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I've been told I'm do not look bad, but my sense of fashion is horrible and the essence of dadcore, should I give up and dress in a way I really don't like or stick with it and stay a powerful wizard?
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Do you care? Does your style of dress hold you back?

If yes, see /fa/. If not, take no action.

It's not hard to look nice, and in my opinion, it means everything from getting the jobs you want to getting the girls you want. It's worth putting in a small investment.
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>>16930430
/fa/ are so fucking retarded. They just dress like hipsters. I know as I had a thread there asking about fashion, they just linked Asians wearing weird ass clothes and said try a thrift shop.
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>>16930437
I've only asked them for hair advice, but I can see that. Maybe there was already a thread so they were fucked with you? I could see it going either way. There are lots of good resources online for OP regardless. Doesn't have to be 4chan.

I like a girl

She doesn't sit near me in class, always busy when leaving class she takes off and I can't catch up with her.

How can I create a situation where I can talk to her and ask her out ?
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please
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Sounds like she doesn't want to be spoken to. Move on.
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>>16930404
intercept her and say hey hows the class going or some other shit you make up, sit between her and the door to get there in time, it will be awkward but thats what you have to do

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Anyone got any advice on managing stress? I've been struggling to deal with it over the past few months and am looking for something new to try (that doesn't involve drinking/smoking)
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>>16930379

Sex
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>>16930379
Exercise.
When I'm really stressed, before going to sleep I go swim for an hour. When I get back home I am drained and I feel like all the bottled frustration disappeared.
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>>16930389
As stupid as this might be, I hadn't considered this (I'm active but don't work out). Might do a few laps in the morning when the pool opens.

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Why would people fake a relatio ship? What benefits do they have from doing so? How far would you even go with that and how can you tell if somebody is faking a relationship with you?
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>>16930338
It's one of those things you have to take case by case.
Ask yourself what could they gain from having a fake relationship?
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>>16930338
I don't think a guy could to be honest.
They just are not suited to multi task. a woman could however
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>>16930364
women usually fake relationships for money or social status. men fake for sex or boredom.

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a few days ago I met a girl on tinder, after we had talked a while we met to watch netflix. We then had sex. since I live on the floor above did I leave afer 30- 60min.
What am I supposed to do know?
this was my first sober 1nightstand
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I dont want to be rude or mean, but I am happy as it is.
we talked about going to a concert
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man, you got laid, your job is done especially as its from tinder
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>>16930736
thanks!

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Hi. I am 21 years old. I have never done drugs or gotten drunk. I have also never kissed someone. I am fine with all of it. Never had the urge to drink or get high, and I don't want to do it just for the heck of it.
Same goes for the kissless virgin situation. It'll happen when it has to, and I don't have anybody I like right now.
My problem is this: I am in college so of course everybody around me is doing all this stuff. I still don't feel compelled, but sometimes feel awkward about it. Imagine sitting in a group of five people, with everybody swapping sex stories, and you just sitting there. I can't exactly stop hanging out with people because of that.
So what do I do?
Pic unrelated
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Just be yourself and try to socialize. You don't need sex or drugs stories to socialize
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>>16930324
>. Imagine sitting in a group of five people, with everybody swapping sex stories, and you just sitting there.
This has happened once to me, but I just sat and laughed and nobody cared to ask me my story.
If they did I'd have just said no, haven't gotten round to finding anyone yet. And move on. Nobody cares desu
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>>16930324
at least drink a few shots you fucking stuck-up nerd, no wonder you people are so bitter and nobody likes you. seriously, you havent drank even once?

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Sup /adv/

I currently live with my alcoholic mother who has had some rough times lately, and has been constantly drunk for over a week today.
She has fallen multiple times when i'm at work/school, and been taken to the hospital twice to be checked out already.
Today she is complaining that her insides feel wet and was coughing, which sounds like a collapsing lung or something. But the problem is she is very hostile toward the idea of hospital and admitted she will refuse help and wants to just be left alone.

I want to ask what you would do in this situation, if you would try and help, maybe call an ambulance if she starts to pass out or something from the pain, or follow her wishes of just wanting to die.

Do I have any legal obligations to help her? Will I get in trouble for not getting her to the hospital or seeking help, even if she doesn't want it?
I don't want her to die, but she is convinced right now that this might be the end and does not want anyone to help her.
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>>16930270

damn anon, that sounds tough.

If she doesn't want help there's nothing you can do, unless it's a situation where she is obviously seriously injured or in trouble. I wouldn't worry about legal trouble, especially if she's just talking about painful coughing.

In the mean time all you can really do is encourage her to seek help.

Is it just you two at home?
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>>16930270
That is some serious shit anon. You should talk to her, don't regret not speaking to her.
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>>16930319
Connection error in chrome so i'll tl;dr the long response I was going to make

Just me and her right now, been trying to get her off alcohol for over 6 years, stopped her from homelessness twice and got her to rehab last year. Right now she is on a 2 week list for rehab, which I honestly don't think she will make it to this time.

>>16930352
We talk, but she is a person who always keeps secrets, whether its feelings or events etc.
If she dies as a result of what is happening now the only regret I have is that i'm not a doctor myself/didn't look into alcoholism as much as I should have, and can't help her further.

When you hit on a girl who you're friends with and she says she isn't interested how do you go about it? Meaning back to when you see each others. Pretend nothing happened? Make as if nothing changed despite what you did?
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>>16930200
Well yeah, if she wasn't freaked out and kindly turned you down, you carry on as like the old days.
Soon it'll be in the past.
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>>16930221
Like this anon said, it depends on how she handled it.

But additionaly: OP, what do you want? If you're still interested in the friendship and if you think you can handle your feelings, then pretend like it never happened. Don't talk about, see her as a friend with boobs and search for another girl. Take her out of you mind as someone more than a friend.
If you're not interested in this friendship anymore, then move on. Have a talk with her, let her know you thoughts and explain why you think it's better to quit the friendship.
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>>16930237
The most fun I have with her is when we go out. If we go out I get some drinks in & it's all harder for me.

But yeah you guys are right, I'll go as if nothing happened & carry on.

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How to deal with a girls lack of sexuality? I've been dating this person for 4 years, living together for 3.5 now and we don't really have sex all that often. I keep trying to talk with her and she keeps saying she doesn't know why she's like this and always becomes upset when I bring it up, making her feel like it's her fault and she simply says she tries to get herself turned on, but isn't even able to think about it.

It doesn't look like she has depression or is tired of me, since she's always keen on doing everything, except sex or anything sexual. We can spend many hours hugging, cuddling, kissing and so on, but whenever I try to go one step further, she recoils. We spend the entire day talking about everything and anything and it has been easy to do so for the entire relationship. There are no problems in any other aspect, except intimacy and sex.

The thing is, there was this period once when she was crazy horny for sex. So much that she mounted me multiples times during a few nights. The problem is that during that period I was taking some meds and my libido was horrible, dropping to a complete zero eventually. I didn't want any sex at all and I kept rejecting her. I was even abit angry at her, because I always wanted sex and it felt like she did it on purpose on the worst moment possible. We couldn't even go out properly, because she kept going at me even in public. She was massively horny a few times, practically begging for sex, trying to pin me down but I felt completely void of the feeling and couldn't get it up and she got VERY upset after that. Almost two years later and it has been the driest period we have ever had.

I'm losing my mind thinking about that time, because it feels it will never ever happen again.
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>>16930177
Spice things up and get a dildo.
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>>16930190
> spice things up
How exactly?
> Get a dildo
I've actually suggested her getting one. If anything I've talked with her about it so many times, but she says it makes her feel disgusted to even think about using it. Wanted to get her those clit stimulating little things, but she also said that she has her own or my fingers for that.
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>>16930177

Do you suck at it? I mean seriously, be honest with yourself now. We went through a similar dry period where my own suckiness was a factor, I didn't reciprocate oral and had duration issues frequently enough for it to kill the spark. We talked it out, I made an effort to get back to the same form I had at the start of the relationship and things have been better ever since.

Other possibilities:

- She is depressed. Being enthusiastic around people you care about doesn't mean you're not depressed, that's actually how so many cases stay hidden in the first place.

- She is on medication you don't know about. Lots of pills can kill your sex drive and she could just be too embarrassed about something to tell you about it, possibly even the aforementioned depression. You live together so this seems less likely but if you don't spend every second together it is possible.

- There is too much pressure surrounding sex in the relationship which makes her anxious and takes away the fun.

- She is a pod person building your anticipation so that you'll be too horny and easy to catch off guard when she decides to devour you.

All right to all you guys with your sexual issues you think you have problems get ready for this one:

I'm 29 years old, still a virgin(Yes yes I'm a freak of nature), a male of course, 6'2 weigh 154 pounds,I masturbated for the very first time in my life at 27, this awakened a strong curiosity and desire to finally have sex, now I masturbate 3 to 4 times a day MAX, each time I masturbate it just builds my sexual curiosity but at the same time every time I finish I feel depressed, angry or frustrated because I masturbated again and didn't have sex. I've tried to distract myself from masturbating but the longest I can go without it is 4 days and then I just get really really restless and fall back on it and the cycle continues. Plus presently when I masturbate now it takes forever for me to finish, it used to take me a mere 6 minutes but now it takes me 25 minutes to even a freaking hour to bust and that doesn't help with the angry feelings afterwards.

Now the real dilemma is my remaining friends are all at a loss on how to help me, none of the males were smooth and they all had their sexual experiences within the weird group of friends when they had the chance or they simply lied and tricked alot of girls to have sex with me. All of the girls had their sexual fun and not one of them would have been cool enough to help me themselves anyway. But the common suggestion they all gave me is I should see a sex therapist for some reason.

Which doesn't make sense to me, I simply want to have a enjoyable sexual experience so I don't understand how paying money to see a therapist could help me at all unless the therapist is willing to bang me themselves but I highly doubt that's ethical. Plus I thought a sex therapist was for people with peoples that happened as a result of an experience they had with sex, how can a sex therapist help a virgin?

(I gave more detail but the field was too long)
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Never heard of it and that is the stupidest idea ever.
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>>16930156
>I'm 29 years old, still a virgin(Yes yes I'm a freak of nature)
>male of course
>not one of them would have been cool enough to help me themselves anyway

I think I found your problem. You have no self esteem and a grudge against women.

You don't need sex therapy, just normal therapy. Get your shit sorted.
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> every time I finish I feel depressed, angry or frustrated because I masturbated again and didn't have sex.

The fuck? Why? Is there a secret competition going on and no one told me that includes "make it through life without masturbating or enjoying yourself!"?

You and your friends sound weird as fuck. Get a gf, become close, have sex. It's not diffusing a bomb. Also you might want to see a regular therapist.

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I have an attraction to gals with milky (?) vaginal juices. I'm pretty sure what I'm liking is some sort infection, maybe some sort of not-so-gross yeast infection, but I like it cus it makes sex feel a million times better to me. I fuck around a lot, and have fucked 4 girls with this and I loved their sex the best. Those 4 ladies felt fucking amazing, and they all had this milky (not quite semen like) vaginal fluid (doesn't smell or look like any yeast infection I'm familiar with, but idk. ) Becus of it, I think I'm gonna fuck these girls again. Maybe even regularly.

My question is, am I fucked how? And if so how fucked am i?
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Dude I know that feel. I used to fuck a girl that was similar to this but I moved. Anyway best box I ever had. Idk what it is but she would make my dick look like it was in a bowl of oatmeal. Kinda gross now that I think of it but whatever. This is 4 chan all you guys are gross.
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>>16930100

I think it depends on what part of their cycle they're in.

After a bunch of 1 nighters finally had a steady one and she has this every couple weeks.
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>>16930100
It is normal and appears for few days during the cycle

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I'm not sure if I'm in the right place but if anyone has any input I'd be happy to hear it.

I was diagnosed with GAD and Stress induced psychosis three years ago and have been taking Seroquel XR for around the same time. Long story short, I feel mentally healthy again and want to get off Seroquel now.
My doctor told me to taper on the schedule of full dose one day, half dose the next, then full dose, then half dose etc. which seems really weird to me? Like won't I just have withdrawals every second day but by taking my full dose again it's not actually getting out of my system?
I understand that over the course of a week I will have cut my Seroquel intake, but with regards to withdrawals won't it be prolonging the process????
If anyone has tapered using a similar schedule I'm interested to know if this worked for you?
The other obviously schedule is to cut by 25mg every two-three weeks depending on how your body adjusts, which makes more sense to me but my doctor advised against this without explaining the reasoning behind it.
Any input will be appreciated, thank you.
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This is a really normal procedure when you're taking your first step down off of anti-psychotics/SSRI/etc. If you just took half doses starting tomorrow, you'd notice withdrawal symptoms, and they are bad, if not actually dangerous to your health.

In short, you're not smarter than your doctor. Listen to him. If you're too stupid to understand why he recommends what he does, ask him, not the internet.
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Thanks for your reply. I don't think I am smarter than my doctor, but I know he hasn't had much experience with antipsychotics. This is the same doctor that once told me it was okay to split my XR tablets until I told him I don't think it works that way, so he looked it up and what do you know?? Spitting XR tablets is not a good idea.

I'm interested to know if anyone else has successfully tapered this way.
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>>16930120
I did for the first step of my own taper. Alternating full dose and half dose for a couple weeks, then just went down to half dose, then cut it in half again, and alternated the tiny dose with no dose for a week at the end.

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My ideal morning.

>Wake up
>Summer day
>Mid July
>11 years-old
>Parents leave
>I now know I have a few hours before they come back
>Majora's Mask time.
>Sitting on carpet, in the sunlight. You can see the particles in the air. >You feel that vitamin c.
>You decide to pour all of your thought process into Zelda Majora's Mask.
>Man, what a beatiful time that was.
>...Now I wish for [insert girl I probably won't be able to have] to sit next to me while I play it, cheering me on and cuddling with me.

I can't be relaxed because i'm scared that she will pop into my head. How do I stop thinking about it?
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I'm not 11, by the way.

I should've clarified that whole scenario is my happy place
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>>16930073
I'm confused. Are you thinking about an 11 year old? Or someone you spent playing games while you were 11?
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>>16930073
>You feel that vitamin c

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So I hate school, not a "oh i wish i didnt have to go to school its so boring" hate a "i would rather burn my fucking dick off and eat the damn thing than be Here" kind of hate. And my grades are horrible because when im there i dont pay attention and dont care, i dont do my homework at all and some days i dont even go to school. My parents think im doing good in school and congradulate me for it while im feeling horrible because they dont know the truth. Im smart enough to do the work and study and i really do want to do well in school but i cant motivate or even force myself to do any of the work. And i cant stress enough that i want to do well in school. I just dont know what to do.
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>>16930064
What grade are you in?
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>>16930064
If it's college, take a semester off and do minimum wage work until you grow up.
If it's high school, ask your parents to limit your time watching TV, playing computer games, etc.
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>>16930064
assuming youre in school and not higher education, take the earliest possible graduation you can attain in your country and work for a year or two.

after you realize just how soul crushing this is, go back to school and enjoy your newfound motivation.

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Would it be worth it to be castrated?
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Snakes with no venom.
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no aids
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>>16930055

Chicks like it when you cum in their Vagina. Makes them feel happy and aporeciated.

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