I was supposed to have an informational interview with someone. That person happily agreed and forgot the first time. We scheduled for another day and they forgot again and that person didn't get back to me. I've initiated the call those times and called them again each time 30 min later and no answer and left voice mails
What the fuck do I do? I can't move on and at the same time I don't know if the persons going through a lot, just forgetful, or is blowing me off
>>17378661
They're probably just forgetful
That said, do you really want to work at a company where your management is scatterbrained and forgets about interviews?
A job interview is just as much you interviewing the job as it is the job interviewing you. Maybe you don't care, but I wouldn't work somewhere that they forgot about my interview. That's just unprofessional.
So I'm growing my beard out and would like for it not to look hideously ratty. I usually keep it short and have a light mustache thing going on, but want to try growing it out more into a full on beard to see how it would look on me. Problem is, once it gets longer it starts to curl and look like an autistic neckbeard on my face, but looks fine if I keep it shorter. Is there a way I can prevent this, or is it more something genetic, like naturally curly hair? Is there any specific care I should do when I shower or anything?
>Pic is usually the length I keep mine at. That's not me, but it's just about the same hair color as mine.
It will straighten out naturally as it grows, but there is an awkward in-between stage where it will kind of curl up and around.
At that stage, use beard oil or wax and comb it often. That will help a LOT.
>>17379696
this, wax and comb it
good looking facial hair isn't just a natural occurrence
as in what do you do for work?
this girl just ask me...
what are her intentions?
Basic conversation for 500 Alex
That or she's a gold digger. Does she fuck with broke niggas?
>>17378445
This, fucking plev
>>17378442
Where are you from? In most Western countries that's just ordinary small talk, a common conversation-opener because it leads smoothly into other topics.
In China, I'm told, the equivalent is "How old are you?"
So the past three girls I've been seeing have all wanted me to call them princess. I'm ok with it, but I think it's daddy issues. I'm just a 20 year old white guy. I'm not sure if I should be doing something different?
>>17378381
Well if it makes them feel superior cut it out, wtf makes them a princess? They are regular ass girls like the rest, i mean do it in bed, that shit seems like a defenite orgasem induser, but seriously tell them they are not, or just one, to test the waters
Hey /adv/
Speaking to the femanons among you, what are the signs you usually do to imply that you're into a guy or open to more than just friendship to him ? I'm pretty oblivious to that kind of things and I've noticed contrary messages from female friends, both implying and denying that there may be something.
Also why the fuck do you girls keep doing this ?
Thanks in advance
>>17378330
I kissed the guy I was into at random, because I honestly didn't know what else to do. Got the message across. Been dating for months now, so it worked out. Frankly, the easiest way to find out if someone's into you is to ask.
>>17378342
And how to make it sound nice and smooth ?
>eeh are u into me or somefin ? ;;;))
I truly suck at that
Bpum
Re-posted from /b/ since I forgot this was even a board.
>Used to date this girl before but we split up >Would do some touching and oral sex and the like
>Always wanting something done to her but I never had a chance to fuck her
>We move our seperate ways until recently
>Start talking to her more again
>Made it abundantly clear that I wanted to bone this girl for a long time now
>She recently became christian after transitioning from catholic
>As a result she told me the one condition was that she would save herself until marriage
>She even had sex before but is making me wait
I'll never win the rat race. How do I make her want to fuck me again? I know if I word my tactics right I'll be able to dive back in somehow...but how? I don't want to be the little beta bitch who actually waits to be trapped before fucking.
>>17378308
Move on and find another girl.
>>17378312
Easier said then done anon
Pic unrelated.
Had oral sex on a girl, licked all around her pussy, and now am wotried about getting an sti - didnt see any obvious warts or open sores, what are my chances?
>>17378302
You probably have HIV now. The symptoms doesn't appear until later.
>>17378302
1-in-6 for herpes
remote for HIV
HPV is so common that health officials say everyone will get it once during their lifetime. HPV can lead to throat cancer.
She doesn't need to show symptoms to transmit an STD.
>>17378302
minimal to none.
The real danger is in getting snoo.
What is the most viable career path at the moment to big bux? I'm currently doing what basically amounts to a placeholder degree in physics so I have some qualifications to my name, but have no fucken clue where to go with it. Australian by the way, if that helps.
pls
Technology Consulting
I'm from the UK. 3rd year Aerospace engineering, and I'll graduate into that job on £40,000 starting
the only way to big bux is starting your own business
Watching limitless.
Take a pill and become evolutionary, w side effects, Or continue with your basic life & problems?
Harsh reality brst reality.
Suffer through discipline, failure and getting knocked up just to get back up again and again to reach your dream and become another man.
Spend time studying and studying until you're a living encyclopedia.
Taking a pill to get rid of your own mediocrity is bullshit
>>17378426
Nah fuck that if you do what the guy in the movie diff you become a demigod effectively
Depends on the side effects
Mind you I'm no sanctimonious /pol/ browser but it seems like lately I'm seeing increased volumes of posts or things on the media that promote societal degeneration such as glorification of infidelity or mental illness
Where have standards gone? Where has the want to be a better society for the next generation gone amongst my peers (18 y/o) it seems to be all about hedonism and greed now, I'm sick of it and I'm sick of being mad, is avoiding social and tele media the only way to escape this shit as much as I can? It's even leaking into real life now
I've been feeling the exact same, so much so that I've deleted most social media. Shits getting hard to tolerate
deleted facebook cuz of it
>>17378203
100 year old vaudeville joke:
Patient (moving arm or something): Doctor, it hurts when I do this.
Doctor: So don't do that!
You: Reading SM upsets me.
Us: So. . . .
>have exactly two people that I hang out with in this world: girl that I'm dating (T) and friend + his group (let's call him A)
>irrationally paranoid that if I don't hang out with A often enough we'll drift apart and the friendship is over
>have been hanging out with T a lot over past few weekends since we just started dating
>don't feel like hanging out with T this weekend, but feel like she'll be offended/hurt if I skip out
>feel like I need to catch up with A as it's been a while
>told A I'd let her know about this weekend, I hadn't gotten back to her, and now she's upset
>trying to control my annoyance so I just said good night, without actually giving an answer re: this weekend
Is it wrong to want to spend some time with my only friend in this world? I feel obligated to have to hang out with T when I just really don't feel like it this weekend.
If you don't feel like it, and you want to hang out with A to catch up, then man up and tell T exactly that, i don't see the problem, obviously don't tell it to her like you don't want to spend time with her, just make her understand what you want, communication is a core part of relationships.
I feel like a spaz because my attention span is so short. I have a bunch of cool stuff in my head. ideas for art and music and video games. I want to make them real but I have to learn a bunch of shit to do so and just give up a few minutes in and my mind wanders somewhere else. I want to make electronic music but sound engineering is complicated beyond belief. I want to learn how to draw but my hands are stupid and I can't even draw simple shit without getting frustrated. Even talking to people fills me with anxiety and I can't help but look like a fidgeting autist when I'm not interested in a conversation. I'm constantly confused and my thoughts are always racing. What in fucks name is wrong with me?
>>17378099
It sound more like anxiety than anything else. You're so convinced you're going to screw up that you panic and screw up.
Take notes. Carry a pocket notebook around and write down EVERYTHING - something your boss tells you to do, something they tell you how to do, chores for the day, ideas you might want to think more about later. Anything you don't want to forget.
A lot of "normal" people do that, just as a safeguard against forgetting, so it won't look odd.
I just found out my moms birthday was on Friday and I totally forgot about it.
Should I just kill myself now?
I think birthdays are the stupidest thing in the world but I still feel really bad about this. What do I do?
Be honest that you forgot, apologise, give her flowers or something. If she is a normal person all will be fine.
>>17378143
This. Forgot my moms birthday and as she was dropping me off that day at work, she looked at me and said happy birthday to me. It took me 2 seconds to process what that meant. Brought her flowers after work and she was fine. People move on.
I recently broke up with my gf. I still think it was the right decision, but right now I'm having a hard time remembering the lack of feelings I had. All I want to do is spend time with her, but just a couple days ago that would have stressed me out and felt like a chore.
I assume this isn't really unusual under the circumstances? I haven't really ended a relationship like this before.
You miss the codependency. People stay together forever and are miserable because they're afraid of change/loneliness/or that they'll never find someone better. It's easy to miss the good times because the bad times aren't clogging up the memories.
How come some people invite you out and never pick up when you're there? This friend of mine always acts like a ***** when he gets a new girl, and he is changing friends constant. I feel like they are fake ass people too, leeching off each other. He constantly fought with his last girl, and his best friend beat him up when he caught him with his girl. They invited me out today then turned off their phones when I was waiting to get picked up. Why do people like this exist?