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How do I become excited about life again? I miss being like a teenager or kid, now I'm boring and lonely and unhappy and I'm only 17 years old and 367 days.
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>>17396629
Cocaine.
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>>17396629
I feel you anon.

My life sucks right now too. I have no open avenues to do anything besides sit around my house listening to my family talk about how much they hate things.
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>>17396693
fpbp
>>17396699
spwp

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Super sexually inexperienced but I hooked up with this girl on the 4th then slept over. The next morning we went for round 2 I thought everything was cool. Afterwards things got awkward and she started treating me like shit. I have no idea what I did but we were good friends before this happened. Did I fuck up?
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>>17396610
How did things get weird?
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>>17396613
She'd call me a piece of shit jokingly and called me evil. It seems like she got bitter, honestly it sucks cause I valued our friendship and kinda wish I didn't sleep with her.
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>>17396623
>She'd call me a piece of shit jokingly and called me evil
Jokingly? If so, It seems like she was just being playful, I don't see the big deal here. Sorry.

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I have a near-crippling fear of failure, to the point where I don't try anything or go out. At this point, I'm a shut-in who just watches TV all day because I'm too afraid that, if I follow my passions, then I'll fail and all that effort would have been for naught. It's even gotten to the point where this one places wants to interview me for potential employment and I don't want to do it because my head says "what if you hate the job"
It's the first place that's offered an interview since graduation

I've already been to therapy and medication, though that was to make me stop wanting to kill my damn self.
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>>17396606
Stop being a bitch and just go do the interview. If you won't change now when will you?
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>>17396606
you can do it. (interview)
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>>17396606

You will fail. Move on.

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Can my girlfriend use being on her period as an excuse for being SUPER "moody" all the time, she argues with me over the smallest thing and then uses it as an excuse. I understand it's not the most fun thing for females but when she says that she gets moody a week before, then during, then up to 2 weeks after (so basically, the entire time) I just feel like she needs an excuse to be mad at me all the time
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>>17396602
>a week before, then during, then up to 2 weeks after

So basically your gf is moody for nearly the entire month every month? No I don't think that is a reasonable claim
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>>17396602
>week before
Legit
>then during
Still legit
>then up to 2 weeks after
Lol no
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>>17396602
Sounds like you should find a new girlfriend

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Any advice on how to feel less useless? It seems like everyone around me is making pictures for the internet or doing something to make themselves interesting. I don't want to be the man without qualities.
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you only see what others want you to see. don't compare yourself to others. it's a discredit to yourself
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>>17396598
This might sound borderline retarded, but I don't really even know who I am. It's pretty frustrating. I'll stop trying to compare myself to others though.
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>>17396598
nah this is a good thing, it happened to me. i was a lazy fuck doing nothing but playing video games, but im trying to become a normie now so I got a kikebook account.

the fact that everyone around me was doing cool things while I was masturbating and playing STALKER for the 12th time really animated me to start experiencing life more.

i started going to parks and concerts for the first time in my life and its pretty fun.

>>17396591
OP, I would urge you to just go out and do things. It's going to feel awkward as fuck being alone, I still haven't gotten past this phase either, but it's nice to try out different things to shake up routines.

I have a date lined up for next weekend. Do I have to text her to talk until then? I don't really enjoy texting, it feels so unnatural compared to talking in real life and I communicate waaaaay differently over texts.

Last time I was in this exact situation (date next weekend) my date bailed presumably because of how much autism I breathed through texts.

Pic somewhat related.
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Have you already been texting? Could seem weird if you stop for seemingly no reason
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>>17396583
Nah, we hung out for a couple of hours at a pokemon go meetup. I got her number and I only really texted her to ask her out.
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Nah don't

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Hey guys
I had some dryhump fun with my gf in a clothing shop about two weeks ago, and her cycle's been delayed for 6 days.

I didn't cum at all, and neither did she, it was about 15 minutes of rubbing the D on the entrance of her vagina without any real penetration or ejaculation, but I'm still worried.

Is there any chance she could get pregnant by this? How much time does it have to pass for it to be a worry?

No, I'm not a cuck.
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Doesn't seem likely, have her see her obgyn for the late period, could be something else. Is she ever late?
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>>17396560

Did you ever have real sex with her? If so how?
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The fuck is wrong with you two rubbing on each other for 20min in a store and thinking that'll make a baby Jesus christ

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So my school asked me for a picture of myself with some specs, but I have a couple doubts about the outcome:
First of all, I'm using GIMP.
Second of all, they asked for:

402 (width) x 420 (height) pixels; resolution between 96 and 250 dpi; size between 96 and 150 kb.

The thing is, if I use the measures they said, the original pic becomes waaaay too small (ranging from 12 to 60kb). I don't know what they want the pictures for, so I wonder what should I benefit: the 96 to 150 kb size, or the resolution and Width-Height of it. Also if any of you could help me find a way to balance this three requirements it would be awesome.

The second doubt is that when I scale the image and I try to write the 402*420 Pixels, it automatically downsizes it to 302. Why does this happen?
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So many problems. You're a retard going to retard lord of the flies island, not a normal person going to a school.
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>>17396563
Thank you for your insightful advice.
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>>17396568
I advise you to apply to a better school and choke yourself to death when rejected.

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I'm a virgin who will be having sex tomorrow for the first time, any last minute advice? I'm good with my hands and mouth but I seem to have stage fright with my penis
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> any last minute advice?
yeah, be prepared to leave before it even begins. make some other plans for the day.
whoever's leading you on is full of shit and an asshole. i can guarantee they have no interest, simply because you're a virgin. that's just the world we live in.
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>>17396542
Virginity isn't a big deal after you lose it. Just get it in
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>>17396550
B-but it's my gf

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I need an /adv/ice on my current situation


I'm currently a student in a university, renting out a 2 bedroom apartment with other 3 people and me, which in total of 4. We're all close friends and we've been planning this for months in advance, trying to get the cheapest place for like $250/mo, but then few months after we moved in together--


4 people in 2 bedroom apartment is not really a good idea. Everything just won't work out really well because we all shared a room.


Now I'm deciding to move out from this apartment, I'm not a leaseholder to the apartment but as an "occupant" where I do not have responsibility to the landlord/apartment company but to my other roommate, which is technically I'm not chained to the 12 month lease.


The thing is, how do I tell them that I'm going to move out from this apartment next month? I don't want to cut off friendship with them although I know that they'll be pissed off because that I'm going to bail out. Should I tell them the truth that I'm not working well with this scenario or should I use wordings about "muh i need focus" etc or any else?
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>>17396538
Telling the truth is always an option. If your relationships break over that small thing, what is the value of those?
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>>17396538
Give a bullshit excuse that seems legit. If you tell the truth, probably they will be mad at you because you are accusing them of being difficult people.

>but muh open communication is key
No, it's not, that's a lie society tells you because people don't want to be lied on, but still will never accept you as you are.

>>17396631
>If your relationships break over that small thing, what is the value of those?
There will always be this small things with any person you come across, you might as well live alone in a cave if that's the case.
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>>17396631
>>17396658


They know that I have shitty GPA as freshmen year, how do you think if I tell them the excuse that I need a total space aka single room for me to focus and study because I'm aiming for a scholarship next year?

Do you think they'll buy into these excuse? What would you say if you're them?

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I broke up with my gf a week ago. There were good and bad things in the relationship but we were pretty respectful in the relationship and break up. It was mutual. I'm just feeling kind of lonely and remembering the good. I miss her and hope she's doing OK.

Need some wisdom to chill me out more.
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Well just because your relationship ended doesn't mean you have to stop being friends.
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>>17396552
I'd like that, but I feel like I need more time separated before I do that.

Woke up this morning with pretty severe pain on right side of chest especially when I was breathing , my right elbow and right knee joints hurt a bit, headache on right side of head
After resting in bed longer I was all sweaty but recovering. Now I feel fine but my head stings slightly

What happened
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>>17396515
A gorillion possible things from muscle spasm to stroke.

If you are worried see a doctor.
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>>17396525
>doctor
no way
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Wew

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>be 27 bi male slightly chubby
>bromance with 27 lesbian best friend
>know each other since we're 16
>last time we got wasted she tried to kiss me
>she's visiting her gf abroad tonight
>she comes back tomorow and told me we're getting wasted again

wat do
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>>17396454
get wasted and see what happens
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>>17396454
You should fuck
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>>17396456
googled for advice on the internet and got this
>triggered

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5QaCYz6fzx0

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So my friend has been living on the street since last july and only has $30 bucks, and camera gear.

He needs a place to stay but more importantly he has date this weekend(they pretty close, like since high school)?

What should my friend do?
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He needs to get his priorities straight.
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>>17396451

What kind of chick is going out on dates with homeless dudes? Maybe he should focus less on dating and more on not being homeless.

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I'm a credit intern at a local bank, and my internship is letting me go because I am not enjoying the job. I want to move out of my hometown and go to a bigger city and work for a bigger company, and my employer knew that.

They wanted to offer me the job, but I imagine they knew I would turn it down. I am being let go from my position next month. I have nothing lined up as of yet. I am worried this will affect my chances of getting a job in the future.

Right now, I feel alone.
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>>17396376
sorry it didn't work out. I don't think it will affect your chances of getting a job elsewhere though. if you have to list a reason why your internship ended, you can just say you needed more opportunities for growth than that position could provide you.

I get the feeling that's not the whole story though. I know these days one of the trends in business is to only have people working for you who are happy!!!!1!! :DDDD with their job (which, employers have always preferred that obviously, but I don't remember there ever being so many job ads where the employer specifically listed passion or enthusiasm as a job requirement as I have seen in the last few years). but I would still think that even an unhappy worker wouldn't get let go if they showed up, did a good job, and maintained a cheerful comportment. so am I right in assuming that your dissatisfaction was pretty obvious to them?
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>>17396376
Internships are seen as temporary, as long as you can get a good reference it's a plus for future employment.You have a month to start looking into new positions in different places. Seems like you're probably young, so it shouldn't be hard to start over.

Social media is all bullshit. All that shit is empty and artificial, what you see is what they want you to see.
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>>17396406
I did not think I was being obvious. I never complained about my work, I was always respectful, I even asked for more work/to help the analysts when I needed something different to do. It honestly just was not my cup of tea, and in the end I think that showed. I didn't skip work, I showed up on time, and I did give it a good effort.

And, I did tell them in the beginning I wanted an opportunity elsewhere. I let them know I wanted to do something different (corporate finance or working with equities).

>>17396427
I think I can get a good reference.

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