this copypasta or are you genuinely asking again?
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>>16649228
Genuinely asking

Nobody responds except for shitposters
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>>16649222

Well, not only are you not telling us what happened, you haven't even looked into it yourself apparently.

So, next step would be to actually watch this video, I guess. Go from there.

Beyond that, you're giving us nothing to work with here.

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Im done. I give up. Ive been poor and fucked over for too long and I dont have the willpower to be homeless. Im just going to die with what little integrity I have left. I never found love in this life, nor did I every find much purpose. Im completely defeated and empty and Im taking the easy way for once, Im killing myself.
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>>16649204
>Im killing myself.
No, you're not.
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good for you?
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Why start this thread then? Why this attention-whoring 'cry for help'?

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I don't understand why fucking another man's wife or gf is a big deal. Or rather, I do understand why it's a big deal that your significant other WOULD fuck somebody else, but I don't get why it's bad to be the person that they fuck around with.

If someone is inclined to be unfaithful then they're going to be unfaithful, and if they don't put themselves into those situations and are not so inclined then they won't. Cheaters cheat, and if you didn't figure out that someone who you are intimate with is such a person then you're blind or in denial. To be quite frank with you I feel like I'm almost doing you a favor if I prove that your girlfriend is going to fuck around on you, but finding that out the hard way sucks so I feel like it's negated by the suck.

Am I operating on blue and orange morality here, or is there something to this?
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>>16649174
Because you didn't do nothing wrong. If the significant other cheating is shitty for their partner, you are the other half. It took two to cheat, not one.
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You are the cancer killing western society. The proper thing to do is decline, then inform the SO of the person so that they can get their shitbag partner out of their life. If everyone did this, whores would not exist.
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You're right and I completely agree all I would add to that is that you should tell the cheating persons partner afterwards

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>Be me, 24 yo girl
>Start a new job in finance
>I'm one of the youngest people there
>Most of my colleagues are 30 something males
>These guys are huge arrogant assholes
>They keep teasing me all the fucking time
>I answer back jokingly at first
>I feel like I'm the butt of every joke
>Gets annoying as fuck because I feel they only do it because of my gender and age


What can I do to make this constant banter stop ? Is this what harassment is like ?
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>>16649107
If it's bothering you say something to your boss. If he doesn't give a shit keep going up the ladder until somebody does care.
Alternatively tell the guys to fuck off.
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>>16649107

First thing is to think about this from their point of view. You're just a little girl. You don't need to be taken seriously. Anything you do needs to double-checked, and that means they could have done it faster themselves anyway. At best, you're entertainment. If you're not that, you're useless.

No, it's not fair. Deal with it.

What NOT to do: Call it "harassment" and report it. Now you're not only useless, but they don't like you either. This is how you get nowhere.
-CAVEAT: If you're ever touched in any way that makes you uncomfortable, ask for it to stop, and it does not - report it immediately. Same goes for blatantly sexual remarks. You might be a joke, but don't it be about your gender.

What to do: A good job. A damn good job. When they check your work, leave them nothing to correct. When you turn in a report, make sure it's one that will impress them. Show them you're capable of being more than their entertainment and they will begin to respect you.

Everyone starts this way. Not just females. New guy, new girl - doesn't matter. You're all equally useless and quite honestly a pretty huge burden until proven otherwise.
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Assert your dominance. You're getting ganged up on because you're an easy target. What you should be doing is pulling no punches: call them limpdicks, call them over the hill, call them dirty old men, get under their skin in any way you can. You are the alpha girl and the world is at your feet, and your job is to be so awesome and make them feel like such shit that they rally around you as a leader.

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What the fuck? A girl flaked on me twice and then finally rejected me after leading me on a month ago, so like any sensible human, I stopped talking to her and plainly ignored her.

HOWEVER, she started looking at me a lot, sitting and going near me whenever we were in class and trying to join my conversations without directly speaking to me. Today in fact, she said something I had just said was funny. This is really pissing me off, do I talk to her about this or just bare it until I graduate in June? Part of me still likes her, but this is pathetic.
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>>16649034
you need to get some self-esteem if part of you still likes her. it takes some time to get past someone, so that may be the case more than self-esteem. but you have two options, well three if you're a joke. if you're a joke: you bare it until graduation. otherwise, you confront her and explain how she's not grown up, or you be absolutely cold with her from now on and ignore her.
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>>16649087
I see. Thing is, I have been flat out cold. I've never looked at her, spoke over her if she tried to butt into my conversation with my friend, and moved away of she came near me. She isn't getting the fucking hint, so this means something and I don't know what it is. I don't really know what to say to her other than "I don't want to see/talk to you again, go away". Or "You lied to me and didn't take me seriously".
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>>16649034

Girls flake sometimes, especially young ones. If she apologizes, she regrets it and still wants to have a relationship with you.

If she didn't apologize, just acts like it didn't happen or makes an excuse that does not involve any sort of regret, forget about it.

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After thinking about things for a bit I've realized my sexual habits might be a bit weird. I broke up with ht done and only GF I had cause we had a miscommunication about what we think rough sex is. I think of it as like choking her till she passes out. I did that during sex and I didn't realize her scratching my arms and flailing wasn't part of that act. After I stop she starts hitting me and yelling and all of these crazy threats. My favorite porn or fap to is loli, well sort of. I would show it but I can't on /adv/ . It's lolis but being cut open or being stabbed in the vagina , its really cute! Am I a bit different or did I "put my dick in crazy " as they say?
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I'd say I think crazy put its dick in her, but I know you'll derive a satisfaction out of being labelled as such.

I'll stick with calling you naive.
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God, why are so many posters on /adv/ so fucking dumb?
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>>16648990
Look at the name of the board

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