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I'm so alone right now
I don't have a single person I can talk to
Besides going to the gym, I have zero hobbies or passions. I don't even enjoy playing videogames anymore. Me and my best friend had a falling out and we haven't spoken in 2 months. I miss her so much, we would play all these crazy games on Steam and have so much fun. I want to talk to her so badly, tell her how much I missed the time we spent together, how much I really value her as a person. I can't though, I said I hated her and that we shouldn't talk to each other anymore. I don't even know why I said that stupid shit, I wasn't being sincere. Why can't I be sincere to the people I care about? It fucking hurts so much. I just want to speak to her, but Im not so sure she feels the same way.
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Have you tried apologizing?
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>>17380307
before I spoke to her that one time 2 months ago, we had a period of time where we didn't speak to each other for 4 months
over those 4 months she had my number blocked, I'm almost sure she has my number blocked now, but I haven't tried to call her so I don't know
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>>17380304
It only takes a few moments to send an apology. It's likely she misses you as well. Time can help heal wounds. Send her a brief apology and go about your day, don't wait for a response, if it comes, it comes.
If you don't get a response, then you'll get the closure you need to move forward.
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Gained hella weight. Got a huge negative image on me from everyone because i was that dick from highschool and thought I was better then everyone else. Zero friends and no money. Girlfriend, my only friend, doesn't want anything to do with me & said a lot of Hurtful but true shit. Dropped out of college to work on advertising, fucked it up by not working for two years.
What do I do now adv. Need some serious support. Planning on killing myself daily.
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>>17380243
Oh dear this is going to be painful.
You seem like you know what's wrong with you, now you must change. Changing is quite hard, you can't just think of changing to modify your state of mind. What you can do is reeducate yourself on every point. Grow a better personality, go back to college, make new friends, read some classical books and strengthen your own self to stop doing what people hate about you. Stop being inconsiderate, narcissistic or whatever you are. Yes you can't just stop this is going to take years to make a real change, but the realization of you being wrong is the first step, you are now understanding that you were wrong, stop being wrong and get right.
Sorry for any mistake I might have done, I'm not a native.
Any specific question ?
Was told to post here.
>be me
>not chad, but nice facial aesthetics, dress well, suppress autism
>qt asian gf, very affectionate, intelligent and chill
>our relationship getting pretty lukewarm because reasons in the last few weeks
>go fucking catch pokemon in the park, go see a nearby pokestop with a lure in it
>group of girls drinking and smoking weed on the grass
>one of them invites me over
>start talking with them, most seem pretty basic and uninteresting but the one who told me to come over is actually very interesting and mysterious in a good way, also qt
>drink and smoke weed with them, gradually getting pretty shitfaced
>talk about various topics with the girl, ignoring the rest
>eventually we just lay on the grass, cuddling
>stoned and drunk, not a thought about my gf
>eventually start making out, more and more vigorously
>in the meantime the other girls leave, have to catch a bus or whatever
>tell the girl she can sleep over
>watch the stars some more and cuddle
>go home with her
>each have a beer, then start having sex on the couch
>whiskey dick + condom, can't feel shit but eventually manage to cum
>cuddle some more andfall asleep
>wake up in the morning, girl gone
>hangover, ultimately realizing my fuckup
>have her number said, with a text explaining that she had to leave and will text me later
>feel like shit for the whole day
>gf is pissed because I sent her some weird shit the night before, nothing suggesting me having sex with the girl though. Considering the previous state of our relationship, I'm afraid it's toast.
>girl i had sex with doesn't text back.
What do I do now? This happened last night btw. I'm half-unironically contemplating sudoku.
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>I'm half-unironically contemplating sudoku.
Over pussy? Pay someone to kick you in the taint until you cease to be silly.
Young relationships are play, like what chimps do. Don't take that shit seriously. Want to fuck? then fuck! Be straight with gf that you are no longer interested.
Young people act like they need to get married immediately or some shit. If you are young enough for pokemon, don't take anything seriously except academics and NOT making babbys.
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Relationships end, it's natural. Sounds like you're bored with current gf and want something new. There's nothing wrong with that, but you should really break up instead of cheating.
What board did you come from btw, /fit/?
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>I'm half-unironically contemplating sudoku.
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How do you emotionally detach someone that isn't good for you without breaking up with them?
Story: I used to be in a very loving relationship with this girl that I met. It made me feel wonderful and the times we shared were great. Then a really bad argument happened and we broke up for a couple of days and I ended up going back to her. Things weren't quite the same but we were working on it until recently.
Now she still claims to care about me, and she still shows support every now and again, but especially since it has become long distance it isn't the same and it hasn't been getting any better.
I've been trying to make plans to spend oodles of money to go see her and I'm finally taking the hint that she just doesn't want me there. Rather than make a big spectacle of things and make it a big dramatic mess, I'm just going to do exactly what she did to me. I'm going to stop initiating conversations, stop showing affection and start replacing the hole that I know she'll fill in my emotions (or has already filled).
I just need your advice on how to help doing that. Also on the docket:
Making friends (how do you do this after college? I have no idea)
Becoming more socially active, especially when you don't have anybody to do anything with (going places alone is much different than doing things with friends)
And simply finding a reason to exist and not want to kill yourself (which is a very real reality for me right now)
>inb4 an hero
>inb4 op can't inb4
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Bump
In a really low place here anon, could use your help.
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Bumping again
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>>17380210
BUMP, I would like to know as well.
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>Got wisdom teeth pulled yesterday
>Only eating soft foods as instructed
>Most things I eat I just throw right up
Is this normal? I feel it has something to do with the antibiotics they have me on.
I'm bloody starving and I just don't know what to do.
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I did not throw up at all after wisdom teeth. Some antibiotics cause nausea. Do they recommend you take them with a meal? If it's still the same day, as your surgery, suffer through it. If it has been a day or two and you legit need food, go to the doctor.
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>>17380198
I'm eating some crackers and they seem to be going down pretty well. My family thinks it's probably the antibiotics too.
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Gay guy here. There's a guy I like, and am pretty close friends with. We probably spend more time with each other than either of us do with anyone else, and we both initiate hanging out, even though we may just spend so much time since we're used to hanging out a lot and I'm free all the time. We spend the night together and have sex sometimes too.
We aren't together though. I asked him a while ago (maybe like half a year ago) what he thought of dating. He said he wasn't sure he wanted to date anyone at the time. He'd just gotten out of a very long term relationship. He also was struggling a lot in that relationship with his ex's domineering and jealous personality.
I don't sleep with anyone else but him, or have feelings for anyone else. His feelings are less defined I guess, and he does sleep with other people. I worry sometimes that someone else will be more forceful than me about the whole dating thing and will win him over. He still seems to not want to date, but I know he also doesn't always have a spine. And he also might just mean he doesn't want to date me...
I guess my question is this: Is this just kind of normal for being single (esp. for gays) and finding someone you like and pursuing them? Honestly I'm ok with how things are, but I also feel a bit like a cuck and like maybe I should pursue a more 'real' relationship. What do you think?
Also, based on the very little I said, does it seem like he's into me or do you not believe the "I just don't want to get back into dating" line? We talk all the time and are pretty intimate, I think maybe I just value being in a closed relationship more maybe.
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Don't overthink things, and just be honest with both yourself and him. You said you're happy with how things are right now, so let them be. If you become unhappy, then make steps to fix that.
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>>17380193
True... Yeah, I guess I'm not too worried, but I wanted to see what /adv/ take on the situation would be
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I just lost the girl I was in love with. It started back in April when my previous girlfriend broke up with me, I was devastated. but one day she came along and decided that she would help me get through it. I had know her previously but never talked to her because she was 2 years older and I had no interest in her. As we started to talk more I gained her trust and she gained mine. I was reluctant at first but I finally accepted it and that would appear to be the right choice. We chatted all the time and facetimed a lot to, although a couple months in we started to fight a lot, and that's when I told her I liked her. As fate would have it she liked me too! After that we continued to talk, fighting a lot less, but then things took a turn for the worse and we started fighting again. Finally, today I told her how I felt and I guess she didn't like it so she said bye forever....
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>>17380180
The ones that are meant to be in your life always come back. Just give her some space. If she really cares about you she will come back. If not then she never really cared in the first place. I know its hard, but keep your chin up and do your best to move on.
Thinking of joining the uk navy, any chance this tattoo would stop me? I've been told tattoos cannot be obscene, also any cover up ideas?
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Naaaaahhh you should be fine. But it may be worth covering up or at least redoing because that black ink has fallen out in patches. If you choose a cover up, why not traditional naval tattoos? If you fail to get in, at least it will be a funny story.
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Ask a recruiter.
It took some searching, but I finally, FINALLY, figured out what's wrong with me. This has made me so happy. I have what's called Avoidant Personality Disorder. Does anyone else have this condition? What can be done about it? Thanks.
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>>17380129
stop avoiding people and things simply because they make you uncomfortable.
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Don't self diagnose, it's retarded.
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>>17380129
Here's the main thing to keep in mind. Social interaction is absolutely essential to life and necessary to be a healthy person. While other people are naturally comfortable with social settings avoidants have the misfortune of feeling out of place in them. Do not ever fault yourself for this, just understand you'll have to stretch your comfort zone more than other people have to. This is going to require energy. Get used to surrounding yourself with extroverted people. Look for them and make friends with them. They take care of the heavy lifting like starting conversation, introducing themself, inviting you to things, and the more time you spend with them you'll become more extroverted like them. Occasionally you have that anxiety triggering shit like they pressure you to ask a girl out or talk to someone, and in that case you need to get used to "just doing it". Occasionally they might make a critical comment about you or suggest some stupid shit, for that you need to get used to vocally standing your ground.
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I have a cousin who is almost like my sister. We are super close. Problem is, I want to fuck her, and I sexually fantasize about her. What do?
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>>17380124
Lick it before you stick it, and strap it before you tap it.
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>>17380124
>almost like my sister
>I want to fuck her
+100F here we come!
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Hey /adv/, I'm thinking about majoring in geology, but the problem is that there's only a hand full of colleges in my state that offer the degree. Most, if not all of them are in bumfuck nowhere so they're not somewhere I want to spend the next 4 years of my life. My parents agreed if I did my core classes here then they would let me transfer out of state.
Has anyone here done this and how did it work out?
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>>17380097
I wouldn't go out of state because that's an excuse for colleges to suck more money out of you, and by you I mean your parents. Also, don't jump from college to college, you will lose credits because some colleges won't allow a full credit transfer.
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First off,
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2013/05/20/only-27-percent-of-college-grads-have-a-job-related-to-their-major/
Secondly, yes, transferring credits sounds like a good plan. Also consider transferring to an in-state school, especially if they offer full credit transfers. Living in bumfuck nowhere for 2 years isnt so bad. And if you want to work in geology, you'll really be in the middle of nowhere, especially if you want to be in a field geologist.
Another option is private schools. Any private school worth their snuff will offer full need based financial aid packages. You could likely afford to go to an out of state private school for 4 years.
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>>17380113
Geologist make shit money in my state. I would have to move out west eventually so I thought getting my degree there would be better for networking.
>>17380150
Is it better to major in something less specific? My second choice would be environmental science. I could still become a geologist or do something else if I change my mind.
Also money isn't really the main reason why they don't want me to go out of state for my core classes.
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So how does one get snapchat nude. Advise us
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>>17379993
Go to Google and type in "porn hot naked lady"
How desperate are you? Snapchat Nudes are for narcisistic 17 year olds. Have fun losing your dignity to fap to 10 second images.
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How useful is a criminology degree? if I were to do masters what would the job market look like? pic unrelated
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>>17379991
My understanding is that it's useless unless you want to get a BA in it and then go for law.
i had a long dream, where I fell in love with this woman
I've never felt love before, I don't have a close relationship with my family
26, virgin etc
I feel like there is a hole in
my chest
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>>17379965
i feel u desu
lets drunk sex together&long term relationship
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I know how you feel. I have a hole in my butt.
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>paranoid that if I don't hang out with my friends often enough, we'll drift apart and they'll drop me from the group (even with my closest friends)
>have a clingy introverted gf as well so it forces me to choose one or the other, since she feels awkward around them
She is clingy, but not totally irrational either. Is it worth telling her about my insecurity (which is based on past experience), or is this beta to do? Perhaps I should just be putting my foot down about being able to have my own time, reasons be damned.
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>>17379959
If they're your real friends they'll stick around
Clingy gfs totally suck ass though. You can try to put your foot down, but get ready for the guilt trip
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Does your friends have a group chat? And when you are with your friends do you talk much?
What i do is that i constantly participate in my friends' discussions, whether it be our group chat or in real life meet-ups, the more you participate, the more the group closer to you. That-a-way the group feels more empty without you, more fun with you, and that diminishes your chances of being left out. So tl;dr: participate in your friends' activities and discussion the most you can when you are with them.
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>>17379980
This friend group is almost certainly my friends for life, but it's still a paranoia I can't shake.