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I'm going to end it. Is there any way I can hire someone to just shoot me? Or should I just head over to the local walmart, buy a shotgun, and do myself in?
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Give me a throwaway email so we can establish contact. your address and maybe we can negotiate payment and termination. Sound good?
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>>16644582
I knew you weren't serious. What a fucking bitch.

Here's a suicide hotline since your thread is basically a scream, cry and shout for help: 1 (800) 273-8255
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>>16644582
Don't buy the gun at Walmart, look that minimum wage worker straight in the eye and pull the trigger

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My gf claims to be schizophrenic, says she was diagnosed at 10 years old or something outrageously young like that. She's 21 now and I think she's bipolar with some serious anger/violence issues and anxiety, but she swears by that diagnosis she received ages ago.
can anyone with firsthand experience provide me with some sort of test I could administer to help me understand what's really wrong with her? In all the time I've known her, she hasn't displayed any sort of exceptional or unusual paranoia or delusion, and I can't really help her until I know what's actually wrong with her.

Is there a way I can induce psychosis or test to see whether or not she's having delusions and hallucinations? Because she's always seemed normal to me in that regard and all her closest friends/family don't know about her alleged mental illness, even though I've seen the records that she's been medicated and hospitalized before for unspecified mental illness.
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She has attacked me physically and abused me verbally on numerous occasions. I'm not a sap or a sucker, so I know there's something wrong with her. I just don't believe it's schizophrenia.
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>>16644544
10 is uncommonly young to be diagnosed schizophrenic. The disease commonly manifest much later, as in early adulthood later.

As someone who has experienced psychosis, there is no reliable test I can think of. Psychosis, hallucinations, delusions occur on a gradient IMO.

I was not so sever, and to this day most of my family doesn't know. When I started to suspect that I was hallucinating, I would keep it all inside, try not to tip people off. Sometimes this backfires - something real happens and you don't react because you don't want to be perceived as hallucinating.

TLDR you are not qualified to test for those things, I used to suffer from psychosis.
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>>16644544
why does it matter to you if she's schizophrenic or not?

>GF has been with several chicks (including one last year)
>had LESBIAN SEX once when she was a teen
>says she's "straight and a virgin"

Am I right to be upset at these statements? This also ruffles my feathers because I don't like bi chicks.
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>>16644442
Kill.Her.Now.You.Have.To.Do.It.Trust.Me.15+120=135.
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>>16644442
Yes, because she is lying.
Not because she is bi.
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>>16644442
Relationships honestly aren't about who is "right" or "wrong". If you don't like her, aren't compatible with her, don't agree with her, and she is making you unhappy, why are you with her?

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So guys, i have it extremely easy with girls i don't care about, to the point some get even annoying in trying to be around me, but hell I fucking never, never, never managed to have anything past friendships with the girls I actually liked.
maybe to someone this doesn't really sound a problem, but the gigantic sense of frustration makes me behave desperately when i find a girl of my liking, shutting off every chance I could have
please fucking help me. also sorry for shitty mobile typing
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>tfw she didnt text me back
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>>16644391
>tfw she never wanted another date but her sister kept stalking you for a year
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what the hell

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The girl who broke my heart a year ago just texted me and told me she misses me. What do I do? I thought I'd moved on and gotten stronger, but the instant I recognized her number I felt red-faced and weak in the knees.

She told me she loved me, and I loved her, but I was such a pushover that she cheated on me and we split ways. I don't know how to respond to this, and it's going to kill me if I don't figure it out.
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Tell her to fuck off i know it can be hard, but bitch cheated on you once, she'll do it again.
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>>16644320
She never liked you. She wants your 110k car while fucking Chad on the side. Typical Stacey.
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>>16644320
Do you think she's any different now?
Would the same thing happen?
Could you handle it if the same thing happened?

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So, /adv/ I have a really annoying problem.
I'm 18, virgin and I never had a boyfriend (never even kissed), and I'm actually really fine with that. I won't rush myself sexually and every boy that I liked managed to fuck up really badly with me. But there is a big problem: My Mom.
She won't fucking shut up about me being a lesbian (I'm not) and she keeps saying shit like ''BUT YOU DON'T LIKE MAKE UP'' or ''BUT YOU DON'T TALK TO BOYS''.
I keep telling her that I am NOT a lesbian and that I am just not interested in the moment but she doesn't believe me.
How can I make her believe me, /adv/? Should I consider assexuality?
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Why are you letting it bother you? Just be you girl don't worry about labelling yourself anything.
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Post a picture of yourself? Maybe you look like a lesbian. Also why does your mom not like lesbians?
>not trying to be rude
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>>16644309
Unfortunally, I live with her and she keeps bugging me abou it.
>''Go talk to that boy, anon''
>points to the most despicable boy in the room
>''Oh, anon, that random stranger grandparent died! Go flirt with him!''
>'Why are you not flirting with him? ARE YOU A LESBIAN?''
>''IT'S OKAY, BUT TELL ME. GOD, I ALWAYS KNEW''
>''ARE YOU? ARE YOU DONIG TO FUCK GIRL?''

What do I do to make her stop? How can I just not mind it?

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I know I have a weird facial expression in this picture, but is there something unsettling or off about the way I look?

I have so, so much trouble with girls. Am I just ugly? Be as brutally honest as possible please.
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>>16644284
7/10
Just ditch facial hair completely. Cool clothes though.
Maybe you just don't know how to talk to them?
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>>16644303
It's possible. I get quite a few dates on OkC and Tinder. If I really try, I can get around a date a week. Sometimes I get lucky and manage to line girls up, yet nothing every comes out of these dates.

I haven't seen a naked woman irl since the age of 17. I'm going on 23 now.
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>>16644284
You got style, but I get the sense that that facial expression does you no justice. As far as talking with girls. Don't put them on a pedestal, just realize that females are the same as you: human. No more and no less.

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gawd I'm so desperate.
20 y/o here. I hate my breast and got the strange feeling of never pass. ppl even told me I look androgynous and can't tell my gender but well.
I keep getting panic attacks out of nowhere and the feeling I'm an imposter because... I don't know why I have this feeling. But thoughts like "nobody will ever date a trans guy" are running through my head and it makes me SICK.
I feel like tearing apart inside and it hurts.
How to deal with Gender Dysphoria?
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What did your breast do to deserve to be hated? I have man boobs and only feel a little dismay.
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>>16644250
sorry, I forgot to mention
I'm pre-anything ftm trans. and thanks to rly bad genetics I got huge breasts.
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>>16644233

Stop focusing on a potential problem and instead focus on loving yourself for who you are

You're getting so wound up and caught up in the idea of trans that you're giving up the prospect of remaining in your gender already even though you obviously arent comfortable with being trans

I say, stiff upper lip, stand up with pride, tell the world you are what you are and you fucking love yourself and theres nothing anyone or anything can do to change that

Fight it anon. Fight back control of your pride

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My girlfriend "dated" a guy a couple years ago who lived in New York. We live in North Carolina. She only met him once and that was after they broke up, but she still texts him daily and snapchats and everything. She told me she was just friends, but the idea that they dated at one time and how he calls her "bae" and things really bothers me. Am I overreacting or do I have a reason?
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hey hey u u i dont like ur girlfriend
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>>16644229

>ldr text "relationship"
>they only met after they broke up

I wouldnt be worried anon

Any more than you worry about her 5th grade boyfriend stealing her back

Sounds more like this guy is a beta orbiter
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>>16644272
He's not ugly though

A family member is using my pc right now. Like the nice brother I am , I let them use it . Here's my issue, I just realized I left TOR open. Yeah....I'm terrified . What's an excuse to get her the hell off of my pc ?
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>get off my computer I need to close Tor

>i need to send an email

>i think I forgot to save a file

>let me check something real quick
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>>16644194
Holy shit what If shes looked at the browser ? I'm done. I'd be better off killing myself.
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>>16644205
>I'd be better off killing myself.
That is unlikely.

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How do I get her back, /adv/?

No contact, then reach out in a month or so with an improved version of myself and hope for the best? Everything I read says this is pretty much the only way. Anyone have any anecdotal experiences with NC they'd like to share?

We had been together for 3 years, and she broke up with me on Christmas Eve, ultimately saying she thinks she wants to work on the relationship but not right now, she needs time and space.

I'm at a week of no contact right now with her, and it's getting harder every day despite me actively working on improving myself.

Thoughts, comments, suggestions? Thanks /adv/.
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>>16644016
It really comes down to what you want to do.

On one hand, you shouldn't feel you owe him anything, money doesn't equal love, and if he tries to bring that down on you, he's being shitty and manipulative. It seems there might already be some manipulation on his part already - he arranges things and built his perfect little bubble.

But on the other hand, it seems you really are interested in him still. It seems foolish to throw away a relationship just because you want to hook up with other dudes. As a male I would find that kind of behavior after a break up to be pretty immature.

Bottom line is, if you want out, get out, and afterwards go into damage control mode - give yourself some time and ease back into the hookup scene of that's really what you want. And next time you're in a relationship, be hestitant about letting someone be too financially forward (he buys your groceries? That's fucking weird.) - it's really not so subtle manipulation like that that's brought you to this question in the first place.
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Shameless bump.
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>>16644016
>How do I get her back, /adv/?
You don't. I'm sorry, OP, but life is not a rom-com. It's over. Let her go.

Is asking random girl on the street for number considered normal? Or its just some shit creeps do?
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>>16643993
Creepy af
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I think you need to develop a bit of a relationship beyond random asshole on the street.
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>>16643994
Then where are you supposed to get numbers

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Can anyone explain why DREEK is so very attractive to such a very large amount of women, supposedly anyway. I don't see what sets him apart other than the fact that he's #teamlightskin#(represent$)
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>tall
>mulatto
>has money

really though if he wasn't tall he wouldn't be nearly as popular as he is with women
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>Good looking
>Tall
>Succesful
>Sweet beard
>Top level banter master
>Talented

...Im not sure whats so hard to comprehend about him being popular with women anon

Drizzy's my nigga too
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>>16644014
A lot of rich tall artists and actors and athletes and stuff out there. You didn't isolate the right variables I'm afraid.

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I fucking hate women.

I seriously cannot contain my hatred for them and how they just fuck everything up. Before you start calling me a virgin/loser/autist/neckbeard, whatever I have been with several women and have observed them and their shitty behavior; it never ceases to amaze me how shitty a woman can be even if they are considered "good". I hate how they bitch and moan about equality, yet they still date men who abuse them or STILL EXPECT FUCKING MEN TO PAY ON A FUCKING DATE even though more than enough fucking women are in the workforce. I'm still expected as a "man" to work up the courage to talk to a girl/woman to get her to like me, then I have to get them to like/be attracted to me. I feel like men are expected to be something that not all men are able to do, yet we as men don't care too much if a woman doesn't have a job, car or money. As a man MOST women want/or at least expect a man to have money, least a car or a place of his own yet, I don't expect that from women AT ALL. It's come to down to just saying fuck it and ending it all, but part of me wants to give them another chance, yet I just can't bring myself to do it.. I'm not going to lie, I've been deeply hurt by women, but I'm also disappointed that as a man I'm pretty much disposable to women - an afterthought to them, women don't give a SINGLE SHIT ABOUT MEN and I'm fucking sick of caring about women are their trivial bullshit, yet I have only have grain of tolerance left for them.. help?
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>>16643982
Blah blah a woman pissed me off and I'm mad so all women suck. Thanks for the story and your thread is totally unique and special.

You're fucking retarded please vacate immediately
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>>16643982

Why don't you cry about it?

The game is the game. Play it or don't.
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>>16643982
>As a man MOST women want/or at least expect a man to have money, least a car or a place of his own yet, I don't expect that from women AT ALL
To be honest, you can thank the system created by men that made it so women would be less educated, independent and/or financially adept since the olden days for this. It didn't just happen by magic. Things have only recently started to change, after all.
>women don't give a SINGLE SHIT ABOUT MEN and I'm fucking sick of caring about women are their trivial bullshit,
You complain about women not caring about "men" (and by "men" I'm pretty sure you just mean you, yourself, personally, not all men as a whole) and then admit that you don't care about womens' "trivial bullshit" in the same sentence.

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My friend is running a pyramid scheme selling diet pills. Today she sunk to a new low, apart from conning people she signed up a racist!

Please help?
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>>16643954
No.
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Danielle Kirtley is the name on FB please confront her!
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>>16644049
14/88

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