I got wasted yesterday and sent dick pics to a past hookup even though I have a gf. I know by most definitions this is cheating, but I don't know what to do. Do I tell my gf? Or delete everything, block the girl and forget it happened?
Desperation bump because of muh feels
Tell the girl that you sent pics to that you were wasted and that you feel that what you did was wrong and regret it. Apologize. If you block her she could spit some venom and try to stir shit with you or your gf.
I don't think it's necessary to tell your gf unless oh think she might find out.
I think you should tell her.
What should I eat for lunch?
A cheeseburger with bacon.
A HUMAN SOUL
>go vegan
>eat what ever the fuck you want
>enjoy your additional 20 years of healthy life
hey! soon to be 20 guy from Latvia, studying history here, tired of this place, want something new. Me and my gf planning to go abroad, to study somewhere in Europe. I want decent education for free and a shitty job to pay rent and get some food. Give me some advice on that.
Where to go? Where to live? Cheapest countries for people like us? and what are native people attitudes on migrants like us?
Thanks in advance!
any advice?
guys? i feel like this is a decent advice thread and might lead to a nice conversation, if not tell me and ill let this thread die.
You need to look at the scholarships and opportunities offered and then decide. No one is going to hand out a free education for you.
anybody else have a hard time cumming from sex? personally I'm a man and almost every girl I've fucked cums eventually... but it's actually really hard for me to have an orgasm from sex. I feel like I've death gripped my penis so much it's impossible for me to cum without porno or my own fucked up style of rough masturbation. I'm also circumcised which might adds to the lack of penile sensitivity.
A lot of the time sex for me just ends after I've made the girl cum at least once and just feel tired/sweaty from fucking so much without being able to bust my nut. I don't know if it can be called erectile dysfunction or nerves or what, reminds me of the scene from Birdman where the girl Edward Norton tried to fuck on stage said "you can't get it up for 6 months but now you want to fuck me in front of 800 people!?"
It just feels kind of unsatisfying. My current girlfriend has the birth control where there's basically no way she can get pregnant, enjoys unprotected sex (we're both clean, no history of VDs or anything like that). Basically I'd really enjoy being able to cum inside my girlfriend a few times, she's also said she feels bad or like she's being "selfish" because I'll make her cum but somehow I can't cum myself.
Any tips on how to regain penile sensitivity or condition yourself to orgasm from sex? I know other guys have had this problem before.
I heard from someone who was circumsised that he uses a device to keep his glans protected like a foreskin should, and he states that to him it's a "20% increase" in sensitivity.
Maybe you should try one of those. Sadly though it's probably because you've been mutilated. Do you even have a frenulum?
>anybody else have a hard time cumming from sex?
Yup. Too much alone-time with porn.
I had this issue. I fixed it by trying to enjoy the sex more instead of focusing on cumming. It took a while but eventually it fixed itself. Masturbating doesn't help obviously
Anyone else have a sex related addiction? Like, I'm not even that horny, but I sleep around a lot when I'm single. It's like some sort of dependency thing and I struggle to stop. I've slept with 4 different women this fortnight alone.
Do I need help? Are there drawbacks from this lifestyle?
Yup, I try very hard to keep it from taking over though, especially since it combines horribly with my fetishes.
I'm mostly functional.
>>16651388
Mine has become bad recently. Ever since my last girlfriend leaving me. I'm surprised I haven't caught something yet
>>16651432
I know the feeling. A partner keeps me feeling stable and I feel obligated to not indulge myself so much for the sake of her.
I get all hyped up to learn a new skill or be productive, then I'm not.
Halp.
I want to be more comfortable speaking, write more, learn programming, start exercising, and even when I break it into small steps, I get deflated and I just can't do it.
Maybe your ass needs a partner to practice/study with.
>>16651406
oh, oh my...
>>16651433
What did you want to learn?
FUCKING GOOGLE STEALS MY MONEY
I once bought Tinder plus (yes I am ugly so I needed the ugly tax for more matches but thats not the issue right now)
I was planning on using it for a month. But now I see that google has AGAIN pulled off the money from my account. I did not say this was ok, they somehow automaticly pull this money of my account.
How do I stop this and how do I get my money back? I only wanna bought it once, but now it has pulled money from my account again!
thanks for the help, i fucking dont understand shit from smartphones and I cant find anywhere where to disable this thievery
thanks alot
Most subscription services are auto-renewal. Welcome to the world. Nice to have you with us.
>>16651342
Youre a fucking idiot.
now we all know why you needed tinder plus in the first place. you are an idiot
>been with that rather beautiful girl for some while
>she's been doing mixed martial arts and boxing, since she was 8y old
>first everything seemed fine
>after some while weird shit started happening
>she started to just randomly pull my ear
>began pulling my hair (not playful, but with fckn force) during sex
>then, one day, she just punched me in the kidney when i wasn't listening to what she was talking about
>hurt like hell
>was just so shocked i couldn't respond
>tried to talk with her about it, she left
>she just refuses to talk about it
>since that punch, she started to regularly jab me and pretends like it's playful
>it's not
Im just a nice guy, never got in a fight in my life. I wouldnt stand a chance against her. I mean, she has a room just for her fckn boxing trophies.
By now, i just don't even confront her about it anymore, as she will just get angry and wont talk, but rather leave
I don't want to lose her, because other than that shes a great girl
Also i know, that she's into pegging, as she watches it sometimes.
Dont know how to feel about that either :/
What do?
>>16651318
Either dump her or get pegged, m8
Why are you with her? People who hurt other people on purpose aren't good people.
If she genuinely doesn't see how it hurts and refuses to believe you when you say it hurts and ask her to stop, she's an asshole as well.
Talking to her about this and seeing where she stands, then making a decision whether you want this or not is what you need to do.
what do you fucking want to do?
Know what you want and then fucking do it!
Are you stupid?
If you don't want to be abused tell her you consider that abuse and never fucking do it again or you're out; then walk out if she attempts that shit again... press charges if the shit gets real.
If you want to stay, then fucking stay and learn to play her game. The next time she jabs you, clock her as hard as you fucking can. Or get something hard and fucking take it to her leg or arm. Tell her you understand she likes to play rough and tell her you like to rough it up too. Then fucking fuck her ass, viscous hard while she's wounded.
Hi
>In a relationship for a year and a half
>She is bipolar, but on meds and never seemed to bother her much
>Still goes to therapy and stuff
>Turns out her new therapist -thinks- she may be borderline, but can't make a diagnose one way or the other yet
I looked up the 9 symptoms, and what it takes to be diagnosed which is displaying 5 out of 9 of the symptoms, and she does in fact display 5 out of 9 of those symptoms, all in different levels of severity. She isn't like overboard on any of the symptoms, but they are definitely all there.
I'm pretty worried for our future. She seems to have been stable to this point, but I can tell she has been really struggling lately with shit going on in her life, and those symptoms really became apparent. They say that borderline's often get destructive towards their own relationship, but she hasn't done that yet.
Anyone have experience with this sort of thing? I really don't know what to do
Yeah, I have a family member with BPD. I do believe that there are borderlines out there with so much self-awareness and dedication that they can rein themselves in. If I had to guess I'd say they're about 1 in every 100 though. So maybe with the right diagnosis and help she can get a grip on how she acts. That having been said, the family member I was talking about is now estranged from literally everyone else in her life at a personal level including us and all of her former acquaintances. (She never really could hold down friendships.) We've all come to grips with the fact that she's never going to get better.
>>16651245
Fuck, that is not encouraging.
When she isn't stressed/overwhelmed she seems to have pretty good control over it. But I really don't know how I'm supposed to handle this.
I really do love her, but our future is looking grim.
>>16651291
Check out the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells" by Mason and Kreger.
>21yo
>No job
>No school
>Not sad but not happy
>Foggy mind
>Live with parents
>Parents almost broke
>No friends
>If I try to make friends they end up not being interested.
>No girlfriend for a year now.
>Last broke up left me like this (she left me for someone else)
How should I start my life again ?
All insults will be taken kindly,I know I am a piece of shit anyway.
Sign up for next semester community college my friend, at least you'll be doing something productive and won't be spending too much money, do well and try to go to university and study what you're most interested in and WILL GET YOU A JOB after you graduate. Also look for a part time job, nothing wrong working at a gas station or a grocery store or even a retail clothing store. You're not a failure, no one is, you just need to start making choices that can be well invested into your life now!
>>16651290
Aren't I a little old for university?
Recently turned 21 and figure I might as well trying my first alcoholic drink. Any ideas? Never looked into them so I know jack shit about brands or types of alcohol.
>>16651033
fireball is good
>>16651033
I really like honey wine, but try different stuff and find out what you like best.
>>16651033
Liquor is fucking disgusting
How do you convince a girl to cheat on her boyfriend?
What are the steps?
What is your personal method?
I'm just curious
Be better than her bf in every single way. Also, make sure she is a cheating whore.
>>16650989
Can you elaborate?
>>16650991
A cheating whore is someone with a cheating history, you dumbfuck.
Also being better than someone in every single way doesn't need any explanation, except maybe for some dumbfuck like you.
I am a girl in my first year of uni. Most of my high school peers in my grade are studying abroad. Only me and three other guys are staying in my homeland.
This guy sometimes texts me other graduation. We are not particularly close and I doubt he has feelings for me or anything. He probably talks to me as we have have something in common (i.e. we are staying in the same country).
He just messaged me asking if I want to meet him a the center of my city, like grab something to eat and chat for a bit. Afterwards, he will meet with a group of people he is collaborating with.
Should I meet him or politely refuse? Do take note that I am a girl and he is a guy. Is it "awkward" for me to meet him? It's not like I have feelings for him. Also, is it dangerous? My mom is worried that he may persuade me to go to a quiet or private area and do nasty stuff to me or he'll invite a group of friends to do that.
(Pic unrelated)
Do you want to go?
You say you have no feelings for him. If you are sure of that, then don't waste his or your time.
>and stop listening to your mom's crazy shit.
>>16650930
If it's purely a meetup just for chatting, yeah.
>>16650931
You really think he is trying to ask me out?
So, I hang out with this one guy and we usually have a really fun time together. However he is better than me in pretty much everything. Physically, mentally, materially.
When I spend time with him there are always these small things popping up which will make me feel inferior to him. They keep building up and I always end up feeling worthless and awful afterwards.
I like hanging out with him but I always have to struggle to keep my jealousy and self-pity from showing.
What should I do?
>>16650879
You're just insecure
Stop comparing yourself to other people
>>16650879
>feel inferior to him
Then better yourself?
Be thankful you that kind of person is ok to hang out with you and use him as an inspiration.
you take it as a kick in your ass to better yourself
>been having a LDR with a girl for years
>we finally decide to meet
>i fly to her and we rent out a small apartment by the beach for a few weeks
>literally the best time of my life, she was amazing and it was great
>we're both madly in love with each other
I just found out she's pregnant. We used a condom, it didn't break or anything, I don't know what happened. Either way, what the fuck do I do now? She called me earlier yesterday to tell me, it's definitely mine too since I'm her only sexual partner. She isn't sure on what she wants to do either. I love her. I think it might be possible to make it work, but I just met her like a month ago in person. It's just happening so fast. What would you do /adv/?
how old are the two of you? how long distance?
>>16650855
Paternity test, first and foremost
>>16650864
I'm 26. She's 22. Not very long, like a three hour flight. We didn't meet up for so long since she was overseas for quite awhile and she has her uni and I've got my work.