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Try different things, talk with different people, read different books, perform many sacrifices to lord G'Nadketh the giver of hobbies, join a class or two, accompany your friends with their hobby activities, watch a few television shows about hobbies. The usual stuff.

Take something you enjoy watching, listening to, etc. and have a go at doing it yourself. If you like music, learn to play it and/or write your own. If you like to look at paintings or sketches or sculptures or whatever, give that a shot. If you enjoy a sport, take it up. Don't worry about turning it into a "serious" hobby at first, just see where it takes you.

Another option is to try things almost at random until you find something you like. I'm sure /adv/ would be happy to recommend their hobbies to you. You could think about what aspects of a hobby you'd like eg. whether you want to learn a new skill and if so what sort of skill, if you'd like to socialise through it, if you want to get exercise from it, etc.

Watch anime. You don't need any other hobbies.

>>16933987

ali express

>>16933990
Ill give it a shot, good looking generous anon.

>>16933987
Go for it.

Just be sure to give them your home address for delivery.

How do I stop thinking that all single guys are bitter, lonely and misogynistic?

>>16933928
Stop basing your impression of people off of 4chan assholes

>>16933928
What? Why would you think this?

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In fact, the only reason Im making this thread at fucking 3:51am is because I heard a package of Oreos fall from the Kitchen, big suprise.

>>16933830
Well, you're at an age where you should be thinking about moving out, anyways. Or studying for university of course.
I think you've grown enough to where you definitely should live alone to find your own way.

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>>16933838
Ive only recently started working, about a year ago. I have enough money saved to move out, but Im more concerned about just leaving the person who birthed me to live a sad, lonely life.

I know for a fact if I move out, there wont be another human being in that house for MONTHS unless I decide to visit.

I cant even bring Adults or close Friends over to my place, its really emberassing when you bring people over, and you see my unconventional-parent chowing down on Microwave Food and playing WoW in the dark at 3pm.

Because you're not confident in yourself and is scared of her meeting someone better than you/ potentially slowly losing interest in you. Just be who you are and keep the lines of communication open, after that it's all in the wind. Either it's meant to be or it's not.

Try to focus more on her body language, pick out small signs that tells you she's happy with you.

People are fucked up amd make stupid decisions
Meditate more senpai

>>16933822

Switch to coke. Keep smoking weed and say a big fuck you to status anxiety.

>>16933836
Explain status anxiety I understand I just want to know why you said it

>>16933845

Oh look at them, they're rich, they have a big car, big house, hot girl/boyfriend blah blah blah. Now I feel depressed because I don't have what they have.

>on whats going through her head
Literally only she knows that.

>>16933801
Wrong question, i get that now. A better question would be what should i do about the situation and if she's worth the effort?

She's in a 9 year relationship, dude. She doesn't want the D. She's got the D. She texted you that pic because it's the kind of stupid thing girls think is funny. It's the equivalent of your uncle emailing you a bad pun that's making its way around the office.

you're just not that social. nothing wrong with that aslong as it doesn't bother you

>>16933701
Do you make an effort to join in?

You're either a shitty person, an unsocial person, just incompatible with these people, or some combination of the three. No amount of talking to internet strangers will be able to give you a definitive answer.

go for it. better have a good time for 3 months and have it potentially work out instead of pondering the "what if's" later

>>16933687
Pump n dump dipshit

That's the objective

Marry her, get those military benefits 'n' shit people around here seem to marry for

rebounding

>>16933686
is that really fair for the rebound girl? what if my ex comes back in my life?

>>16933685
your ex gf came to your whatever sporting event with another dude?


that has to be the most passive aggressive "i wanna make my ex jealous" move i've ever heard. hopefully you played it like a man and ignored the fuck out of her then entire time, and then chatted up the QT cheerleaders after dropping 50 points and hitting the buzzer beating 3 to win the game

otherwise she won

Does your college not have a counsellor or therapist?

>>16933674
I believe it does, but my schedule is nigh-identical to a few of my friends. Neither of them know that I fear for my mental health either. I can't really go to the campus therapist without them wondering why I'm not taking the bus home with them.

>>16933679
You should feel comfortable mentioning this to your friends. People don't just go to counsellors and therapists for mental health issues anyway, you could just tell them you're feeling stressed with school work (and perhaps mention your family situation too)

Steal some of her dirty panties and furiously sniff them. If she gets suspicious burn the house down

And? Relatives can be exhausting. Deal with it

>>16933662
you deal with it.

You're probably just a friend to her. Because you're a friend of her boyfriend, you're 'safe', that's why she's so close to you and open with you

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Date another girl, see if she gets jealous.

>>16933574

That's what I'd been assuming for the first few months. But there are things that make me feel otherwise and I'm just not sure. For one, whenever we're all together, she gets mad at him for trying to do 'boyfriend' stuff (Hug, hold her hand etc). Tells him to quit it. Though I can't be certain if it's because I'm around or just a 'in public' issue in general

But the bigger thing, whenever we're going somewhere with a larger group of friends and need to take two cars, He and I drive and she always, always chooses to ride with me, despite his occasional frustration with it. Honestly if not for that I think I'd have given up awhile ago

Or would you say something like that is normal?

>>16933557
Studying, have a degree or a job that's actually going somewhere
Driver's licence
Moved out
Dated a bit, perhaps in a relationship and beginning to look to settle down

That's for you to decide.

If you feel you've done enough, then that's that.

If you feel you could've/should've done more, do more.

by 24 you should have a car or at least be banging some milf that lets you drive her while hubby at work.
you should have a lava lamp, that reminds you of how it felt the first time you anal sexed.

you should have outgrown babby toys and be using and android smartphone instead of that iphone

you should have an idea of what you want to do with your life, unless your life got fucked over by STEM and you've already been plugged into a cubicle in the matrix. Morpheus can't even save you from that.

you should know by now that there is no santa, toothfairy, or easterbunny leaving chocolate eggs and presents or sneaking into your house while you sleep. those bumps in the night were really just your mom banging some guy.

you should know how to cook 14 different meals or more.

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It's possible to THINK you are really close to an online friend...

nope. i've been there. you'll never really know that person know matter how much you think you do.

Yes. My 2 online friends are closer than any of my other friends. One of them I've talked to nearly every day for 5 years. I can tell her things I can't tell my own parents, even things I couldn't admit to myself. She can make me laugh for 12 hours straight. I can't count count the number of times I've stayed up until 6 in the morning because neither of us wanted the conversation to end. Wow this story has a lot of numbers in it, sorry.

But online friends can break your heart, too. My second friend disappeared after 4 years, and I have no way to reach her. We were soul mates in our life dreams and harships we'd been through. I think about her every day and have never wished so much for someone else's happiness.