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Yeah they're letting me live here while I go to school, that's nice of them. And I do a bunch of chores and try to show I care - which I do - but when it comes to interaction.. There is always a wall, that I am afraid to take down.. I never expected to be friends with my parents, but at the least I would like to enjoy some time with them. But the only way I know how to interact with them, is in the "is everything okay" mode.. And it's always been that way.

Don't I at least deserve to not be ostracized for not believing in God? It's a small issue, but when I was 12 and told my mother this, it has been an issue ever since. She has never forgiven me.. And when I told her I liked Obama in 2007.. Another small issue, for a family, but no forgiveness there.. Whereas I forgive them for everything, though I believe I'm done with it.. And when I told them I was gay, they acted as if I had become an abomination.. I can't help who I am.. I became these things in the first decades of my life, I truly do believe I am these things. For the record I don't push my beliefs on anyone. My parents however are "evangelical" and preach to me, in slurred tones, at least once a day.

I can never reveal to them who I am.. It is too far gone.. I am not a fedora neck beard by the way. I don't care about beliefs or sounding smart or any of that but when you have gone so far from your roots as I have, and you do not feel you can now turn back, nor do those you love.. It is just a really sad thing. I am ready to move out again, so that I don't have to think about it anymore.

I guess that is the end of the vent

You didn't ask to come into this life. Fuck em

>>17141369

U ain't wrong.. It's how I feel. But there's a lot of unnecessary pain if they realize I feel this way. When I left at 18 I thought I was home free - I guess I have just a little more to go. Thanks for the response.

It might help if you plan out your route, that way you have a finite goal and wont want to slow down. If there's a running club/society or any practising racers around where you live go along with them.

>>17140510
do it in a place thats meant for running
or buy a bicycle and do it fast

If it's troubling you that much try going early morning when no one's around

I'm on the opposite end. Girlfriend is completely uninterested in sex. Says she loves me. I love her. But seriously thinking of ending it.

Personally he sounds like he's only interested in sex.

But then again I'm one of those all girls should be virgins, wait until marriage types so what do I know.

>Also I feel like we could make it work..
Not without him feeling miserable, you can't.

>>17160624
he says he wants to get in your pants.
And your reply should be to give him a pair of your pants.

>he's touching you for apparently no reason
>he's blinking too often when he's looking at you
>he checks out your body a lot (obviously)
>he tends to sit near you whenever he can
>he smiles a lot when looking at you

>>17160624

>A guy being your friend.

>>17164110

Tinder or Happn OP.

>>17164110

Are you in college? I met my boyfriend when he just walked up to my study table and started talking to me.

Some girls are receptive to this and some aren't, it's hit or miss.

>>17164116

Tinder is bullshit. It's 90% fake accounts

Fucking homo

>>17160814

Just deal with it, she's sick and honestly you should be taking care of her instead of complaining to the internets about how annoying her sniffling is.

Anyway, one thing you could do is get her some drowsy flu medicine so that way she'll sleep quicker and not be sniffling as much.

>>17160823
How the fuck am i a homo for this? Fuck off troll
>>17160824
I dont like leaky noses or sweaty girlfriend and I would have to get closer to that fucking noise to look after her. She went to the dr and they gave her some stuff but shes still up and reading her book in bed sniffling every fucking 2 minutes

>>17159982
>some get offended/shocked I got a boner while making out with her.

Inexperienced chicks. Any girl who has made out with more than 1 dude knows this is a thing. Some bitches are prude as fuck. Don't go near them unless you're some Christfag who wants a pure virgin waifu.

It's not that I get bothered, I just get concerned that he might be getting false expectations and he'll end up disappointed by no sex.

>>17159982
what the fuck, who the fuck gets upset that the guy gets a boner from making out?? that's such a genuine compliment, kissing skills are directing blood to his wiener. he wants to fuck you just from kissing you, who the hell would be upset from this?

Pretty much.

It seems like it always happens eventually, it's just a matter of time.

>>17158590
You know, as I grew up I thought of it as something that was very rare. It seems like it happens all the time now that I'm older

>>17158602
I was actually on the other half of the spectrum. I lost my father when I was quite young, so it wasn't odd to see many romantic partners come in and out of my mother's life.

In some cases, I had the opportunity to see what was happening on both sides. So perhaps I was a little bit more sensitive to it.

With my first girlfriend, I was dead set on this never becoming an issue. I didn't want to create some toxic relationship where one person felt that they couldn't get out of it if it wasn't what they wanted. Well, I guess that didn't work very well. Despite my best efforts, and despite thing going seemingly fine, even at a time when I felt we were both satisfied with our relationship, I'd come to find that she was actively seeking out her ex-boyfriend and sending him pictures and live video of her doing things. That kind of crushed me a bit. It was nothing that I'd really done, our relationship was pretty healthy. It was just some seed planted in the back of her mind that eventually germinated, I suppose.

I found out that during a one week little, "Break" we had taken, she'd gone and fucked another guy, too.

I've seen friends cheated on, loved ones, I've seen people, my own mother, think about cheating on others....

I don't know what to think.

It's different for girls because of cultural reasons. Work out, get hobbies, talk to people.

22 year old virging girl here. What gets me depressed it's not the virginity itself, but the lack of a meaningful connection gets me every time. The fact that some girls jump from relationship to relationship, makes me feel unable to grasp something that seems so simple to other people. The need of someone to validate your existence gets bigger and bigger from time to time. Sometimes I could care less.
So I'm not bothered by my virginity, but over my loneliness. And you just learn to live with it.

>>17160101
I'm getting /fit/ but sometimes I'm too tired from work to train.
My hobbies are nerd hobbies. Surely there are some girls into nerd things who aren't just satisfied by fiction. And I can talk with people fine as long as I'm not attracted to them, my coworker for example she's not fat or ugly and honestly she looks 25, she's very pretty, but she's too old for me. I want fresh young pussy, younger than me possibly. I'm not attracted to her so I can talk with her like one of the guys. It's just when I talk to attractive girls my age that my inexperienced beta virgin self shows.

>>17157644
Are you on crack?

>>17157644
Well I just came back from an interview for a daycare job, I'm thinking of doing some art or playing a game after I take a nap, I'll probably go on a bike ride after it gets a little darker outside since it's such a nice day.

>>17157648
What do you mean?

JB, I never liked your personality. I just liked your giant boobs. I know you wanted to be friends, but I didn't want to be a "token" for your pics. Sincerely, NJ

Happy birthday, darling.

We haven't talked for a while, but we've both done very well regarding what happened after us.
I'm going to miss you, you know. I can't say I'm not happy you're moving onto bigger and better things, as you deserve it all.
I don't think we'll get the chance to speak again, unless something like fate or luck allows us to cross paths somewhere down the road.
And if not, life will go on.

I love you very, very, very very much

Dear Family of Seven,

Tonight I realized that it was too late to try and salvage anything good from our dysfunctional family. I've had to deal with every single one of you fucks abusing me mentally, physically, and emotionally while trying to make me off as a delusional liar. I've grown up with bruises, welts, lies, and manipulation, and all I wanted was someone sane enough to be honest and just. I was a tool to facilitate the life-long drama that you all can never live without. I've contemplating my disassociation from you all ever since I've developed a sense of self. I knew then that I never wanted kids because I don't ever want to continue this cycle or involve anyone I care about into your shit-stain of a family. Our conversations now end up becoming a psychological quest to brainwash me into believing none of it ever happened. Even other family members who witnessed it all are now lying to back each other up like this is what family is all about: hurting each other and pretending it never fucking happened. Well there are fucking police photos, family photos, video, and tape recordings that leave you all stuttering and trying to restructure your lies to fit the picture. Now that I've caught you fuckers making up stories about me and twisting everything I say to make me look like a bad person to extended family members, even though I try to offer words of advice and encouragement. I'm fucking done. Like anything I ever did fucking mattered. Like anything you say to anyone fucking matters. We're all going to die and all you people care about is not seeming like the pieces of shits you really are. You all work dead-end part-time jobs, pile debt on debt, talk shit, and drink your sadness away. I'm the only fuck who manage to get their shit together by the time I graduated uni at 22 and all you have are stories of my struggle to make something of myself just to ridicule it while you are all still living under one roof. I'm making sure none of you ever find me.

You should:
a) Punch your friend in the face
b) Break up with your gf
c) All of the above

Every girl has a kinky past but it's best if you don't have to interact with your vagina brothers.

You got with your friend's ex. You brought this on yourself.

>>17158971
This.

>>17157423

>"just go outside and meet new people, you will find some girl to hook up with".

Thats incredibly labour intensive. You know there are meeting services and dating sites set up just to help streamline people looking to meet other people.

>>17157423

I might be able to offer help, would you be comfortable posting a picture of yourself (you can edit out your face if you're uncomfortable) and tell me a bit more about yourself?

>>17157429

I feel online dating is lots of work too. Online coaches and articles on the internet don't talk about online dating as first thing to do. Moreover, normal people don't use online dating I guess (my friends never did).

They just met their girl "by chance". Every single one of them say this. Like it's the most natural thing that could occur.

This makes me feel really, really angry sometimes.

Why can't I be like normal people?

>>17157453

I will as soon as I get home, in 2-3 hours.

What was the hair color of the first girl you raped?

There's a girl who I'll call A, who I've been studying with every once in a while at school, who is not in any of my classes, but we know each other from high school.
We went out a couple weeks ago for some beer and food, had a good time just walking around the city.
I'm in a relationship, and I don't really hold a true attraction to this girl, I just see it as friends hanging out.
Thing is, I think A might like me. A sends me snaps almost every day (is that a sign? im 25, so I dont know if thats common) and she recently broke up with her boyfriend.

Today A told me to come meet her and her friend she's told me about beforehand (who just broke up with her BF last week) at some food place at school, so I did, her name is M.
M and I made a lot of eye contact, I definitely felt more attracted to her, and I even ended up inviting her to a hangout with me and A.

How do I explain that I will go out to drink with 2 girls to my girlfriend? My GF and I have been on the rocks a lot lately, calling breaks into session and basically just acting like yo-yos, which leads me to my special bonus question:

***DARK SIDE QUESTION*** BEWARE***
How do I get a threesome out of this?

anyway to win back a girl who's lost interest?
met girl, mutual interest
we werent able to date much because of school work schedules. talk/text/sext for about 3 months few dates here and there
4th month in we start talking less.
i ask "whats up, did i do something wrong/ something happen?"
tells me she was depressed, and shes not the same person when we met
now she's spending time with her friends mostly, but theres this guy i can see she's getting close to.

i still like her and i dont know what to do

Because the more you're an asshole, the less society will do for you.

>>17158308

>being a 'good person' is a luxury for the beautiful

are you dumb or is there a typo here you'd like to correct while still sounding arrogant?

>>17158316
If you're dealt a shitty genetic hand youre kinda fucked from the start if you're not the settling type. Fuck society