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Piano and guitar

>>16654222
Guitar. Pianos take up too much space and violins are limited in what you can play.

>>16654222
Guitar and Piano

It's my personal belief that once you've learned one stringed instrument, you can play them all.

Shit man just hang in there, im trying to hold everything together too

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>>16654230
I want off this ride :(

>>16654221
Make some friends, it's difficult, but in that situation you're stuck knowing your fate and constantly thinking of a dim future. You need someone or something to take your mind off of it so you have the energy to want to change it. I'm so sorry man I empathize for you. Hobbies also help, they can shift your thoughts to something else.

>>16654124
Normally people grieve and move on. Some people more some people less. You said it yourself you dated briefly, is she forced to to stick with you even though she doesn't find you attractive anymore? You are not a bad person but you showed weak character by pushing your negative emotions of rejection towards her.

>>16654124

"Has no time for a relationship" is a bullshit excuse, but the result is the same. She ought to have forgiven your outburst with your apology, but fuck it, you're done with her anyway. Just move on.

>>16654124

>am i bad a person

does it matter? if you can do it differently will you become a 'better person'? if so then just do it different in the future. you apologized, hopefully WITHOUT the intent of getting back together.

there is no 'normally' for heartbreak. some people will act like a fucking 12 year old after getting dumped. some people are literally pushed to murder becuase of it. others just cut all contact. others will argue iwht this person for weeks or months over it.

the best you can do is just move on. arguing wont make someone love you after all. when someone breaks up with me i like to know why so i ask. then i just say 'i understand' even if i really dont, cuz you cant really argue someone into not feeling that way.

then you just do your best to move on

That definitely sounds creepy.

>>16654107
The fact that you've even considered this is really disconcerting.
I'm surprised you had a girlfriend to begin with.

>>16654107
That's weird OP. You shouldn't do that.

Depends. If you just grew apart then fade them out.

>>16654043
What if it's not the case?

>>16654040
If it was a good friendship at some point then you should tell then why. Both of you would deserve closure.

>>16654020
Just google it. It will differ from state to state so add that in your search.

Considering the crime I doubt there's a chance you can fight it because it's fairly cut and dry. That being said don't hire a lawyer because it'll be a waste of money. Just use a court appointed. It'll be a lot cheaper. You'll get the chance to ask for one when you go to court the first time.

You'll have to pay a fine and court costs for sure. Depending on the amount of weed, I'm guessing it was weed, you probably won't get much else than that depending on the state.

>>16654039
Actually, you don't even really need a lawyer. You can just represent yourself and plead guilty right off the bat then take a plea bargain.

>>16654039
just adding to what this anon said with some general advice, always remember rule number one after you've been arrested, never speak to police unless you have a lawyer present. The stuff they've got you on is pretty minor but if you ever get accused of something more serious down the road, even if you're absolutely guilty, even if they've been keeping you chained to a desk for the past 4 hours and as soon as they bring you in to interrogation they say your partner already rolled on you, no matter what they promise you the only thing you should ever say is "I want a lawyer".

There's no way you can talk yourself out of anything in an interrogation room. Its actually in the law that transcripts of police interrogations cannot be used in your defense. So even if something does happen during the interrogation that is in your favor if you try to bring it up at your trial the prosecutor will object and the judge will sustain it.

>>16654007
sure, like running /fit/

they look like crap after a few weeks of outdoor use

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>>16654007
Sure if you like wearing boots. I wear these for work and I'm so used to wearing them I wear them pretty much 90% of the time out of work because I can't wear sneakers for longer than an hour anymore without my feet hurting.

>>16654033
Unless you're a nigger boots are meant to get messed up. If we're talking some gators or something that's another story.

I wouldn't want to be hit on in that sort of way.

If someone was stalking me, I think I'd rather they call me really pretty. Being called cute seems like they'd get tired of me after awhile, whereas being pretty is more long lasting, or at least long-lasting enough for me to escape their rape dungeon.

>>16653957
>random guy

I would want him to fuck off

"I'm breaking up with you"?

Tell her "Hey, I want out. You're making me want to suicide."

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>>16653932
if you can't control yourself. You are not ready to settle down yet.

>>16653938
i see.

what about the moral aspect of it?

I'm readily able to have sex with other girls and meet up with guys, the only thing stopping me is the guilt i would feel for cheating.....

Maybe you should sit down with your gf and talk about your urges. Trust me she will appreciate the honesty and who knows she might be a freak and want to watch or join in. I've been with someone for 2 years now and we are open and honest with one another. If he told me he wanted to fuck someone else I would be down to watch or join in. You know your gf best tho. Hell maybe she will be ok with you becoming a porn star? You get your fix and get paid. Doesn't hurt to talk about it.

Do you have a guidance counselor you could tell this to?

>>16653892
You're really stupid if you can't figure out how to make him hit you hard enough that there will be marks and then call the cops and get his ass thrown in jail and the problem taken care of for good.

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No. You just realized that love doesn't exist and that women aren't romantic.

It's a scam. Focus on yourself and improving your life. You will be happier and more whole if you live that way. Also go mgtow.com and check the forums.

We are waiting for you bro.

>>16653903
>misogyny intensifies

>>16653903
I mean I wish I didn't even have sexual desires anymore. I remember thinking about this crap so much and I would get so depressed off this shit. I couldn't take it anymore so I honestly, just stopped caring.

Finding a place to stay (temporary if you can't pay rent) and employment should be top priority. What is your situation like?

You could kill them both, or you could have them thrown in jail. Call the cops and tell them your parents assaulted you.

I'm sorry to hear about your situation.

Do you have any sense of what's going through their heads? I'm not saying their reasons are good -they probably aren't- but they may hold a clue as to how to get out of this.

>>16653830
not sure, maybe you are trying for girls out of your league. What's your age?

Start here http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html

You must be doing something wrong. Start with this easy to read, then you can move here https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/

>>16653830
don't, red pill is for faggots. It wasn't tell I stop doing red pill shit, then I started getting play

Could be a sociopath. Sociopath isn't an official term though, you likely have a personality disorder.

You're just an insecure asshole

I do to these girls what they would do to me or at least that's how I justify it