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How to be cute as a guy? 2016-03-18 07:10:31 Post No.16930001
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Subject summarises my question. What can I do to be perceived as cute by the majority while being a guy?
I put a bit of effort into how I look, not too much just every day grooming, eyebrows, lashes, hair, light make up, etc and I often mix women's clothes with men's. Today I wore a sweater to uni almost exactly like the one in pic with a cute women's beanie and black jeans. Is this cute or have I got it all wrong?
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What's your height/weight? Judging from the pic and what you've said you're already cute but if you're fat or too tall you'd look weird as fuck in that.
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baggy sweaters a cute boy does make
Personal experience if you want to be called "cute" often, but in a little boy way, not "you're attractive" is to have a baby face. I get zero pussy because the only girls interested are in middle school.
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>>16930001
The way you obsess over being cute is somewhat creepy. Get a dog or a hamster.
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Last night I asked two different girls out for tonight.
Both said yes. What do I do?
Pic related, me right now.
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cancel and makeup with the one you dig the least. never bad to have a backup.
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Why would you ask another girl out when you already had one say yes?
I hope they both find out.
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You have two options.
A)Go on date with both same night
B)Cancel on one
A)is no good trust me friend did it before.
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Does she want the phallus? 2016-03-18 07:00:17 Post No.16929970
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Does she want the phallus?
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If we constantly joke about sex, text/snapchat constantly, and she said "I posted this just for you" after posting pic related on her private instagram, does she want to perform koitus? Or is she just joking around with me?
>inb4 fucking faggot
I accept my rape at the hands of /adv/
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she's whore yeah.
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>>16929970
yeah probably.
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>>16929970
Yummy.
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My boyfriend's mother loathes me and wishes nothing but ill on me.
My bf was raised in an extremely fundamentalist Christian home. He himself, however, is an atheist now but has not told anyone in his family this because of the possible backlash, especially from his mother. From what he has told me, she views me as a whore even though this is my first relationship and I'm a really modest person. The reason for her hatred is because she found out we had sex and that I basically stole a "special moment" in his life because she doesn't believe in sex before marriage. It doesn't help that I'm not white and she has apparently said disparaging things about my race.
Since she sees me as the scum of the Earth, I don't see anyway I can have a good relationship with my boyfriend's family ever. I'm uncertain of the future of our relationship at times as a result. He still loves his mom and is struggling a lot with this. I'm just at a loss at whether there is anything I can do to better the situation. We're both living away from home but I feel like this isn't an issue that can be ignored forever.
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>>16929960
I don't think you or your boyfriend can have a good relationship with his family. If both of you live away from home, then what's the issue?
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>>16929965
I guess I feel a bit guilty that he had to make that decision to choose between me and his family. He still loves his parents and it hurts feeling like Im responsible for creating this rift in his life. I don't know really.. I guess it might get better in time but right now, it's pretty painful thinking about it.
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>>16929989
"the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb"
looks like your bf cares way more about you than his family. be happy. you're special to him.
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Overcoming Vaginismus 2016-03-18 06:47:37 Post No.16929948
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I'm having really bad problems with being penetrated. It's so bad that I can barely handle a finger inside me (it feels like a burning sensation or if I'm about to split down there). My BF is super understanding and isn't rushing me but I feel horrible that I can't even handle a finger let alone his penis (because it can't fit inside). Is there any way that I can treat this at home?
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>>16929948
get yourself checked, u may be part-dude
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>>16929948
>femanon here
oh poor hun. but you're in luck! Vaginismus is very easy to treat.
go here. it gives some great tips:
http://www.webmd.com/women/guide/vaginismus-causes-symptoms-treatments
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Ok so
>>Be me
>17
>Mom died from titty cancer
>Sent to live with abusive ass dad
>Start talking to a girl
>She makes everything feel better
>Lose my virginity to her
>We end up breaking up because at one point my dad became so abusive I just kinda shut down and stopped talking to her
>She feels I'm using her for sex
>Dad puts me in the hospital a few months later
>Put in foster home
>Don't think about her for a while
>Eventually remember her
>Begin regretting letting her think that, begin missing her
>Message her on kik
"Why are you messaging me?
>I cry but apologize
>End of the night, she forgives me but says she has a boyfriend
>Leave it at that, all I really wanted was to apologize
>Months go by again
>Every relationship is failing
>Can't stop thinking about her
>Try every way to contact her
>Finally get a response through instagram
>Catch up
>I miss you lol
>Find out she dumped the boyfriend
>Happyascanbe.jpg
>Then find out she got back with the dude she was with before me
I really love this girl and would do anything for a second chance with her, please anyone help.
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>>16929947
your idolizing her because she represents, in your mind, the way you felt before this particularly upsetting incident with your father.
if you do get with her, it will be disappointing.
you should try and find a way to get over what has happened to you.
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>>16929947
I don't know why you're apologizing when you're the one that had to go through all this shit. Oh, so she talked to you and made you feel better. Not when you were at your worst, she didn't. She gave up on you, and that means that she is not good enough for you.
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We talked and came up with the conclusion that we were terrible people back then.
So my gf of half a year just "broke up" with me. The reason for the quotation marks comes from the fact that, I believe, that I don't think she really wants it over and that I can fix whatever the issue is. See the past two years of my life were awful. I constantly had suicidal thoughts, never attempted, and had restrictive anxiety and depression. Some weeks I wouldn't leave the house for four or five days, skipping my classes. Things got slightly better last summer when I met a psychologist and was prescribed with Efexor. I took 150ml a day, and my issues remained, but we're very slightly diminished. Then I met my gf. She was my first and I was her second by, so I didn't really know what to do for the first couple of days of officially being together. My life improved drastically too. I overcame my depression and anxiety, got my grades back up, and overall I was truly happy for the first time in two years. Things got better, I took her on dates, became good friends with her friends, everything a good bf does. Except I never hugged, kissed, had sex, or held her hand. I'm not entirely sure why I never did any of these things, but I think the fear of doing something wrong and ruining everything played a part. But that was the only thing I stressed out about, everything else was perfect. Then our relationship went downhill. We began to talk on the phone less, and we went on less dates. Then she told me that what we had, she wanted to stop. She said it was her and that it wasn't anything I did, or wasn't doing. I didn't ask her about specifics, I was still in shock, but I remained calm. Then I went home and promptly took 8 times the amount of Efexor prescribed.
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I wasn't trying to kill myself, I'm not sure why I did it honestly. Anyways, my roommate finds me and takes me to the hospital. I felt fine, and texted my closest friend about what happened. She was really worried but promised not to tell anyone. I had to stay at the hospital overnight, and got released today. When I got home I texted my gf about what happened. She apologized, and said it want my fault we broke up, that she didn't know how to explain it. I sent her a huge text explaining everything to her, and how I felt I wa crippling our relationship. She responded by wanting to talk in person. I have the same clas as her on Monday, and will see her then. I then asked if she wanted to meet somewhere over the weekend, suggesting the restaurant we had our first date at. She hasn't responded. So I ask if I'm doing the right thing. Should I try and fix this, should I move on? But if I move on, the I'm back at square one and back to crippling depression and laying in bed for four days straight. What do you guys suggest?
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I think "gf" is the word you should have put in quotations.
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inb4 beta, cuck, etc.
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How do I ask a girl out? She's an acquaintance. Can I really just say "Hey do you want to see a movie or something with me?"
Can I take her to a shooting range or is that creepy? I always wanted to shoot a gun but it seems mass murdery to do it alone, so at least if she doesn't like me I can use her to shoot a gun?
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just go with the movie
ask her what she thunks of guns, many people dont like that sort of thing
or just hey "hey, we should hang out some time" or go to the beach. movie first dates cant be awkward.
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>>16929864
Find a guy to show you around the shooting range some other time. Too complicated and risky for a first date. Do you know if she has any interests?
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>>16929864
just Netflix and chills
works every time.
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Anonymous hurt spread online, unaware? 2016-03-18 05:58:49 Post No.16929857
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So, to avoid being vague, I'll straight up tell you my issue.
A friend of mine (and myself at times) casually browses FatPeopleHate. Recently, the friend who browses it more regularly alerted me that one of my friends' pictures are getting posted on there. It's happened three times now, all from her Tumblr account. I feel kind of guilty so I stopped going on there, but I don't know whether I should tell her what's going on or not. What should I do /adv/ tell her? Let her live in blissful ignorance while hundreds of shitlords laugh at her?
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>>16929857
Post pic pls.. also dont tell her she probably already knows her pics are on 4chan ffs think of all the dumasses who dox people here
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>>16929857
Also, this person has expressed that they have been suicidal in the past. Just to factor that in. They're also a female kissless virgin.
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>>16929877
I don't think posting pics would be wise...
Hi everyone, I just got my testicular ultrasound back and my doctor didn't want to discuss it with me and advised that I need to speak with an urologist. The only thing I could get out of him is that I have wedge shaped hypoechogenicities on each of my testicles.
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It's cancer, I'm sorry.
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what advice were you looking for exactly?
I'm not a fucking urologist and even if I were I haven't looked at your ultrasounds so what the fuck is the point of this thread?
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>>16929816
I guess the advice I was after is what is a wedge shaped hypoechogenicities and what do they do about it?
The image I attached isn't my actual one as they won't give them to me.
I broke up with my girl a few weeks ago. She removed me from all social media, so I did the same. No big deal.
Haven't heard a peep from her but she keeps adding me on snapchat every few days, religiously looking at my updates, getting (I assume) frustrated and then deleting me again. She then repeats the process.
Is she just trying to bait me into reaching out or what? Could she just be timid and want me to reach out because she misses me or is this just a power play in her twisted game of "gotcha"?
Obviously I'm going to know this girl better than you antons, but for background she couldn't meet me where I needed emotionally, so I broke it off with her. She didn't seem too upset at the time either.
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>Is she just trying to bait me into reaching out or what? Could she just be timid and want me to reach out because she misses me or is this just a power play in her twisted game of "gotcha"?
whether its one, the other, both, or neither your actions should be the same, ignore her
you broke up with her for a reason, remember that
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>>16929798
That's advice I always give but I miss this girl. There was a lot of great chemistry.
I know you're right. She has come back before though. It's been pretty on/off again. I was really just tired of the back and forth so this last time when she said "I can't meet you emotionally" I just said okay bye. Probably for the best but a large part of me is hoping she's realized her fuckup.
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Dude, you need to ask Santa for a pair of balls this Christmas.
This is just being a paranoid faggot.
Move on. This is not stalking. You are in no danger.
And you need to get out more. Really.
After so many years of trying and failing, trying and failing, I've finally found the perfect group of friends who accept me for who I am and enjoy being around me. I thank my lucky stars for them every day.
But something else has been on my mind: romance. I've never had my affections for anyone returned, and sometimes I feel really depressed that I'm romantically alone because I've always wanted intimacy with someone else.
My question is, am I being ungrateful? I love my friends to the ends of the earth and back, I'd never trade them for anything. Do you think that maybe it's too much for me to ask for any more out of life? Should I stop hoping for someone to love me back and just be content with the company my friends provide?
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more like impatient, doofus.
what makes you think you coulda handled romance as the person you were anyways?
one thing at a time.
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>>16929732
It's not wrong to want more out of life. Don't think you have to settle with being alone forever just because someone hasn't come along yet. It really doesn't have much to do with being content with your friends, unless there's another part of the context I'm unaware of. You being finally happy in a social circle shouldn't be mutually exclusive to being romantically satisfied, so enjoy your time with them and keep searching, friend. They're out there, believe me.
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>>16929748
Impatient? No, that's not it...
I guess you don't know me personally but I've been let down relationship-wise quite a number of times. And when media shoves loving couples and kisses and sex in your face it's hard to not want those things yourself. Sometimes all I want is to kiss someone who likes what I like and appreciates my company.
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Right, that makes sense. I feel bad for wanting something more when I've finally been able to get what I've been trying for all my life.
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Was just in a car crash 2016-03-18 05:03:17 Post No.16929707
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a 17 year old kid jumped the medium and t boned me. Spent 12 hrs in the ER. Leaving with just a concussion and a stinger. How do I turn this into a nice lawsuit?
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>>16929707
>asks 4chan for advice
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>>16929707
going to the ER was good but you didn't take it far enough, you have to make sure the EMTs extricate you with a board+collar all the while complaining of severe neck and back pain
just talk to a lawyer, if it was the other guy's fault then you should be good to go
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See as many doctors as possible complaining about your pain and build up a good history. You have to show that you are in constant pain for several months for it to be a big lawsuit.
I turn 30 this year. My parents have always been pretty nice to me regarding money. I don't rely on them for money, or count on their money, but they've done things for me in life like help me buy my house (I pay the mortgage but they helped me get it when the economy was bad), pay for my cellphone as part of a family plan, paid for the part of college that my scholarship didn't cover, and helped me buy a new car when I graduated. They buy me at least one expensive gift twice a year, on my birthday, and during Christmas.
I've got a good job though. I don't need this stuff. I've offered plenty of times to cover these things on my own. My dad offered to help pay for a few trips I'm going on this year, and I just feel bad again. He says that since my mom doesn't do anything (has only left the property 3 times in the past 6 months, literally), he doesn't mind helping me and likes to live vicariously through me.
Should I keep accepting this generosity or go out of my way to tell him I don't want his money, likely to the point of offending him? My friends often give me shit for how much my parents give me financially.
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>>16929698
You should go out of your way to thank your parents
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>>16929698
Parents feel like they should provide for their kids, it's only natural for them to do so. There is nothing wrong with it, most will gladly do so because they want to continue to contribute to their kids well being after they move out. They want to feel like THEY matter in your life, you may not need them but they still enjoy helping you out by acting like a parent again. I'm sure they understand that you can provide for yourself its just about them wanting to feel needed and not redundant.
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I seriously hope you repay this generosity by wiping his ass after he becomes incontinent and combatively senile.
How do I deal with people thinking I'm older than I look
I'm 26 and everyone thinks I'm in my 40s
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i m almost 19 years old and people says that i look like a children, my face is too long, i have a large and receding chin, leptorrhine nose and im very skinny but with wide shoulders and 1.77cm
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>>16929670
Your hair and clothing choice contributes to how people see you
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>>16929670
Looks like someone never wore sunblock and spent too much time outdoors