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It's hard to snoop on snapchat. I wouldn't worry about it man, people don't have to be great friends to snapchat eachother.

Advice is ask her about it instead of being a weasel. If you can't talk to her about this you're fucking doomed anyways

>>17393215
dump her immediately
if you havent been cuck'd already, you surely will be soon

Anxious bump

Bump pls

Talk to him about your recently found knowledge of power dynamics in relationships, when it's just the two of you. Best approach is to come to him with concerned about your past relationships. Tell him you've read about it, and you're worried you'll screw things up in future relationships, by being too complacent with women's demands and corrections. Tell him like it's abort you, bit plant seeds in his mind, so he'll (most definitely) think about it and how it applies to his own situation. He'll be thinking it was his idea to set his girl straight, and liberate himself from her bitching, for the benefit of both of them.

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These are the hives that we placed about 20 ft from my hives just inches off my property line.

>never lie to impress people
>white powders are not a good idea no matter how much someone else is seeming to enjoy them
>family first, business second, friends third, everything else fourth
>save money, retard
>never go a day without doing something to make yourself better, smarter, or stronger than the day before
>know how to cook but only do it for people you truly care about
>eat more fiber
>if possible, always carry a gun. If not possible, always carry a knife. If thats not possible and can't be avoided, keep an eye on the exits and carry a book with a solid spine

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>>17389115
Luck is all that really matters.
The most important things in your life are decided before you're born.

>>17389319
God has a plan. Find the things you are good at and improve upon them, disregard the things you are bad at. It is your destiny.

I miss you. There's so much more here that you never got the chance to see.

>>17380399
Initials?

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I forgive you, Carolyn.

Like what now? All kinds of paper comes in the mail. I deliver it for a living. Very little of it can be cleaned.

>>17396519
You and your family really fucked up anon, while in school you could have been checked by the school for free. They do that shit all the time, at least if you're in the USA. Now that you're 22 it's much harder to be diagnosed as add/adhd, let alone get any services. Your parents would be doing you a favor if they cut you loose and made you try to survive on your own, you might focus better if you knew that you couldn't live with your parents as a parasite forever.

You could try looking for free mental health services in the area that you live in, depends on where you are but that shit is usually pretty limited.

>>17396527

>Your parents would be doing you a favor if they cut you loose and made you try to survive on your own, you might focus better if you knew that you couldn't live with your parents as a parasite forever.

I thought the same thing but I honestly think it wouldn't help, I would probably die on the streets homeless.

I know this because I haven't fully been a parasite and I have tried several times to take initiative in my life, I have had jobs in the past, all of which I quit because I knew I was probably going to get fired. I am terrible worker, and I know it's due to this unusual condition.

I know most people clamor on about how they have ADHD and they cant concentrate or whatever but i sincerely think whatever I have has rotted away at me as a human being and has prevented me from succeeding.

It's like i have two sides of me, and one side is trying to break out and finally overcome my other side which can't concentrate on anything.

as long as you don't copy porn and list to his feedback it shouldn't really be too much of a problem. Alternative let him show what exactly he wants on a cucumber. Then he cannot blame you.

That's what women do. Just listen and she's going to be happy.

>>17396514
a fair bit of woman are blank slates ready to simple pursue whatever interests you are into. Just keep being you and if she sticks around she will be more and more entertaining to talk to.

Remember that episode of futurama where fry teaches zoidberg how to get a gf?

>What do I say to her
>Just ask her about her day
>Uh so...how was your day
>Well first I got up and had a piece of toast, then...
>Fry she wont shut up, what do I do?
>Don't worry that's normal, just nod your head and occasionally say uh huh

If it was me I would just give him a 20, it's a nice round number and doesn't make it look like you sat down and did the math.

Alternatively you could just ask him how much he wants.

>>17396503
I was thinking $20 too because it's easier to give 1 bill instead of 2.

>>17396496
Give 20 for the trouble and wear and tear on the car. It's more friendly particularly if that $5 doesn't mean much to you. Easiest way to split the petrol is get him to fill the tank to full at the start of the trip and then divide the cost after you get back and he refils the tank to full.

Was your last relationship a long term one? You're moving from a long term relationship to a new one, so you're probably subconsciously comparing the two. Naturally you don't have the intimacy of your last relationship in this new one yet. Give it time, I think these issues will work themselves out.

>>17396497
Yeah, it was a very long-term one. And I think you might be right.

"Give me your number cause on (day of the week) We're gonna go to (place) at (time)."

No inviting her to house for movie unless you're 100% sure she wants to bang you.

>>17396436
Go to a cafe or something of the like and just have an hour date. Don't do movies, you can't talk during a movie so it's a bit pointless. Plus it's a little early to invite her to your home don't you think?

>>17396441
She seems to be kind of a busy girl, I'm afraid with that approach I will not see her
>>17396443
Atually the first time I met were was at the cinema and I managed to talk a lot with her during the movie, wanted to recreate that athmosphere
Also i want to hug her so much and watching a movie at home seemed a good way to try doing it

>>17396388
Does she know you? Or are you just miring from afar?

>>17396388
you want to date her or just fuck her?

Good luck, you're definitely gonna be a waiter until you realize how much it sucks and move back home.

>>17396361
I had a friend who worked in the industry for about six years or so, so this will all be second hand information. He was my roommate during the first few years when he was breaking into the industry. He was not a film major in college and he worked a lot on the technical side. I do believe that he had some training before hand, but not much formal stuff. He started out just doing the minor stuff, he was a grip for a while, did some casting, minor acting roles, editing, set design, writing, sound etc.

In the beginning he did a lot of shitty jobs. We were living in LA, so he worked a lot on USC film school productions at first. The pay was low, but he got a lot of experience. As time went on he was doing a lot of grip work and started getting hired to be the key grip in quite a few higher level productions. The connections he made through student films seemed to help out, it seems like personal connections are really important. You have to be good at meeting people/selling yourself no matter what you are doing. Don't be afraid to take on the lesser roles, they might help you get onto film sets, learn how things work, and meet people that can help you get jobs in the future.

Again this is all second hand, but he vented to me a lot and talked about it a lot to me. Additionally I lived in the LA area for a number of years, don't anymore. Any specific questions? I'll try to answer to the best of my ability.

>>17396382
Wow thanks anon this is great info. One question though, after what you said I'm assuming he was working on non-union shoots and from what my film teacher told me, non-union shoots can be pretty grueling considering the long hours. Did your roommate work long hours or was it fairly standard?

Read your post and ask yourself if you'd hang out with you

Man up and change it.

>>17396340
Get a job. Seriously. It's better than being alone and purposeless. You at least get to form work relationships.

Go outside. Take a wall. Try something new. Nobody will ever care about your happiness more than you will. Change requires you to take the initiative.