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No. Because your bank will charge you a fee every so often for having a negative balance. This could actually hurt your credit as well in some situations.

There is nothing unsafe about actual credit if you're not a retard with it.

>>17143894
you never ever want your account to be negative if you can help it. there are fees associated with it and quite a few other downsides. don't spend money you don't have unless it's for something really important.

Does the place you're purchasing from offer a credit card? Most have deals with no interest for a year if you purchase over a certain amount.

Can you not get a credit card from your bank? Most banks also offer no interest for up to the first year.

Why are people so afraid of credit cards? You need to build credit by making monthly payments on time. I have 2 credits I use all the time. I've probably had about 9 different credit cards over the years from making big purchases. I've been using credit cards for about 14 years and never been late on a payment. My credit score is 880. I can get approved for practically any kind of loan and get a good rate.

tldr get a credit card...

If you go to their page, and they're no longer friends with you when they once were, that means they've unfriended you.

>>17143889
Cuckbook is intended to be a "friendly" place, so you aren't allowed to directly see who unfriends you. However, you can download profile data once a while, find the file with your friend list and compare it to an older version in some spreadsheet software.

>>17143889
>caring about dynamics that happen through fagbook

Sell it for a higher price than you buy it for

hit up my boy jerome he hook u up he a biness major
nine o fo, six 3 o, 2 sen 2 fih.

grow bud, sell bud, 100% profit.

after you took care of it, it imprinted on you, so now it thinks you're its human.

>>17143851
i thought cats' brains didn't think like that?

how the fuck did it find me too? i fed it like 2 streets from my house

>>17143859
any animals' brains think like that, especially if they're domestic. if they imprint on you, they see you as a protector or a caretaker and memorize your features and smell. it seems quite obvious from this post that this is just a small domestic cat, not feral, not raised in the bushes. it's hard to explain, but the best thing to do is just ignore the cat and really pretend it doesn't exist. you could also put spices or whatever to deter the cat away from your home. i'm not sure what people use, so you'd have to research it. from my experience, its really difficult to get rid of a cat after it imprints you, which they most commonly do when they're kittens and are still wired to think they need a mommy nearby.

>>17143789

move on, do your normal stuff, maybe go do something extra fun. obsessing over someone you dont really date is never a good idea mate.

delete everything that reminds you of them
meet new people
improve yourself
time will help

>>17143789
Make a move before you start to become really infatuated with someone in the future.

Talk to fencing classmates? Sit at a new table for lunch?

Whatever you do, don't settle for lying asshole guy as a friend.

Bumpo

>>17144209
I see, I'm not good with new people. I have to gauge them first before I even talk to them.

If you have to ask how to try to turn the convo sexual, don't. That's doomed to fail. It has to come naturally. Forget about sex for now. Just do your best to keep her interested. The sex will follow if you two click.

>>17143765

We've been having fun for almost a year. Going for drinks every week. I believe she is interested in me and waits for me to do the first move. I don't know how to do it tho!

I also believe, if I keep that way for some time, she will find another guy

>>17143758
>but I don't know how to turn our convo into sexual
At a break in the conversation, ask if you can jam your ponos into her vagoo.

Or, alternatively, you could not be a spaz.

08 is considered as being an oldfag? Lol.

Anyway, frequent literally any other board.

Try out /tv/, /x/ or /spee/. All of these are filled to the brim with morons, pretentious douches or memeposters (or combo of all), however those are not as cancerous as /r9k/ and you dont have to stop 4chan.
Or get some other hobby

>>17143711
>08
>oldfag
Fucking kill me

>>17143775
>>17143778
i'm an oldfag suck my epeen

>>17143677
there's a white trashy part of nyc??? where?

ok you're living in a city that has fucking everything, if youre really artistic you'd know the galleries/museums/spots that ppl visit
just go to the moma ps1 event they have all summers, research the party spots, go to exhibitions and meet ppl

srsly wtf man? go out, its ny fucking c

>>17143682
Its too specific to say

>>17143671

i did it for two weeks loved that i was on my feet all day, hated literally everything else, especially coming home too exhausted to do anything. made godo tips but the work was so bad that i wanted to blow it all on booze immediately. i go to a bar or dirnk maybe 3 times a month. back then i was doing it almost every day.

do what i did: start applying for officej obs. there are some entry level thigns you barely need a degree for, and if you have the money invest in online or community college classes that are office related to help.

ive been managing an office for two years with a film degree and it is so fuckin ggood

>>17143676
Thanks, and yeah I spend a lot already on weed, even more now. That's the only thing I see keeping me from an office job, so many restaurants/ service industry jobs don't drug test, but it's just soul crushing sometimes.

>>17143689

whats worse, 6 months without weed (2 to remove from system, 4 to job hunt) or 6 years at a restaurant?

NEVER answer work calls when you're off
they try to pull this shit all the time

Is it a union shop? If so, the odds are good you're guaranteed 4 hours if you actually come in (i.e., if you get there and they don't need you, you can say "fuck you, I want my 4")

Depending on your industry, early calls must be anywhere from 12-24 before the start time.

>Safety coordinator at a silver mine

Unfortunately, no. There's nothing to protect you. But I don't know if there's some case you could make for ignorance if they can't prove that you were able to answer your phone and didn't like >>17143638 said.

Next time she does it, just calmly point out that she clearly has a problem with it and should admit this, rather than trying to appear super relaxed when she really isn't. Ask her why she feels so uncomfortable with and explain your reasons for watching it.

I can't stand it when women act all indifferent to porn when it actually pisses them off. It's like she's asking you to be honest with her, then conditioning you not to tell her things in future. She's actively influencing you to lie to her about really insignificant things.

>>17143556
She knows the cultural norm is to say she is cool with it but she really isn't.

She has trouble to deal with the fact that you are sexually aroused by other women.

Girls dont understand that tuys watch it because guys need visual help to get off. Girls can just imagine some 'hunk' of their dreams saying romantic shit and they get off...not us. We need to see titties and ass. It has nothing to do with them.

>>17143472
Fake it till you make it. There's no shame in being humble and admit not knowing something. It actually takes more confidence to admit you don't know something.

>>17143472

if you literally dont know what to do, make a joke out of it

>no i dont you jerk!

One time someone asked why I wasn't saying much and someone else said I was quiet, so one person says "I like quiet people :^)" and someone else says "me too! :^)" so I said QUIET PEOPLE SUCK

Means nothing

What the other anon said.
Men want multiple women in one bed and women want multiple men in many beds. So it's not that she's necessarily choosing.

>>17143275
ignore this guy

obviously she wants to fuck you, and not just fuck her she wants you to tear her clothes off and rape her. Even if she cries for you to stop just keep going, all women have rape fantasies and orgasm to rape so really she wants it.

I have posted a few threads and most of the advice people gave was too simple to help me out. I really feel that some cases are just too complex for strangers to give proper advice.

>>17143162
i have asked for advice a few times, and i did get useful replies on one thread, however, on the other threads people where predominately looking for arguments. some threads on here are great but i sometimes cant stand how people act. this is meant to be the board with the most normies but a lot of people still act really edgy and childish.

I always doubt that anyone I give advice to follows through with it. Usually people come here with a preconception that they want to hear validated. Many posterd are incapable of critically thinking about their own problem from perspectives other than their own, and this language-based medium simply cannot convey the true lessons of revelation and empathy they need. I think I give advice more for myself, that I might better understand the things that obstruct and cause one to suffer, and deal with them better in my life when my time comes. I don't really care whether my advice is followed or not.