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>>17155310
There's a difference between thinking and feeling..

If that's OC then I agree. That shit is painful to look at. Why would you even use that retarded angle? It hurts my eyes.

>>17155310
Post more of your work. If it's not good you could always go to school for photography and get better that way. Also just practice it and study it. If you're truly passionate about photography then it won't seem like a task to do so either.

>>17155140

call the cops mate.

>>17155148
nah, mom had a spine surgery and is unemployed, social service would probably take my brother and sister (twins 13 yo)

>>17155157

yeah, theres nothing worse than being taken into a family that can actually take care of you without beating the shit out of you.

>>17155075

nope. just go outside.

>BUT ANON MENTALL ILLNESS IS A BITCH

yup. i know. i had agoraphobia for a year because some weird dude started stalking me and i was afraid to leave my house. i lost a lot o f friends cuz i wouldnt go outside and was begging them to do my groccery shopping for me.

to this day im still scared and its hard for me to go outside in say, short sleeves, cuz i feel like im not protected. even though i live in fucking LA and it gets hot as balls.

ive managed to get to lighter clothing. my point is get out and do it. make a friend make you if you have to.

Ayyy where yall at

Just bring a magazine nigger

Help please it's in 20 mins

Just do it

>>17155043
Yes. If you must fail, then fail with dignity. This can only come from a fight to the end.

Besides, sometimes unexpected victory comes from there too.

>>17154988

>how do i quit

by not setting up back ups like
>how do i keep it to a minimum

if you cant quit than you cant control it. so quit.

>but how

take any reference you have to it in your history, book marks, etc. and delete it. look for an extension that will let you block certain search terms. put anything related to findom on it.

kick the girl out.

>>17154999
i have already blocked it on my browser and such but when i am feeling horny i just find a way around it you know? its when im turned on its a problem!

i know it may not sound sane but you know how you sometimes think with the dick? its like that

>>17155009

idk if oyu pay women on line, but if you do, delete all your accoutns at these places, get rid of your paypal / easy payment methods etc.

as for the blocks, set it up with a password, and either type something random or ask a friend to type it in for you.

find a friend who you can share this problem with and let him know whenever you get the urge.

kick her out.

>>17154967
say you would do ANYTHING to get it

Put your education and that one small job on your resume.

>>17154967

say you are applying for starbucks, or dunkin donuts, and they say 'we are looking for someone with 1 year barista experience.

go to the 'volunteer' part of your resume, and write in that you worked as a barista for 2 years worth of charity dinners for the local fire house while in highschool.

if they do call you in for an interview, go online and google 'barista training video' and you'll find lots of resources to see how the machines work. memorize the name of two models. when you go in and see the machine say 'yeah looks kinda like the (insert model here) but a bit different'. they WILL show you how to use it no matter how experienced you are, training is required after all. but you'll go in knowing what the little nozzles do.

take that idea and apply it to any job you apply for,.

Learn to play by the rules. There's no real reason why you can because they're uncomfortable as fuck.

Why do you want to wear them?

>>17154928
-Comfortable to me
-Best shoes to drive in imho
-Cool factor 9000
t-he people that make the rules are corrupt, we bend over enough as it is

I should add that they do dress smart but have no insides, I don't wanna be like that

>>17154866
No one will care and it doesn't matter if you specifically don't vote, so don't and don't bring it up in conversation.

>>17154878
I actually never do bring it up. If someone specifically asked me if I was registered to vote or not, I wouldn't lie, I'd say I wasn't. But other than that, I never say it. I don't preach how I'm not, or advertise how I'm not. I always avoid talks about politics, never actively, just naturally due to apathy. So it never really comes up unless I'm directly asked, which has happened, of course.

>>17154866
Just don't vote. You're not obligated to vote. It's not really big deal at all, and it's no one's business. Those men and women also fought and die for your right not to vote too you know.

Also if you're so concern about other aggressive idiots bothering you because you don't vote, don't bring it up. Also don't be around them too if you want to go that far.

Jockey. The shorter and skinnier the better

>>17154699
Depending on your position, American football. Most good running backs are under 6 feet tall.

They are also beasts that can bench a lot more than they weight though.

>>17154699
Gymnastics.

>>17154445
BBD

Bigger Better Deal

Women lack a moral compass

Same thing that makes men cheat.

if you wanted a nice guy you should have chosen a different profession.

It's frowned upon

>>17154436
Post link to your cam.

>>17154391
Refocus, OP! She's with YOU now, and that's a choice she has made. She must see something in you then, right?! Maybe you should ask her just what that is and listen...take stock in yourself and what positive things you bring to the relationship and remember what she brings as well. Don't even dwell on the rest--everyone has dated someone else at some point unless they're completely shut in, after all, right?! FYI: 4 years difference once you're both adults is not all that big...

Hope that this is helpful! GL!!

>>17154391
>significantly older
>4 years difference

4 years doesn't mean shit. The only issue is that you're still learning to be an adult while she's a full-fledged adult. The age difference will become insignificant if you spend some more time together.

>>17154391
>significantly older
You don't even know what that phrase means and you don't sound 24 at all.

>>17154313
There was a thread yesterday where the OPS (male) gf roughly 6 years was going away for the summer. She suggested making the relationship open. He broke up with her on the spot.

That's a 6 year relationship, where he loved his gf, where everything was fine. It was the correct decision to make. Afterwards, she kept trying to call and text him. But he ignored her.

That's what you have to do. Unless you're into open relationships, which you're not. Any time a girl suggests this, it's usually because she has a guy lined up she would like to fuck, or is at least wanting her options left open. And lo and behold, you've already found it.

Break up with her. Don't do it weak ass either, explaining why you just can't do it. Phone or text her before she meets this guy. you're no longer interested in seeing her and not to contact you again. If she asks why, simply state you're not interested in dating someone that wants to whore around, you'll have better options available to you in the future. Yes, exactly like that. And if you think you can't, just think of the above story. A guy managed it with a girl he had been with for 6 years who he loved. If he can do it, you can do it over a woman you've only known two months.

>>17154313
There is no such thing as a legit open relationship. She's either using you for your dick or your money. Or she has found a better guy and you are being slowly replaced.
End it.

>>17154357
Would there be another reason why she would want an open relationship beyond cheating or wanting to fuck someone else? I would love to hear a counter argument from someone in an open relationship or has experienced one. Is there a way to just explain to her why I wouldn't want her to whore around? She really doesn't seem like the person to do it and her track record doesn't really make her out to be a cheater. Then again, I could be totally wrong and she could have been lying the whole time. I'll be seeing her after work so I want to talk to her face to face, and if shit hits the fan, I'll be there to take my stuff I've given her back.

Quit begging for attention you supreme faggot

>>17154230
Most everyone's a waste of oxygen, m8, why not live and see if you feel different some day or do something you enjoy doing?

Unless you believe in reincarnation you will never have the chance at life again. Life is short, I don't understand the logic in leaving early.

>>17154230

if you base humanity and your worthiness to live on whether or not you 'waste' oxygen, think about what it would mean to not be a waste of oxygen, and put that into effect.

habitat for humanity is always looking. or you can go feed some people in africa.

worst case scenario, you die helping people.

Not being a whiny faggot might be a good start.

You might have a thyroid issue, see an endocrinologist to confirm, if you can.

>>17154178
Cut back on simple sugars, make sure that you're sleeping at a sensible hour and well, plus make sure to get some sun, OP! You'd be surprised how this might affect your mood and energy! I hope this helps! GL!