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just do it in your room

Do it in your bathtub.

But seriously. "Too personal?" Just hide your figmas and anime titty wall scrolls and call it a day.

>>16653571
this. just cover your waifu posters with a blanket and you are good to go

>>16653511
Don't wait. If it was good, say so ASAP.

>>16653511
>Exist
That's all you need to do. He has to contact you after all. If he doesn't then move onto the next Chad you have lined up

>>16653511
I would seem really busy. Probably wait about too weeks or so. Also, don't forget to not forget to not text him back all the time when he does and wait between texts too. Make him want you more. Have a "healthy relationship" when you finally do snatch him. ??? Profit.

>>16653509
Licking toilet when u misbehave

>>16653519
Licking my toilet HEI HEI

>>16653529
your toilet HEI HEI

Protip: A strange girl you slept with and whose last name you don't know is not your girlfriend.

She really likes you.
She enjoys sex.
She is uninhibited and a free spirit.

You're lucky. If her behaviour isn't to your liking I will gladly take over.

>>16653514
well i mean i know her name now, and she definitely seems interested in having a long term relationship.

Don't wonder about the "Why"s. Posting this is a form of procrastination. Stop ruminating about your problems as you're only masturbating your laziness.

Instead, act. Do something. Allow yourself to feel like shit until you're ready to act instead of think. The whys don't matter.

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>how does one 'just do it'

thats the thing about 'just doing it'. its literally a matter of forcing yourself to do it. all the advice in the world wont change that. there is still that spark that forces you to get up and do it. what point is advice if you wont actually just 'do it'.

there are a seires of systems that help... reward system... buddy system.... master system...

but at the end of the day when you say 'well id just eat all the cookies anyway' in regards to a reward system then you literally have no sense of control over your life and literally no advice will help you

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Perfect for what you're seeking. It's free and adjusts itself to your learning/learning pace. I can vouch for their math courses (amazing, I wasn't good at math before), they also have Chemistry and Biology courses.

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Also, you're depressed.

>>16653363
What?

You unscrew it, stick your finger in it to check the heat viscosity, then kill yourself.

>>16653293
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Na really tho, that's the alternator. It regulates the heat intake on the car. When you were having issues, how did the engine sound?

Yes, you are a pussy.

You need to spend the next 10 - 15 years fucking as many women as you can, and getting money.

When you have it all, then focus on having a real relationship.

Yes you are. Fuck everything that moves. That's alpha. No-one likes the guy who turns into the whiny beta more and more while chasing his oneitis, whom he should've rejected a long time ago. And remember, if you do, women will "love" you for it. I'm not bitter or angry. This is science. Ignore it at your own peril/demise.

>>16653190
And forget everything those experiences taught you and fuck up your life.

bump bump please

>>16653135
Who gives a fuck? You hate her. Cool. Fuck off now.

Get her a box of chocolates and tell her to stop bitching

>>16653072

what was the diagnosis? why did you go to see this doctor in the first place?

>>16653081
I didn't get diagnosed, she wasn't qualified. Her hunch was mild autism. I went because I have no friends and have had difficulties with social interactions since I was a teenager. I'm skeptical of being able to diagnose autism in adults.

I also only started showing autistic symptoms when I started spending 7-14 hours a day on the computer as a preteen. Before that I had a good group of close friends.As a young kid I never had problems with eye contact or reading people's faces (unless others can do it to an amazing degree) and I can read cues like when people are getting bored and stuff like that very easily, always have.

>>16653108

i guess the thing to consider here is whether or not getting diagnosed will help you in any way? it sounds like she might be over-diagnosing here (shut up about technicalities) and this tends to be a big issue in the mental health field. instead of someone having issues in one area they put it under a bigger diagnosis.

so think about whether or not that would help, cuz a lot of treatment seems to just be placating someone instead of actually helping you. there arent any medications to make you social after all.

sound sto me like the diagnosis woudl be useless.

>>16652992
Visit >>>/ic/
Check the sticky

>>16652992

it depends what you want to draw. but from what your picture is, im guessing something semi-anime like? consider trying the 'hwo to draw manga' books. you can easily find similar guides online simply by searching.

as for programs, depends what your goal is. you could use a drawing pad on something like paint or photoshop or gimp or sai, some of which are free or at the very least, easy to pirate. for a more immsersive experience, try taking actual art classes. though they may not be what you want if you're attempting something like making your own comic or whatever.

my recommendation is think about the kind of style you want / what you want to do, and start looking at tutorials. after seeing those basic tutorials, try searchign for similar 'tutorial series'. watch em and see what happens. you wont know what you want til you find it,.

>>16653000

also this

>>16653005
I was talking with a friend and she showed me some art she does and she has her own style of drawing things I asked how she found it out and she said it just happened over time, but I was just wondering if anyone had other stories of learning a style and drawing in general as not only a way of learning but also somewhat of a inspiration for me and others who lurk this thread.

in my opinion, you deserve someone who would never say that to your face like that. i think you have done the right thing by showing her that she's being extremely disrespectful of your care and love for her, and that what she said was truly unfair and heartbreaking. i don't know what she could possibly do to make this up?
have sex a couple more times but remember how she told you she needs to meet somebody new. i would be so hurt i'd block that person forreal and never talk to them again no matter what they meant to me.

>>16652960
Just because she's bored doesn't mean she really needed a new person in her life or she isn't appreciative of your sacrifices.

Everyone experiences those periods in their relationship where they become accustomed to the precense of their partner and yearn for variety. Its part of being young. She may just wanted a fresh experience, which you could provide.

You should learn how the constructively manage the truth rather than 'snapping'. Dropping her after 2 years shows you have little maturity dealing with the harsh reality, but were probably bored of her too.

You just want her to value your presence more. Deep down you know she may leave you, therefore you left before she did. You were just afraid and instinctively ran away from your problem.


If you want advice, don't ask other people for their opinion on what to do with your life. No one here knows what's best for you, only you do so figure it out yourself.

>>16652960
>>16652960
dump that shit. If I really was your gf and I cared about you I would be polite first of anything.

something that shows you care about the other person like.

"I really don't want to hurt you because you know that I love you but I feel things are monotonus and we should try to do something"

but not like that. she sounds childish and like she doesn't care aobut others. when you talk with anyone respect comes first.

It's called being a person. she took you for granted lad so. do you want to be with someone that takes you for granted?

that's the first step to live the life of a doormat

i was in the same situation. you should just do what you love, if you're a creative mind you will find lots of opportunities with your major, and you're never too old to learn.
i would suggest a generic business major before going into philosophy/whatever you wanna do anyway.
been there, done that. i studied philosophy for about 3 semestres now, and am going into industry/car design late fall because i found out this is what i'm really good at, what i like, and what i can make money with. but really there's tons of ways to survive and make cheddar. be patient with yourself and your interests, you're only 19. the world today suggests you start as early as possible, but in most cases, you won't know where you wanna be at 35 when you're only 19. you're still growing inside and out.

maybe you should do some internships, participate in some courses, or check out all kinds of lectures at your university/online, or contact a professional who will help you with your choice.
i remember when i worked at a car production company not too long ago and met someone who's 34 and still unsure what to do. he's studied for 10 years and still didn't graduate.
or one of my former best friends, she's 22 and just traveling the world.
try out everything you like, make it your bitch. you'll find what you love, anon!

>>16652921
>>16652934

Thanks guys! Do you have any advise on some possible jobs that might suit my skills? Really just any ideas might help. This is what I'm most worried about. I'm living at home right now commuting to university, and to be honest while it's nice and peaceful coming back home, the stress of not finding any groups at college is getting to me.

To answer your question yes I do and it makes things feel much better.

Now tell me what the fuck is the thing in that picture?

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>I'm 24
>still fapping

Does anyone else jack off into socks or am I a weirdo?

>>16652670
no. absolutley not.

if youre the girl: go for it
if youre the guy: accept it

>>16652670
no it'd be a perfect world

>>16652670
> Is it weird if a girl asks a guy out?

lol, not at all.

I live in a french community, the women here tend to ask men out. it's one of the weirdest parts of English culture to me, the idea that women are timid ... where I'm from, if a woman wants to ask me out, she asks me. If she's timid, she asks my sister, who tells me to go out with her, and if she's terrified ... she asks her mother, who asks my mother, who tells me not to be so rude and invite the girl to dinner.

That's why French men are always happy, our women tell us what'll make us happy.